Best Piece Of Advice I’ve Ever Received.

by Leigh (LoGun) on August 8, 2009 · No Comments

best piece of dating advice There’s a lot of advice available to you and I in the dating community: some of it is from spiritual backgrounds. Some of it is pick-up related, and other stuff comes from self-help community.

There are theories that align. Others will point you in opposite directions. And there are others that just plain contradict each other! So which way do you go?

Well, there’s one piece of advice that I focus on every day.

It came from Steven and is about the only positive thing he’s contributed to this dating community (apart from cow herpes).

Every time I have to make a decision and direct my life in the way that I want it to go, I bring this to the front of my mind:

‘Be principle centered, not validation centered’.

It can have any meaning you want it to but for me, it means that I should disregard any thoughts about what will people think about the decision that I’m making and focus on what I know to be right and what I desire.

It’s not always the easiest choice, but the decision I have to make becomes very clear: follow my heart.

If you follow your heart and don’t recieve the results you desired then at least you’ll be able to learn and grow through the experience.

If you follow your perceptions of someone else’s standards, the only thing you’ll gain is more confusion and self doubt.

Following this advice will often result in you challenging your fears. And your fears are your friend. You know you have reached your edge when you feel the fear and you know you are just about to grow as a Man.

This is one thing that I still focus on every single day of my life and I plan to focus on it for every single day that I exist.

LoGun