The Absolute Truth About Approaching Women.

by Steven on October 11, 2009 · No Comments

approaching women Select the CORRECT answer:

A beautiful woman is someone who:

1) will make you feel better
2) you can dominate, so that you can feel powerful
3) can dominate you, so that you can let go
4) could help you release sexual frustration
5) looks great on your arm, so that you feel socially proofed
6) you want to penetrate, because she craves to be penetrated

So, what’s the correct answer, punk? I’ll give you a moment to ponder…

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Ready? OK. Well, the answer is … that it was, of course, a trick question.

One of the options above may jump out at you more than others. Or you may feel like a combination of a few answers is correct. Which is great.

The important thing to take from this is that an answer may seem correct to *YOU* because YOU created a meaning in your head which makes that answer more TRUE to you than others.

In other words, the *CORRECTNESS* of the answer has NOTHING to do with the beautiful woman. And EVERYTHING to do with you.

You have created a story in your head about what a beautiful woman *IS*. She represents something to you.

And she will represent something else entirely to another man.

However, what she REPRESENTS to you will inform the outcome of your interaction with her, should you choose to approach her – long before you do make that approach.

Which is why approaching countless women without paying attention to your inner game is an exercise in futility. You’ll simply keep on being the director of a movie, a script for which has already been written in your head.

But if you change the story, you’ll change the outcome, Skywalker. And the first step in changing the story is becoming aware of what that story is.

So, what story are you telling yourself about women? What’s your TRUTH? What do women represent to you?

- Are women somewhat scary brokers of sex, meting out that precious currency to men they deem worthy?

- Are women the one missing link from your otherwise seemingly complete life – a life which will become more complete once you find that link?

- Are women a total mystery, which you navigate with the same sense of clarity as Mike Tyson navigates the Complete Works of Shakespeare?

There are no right or wrong answers, just your truth.

What is it?

Steven