Benefits Of Being In Your Body.

by Jonathon on January 13, 2010 · No Comments

I love women.

The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell, the way they carry themselves through the world…

…the way they shut down, and the way they open up.

All of it.

Most of all, I love the way they make me feel.

But this is something that hasn’t always been available to me.

For the longest time, instead of being aware of the wonderful feelings that were being awoken in me, I was concentrating on other things…

Things like, how I needed to approach women. How I needed to act around them. What I needed to say, and how I would introduce my wing and so on, and so on.

Now I couldn’t give a shit about any of that.

Mostly because those things are so miniscule in its importance compared to what I’m feeling in my body when SHE walks past.

I could be in zombie-autopilot mode, going about my day unconsciously, fantasizing about how good life will be when such and such happens…

…and then SHE walks past and lights a fire in my belly, and I can’t help but come back to the present.

These feelings are the very reason I love to be alive, and that is her gift.

But can you be with it?

Or is it so powerful that you need to lose yourself in fantasy again, thinking about every inch of her naked body as she drapes herself over yours after hours of ecstasy?

It’s a nice image, but it’s not real, and it’s taking you away from the very feelings that spurred that fantasy in the first place.

Breathe her in, appreciate her, respect her, and bring that new energy (which she has gifted you with) to her, and offer it as your gift.

But most importantly, be with her, not lost in some fantasy world, or caught up in your head thinking of the right thing to say.

Stay in your body, feel your attraction fully, and bring that to the table when you go over and find out all about her.

You may not even exchange words – I LOVE it when that happens :)

Jonathon