Are You FREE Around WOMEN?

by Jonathon on December 23, 2009 · No Comments

are you free around women I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:

- freedom to sleep with whomever they chose

- freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners

- and just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.

Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach anxiety.

Freedom from “not being in state”.

And freedom from feeling shitty after being rejected by a woman.

The freedom to not be affected by negative emotions: that’s all about being the alpha male, right?

This quest for freedom has seen many men within the seduction community waiting for the day when they never experience approach anxiety…

…or never experience that sense of loss, or loneliness.

These men (I volunteer myself as one such man) are waiting.

Waiting for it all to be better, before they live the life they’ve always wanted to live, now.

Waiting for freedom to “happen” instead.

What freedom didn’t mean to be free of those emotions, but rather meant that you were free even though you were experiencing them?

Approach anxiety still exists, but you are free from its control.

The emotion of loneliness still exists, but it does not define who you are as “lonely”.

Your emotions occur; they will always exist.

But you don’t have to be trapped by them: instead you have the ability to experience them fully, and still be who you want to be, and do what you want to do in the face of those unpleasant feelings.

This isn’t something that will be available to you someday in the “I-hope-not-so-distant-future”.

It is available to you right now.

And all it takes is a choice, and the choice is simple:

Do I want to be controlled by my emotions, or is it possible that even though I feel shit, or feel anxious, that I can still do what I want to do?

You are not your emotions: you experience them.

So don’t let these fleeting feelings dictate who you’re going to be.

Feel them fully, but be aware of what it is that’s feeling those emotions – that’s the real you, and it can do whatever it wants, even if what it’s feeling doesn’t want to.

Right now.

Jonathon