You Approach A Woman & She Acts Bitchy. Why?

by Leigh (LoGun) on October 3, 2009 · No Comments

are women bitches I’ve been hearing that all women in Sydney are bitches for a long time.

Last Saturday night got a first hand look at just how ‘bitchy’ these women are.

“She’s just a bitch, mate. I went over to her and she was just rude. Who does she think she is?? … I used my best opener and she just didn’t want to have anything to do with me….

… She’s just like all the rest of them, Bitch!”

I could tell that this guy was pretty fired up.

“Really? That’s interesting because she’s one of my closest friends, and one of the nicest women I know…”

This caught him a little off guard. “Yeah, well, she’s still a bitch”, he retorted.

After he left, she came over to me.

“Who was that guy? He’s so creepy and rude. He started talking to me and he was just yuck… Uurrrggghhh… Is he your friend?”

“Give the guy a break, Samantha. If I approached you a few years ago, I would have screwed things up so badly that this guy would look like a shining beacon of masculinity in comparison..”

She laughed.

And then I thought to myself that it was kinda interesting to see HIS and HER perspective on the situation.

If you think there’s a lot of bitches out there, try this: next time you approach a girl who’s bitchy to you and blows you out, stop and watch her for a while.

Is she bitchy towards everyone? Or are there people who she’s friendly towards?

I can guarantee you that there will be plenty of people who she wont act bitchy towards. Both friends and strangers.

If she’s not bitchy towards everyone – including other guys approaching her – who must be the cause of her bitchiness?

In my experience, about 90% of the bitchiness that guys face out in field is a woman’s instinctive reaction to his bullshit approach, rather than because the woman truly is a “bitch”.

As soon as women smell dishonesty and bullshit from us men, they will not even bother with token pleasantries.

Yeah, there are some women out there who just want to push guys around to feel good about themselves, but in my experience these are a very, very small minority.

(And they are mostly related to Steven).

The majority of women only act bitchy because of the way in which us, men, approach them.

And no, I’m not talking about the past guys who’ve approached them, putting her in a shit state. I’m talking about the way you’re approaching them.

Consider this: you’re out with mates, having a great time. You’ve had a few drinks. You’ve got heaps of friends with you. Everything’s great.

And then some in-genuine guy comes up to you and tries to weasel his way into your fun.

You’re in a good mood, so you let him hang around with you. But he’s really not adding anything to the conversation – and he’s just a little creepy.

You finally get him to leave, only to have another one approach you.

And another.

How do you think you’re going to respond to these guys?

But then another guy joins in and he’s actually really cool. He’s playful, fun, exciting, and genuine. He’s not just some drunk guy desperately trying to be part of the party, he’s a cool, fun guy who brings the party.

Do you think the way you respond to him is going to be different?

Do you think you’re going to try and push him away?

If you’re constantly getting girls acting bitchy towards you, start to consider how you’re acting. And why that might be driving them to act bitchy towards you.

LoGun