How To Impress A Woman
Impressing women is a profoundly simple thing to do. It doesn’t require complex scripts, intricate methods, or advanced tactics. All that’s required to impress a woman is some basic logic and self awareness. First of all though, you need to clarify exactly what kind of woman you want to impress, because different kinds of women [...]
Continue Reading →What Women Want
She wants you to be inspirational. She wants you to be courageous. She wants you to stand up for what you believe in. She wants you to have morals and principles. She wants you to have direction and purpose. She wants you to live your life on your terms. And most of all, she wants [...]
Continue Reading →Developing An Unlimited Routine Stack: 4 Simple Steps
Running out of things to say when talking to beautiful women is a common problem. The seduction community solution for this is to learn a large amount of stories and topics to talk about so that you can pull something up on demand. If you want to spend half your night reading notes about stories [...]
Continue Reading →Q&A: The Perfect Opener?
Here’s a question I received a few days ago about a situation I’m sure you’ve been in. If you’re still working through the whole PUA mindset, you’ll find my answer very useful. Question: Hey, I don’t know if this is the right place to send this to, but I really need some advice. Everything [...]
Continue Reading →My New Years Resolution
Ever since I can remember, I’ve had the same new years resolution: To Live. A simple and effective reminder that this is my life and I’m the only one who’s ever going to give me what I want. This year, I’ve decided to change it. Ever since Steven left, my workload at AI has ballooned. [...]
Continue Reading →What An Extraordinary Year It’s Been…
This year has been such an incredible journey. There’s been so many massive changes in not only my life, but in AI as well that I couldn’t begin to list them all here. When this year started, I had no idea of the journey I’d be going on. There’s no way you could have convinced [...]
Continue Reading →I’m Glad This Isn’t Me Anymore…
Mike went to the NY Philharmonic orchestra by himself because he loves classical music. Lauren had planned to meet friends there but they cancelled so she ended up alone as well. Mike and Lauren met and went on a date. Mike thought it went well and tried to organise a second date with Lauren by [...]
Continue Reading →What would you do differently?
You can feel the barrel of the gun, pressed against your temples. The psychotic gunman has demanded to know what you really want to do with your life. After you respond, he tells you that if you’re not taking big steps towards that life when he visits you in 6 weeks, he’s going to kill [...]
Continue Reading →How To Spot Her Tests
I see it all the time. Guys write field reports and always ask “Was this a test? Was she testing me here?” So, here’s a little known secret to work out whether or not she was testing you. It’s fool-proof and guarantees that you pick every test, every time and you’re never left confused about [...]
Continue Reading →The Difference Between a PUA and a Naturally Attractive Man
You’re here because you want to be naturally attractive to women. I get it. You want to live your life, on your terms, doing what you want, and have the women you desire be attracted to you for it. That’s great. It’s why I’m here as well. I also get that you don’t want to [...]
Continue Reading →What YOU want: How to find your deep desires in 3 simple steps.
Getting in touch with what you really desire is one of the core elements of… …becoming naturally attractive to women. After all, if you don’t know what you want, then you can’t experience it. And if you can’t experience it without her, then you’re always going to be needy and dependent on her to give [...]
Continue Reading →What Women Really Want
When I was growing up, I was taught to be nice to women. I was taught to treat them like friends, really good friends, and eventually, they’re going to see just how attractive you are. I was taught it was wrong to think of women as sexual creatures and it was wrong to show sexual [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Your Ego: 3 Simple Steps
This is one for all the spiritual guys out there. The evils of the Ego gets a lot of attention from all the spiritual teachers out there. The Ego has been blamed for everything from the breakdown of relationships to creating wars! But no-one’s really given you a game plan to both identify and overcome [...]
Continue Reading →Everything’s Amazing and Nobody is Happy
I just saw this and thought it was awesome. Check it out: It really got me thinking about how much I take for granted in my life. Today, I drove to the farmers markets with the woman I love, sat and ate some beautiful food from 3 different continents, surrounded by family and friends, then [...]
Continue Reading →Finding Your Deepest Gift
“How do I find my purpose / gifts?” is a question that pops up frequently on the Attraction Institute Forum. If you’re one of those people who’s searching for that deeper and more meaningful part of himself, then here’s a great article on it from www.psychologytoday.com on how to find your deepest gifts. ———— How [...]
Continue Reading →Boost Your Testosterone: A Cheap and Easy Way
Testosterone is that awesome little chemical that helps you feel like a Man. It controls sex drive and aggression and is key to pushing forward with your life rather than wasting it sitting on a couch. There’s quite a few guys on the forum who are quitting masturbating and all kinds of fun things to [...]
Continue Reading →How To Stop Running Out Of Thing To Say
For some magical reason, this topic came up in both the Get Real and Be Powerful calls I did this week… …so I thought I’d share it with all you guys. I know how much of a bitch running out of things to say is so here’s my – ULTIMATE POWERHOUSE MAGIC QUICK FIX SOLUTION [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day #6 – What are you going to do about it?
“What are you going to do about it?” The world is never going to give you what you want. You’re never going to wake up and one day everything is going to be perfect. The quality of your life isn’t determined by how perfect the world is, it’s determined by how you respond when it [...]
Continue Reading →How To Be Attractive To Women
“How do I be more attractive to women?” was the question that started me on my journey firstly into the seduction community, then out of it.
I get asked it so often that I thought I’d write out the three things I wish I’d been told when I first wanted to know how to be attractive to women.
No. 1 – Stop trying to attract women…
Continue Reading →RIP Steve Jobs
Yesterday, the world lost a great man. Thank you for the incredible contribution you made to the world. I hope, that one day, I can make even a fraction of the difference that you have made. Below is a speech he made back in 2005. He touches on life, death, passion, love, and how to [...]
Continue Reading →Should you learn PUA Techniques?
Well, you can if you want, but just be aware that they’re going to do more damage than good. Here’s why: If you’re learning and attempting to implement pickup structures, routines, and techniques, then you’re going to be thinking about them when you’re with a woman. You’re going to be stuck in your head instead [...]
Continue Reading →Easy or Hard? One Question That Will Define Your Success with women
In the 5 years I’ve been coaching guys on how to become naturally attractive to women, I’ve seen it all. I’ve seen guys literally transform their lives after spending 5 minutes on the forum. They log on, read one thing, apply it to their life and their success with women and in the rest of [...]
Continue Reading →The Reason She’s Not Attracted To You…
Working out why you’re not getting the women you want… …can be confusing and difficult. Today, I’m going to make it really simple for you. There are three simple steps you can follow to get the answer. 1. Read this post: www.attractioninstitute.org/how-to-attract-women 2. Then answer this question: How do attractive women feel when they’re around [...]
Continue Reading →Sexual Expression for Dummies: A ‘how to’ guide
I’ve spent the last few weeks… …working with a select group of guys to help the blast through their approach anxiety… …because they identified it as the number one thing preventing them from attracting the women they want. After all the work we’ve done, it turns out they were wrong. Throughout all the exercises and [...]
Continue Reading →Do You Believe In Anything This Much?
How valuable something is to you can be judged by what you’re willing to do for it. The more you care about it, the harder you’re going to fight for it. This is a Man who believes so strongly in personal freedom and expression that he’s willing to go to jail over and over again. [...]
Continue Reading →How To Eradicate Your Approaching Nerves
From time to time, I get a particularly good question in my inbox and I thought I’d share this one with you. If you have issues approaching women, this one should clear up a big sticking point. Question: Hey guys. Loved Endgame. I’ve spent most of my life as a sculptor. Wood carver. I [...]
Continue Reading →Should you call her back?
Maybe you met at a bar, maybe at a party… You had a good time, a few laughs, and so you decided to swap numbers. You call her a few days later and things don’t go so well. She says she’s a bit busy and to call her soon. So you don’t look too needy, [...]
Continue Reading →How To Impress a Girl: One Secret They’re Not Telling You
Impressing a girl is easy. VERY easy, when you know what you’re doing… And if you’re not impressing women right now, it’s because you’re listening to advice that misses the most important point. There’s plenty of advice on how to impress a girl floating around the internet. Apparently, the way to impress a girl is: [...]
Continue Reading →How to know EXACTLY what to do in any situation
There’s plenty of advice on the Internet about the different ways you can attract women. There’s even plenty of advice on this site. So, I’m not going to cover that today. This post is about helping you decide which piece of advice is the best piece for you. It’s one, simple question you can use [...]
Continue Reading →It could happen any time…
As I was walking to football this morning, I watched a car jump the medium strip of a six lane road and smash head on into a car coming the other direction. I have no idea how, but by some act of a higher power, no-one was seriously injured. But they could have been. Both [...]
Continue Reading →How to Attract Women: The One Thing They Don’t Tell You
There are thousands of tips on the Internet on how to attract women… …and EVERY SINGLE one of them misses the most crucial piece of information possible. I know this because I read almost all of them when I was trying to get better at attracting women. It wasn’t till I worked out this one [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the Day #5 – Follow your fear…
And now for the next installment… ‘Follow your fear.’ How would your life be different today if you decided to move towards the things that scare you, rather than running and hiding from them? What would ‘ve been different when you saw that cute girl that you decided not to approach? What would’ve been different [...]
Continue Reading →AI Myths and Misconceptions: BUSTED
If you’ve found your way to this post, I’m sure you’re aware that the Attraction Institute philosophy is very unique. Because it’s so unique, there seems to be a bit of confusion about what we really stand for. To help clear that confusion, I’ve put together a list of the most common misconceptions and why [...]
Continue Reading →Becoming completely FREE around women
Sure, when you woke up this morning… - You chose what you ate for breakfast, - You weren’t forced into any strict religious practice - You decided what you were going to wear today …but is that really freedom? Is that all there is to it? How free are you, really? Yes, you have the [...]
Continue Reading →Meeting Women Made Easy
I know how overwhelming this whole ‘meeting, attracting, flirting with women’ thing can seem. I remember when I first started, it just felt like there was SOOO much to do and SOOO much to learn before I could even start getting the success I wanted. It was quite intimidating. That’s why, today, I’m going to [...]
Continue Reading →LoGun’s Guide to Rockstar Social Status
It’s time for a bit of a Q&A. —————- Hi LoGun, I regularly read your posts and want to ask you for a favour. Can you write something about STATUS? What I mean is we’re taught by the PUA community that everything is about status and that it determines your value in the society. I [...]
Continue Reading →What’s your dream?
Without a dream, you’re not going to push yourself when it gets hard. Without a dream, you’re not going to get up when you fall down. Without a dream, you’re not going to take that extra step when it really counts. So, what’s your dream? I’m having a little NFL love fest this week.
Continue Reading →It doesn’t matter where you’ve come from…
I know it can seem like the world is against you. I know it can seem like everyone has it easier than you. But did you have to sleep in the same bed as your grandma till you were 15? Did you have to sleep in the same room as your Grandma till you were [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day #3 and #4 (How to be free around women)
For those who haven’t been keeping up with the blog posts… …I have reminders in my phone that go off EVERY DAY to make sure I’m directing my attention in productive directions. Years and years and years of being stuck in my head wondering what other people are thinking of me can be hard to shake… I [...]
Continue Reading →Should you smile when talking to women?
I know a lot of people who say ‘Yes, you should smile when talking to women. It makes you appear more friendly and attractive to women.” That sounds great I theory, but if you take a quick look under the surface, you’ll see just how bad an idea it is try and appear more friendly [...]
Continue Reading →Should you be vulnerable?
This is an amazing video that looks at the link between vulnerability and happiness. If you’ve ever wondered whether being vulnerable was going to do anything for you then you should definitely check this out. Oh, and just to give you some context, this is the most watched TED talk ever. L.
Continue Reading →How to get your lunch for free (field report)
I witnessed one of the most beautiful and simple ‘pickups’ I’ve ever seen yesterday. It was beautiful because the Man felt strong and in control of his world… …and the woman left smiling and feeling like the most beautiful woman on earth. It was simple because there was no techniques, no routines, no structures, just [...]
Continue Reading →When I meet a woman I’m attracted to, I always talk about the same thing. Always. It’s one topic that allows me to flirt with her, push her buttons, play around, and get deep and serious. I can talk about this and have a fun, quick conversation or a deep and meaningful conversation for hours [...]
Continue Reading →How to get out of the Friend Zone
This one is simple. I’m not going to go into complex details, I’m just going to give it to you straight. The way to get out of the friend zone is to stop treating her like a friend. That’s it. She doesn’t put you in the friend zone, you put you in the friend zone. [...]
Continue Reading →Should you learn how to attract women?
There’s one question that’s going to determine just how easy you find it to transform your relationships with women. The answer is the reason that your journey is either effortless and rewarding or demanding and frustrating. That question is: Should you learn to attract women? Now, the answer might seem obvious. I mean, that’s why [...]
Continue Reading →You’re not the only one who…
I know from my years of trying to transform my life, that it can seem like you’re the only one who gets this wrong. This post is an attempt to show you that you’re not the only one. I’ve put together a list of all the pointless things I’ve done (and still do) in my [...]
Continue Reading →The Winner of the June 2011 Get Real challenge is…
Congratulations to everyone who participated in the June 2011 Get Real challenge. There were many boundaries pushed, many barriers overcome, and many lives transformed over the last 2 weeks. It takes a lot of balls to firstly, publicly air your fears, and secondly, push yourself through them. I know there were many guys who read [...]
Continue Reading →Who deserves to win the June 2011 Get Real Challenge?
I got nervous just watching it. You can see the terror in his face, you can feel his fear through the screen, and yet he still goes through with it. He still puts his arm out, he still lets the guy put it on his hand, and he still passes the Tarantula from hand to [...]
Continue Reading →Being Authentic with Women: it’s a Trap!
Despite the immense benefits that being authentic and real with women can bring to your life, there’s also a down side that you have to be aware of. It’s something that comes up a lot in both Get Real and Be Powerful and I thought I should warn you about it. It’ll make it easier [...]
Continue Reading →‘My Story’ is now open!
Check out My Story It’s one thing to know what you need to do to experience all that life has to offer. It’s something completely different to understand how that theory can be applied to your life. And it’s SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY to see practical examples of how you can create the life you truly [...]
Continue Reading →What Women Want in Bed
This is one of the best posts I’ve ever read on sex. It’s written by a Woman, to Men, trying to help them understand sex from a woman’s perspective and what she’s looking for. Enjoy. ———– Dear Men of Craigslist, Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, [...]
Continue Reading →How to have fun in ANY situation
I went to a party last night. I know… CRAZY!!! This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but it actually was for me. I don’t really go out much any more. I used to go out a lot! Steven and I would be out 3 or 4 times a week. We’d [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day: The Man of your Dreams
This is the next installment of the ‘Thought of the day’ series. These are little quotes, sayings, and (mostly) questions that I ask myself to keep me moving towards the life I want to create. Today’s is one of my favourites: Who is the Man of your dreams? This question isn’t about finding some dude [...]
Continue Reading →Hank Moody: A ‘how to’ guide
If you haven’t watched Californication, you need to. What a great show. Except for the current season. I don’t know if they got new writers or if they just ran out of ideas but it’s really gone down hill… Anyway, you’re not reading this to find out what I think of Californicaiton, you’re reading this [...]
Continue Reading →Attraction Institute facebook page is LIVE!
I mentioned this is an email a few weeks ago but I forgot to share it here. The AI Facebook page is now LIVE! Check it out
Continue Reading →LoGun’s (Incomplete) Law of Attraction
It seems that any seduction guru worth his salt has published a theory of attraction at some point. So, if I’m ever to make it to the status of an mPUAG, I should probably get mine out there as well. Note, this is not in any way a ‘finished’ theory and so would appreciate your [...]
Continue Reading →Can Eckhart Tolle help you be better with women?
For those who don’t know who Eckhart Tolle is (which rock have you been hiding under?), he’s the author of books such as The Power of Now and A New Earth. The key fundamental tennet of his teaching is that achieving presence is a powerful way to transform the core of any issue. There’s quite [...]
Continue Reading →Problems with women? 3 questions to get you to the core
I get quite a few emails from guys asking me to help them solve a problem. What I’ve found is that most of the trouble they’re having finding a solution to their problem is that they don’t know what the real problem is. There’s three quick questions that I always ask to help them get [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming a fear of rejection
As promised in the last email, here is the article you’ve been waiting for – overcoming a fear of rejection. I’ve broken it down into 3 short steps that are going to help you break through this barrier. I’m going to go into quite specific detail in this. I’m not going to talk about theoretical [...]
Continue Reading →Be More Productive
When Steven left a few months ago, one of two things was going to happen. Either I was going to continue with the same (poor) time management systems I’d been running and AI would fall further and further into disarray or I would find a new way of operating and AI would continue to grow. [...]
Continue Reading →How to start a movement
I know there are a lot of guys who read this blog who want to start something big. They want to make a difference to the world and are looking for a way to do it. Here’s a short video that explains just how to start a movement. Enjoy.
Continue Reading →Thought of the Day
If I just let my mind wander off, it can end up in all kinds of useless places. If I let myself, I can spend hours surfing through YouTube videos, watching football highlights, and just screwing around on facebook. This, in no way, helps me move closer to the life I want to live. To [...]
Continue Reading →Think you have it tough? At least you have limbs
The quality of your life isn’t determined by what you have or what you go through, it’s determined by what you choose to do with it. This guy is an AMAZING example of that. He was born without arms or legs and he’s one of the happiest and most powerful people I’ve seen in a [...]
Continue Reading →How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend
64 simple steps. Enjoy. L.
Continue Reading →What It Takes To Be A Champion (Video)
This is a great clip from Arnold Schwarzenegger talking about what it takes to be a champion. Really inspirational stuff. It’s easy to see how he became so successful in so many different areas of his life. Enjoy. How do you think your life would change if you started looking at your life like this?
Continue Reading →Get Motivated: 2 Simple Steps
Motivation came up as one of the big things that guys were struggling with in our recent survey. (BTW, the more information we have on what you’re looking for, the more we can give you so if you haven’t filled out the survey, please do so. It’ll mean you get more of the answers you [...]
Continue Reading →Married Life
Have you ever wanted to live in 1894? Well, you wont after reading this! This is advice written in 1894 to alert young brides to the terrible turmoils of the sexual debauchery of married life. Can you imagine what it would have been like to just have a bit of sex if this was the [...]
Continue Reading →What do you love?
A friend of mine shared this great blog with me. It’s written by his boss. Every few days he writes a post about something that he loves. It’s really beautiful. You can
Continue Reading →You Only Live Once
“You only live once.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this. So many times that it’s just started to be empty words. Just like: “I’ll have a beer, thanks…” Or… “Get the f*#k out of my house you filthy slob!” But today, someone said it to me and I actually stopped to [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Frustration
Do you know what 4:45am on a Monday looks like? Apparently it’s dark. Very dark. And not so warm either. It makes you yawn a lot and you are also overcome with burning desires to crawl back into bed. Funny that… I know this because I got to taste 4:45am on a Monday this morning. [...]
Continue Reading →How Incredible Do You Want Your Life To Be?
How incredible do you want your life to be? Do you want it to be REASONABLY incredible? Do you want it to feel an AVERAGE amount of greatness? Do you dream of experiencing a bit more than half of what life has to offer you? Now, do you think you can ever experience the extremes [...]
Continue Reading →Must Read Books: 5 Books That Will Change Your Life
5 must read books that will change your life. 1. The Tao of Pooh This book will answer the question: “What’s going on when the world doesn’t feel quite right?” This book had a profound influence on my life. I still remember sitting down to ‘just flick through the first few pages’ and emerging from [...]
Continue Reading →I’m going to throw something out there: You’re here because you’re looking an answer. You’re looking for a THE piece of information that’s going to help you take the next big step. That’s right, I’m very clever. I know this because if you weren’t you wouldn’t be here. You’d be out there, living your life. [...]
Continue Reading →My New Favourite Quote…
“When you never compromise, you have nothing to hide” Have a guess where this comes from: Some self help guru? Some PUA god? The latest spiritual leader? Tattooed on the back of a dancing midget? Surprisingly, all wrong. This comes directly from the marketing mouth of the American car manufacturer GMC. It’s their company slogan [...]
Continue Reading →Get Over Your Ex: 3 simple steps
I’ve been there before. I’ve fallen in love and had my heart broken in two. I know what it feels like to be left alone, wondering if you’re ever going to recover from the pain. So today, I’m going to share with you how I got over my ex and how you can get over [...]
Continue Reading →False time constraint: should you use one?
Question and answer time!!! Yay… That’s right. If you write to me with the question sitting at the edge of your tongue, you may just find yourself on our happy little blog. The question comes from a discussion I was having with a PUA about false time constraints. I was having a bit of a [...]
Continue Reading →Confidence Training For Men: 3 Easy Steps.
Want to feel more powerful? Want to feel more in control?
Want to feel all those amazing feelings that unshakable confidence brings?
Well, you’ve come to the right place. I’m going to give you the latest confidence training tools to so that nothing can stop you from living the life you want. But I’m also going to give you the one thing you NEED to know if you want to make that confidence long lasting.
The basic principle of any solid confidence training program is to help you prove to yourself that you can create the life you want.
If you can prove to yourself…
Continue Reading →Confidence Boosters For Men.
There are two different types of confidence boosters you can use and the one you choose is going to determine how much confidence boost you get stable your confidence boost is.
Seeing as I’m a very gifted linguist, I’m come up with the two very powerful names for these different types of confidence boost: external and internal.
An external confidence boost is the most…
Continue Reading →How To Attract A Woman: Things They Don’t Tell You.
The secret to how to attract a woman isn’t complex. It’s not long, hard, or complicated.
To show you just how you can attract a woman, I’m just going to ask you one simple question:
When have you had most success attracting a woman: when you’ve been trying to attract a woman or when you haven’t been trying at all and you’ve just been concentrating on enjoying yourself?
So what do you think you need to do to attract a woman?
Continue Reading →What Women Find Attractive: Guide For Men.
I wish it were as simple as waving a magic wand and saying ‘All women find x attractive!’ but in reality, it’s not. Why?
Well, do you and you mate find the same women attractive? Maybe sometimes, but all the time? No?
Then why would all women find the same guy attractive?
Duh…
So, to help you work out what women find attractive, we first need to nail down what kind of women we’re talking about.
Lets start with the easy one: What does she look like?
Is she tall or short? Is she brunette or blonde? Does she have blue eyes or brown? Is she curvy or slim?
Next, what kind of things does she like to do?
Does she like to play sports…
Continue Reading →Realise Your Potential As A Man.
If you’re reading this, then I’m going to guess that you’re aware of your potential.
You’re aware that there’s something powerful, something strong, something amazing inside you and you’re looking for a way to let it out.
That’s a great place to be.
It’s far easier to work with someone who realises…
Continue Reading →How To Improve Self Esteem: Foolproof Method.
I’ve got a foolproof way to improve self-esteem – become very good at achieving your goals.
It makes sense, doesn’t it? If you can set yourself goals that you really want to achieve and you achieve them they’re you’re going to improve your self esteem.
I’ve also got a foolproof way to NOT improve self-esteem. Funnily enough, it’s the same way – become very good at achieving your goals.
Confused? There’s a very subtle element that you need to be aware of to avoid the same trap that a lot of people who’re searching for ‘how to improve self esteem’ fall into..
Continue Reading →Self Improvement Books: What They Don’t Tell You.
I’ve been involved in the self-improvement community for nearly 8 years.
I’ve spent 5 of those as a coach. The number complaint I hear from my clients is that “I’ve read all these books and I’ve even taken workshops, but I’m still not living the life I want.”
If you’ve read through any self-improvement books and want to know why you’re still not living the life you want, then you need to read what’s written below…
Continue Reading →Places To Meet Women: Best Places To Meet Women.
I’ve had quite a few guys write to me asking for advice on places to meet women so I thought I’d write out a comprehensive list of every place that you can meet women in your life.
That list has one item on it: Every place in your life is a place to meet women.
That’s it. That’s the whole list.
Think back through the last week of your life…
Continue Reading →Speed Dating Sydney: The Secret to Success!
The Secret to Speed Dating success
I’m about to give you the secret to undreamed of success at speed dating. It’s a secret that will at least triple the amount of beautiful women you get to meet.
Yes, at least triple. If not waaaaaaay more.
It’s 4 simple steps.
Continue Reading →Self Confidence Tips For Men: Attract Women By Being Yourself.
Is your self-confidence not quite what you want it to be?
Are you looking for self-confidence tips to find the happiness you desire?
Well, here are 3 self-confidence tips you need to know – if you want to bring long-term satisfaction into your life.
Self-Confidence Tip No. 1 – Stop blaming your lack of self-confidence for anything..
Continue Reading →How To Attract Women Tips For Attracting Women
I realize you came here for tips on how to attract women, but I’m going to give you something better.
Instead of giving you little tick after little trick that may, on some magical day, help you attract the women one or two women..
..I’m going to help you find what you can do to never have to learn tips to attract women again.
Does being the kind of Man who women are naturally attracted to without constantly needing to use tricks sound interesting to you?
Good, then read on.
There are lots of tips on the internet on how to attract women…
Continue Reading →You’re Not An AFC
In my travels around the dating community, I’m constantly hearing guy referring to themselves as AFC.
If you’re one of those guys then this post is for you…
Continue Reading →How To Get Women Into Bed: Simply And Easy.
It’s a question which we, men, wrestle with from the time we hit our teenage years:
“How to get women into bed?”
Well, there are two basic different paths you can follow.
And the one you choose is going to determine, firstly, how easy your journey is. And secondly, how much you enjoy yourself on the way…
Continue Reading →Alpha Male Characteristics: Which Ones Are You Missing?
I’m astounded by the number of supposed Alpha Male Characteristics that you’re supposed to learn in order to be an Alpha Male.
It seems like self-help guru’s sat around for years just observing people who they thought were Alpha Males and wrote down EVERYTHING they did.
They came up with a list of alpha male characteristics which just baffles my brain:
Stand up straight
Take up space
Talk loudly…
Ultimate PUA Openers: Most Powerful PUA Opener Ever?
Are you searching for the best PUA openers? Good.
Of all the PUA openers I’ve seen, this is the most powerful one of them all.
It’s guaranteed to work, every time. Every time. Would you like to know what it is?
Would you like to be able to throw away all your other PUA openers and just head out at night armed with one weapon, which is going to open every woman, every time?
Continue Reading →Test Your Self Esteem: The 1-Minute Self Esteem Test.
Want to know how good your self esteem is? Would you like a little self esteem test to see exactly how you shape up?
Imagine you’re sitting at work and your boss comes up to you.
She (I’m just going to fly in the face of gender stereotypes – and pretend your boss is a woman) leans over your desk and in her sweetest and most soothing voice says:
“You’re lazy and you’re work is shit.”
How do you respond to this self esteem test?
Continue Reading →Improving Self Esteem – is it really the solution to your issues?
There are plenty of articles out there on how to build self esteem and then how to make your self-esteem bullet proof so I’m not going to tackle that little puppy.
Instead, I’m going to ask a deeper question that you must consider before you embark down the journey of trying to develop incredible self-esteem:
Is building self-esteem really the answer to your issues?
Continue Reading →Psychology of Attracting Women
There’s a secret you haven’t been told about the psychology of attracting women.
It’s got nothing to do with magic sprays or hypnosis but it’s something you’re going to need to know if you’re going to have incredible relationships with amazing women…
Continue Reading →How To Talk To Women – Effortlessly.
The secret to being able to talk to women effortlessly is…. Drum roll… More drums…
Talk to them.
That’s it. Walk up there, express yourself openly and freely, and then see what happens.
Not the kind of answer you were hoping for, right? Well, that’s because it’s only part of the answer.
The part you really wanted to hear – the end. In order for this to really make sense…
Continue Reading →Living A Life Of Adventure.
Have you ever felt bored? Trapped? Caged by your life?
Ever caught yourself day dreaming about travelling the world? Finding excitement and adventure in foreign lands?
Well, there is an easier way.
There’s a way you can experience all the excitement, adventure, and the thrill of really living that you’re looking for without leaving the country.
In fact, you don’t even have to…
Continue Reading →Approach Anxiety: Overcome It Today.
I’m going to make this really simple.
I’m not going to go into complex theories and silly pranks to overcome your approach anxiety. Instead, I’m just going to give you the 6 thing that you can use to eliminate approach anxiety forever:
1. You’re not genetically programmed to experience approach anxiety.
Your approach anxiety has nothing to do with your fore fathers being afraid…
Continue Reading →How To Change The World.
I know there are a lot of guys in our little community who want to do more.
I’ve been messaged more than once by guys saying:
“I want to be able to give back, I want to be able to help more people, I want to do something to make this world a better place, but I don’t know how I can.”
So I thought I’d share with you just how you can…
Continue Reading →Never Run Out Of Things To Say.
I’m going to let you in on a little secret.
It’s the secret that allows me to have effortless conversations with just about anybody in my life and never run out of things to say – especially with the women I’m attracted to.
It’s not due to the sheer volume of routines I’ve memorised or the complex word associations game I’ve learned…
Continue Reading →How Much ‘Faking It’ Till You ‘Make It’?
From everything I’m hearing from the Pick Up community, fake-it-till-you-make-it is not only the fastest way to get better with women..
.. but also the best way.
But before you choose to go along that path, consider this.
Apparently, if you just keep faking it for long enough, eventually women wont be able to tell that you’re faking.
Eventually, they’re just going to believe it’s the real you and you can get all the women…
Continue Reading →3 Steps To Taking Control Of Your Life.
If you’re reading this then I’m sure you’re aware that the limited success you’re having with women isn’t driven by your lack of ‘knowledge’ or ‘information’.
I’m sure you’re aware that there’s something internally that’s preventing you from expressing the attractive and powerful guy you have inside you..
..and you’re looking for a way to remove the barriers which prevent him from…
Continue Reading →Overcoming Loneliness 101
Here’s one for all you science nerds out there..
..the scientific formula for overcoming loneliness. Yes, that’s right. I’ve discovered a formula for it.
Want to know what it is? Well, here you go:
C = L x R1 x R2 x N
Pretty straight forward, isn’t it? Oh, you want me to…
Continue Reading →Becoming A Man.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a beautiful woman say:
“There’s just not enough real Men these days”..
..then I wouldn’t be writing this blog post.
I’d be sitting in the Bahamas dictating it to one of my loyal sweat shop workers who would transcribe it, before…
Continue Reading →What Do You REALLY Think About Yourself?
Have you ever heard of confirmation bias?
It’s a psychology term used to describe the way we filter out any information which..
..doesn’t support how we see the world and allow in everything that does.
It’s a pretty nifty little trick that our minds use to make us feel good. And it’s pretty good at it too! But it’s also really good at hiding…
Continue Reading →Is Being Real Just Too Hard?
I realise that being real with people can seem hard.
After all, if you’ve been running the same patterns of hiding who you are and what you stand for, for years and years, it can seem like a lot of work..
Continue Reading →The ONLY Reason You Would Learn Pickup.
I’m going to shoot straight from the hip here.
You may not like what I have to say, in fact, it may even offend you, but in my experience in nearly 4 years (3 and a half of those as a coach) in the community, this is what I’ve seen through every single guy.
Every single one.
There’s only one reason you NEED to learn pick up, and that’s:
Because you’re trying to trick her into liking you.
Continue Reading →Choosing The Ultimate Date Location.
It’s an eternal question.
You’ve met this great girl. You want to take her out on a date. So, what’s a good date location?
Where should you take her?
Well, when picking your date location, there’s something really important that you need to keep in mind.
Continue Reading →What A Woman Really Wants (right from her mouth).
I know the pain that can go with getting out there, meeting new people, and not getting the success you want.
It can be rough.
Be I have to share something with you that will help you see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I’m very lucky to have many incredibly beautiful women in my life.
This morning, I got to spend it with one of the most beautiful. She’s an..
Continue Reading →Inner Game Vs Outer Game: Which One Should You Work On?
The inner game / outer game debate is constantly raging..
..but there’s one thing that is constantly being left out of it.
So to make sure you can make an informed decision about which direction you want to go, I thought I’d ask the questions that need to be asked.
If you walked into a store that sold machines that cut off your balls..
..would whether or not you bought one would be determined by how good the salesman was?
Continue Reading →How Good Is Your Inner Game?
I get a lot of guys asking me how to work out whether they have good or bad inner game..
..so I thought I’d put a little test together.
It’s pretty straight forward – 1 question and a 1 word answer.
Are you ready to find out how well you’re doing? Well. Here it is:
Are you currently experiencing everything you..
Continue Reading →Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you…
Continue Reading →Unconditional Self-Acceptance: Your how-to guide
Contrary to popular belief, developing self acceptance isn’t some kind of technique that you have to internalise or develop..
..it’s actually a by-product of a much deeper mechanism that’s been at play all your life.
We’re all looking for things in our life.
We want stuff, and when we get it we fell good. It’s a no brainer. Think about the car you’ve always wanted. If you got that .. how would you feel?
Or even, think about the girl of your dreams. If you got her, how would…
Continue Reading →How To Attract More Women.
I mean, it’s why you’re here.
Those beautiful creatures, running around the club, laughing, giggling, and shaking those sexy bodies.
So, how do you attract more women?
It’s a good question.
And before you try and answer it, you need to know about the are two different…
Continue Reading →How To Approach A Girl.
I’m going to let you in on one of the best kept secrets in the dating arena.
The highly controversial technique for being able to approach a woman, anywhere, anytime.
It’s quite complicated, but be patient with me because when you master, you’ll be able to approach every woman you see.
So, here goes:
Step 1 – get close enough to her so she can hear you.
Step 2 – say what…
So You Got A Girlfriend .. Can You Keep Her?
I’ve been there more than once in my life…
I find the girl of my dreams.
She’s everything I’ve ever looked for.
We get into a relationship and everything going sweet.
Then it happens. You can feel it in the wind. Things just start to go down. And down. And…
Continue Reading →Number 1 Secret For Attracting Women.
I’m about to let the cat out of the bag.
This is the one secret that’s going to transform your game forever.
It’s the one that’s going to elevate you from where you are, right now, to the level of God-like ability with women.
The dating gurus have been trying to prevent me from letting this out for years but now, they can’t stop me..
Continue Reading →Attracting Women: Do Looks Matter?
This is a pretty common question, both inside and outside the seduction community.
We have eyes and so therefore, we’re visual creatures.
But before I answer this question, I want you to consider the most important factors in this equation:
Why you’re..
Continue Reading →NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To A Woman!
The number one thing that I ALWAYS find, without fail, with guys who’re struggling with conversations..
..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.
All they’re focusing on is..
..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in…
Continue Reading →Definitive Guide To Fixing Your Inner Game.
Alright, so you’ve come to fix this whole ‘women’ thing and you think you need to work on your inner game.
Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?
The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…
..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..
..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game..
Continue Reading →Is Being In Shape Necessary To Attract Women?
I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..
..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…
Continue Reading →Why Learning To Pick Up Women Is A Waste Of Time.
Opening lines, conversation topics, body language secrets..
Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…
Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..
..but they’re actually making you worse with women.
Continue Reading →Attracting Women: Does Your Height Matter?
Of course it does!
Just ask any woman – and almost every single, without fail, will say…
That she wants a lover who’s taller than her.
If you’re short, you’ve got almost no chance. Or so it seems…
Continue Reading →How To REALLY Get A Girlfriend.
This one’s an easy one. No brainer.
Just learn some “techniques” and “seduction theory” – and you’re going to get a girlfriend quickly and easily. Really?
Well, that’s the story the seduction community has been feeding you for years.
But I consider this: If you have to hide…
Continue Reading →Why Your “Game” Is Not Improving As Fast As You’d Like.
Over 30 minutes of video from the exclusive Attraction MasterClass Tour.
Continue Reading →The Definitive “Quick Fix” Guide To Picking Up Women.
I like boobs. A lot. They’re just great.
Who would’ve thought that 5 pounds of fat could be so alluring..
Who would’ve thought you would spend months, if not years, devoted to bringing that 5 pound lump with a nipple on it, back to your place?
You know that we deal primarily with long-term benefits of inner game on this blog…
…but I figured I should also give you a few short-term solutions which you can start using IMMEDIATELY…
Continue Reading →Body Language Secrets Which You Probably Didn’t Know.
There are two very separate elements that go into your body language:
The physical and the mental.
The physical side is the part of your body language that you’ve just trained into yourself over the years.
This can include slumped shoulders, head down, poor eye contact.
The Internet is filled with advice on this kind of stuff, so I’m not going to waste your time with that…
Continue Reading →The Definitive Guide To Build Self Confidence With Women.
“Just be more confident!”
Your mum probably told you about just as many times as your friends did.
And, funnily enough, it’s one of the few pieces of information that has transcended the community from the general population.
But unless you’re very careful, developing confidence can be…
Continue Reading →9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS.
1. Find the CORE ISSUE which is causing you to get nervous around girls.
Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.
For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching her…
Continue Reading →Have You Ever Been Rejected By A Woman?
This one’s a bit of a weird post for me to write.
Mainly because rejection is something that I don’t believe in.
But a lot of guys are asking me about it, so I thought I’d share my thoughts on this big ‘rejection’ thing.
Firstly, I dislike the word “rejection” because…
Continue Reading →Picking Up Women: A Fresh Look At Outcome Dependency.
They say that being outcome dependent is bad for picking up women.
Which makes sense.
If you’re in a busy bar, and you’re trying to LOOK LIKE you’re having fun, and yet you’re only there to pick up a woman…
Continue Reading →Which Seduction Method Is Right For You?
I’m going to be honest with you here:
I have no idea how many different seduction methods there are out there.
If I was to take a conservative guess, I’d say maybe 100 or 200 … who knows?
It’s safe to say that there are many seduction methods … and I’m sure that every one works, at least for the guy who made it.
Otherwise he wouldn’t be…
Continue Reading →PUA Scam: What the Pick Up Artist Guru’s Don’t Want You To Know
You Can Have DYNASTIES Of Women Lining Up To Approach You…
Being Drawn By Your UNSTOPPABLE Pulling Power…
And FIGHTING Between Themselves To Have A Chance With You…
And Pleading You To Take Them Home And NAIL Them.
Calling A Woman: When To Call Her?
It’s the age old question… How soon is too soon to call a woman?
The next day? 3 days? 5 days?
A week?
You don’t want to scare the woman away by calling to early. But then again, you still want her to know…
Continue Reading →Should You Learn To “Game” Women?
Well, of course you should.
There are definitely things that you need to learn in order to attract women.
And without them, you’re never going to get the success you’re looking for. EVER.
You’re going to relegated to her “let’s just be friends” zone…
Continue Reading →Success With Women: It’s Just One Step Away.
You probably think that you have a whole bunch of issues…
…Which are preventing you from experiencing success with women. For example:
- approaching women
- flirting with women
- dealing with shit tests
- running out of things to say, and the rest…
Good news is – your situation isn’t…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Learn Mystery Method.
And try RSD.
And some natural game at Pickup101.
Please subscribe to their newsletters, read their blogs, even try their products.
You owe it to yourself…
Continue Reading →The Ugly Truth About SARGING.
I’m sure it seemed like the answer to your dreams:
A community full of guys who could teach you how to attract the women you wanted.
And not only that, but also how to get the happiness you wanted.
Those HB9′s and HB10′s who so elusively strut around the club. Finally, you’d…
Continue Reading →AMOGing 101 – How To AMOG.
It was an arse that defied the very laws of nature from which it was created.
It was perfection, in denim shorts.
It was conclusive proof that God is indeed a Man and that yes, he loves us :-)
So, it’s time to…
Continue Reading →LoGun Is Getting Emotional.
I wanted to slap him.
I wanted to snap at him with something like..
“Quit your whinging, grab your life by the balls and WAKE UP TO YOURSELF, MAN!”
But I don’t think that would’ve achieved anything close to what I wanted to achieve.
I went on a little road trip around Australia a little while ago and it was a very…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Be Externally Validated.
I have a secret to tell you-
I like external validation. It feels really good.
And not just a little bit good, but a lot.
I know there’s a lot of community “gurus” telling you that you shouldn’t be externally validated, but I completely disagree – and let me show you why…
Continue Reading →Can The Real Alpha Male Please Stand Up?
The seduction community has been telling you to ‘be more Alpha’ for a long time.
They told you that by following their rules, you’ll become Alpha.
But before you more of your time reading ‘must have’, top secret…
Continue Reading →Meeting Women On The Beach – Efffortless Game.
Long tanned legs? Check.
The tiniest black shorts you’ve ever seen? Check.
Beautiful dark hair? Check. We could have a winner here… But I wonder what she looks like from the front..
Check :-) I didn’t head out with a plan of meeting women…
Continue Reading →How To NEVER Be EMBARRASSED Again.
I was chilling with one of my mates the other day and he said something that really took me by surprise:
“Damn, you do some embarrassing shit!”
Apparently it’s embarrassing to approach a stunning little brunette with green eyes and curves that are out of this world who’s eating lunch with her family.
Who knew???
Well, to be perfectly honest, the old me…
Continue Reading →Why You Will Never FIX Your INNER GAME.
If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to fix your inner game.
Many people think that fixing their inner game is a bit like getting a seduction ‘superweapon’…
Which will give them the ability to attract women everywhere they go.
But there’s something I need to tell you. Here it…
Continue Reading →You Approach A Woman & She Acts Bitchy. Why?
I’ve been hearing that all women in Sydney are bitches for a long time.
Last Saturday night got a first hand look at just how ‘bitchy’ these women are.
“She’s just a bitch, mate. I went over to her and she was just rude. Who does she think she is?? …
Continue Reading →How To Seduce Any Woman – And Why You Shouldn’t.
I see so many beautiful women throughout my day.
Some blondes, some brunettes. I love them all. I used to want to be able to seduce all of them, too.
Every single one. And I tried.
So, so hard … sometime successfully. Sometimes not. And then I realised just how this impacted my…
Continue Reading →Want To Be A Better Seducer? Forget Seduction!
There are so many pickup schools out there these days.
And despite their different titles, flashy logo’s, and high budget marketing, they’re all actually teaching you the same thing.
Yes, yes, they all have different methods, seduction “secrets” and dating tips.
But the heart of everything they teach is the same: how to *ACT* as if you didn’t…
Continue Reading →Fear Of Rejection – Cure Fear Of Rejection For Good.
ear of rejection is a very real issue.
Every guy I’ve ever coached have suffered from this in some way. I suffered from it.
And I tried countless techniques to deal…
Continue Reading →“Hard-Hitting” Inner Game Interview, Part 1.
Here is Part 1 of the unexpected interview we did with Sean from Get Hitched a few days ago:
1. Totally Staged Opening Scene + “How To Become The Man Of Her Dreams”.
Continue Reading →Why You Should Just Be “Yourself” Around Women.
Just be yourself..
Because you are perfect, you are amazing, you are incredible, you are everything a woman could ever desire in a Man.
All you have to do is let go of the barriers that are holding you back from showing..
Continue Reading →Are You Living Your Purpose?
You could die, right now.
This very moment could be your last. If not this one, it could be the next, or the one right after.
Your heart could give out, or a truck could come careering through your front wall, or a massive…
Continue Reading →Quick Trick For Getting Into State PERMANENTLY.
On Getting Into State..
Every day of your life, things are going to happen that make you feel good and things are going to happen that make you feel bad.
Shit just…
Continue Reading →How To Get Into State In 10 Seconds.
Meditation is an extremely powerful tool in helping you ‘get into state’.
It helps clear away all the junk and creates a silence (setting you free from your own mental ‘chatter’ in…
Continue Reading →Best Piece Of Advice I’ve Ever Received.
There’s a lot of advice available to you and I in the dating community: some of it is from spiritual backgrounds, some pick-up related, and other stuff comes from self-help community.
There are theories that align. Others will point you in opposite directions. And there are others that just plain contradict each other! So which way do you go?
Continue Reading →If You Were Going To Die In 6 Months..
I had a really strange dream last night where my sister was going to die in 6 months and it got me thinking..
How I would change and what I would do if I was going to die in 6 months.
So, my question to…
Continue Reading →What Makes A Healthy Relationship?
I thought you guys might enjoy this quote:
The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is…
Continue Reading →David Deida Exposed: The Way Of The Superior Sham
David Deida is a sham. There. I said it. A sham.
Don’t get me wrong, I have a deep admiration for his work. It changed my life, he changed my life. But, in saying that, there’s a deeply ingrained flaw in his teaching that contradicts the core essence of his work. I’m going to expose that contradiction to you now.
I purchased David Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man nearly…
Continue Reading →‘Dirty’ Secrets Of Alpha Males Exposed.
Have you ever met one of those men who just seem to effortlessly radiate energy?
True alpha males. Men with presence. Men who ooze confidence, rather than just act confidently…
Continue Reading →Why I Don’t Believe In Dating Rules.
There are 3 reasons why I don’t believe in dating rules, and they are:
1) Every rule that has ever been made has been bent, manipulated, and then broken. Every dating rule.
“Don’t show interest before she has, don’t…
Continue Reading →How To Flirt With Women.
There are a couple of techniques you can use (which work MUCH better when you have a foundation of inner game under your belt) to flirt with women.
If you’ve ever been talking to a woman and felt the conversation fizzling out, this is for you…
Continue Reading →Shit Tests: Why You Fail Her Shit Tests.
There seems to be a bit of confusion in the dating community about so-called ‘shit tests’.
..So let me give you some thoughts on how you can ‘pass’ them.
Hopefully by the time you finish reading this, you’ll be able to…
Continue Reading →Natural Game made EFFORTLESS
The essense of natural game is being able to flow without using routines, yet still get you success with women that you’re looking for.
The million dollar question that no-one is answering is…
Continue Reading →Why Bother With Inner Game?
I had a lot of guy ask me recently, “Why should I bother with inner game?”
So, I thought I’d share the answer with you guys here.
The success with women you achieve is, as far as you can control it, determined by…
Continue Reading →Number 1 Thing That Women Desperately Want.
Everyone wants more pleasure. Some people try and pretend they don’t, but they’re getting secret pleasure from that denial.
Everyone wants more..
Continue Reading →I’m Not Attractive. WTF??
I’m not an attractive guy. I’m not cool, I’m not suave, I’m not fun, I’m not exciting, and I’m definitely not…
Continue Reading →Most Skillful Man Who Ever Lived…
I’m very fortunate in that through my work, I get to meet some incredible people.
Some are more aware of their skills than others and today, I’ve had the pleasure of interacting with the most skillful Man who ever lived..
Continue Reading →Developing An Abundance Mentality.
Having the mentality that the world is abundantly full of the things you desire is an incredibly empowering way to make yourself more attractive…
Continue Reading →Can You Seduce A Woman In 7 Seconds?
A new girl just started to work in my bar.
She happens to be very cute (JimmyMac can back me up on this one), and I’ve been chatting to her quite…
Continue Reading →David Deida vs Pickup Artists CONTROVERSY.
This is a short live recording of the Man, David Deida talking to a group of aspiring pickup artists. He discusses PUA philosophy and gives his…
Continue Reading →Are You Being ‘Needy’ Around Women?
This concept of ‘being needy’ around women is one thing that’s thrown around the community fairly regularly.
I’m pretty sure that we all know the benefits of not being needy around women – but how do you actually do it?
Continue Reading →Quick Tip To Help You Attract Women Faster.
What’s one of the ‘secrets’ to improving at a rapid pace, and avoiding growth plateaus?
Go out. Approach women. Flirt with…
Continue Reading →Never Run Out Of Things To Say (To A Woman).
I used to run out of thing to say, all the time. It used to kill me.
I’d do OK with the girls I wasn’t that interested in, but as soon as you put me in front of a woman who I REALLY wanted…
Continue Reading →Fuck Inner Game.
Yeah, that’s right. Fuck it. It’s all bullshit anyway.
You don’t NEED it, heaps of people are fucking hot chicks, right now, without ever hearing of inner game so why should you bother?
Continue Reading →Fast-Track Your Progress To Success With Women.
Many of those ‘gurus’ out there are going to get angry with me for telling you this.
It’s the dirty little secret that they don’t want you to know…
Continue Reading →How To Become An Alpha Male: 4 steps you need to know
Have you ever wondered why it is that alpha males seem to attract women very easily?
And those who are not alpha males always feel like attracting women us an uphill struggle?
And why is it that other men (who are not as alpha) seem to like alpha males, accept them, and follow their lead?
So what if I told you that you could become one of those alpha male…
Continue Reading →Why following seduction community dogma will only take you so far. And what can you do before it’s too late.
Continue Reading →Advanced Frame Control: 3 Simple Steps
Want to know the secret to Frame Control?
I’m not talking some kind of half arse, incomplete piece of marketing hype little secrets here, it’s the real deal.
Continue Reading →Just Got Blown Out From A Set? Read This.
Getting blown out sucks.
I remember when I first started out in this ‘getting better with women’ stuff I used to get blown out A LOT.
When I say A LOT I mean enough to make…
Why You Experience Approach Anxiety.
Here is why you experience the good-ol’ approach anxiety:
(And no, it’s not one of those ‘evolutionary psychology’ explanations. Rather, something that helps you get rid of it, right now).
Continue Reading →Why Direct Game Isn’t Working For You.
Direct game has become the new buzz word in the seduction community.
Everyone is saying ‘foret lines, forget routines. Just be direct!’ And you know what? I couldn’t agree more. What they’re not telling you, though, is…
Why “Sarging” Is Not Helping You Attract Women
For starters, I’ve never liked the word ‘sarging’. It conjures up all these images of creepy, seedy, old men trying to hypnotise women into GO DOWN ON ME INNER GAME PENIS EXTENSION (did that work?) sleeping with them. A lot of guys use the word to feel part of the group so they can become [...]
Continue Reading →Stop Screwing Up How You Approach Women.
I see this girl, and not just any girl. THE girl. I really want to talk to her but she’s with friends / talking to another guy / people are watching / she might reject me /any number of excuses. What do I do? If you’ve ever asked been in this situation, you need to [...]
Continue Reading →Enough Approach Anxiety.
I used to have approach anxiety. BAD. It used to hold me back in many areas of my life. I’d searched for answer in lines, routines, and techniques, but it never really helped. Then I learnt something that removed it from my life and I was never held back again. In order to get rid [...]
Continue Reading →What They Don’t Tell You About Your Inner Game (VIDEO).
This footage was recorded during an exclusive inner game seminar we ran recently in Sydney.. And no money in the world would get you admission into that room. The seminar’s purpose was to sharpen up the skills of a small group of senior seduction community members whom we hand-picked to become student field instructors. And [...]
Continue Reading →How NOT To Build Your Inner Game Foundations.
I have a secret to tell you. I don’t know how you’re going to take this but it needs to be said: You are not attractive. But, on top of this, you’re also not interesting, fun, or exciting. I know this must sound like I’m just being an arsehole but I’m not. I’m actually pointing [...]
Continue Reading →Get Women To Like You.
Getting her to like you is a waste of time.
Sure she’s beautiful, and I bet you’ve never met anyone else like her before either, but trying to get her to like you isn’t going to help you get what you…
Continue Reading →Top 3 Tricks To Destroy Approach Anxiety.
Approach anxiety is simply a set of thoughts that run through your head. Here’s the top three things you can use to defeat your approach anxiety. But, as a special bonus, I’m also going to give you the 1 ‘secret weapon’! Woo. Trick 1: Talk To Everyone. The thoughts in you head tell you that [...]
Continue Reading →Why Inner Game?
Inner game has every answer you’ve been searching for. Big statement, I know. There’s so many gurus out there telling you need their outer game techniques. And their methods, their routines, their ‘secrets of seduction’. Well, I’m about to show you just how wrong they are. I’m not going to waste your time with in [...]
Continue Reading →Your Dating Guru Lied To You.
Don’t blame him, he didn’t mean to.
He just didn’t know any better. I’m sure he had your best intentions in mind but he just wasn’t really attuned to what was going on.
And I know that what I’m saying here is controversial, but let me show…
The Secret To Ultimate Inner Game..
If you want to work out just how much your inner game is holding you back, picture this:
You step into the bar. Flashing lights, thumping music, ladies dancing and guys…
Top 3 Daygame Myths Destroyed.
I’ve coached hundreds of guys in my journey and one of the most common statements I hear is:
- ‘I don’t want to have to wait till I go out to a bar to meet women’
I usually say in return…
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