Author Archive for Jonathon
Jonathon is a Senior Inner Game Instructor at the Attraction Institute. He didn't see the girls fighting outside and he doesn't know anything about gay cats.
Building Incredible Connections With Women.
I work in sales, and we’re always told to build rapport with the customer..
..especially over those long distance deals.
When you build rapport with the customer, they are more likely to purchase something from you.
Rapport works in sales because neither you…
How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Can Meditation Help You Attract Women?
To put it simply, YES.
But I must clarify: it’s not a “secret seduction technique” or whatever, so please do not adopt it as such.
If you approach meditation as a means to a certain end (attracting girls), you will be disappointed. It is not a magic bullet of seduction.
But it just so happens that the practice of meditation helps get you outside of your…
Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Do Women Trust You?
I’ve heard a saying that a woman will not sleep with a man unless she trusts him on some level.
I’ve seen many men attempt to manufacture this trust.
I’ve seen many companies created purely to create products that would teach men how to manufacture this trust.
But it all starts with one person: you. How well do you trust…
Beginners Guide To Purposeful Living.
Sometimes it can be very easy to lose yourself in the distraction of the world..
Your daily duties and obligations, and your social commitments.
Sometimes it’s very easy to forget who you are.
So how well do you know yourself? Are you conscious of each decision you…
The #1 Deadliest Mistake Men Make.
You are going to die.
When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?
Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?
Will you be concerned about what people thought of…
You Know NOTHING About Approaching Women.
And knowing nothing changes everything.
If you think about it, the only thing that has ever held you back from approaching that gorgeous woman has been an assumption.
Two assumptions, actually.
The first is that you assume…
Can She Meet You? Can You Meet Her?
Over the past year I’ve had the fortune of meeting many different women…
Learned from my many mistakes, and undertaken many personal practices that have helped develop my path.
One thing I’ve noticed that sits with me today that was definitely missing a year ago is a certain intensity in my gaze.
With this new development, however, has come an interesting…
An New Approach To Approaching A Woman.
What would happen if you saw a woman you were attracted to, and you purposefully didn’t approach her?
I’m being serious here.
You see a gorgeous woman. You KNOW you’re attracted to her because of the way you feel when you see her.
And yet, you do not approach this…
Become Like James Bond .. Almost.
I’ve had the wonderful fortune of being involved in a Men’s Group coming into the New Year.
Since I had no idea what was involved in a Men’s Group before I was invited, I’m guessing you don’t have much of an idea either…
…so allow me to share my experience of…
Benefits Of Being In Your Body.
I love women. The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell…
…the way they carry themselves through the world, the way they shut down, and the way they open up.
All of it.
Most of all, I love the way they…
How Real Is Your Sexual Fantasy?
Those beautiful women that you oggle at and think about all day.
You know them:
The ones that make you think “How good would it be to bang her”…
As you fantasize about every little detail of her incredible ass, gorgeous legs, unbelievable rack, and impeccable figure.
Have you ever had that fantasy realised? To actually achieve what…
How To Pick Up Women – Made Easy.
What is it that makes “picking up women” hard?
Is it really that hard go pick up women? Or do we just make it out to ourselves that it is?
After the dating gurus promised to turn pickup into…
Are You Sexually Connecting With Women?
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
I’m talking about sex, of course.
The allure of it is all-pervasive…
Approaching Women: Advanced Tips.
When you approach a woman…
How meaningful do you want your interactions women to be?
To be able to penetrate through the surface-layers of insecurity and bullshit..
To be completely devastated by the ecstasy of incredible sex with a beautiful…
Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Goal Setting Tips For Maximum Growth.
Where will you be in five years time: financially, romantically, physically?
How do you intend to get there?
Are you even aware of what it is you really want to have achieved in the next five years?
Or are you too caught up in the noise, and the distraction of the game at hand…
…that you forgot there ever could be a future that would effect the very way…
Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board…
…quoting the “latest dating theory findings” as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER…
How Awake Are You Right Now?
What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?
How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?
Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?
Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody…
How Human Are Your Interactions?
I’ve been noticing something a little disturbing lately…
…and it’s not just within the seduction community.
It’s certainly exaggerated within the seduction community, but most definitely not limited to it.
What I’m referring to is the clinical nature in which men interact with the opposite sex.
You see that beautiful woman over there and you want to approach her.
But there’s this problem that needs to be solved before you can get what you want.
The problem of “HER”…
The problem of “HER”…
Are You A Man Of Your Word?
How powerful are you?
How powerful is your WORD?
I know many people who really make an effort to keep their promises to other people:
- to be accountable,
- responsible…
Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
Do Evil Emotions Control Your Life?
We love experiencing the “good emotions”, don’t we?
Love. Joy. Serenity. Peace.
But the ugly ones? Well, we don’t really talk about those, do we?
However, those ugly emotions are just as important for us to…
Who Are You Hiding From?
How much of you do you reveal to the big wide world?
When you’re out and about – at work, in a social situation, doing your daily duties…
How much of you does the world get to see?
We all have our faults. Every single one of…
Get Nervous Around Women?
Nerves around women, the bane of most men.
You see that girl, and your heart immediately jumps an extra 30 beats per second.
Your mind starts racing.
Then it goes blank, and you may even get a little bit sweaty.
You want to go approach, but you “can’t”. Why do you…
Tips For Being A Better Man.
Live your perfect day for you: the one that doesn’t involve women, and isn’t designed around everybody else.
Design your day such that every activity takes you deeper and deeper into your own bliss…
Every mouth-full of food savoured. Every emotion embraced. Every experience…
What Are You Waiting For?
You see that beautiful woman and you don’t approach. Why?
You see that you could start a business, and you KNOW it will work, and you don’t. Why?
There’s a promotion coming up at work that you know you deserve, but you don’t apply for it. Why?
For so long, we have lived our lives waiting for…
David Deida + Becoming An Alpha Male.
I’m running with a bit of a David Deida theme this week….
Since his work has been such an inspiration, and great teaching.
I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve noticed within many men throughout this community -
The pursuing of this trait we call alpha male, or masculine.
In the words of David Deida…
Give Your Identity A Reality Check.
“Keep taking the easy way out until you can’t anymore…
“And when you can’t anymore, absolutely commit yourself to love, because you know that the easy way out leads to suffering: it *IS* suffering.” – David Deida
Identity; Who you…