Building Incredible Connections With Women.
I work in sales, and we’re always told to build rapport with the customer..
..especially over those long distance deals.
When you build rapport with the customer, they are more likely to purchase something from you.
Rapport works in sales because neither you…
Continue Reading →How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Continue Reading →Can Meditation Help You Attract Women?
To put it simply, YES.
But I must clarify: it’s not a “secret seduction technique” or whatever, so please do not adopt it as such.
If you approach meditation as a means to a certain end (attracting girls), you will be disappointed. It is not a magic bullet of seduction.
But it just so happens that the practice of meditation helps get you outside of your…
Continue Reading →Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Continue Reading →Do Women Trust You?
I’ve heard a saying that a woman will not sleep with a man unless she trusts him on some level.
I’ve seen many men attempt to manufacture this trust.
I’ve seen many companies created purely to create products that would teach men how to manufacture this trust.
But it all starts with one person: you. How well do you trust…
Continue Reading →Beginners Guide To Purposeful Living.
Sometimes it can be very easy to lose yourself in the distraction of the world..
Your daily duties and obligations, and your social commitments.
Sometimes it’s very easy to forget who you are.
So how well do you know yourself? Are you conscious of each decision you…
Continue Reading →The #1 Deadliest Mistake Men Make.
You are going to die.
When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?
Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?
Will you be concerned about what people thought of…
Continue Reading →You Know NOTHING About Approaching Women.
And knowing nothing changes everything.
If you think about it, the only thing that has ever held you back from approaching that gorgeous woman has been an assumption.
Two assumptions, actually.
The first is that you assume…
Continue Reading →Can She Meet You? Can You Meet Her?
Over the past year I’ve had the fortune of meeting many different women…
Learned from my many mistakes, and undertaken many personal practices that have helped develop my path.
One thing I’ve noticed that sits with me today that was definitely missing a year ago is a certain intensity in my gaze.
With this new development, however, has come an interesting…
Continue Reading →An New Approach To Approaching A Woman.
What would happen if you saw a woman you were attracted to, and you purposefully didn’t approach her?
I’m being serious here.
You see a gorgeous woman. You KNOW you’re attracted to her because of the way you feel when you see her.
And yet, you do not approach this…
Continue Reading →Become Like James Bond .. Almost.
I’ve had the wonderful fortune of being involved in a Men’s Group coming into the New Year.
Since I had no idea what was involved in a Men’s Group before I was invited, I’m guessing you don’t have much of an idea either…
…so allow me to share my experience of…
Continue Reading →Benefits Of Being In Your Body.
I love women. The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell…
…the way they carry themselves through the world, the way they shut down, and the way they open up.
All of it.
Most of all, I love the way they…
Continue Reading →How Real Is Your Sexual Fantasy?
Those beautiful women that you oggle at and think about all day.
You know them:
The ones that make you think “How good would it be to bang her”…
As you fantasize about every little detail of her incredible ass, gorgeous legs, unbelievable rack, and impeccable figure.
Have you ever had that fantasy realised? To actually achieve what…
Continue Reading →How To Pick Up Women – Made Easy.
What is it that makes “picking up women” hard?
Is it really that hard go pick up women? Or do we just make it out to ourselves that it is?
After the dating gurus promised to turn pickup into…
Continue Reading →Are You Sexually Connecting With Women?
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
I’m talking about sex, of course.
The allure of it is all-pervasive…
Continue Reading →Approaching Women: Advanced Tips.
When you approach a woman…
How meaningful do you want your interactions women to be?
To be able to penetrate through the surface-layers of insecurity and bullshit..
To be completely devastated by the ecstasy of incredible sex with a beautiful…
Continue Reading →Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Continue Reading →Goal Setting Tips For Maximum Growth.
Where will you be in five years time: financially, romantically, physically?
How do you intend to get there?
Are you even aware of what it is you really want to have achieved in the next five years?
Or are you too caught up in the noise, and the distraction of the game at hand…
…that you forgot there ever could be a future that would effect the very way…
Continue Reading →Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board…
…quoting the “latest dating theory findings” as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER…
Continue Reading →How Awake Are You Right Now?
What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?
How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?
Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?
Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody…
Continue Reading →How Human Are Your Interactions?
I’ve been noticing something a little disturbing lately…
…and it’s not just within the seduction community.
It’s certainly exaggerated within the seduction community, but most definitely not limited to it.
What I’m referring to is the clinical nature in which men interact with the opposite sex.
You see that beautiful woman over there and you want to approach her.
But there’s this problem that needs to be solved before you can get what you want.
The problem of “HER”…
The problem of “HER”…
Continue Reading →Are You A Man Of Your Word?
How powerful are you?
How powerful is your WORD?
I know many people who really make an effort to keep their promises to other people:
- to be accountable,
- responsible…
Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
Continue Reading →Do Evil Emotions Control Your Life?
We love experiencing the “good emotions”, don’t we?
Love. Joy. Serenity. Peace.
But the ugly ones? Well, we don’t really talk about those, do we?
However, those ugly emotions are just as important for us to…
Continue Reading →Who Are You Hiding From?
How much of you do you reveal to the big wide world?
When you’re out and about – at work, in a social situation, doing your daily duties…
How much of you does the world get to see?
We all have our faults. Every single one of…
Continue Reading →Get Nervous Around Women?
Nerves around women, the bane of most men.
You see that girl, and your heart immediately jumps an extra 30 beats per second.
Your mind starts racing.
Then it goes blank, and you may even get a little bit sweaty.
You want to go approach, but you “can’t”. Why do you…
Continue Reading →Tips For Being A Better Man.
Live your perfect day for you: the one that doesn’t involve women, and isn’t designed around everybody else.
Design your day such that every activity takes you deeper and deeper into your own bliss…
Every mouth-full of food savoured. Every emotion embraced. Every experience…
Continue Reading →What Are You Waiting For?
You see that beautiful woman and you don’t approach. Why?
You see that you could start a business, and you KNOW it will work, and you don’t. Why?
There’s a promotion coming up at work that you know you deserve, but you don’t apply for it. Why?
For so long, we have lived our lives waiting for…
Continue Reading →How To Be An Alpha Male: David Deida.
I’m running with a bit of a David Deida theme this week….
Since his work has been such an inspiration, and great teaching.
I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve noticed within many men throughout this community -
The pursuing of this trait we call alpha male, or masculine.
In the words of David Deida…
Continue Reading →Give Your Identity A Reality Check.
“Keep taking the easy way out until you can’t anymore…
“And when you can’t anymore, absolutely commit yourself to love, because you know that the easy way out leads to suffering: it *IS* suffering.” – David Deida
Identity; Who you…
Continue Reading →Wanna Play God? How To Be God, Now.
Look around you at this thing you label “reality”.
The images, the smells, the sensations, the sounds, the tastes. All of it.
Look around at this reality and know this: you MAKE it exist – for without *YOU* acting as the conduit, or the interpreter, it would all just be atoms floating in space.
No form, no beauty. YOU are the key to…
Continue Reading →What Does It Mean To “SET THE FRAME”?
You ever notice how much your expectations rule your day-to-day living?
When you do a good deed, you expect to be rewarded. Or at least recognised.
When you stay back at work, day after day, slaving away at your work, you expect a promotion.
When you approach a beautiful woman you hope…
Continue Reading →Worried About What Women Think Of You?
Here’s a tip to stop you caring about what others think about you – give up you.
Whilst giving up you does mean giving up your wants, needs, and tendencies, it also means giving up your insecurities, fears, and shames.
And without one, the other cannot exist.
There have been many times that I’ve been aware of the opportunity…
Continue Reading →Attraction Is Not A (Conscious) Choice.
Attraction is not a choice.
I’m sure you’ve heard that dating tip many times before – especially as it relates to meeting women.
But have you thought of how it relates to you?
I put it to you, that attraction is not yet a choice for you, EITHER…
Continue Reading →A Tip To Make You Less Nervous.
This one struck me the other night when I ran into a fellow student of the seduction community at the Argyle.
Oh my God – were the women there glorious –
… so many beautiful legs, and ample bosom (and that was just LoGun with his shirt off) – it got even better after that.
This chap was being shown the finer art of “kino” by a ‘dating guru’…
Continue Reading →Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women.
We spend our lives distracting ourselves from the noise.
That noise that is constantly droning in the background, telling us we’re not good enough.
That we’re living a life of mediocrity and we know, we god-damned well KNOW that we’re wasting our potential…
Continue Reading →To Become Liked, Don’t Try To Be Liked.
What if I told you that you were already accepted by everyone?
What if I told you that everybody here thought incredibly highly of you – and you never had to do anything extra to maintain your reputation?
How would that change the way you act…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect The Women You ‘Game’?
Is it possible to respect the women that you ‘game’, knowing that you’ve simply “tricked” them into sleeping with you?
Knowing that she’s fallen for a shell identity you presented to her – which you know is not the real you?
Are you really capable of respecting a woman who is so easily ‘won over’…
Continue Reading →Are You Too SOFT To Read This?
This whole masculinity thing has been a little bit of a sore topic for me of late.
Don’t get me wrong, I love the premise, and have very much been enjoying getting back in touch with my very suppressed inner man.
Embracing this part of my life has really allowed some new perspectives to surface.
And I’ve certainly been appreciating the new…
Continue Reading →How Much Sex Is Enough Sex?
When I first entered the seduction community I was filled with hope, aspiration, and overflowing with illusions of grandeur.
I could almost taste it: entering a night-club that had refused me entry but a week ago as the guest of honour.
Many a woman would stop in her tracks when she saw ME in all my glory, King…
Continue Reading →Not Being Yourself When You Go Out? Read This.
When you go out to meet women, who are you going out for: you, or them?
Are you going out to gain something, or because going out is the best way in which you can both experience, and gift the world?
Are you chasing tail, or are you on an adventure that, by it’s very nature, cannot help but uplift those around you?
Basically, the big change in focus for me was going out to serve, rather…
Continue Reading →Seduction Community Pitfalls.
Let’s be honest, the reason we all got into this whole “game” thing was to get better with women.
And why do we want to get better with women? Because if we’re “better with women” then we’ll have better results with women.
If we have better results with women, then we’ll be happy with those results.
If we’re happy with those results, then…
Continue Reading →Are You A Victim Of “The Chase?”
On a forum the other day, a few of the men raised an unusual topic for conversation. The topic was all about ‘the chase‘…
The more this topic was contributed to, the more all of these men realised how much they are consumed by the chase: they love it.
Not knowing what the outcome will be, the risk…
Continue Reading →Just Be Yourself – Why Being Yourself Can Suck.
“Just be yourself”!
This advice from your mother had the seduction community gurus rolling in its grave.
“Your mum doesn’t know…
Continue Reading →What Is Your Ultimate Sexual Fantasy?
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
For me, it is bedding all nine of the Victoria’s Secret Angels, at once, together.
For the purpose of this exercise, use your…
Continue Reading →What Kind Of Man Are You?
Let me tell you a story of two men who wanted it all.
Both began on the same path, but both took a different approach to the same path.
Both men are brought into…
Continue Reading →How To Become A Leader.
First, let me ask you – are you a master of reality, or a product of reality?
One moves effortlessly through the world, and the other is tormented by it.
One dates the women he desires. The other chips away at approach…
Continue Reading →Become Bulletproof.
I am not correct. All I offer is a perspective. Try it on, see how it fits, and see if it feels right for you:
You don’t know anything. You are not right…
Continue Reading →Are You Missing ONE Vital Point?
I have to be honest here: I feel very sorry for all the women of the world.
ESPECIALLY the really attractive ones.
I mean, lets face it – when you see one of those REALLY…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect Yourself Enough To Attract Women?
Respect for yourself. It’s a phrase that isn’t often mentioned in the dating community.
The importance of it is, however, something I stumbled across…
Continue Reading →How NOT To Build Rapport With A Woman.
You know, in the 3 years I’ve spent dedicated to this thing called inner game, there has consistently been something that really pisses me off about our “seduction community“…
Continue Reading →AFC To PUA, To..
About 4 years ago I set out on a journey to become the centre of attention of every hot woman I met.
I knew it wouldn’t be an easy path, but my newfound hobby: The Mystery Method, at least gave me…
Continue Reading →Dissolving Approach Anxiety.
We try to conquer her, in most instances, so we can witness her pleasure, but also for the sake of our ego.
What if you removed that ego of ours?
What if YOU become LOST in her pleasure, and placed no thought on your own?
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