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Impressing women is a profoundly simple thing to do. It doesn’t require complex scripts, intricate methods, or advanced tactics. All that’s required to impress a woman is some basic logic and self awareness. First of all though, you need to clarify exactly what kind of woman you want to impress, because different kinds of women [...]

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Bulletproofing Interactions With Women Want to know how to feel more relaxed, confident, and fun when talking to women? I know I did. I’ve struggled my entire life to just relax around women.  I’m an intense guy. These struggles only grew worse when I began desiring women who were looking for fun and excitement in [...]

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You’re here because you want to be naturally attractive to women. I get it. You want to live your life, on your terms, doing what you want, and have the women you desire be attracted to you for it. That’s great. It’s why I’m here as well. I also get that you don’t want to [...]

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Getting in touch with what you really desire is one of the core elements of… …becoming naturally attractive to women. After all, if you don’t know what you want, then you can’t experience it. And if you can’t experience it without her, then you’re always going to be needy and dependent on her to give [...]

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“How do I find my purpose / gifts?” is a question that pops up frequently on the Attraction Institute Forum. If you’re one of those people who’s searching for that deeper and more meaningful part of himself, then here’s a great article on it from www.psychologytoday.com on how to find your deepest gifts. ———— How [...]

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Testosterone is that awesome little chemical that helps you feel like a Man. It controls sex drive and aggression and is key to pushing forward with your life rather than wasting it sitting on a couch. There’s quite a few guys on the forum who are quitting masturbating and all kinds of fun things to [...]

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“What are you going to do about it?” The world is never going to give you what you want. You’re never going to wake up and one day everything is going to be perfect. The quality of your life isn’t determined by how perfect the world is, it’s determined by how you respond when it [...]

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It’s time for a bit of a Q&A. —————- Hi LoGun, I regularly read your posts and want to ask you for a favour. Can you write something about STATUS? What I mean is we’re taught by the PUA community that everything is about status and that it determines your value in the society. I [...]

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I know it can seem like the world is against you. I know it can seem like everyone has it easier than you. But did you have to sleep in the same bed as your grandma till you were 15? Did you have to sleep in the same room as your Grandma till you were [...]

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This is an amazing video that looks at the link between vulnerability and happiness. If you’ve ever wondered whether being vulnerable was going to do anything for you then you should definitely check this out. Oh, and just to give you some context, this is the most watched TED talk ever. L.

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I witnessed one of the most beautiful and simple ‘pickups’ I’ve ever seen yesterday. It was beautiful because the Man felt strong and in control of his world… …and the woman left smiling and feeling like the most beautiful woman on earth. It was simple because there was no techniques, no routines, no structures, just [...]

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This is one of the best posts I’ve ever read on sex. It’s written by a Woman, to Men, trying to help them understand sex from a woman’s perspective and what she’s looking for. Enjoy. ———– Dear Men of Craigslist, Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, [...]

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I went to a party last night. I know… CRAZY!!! This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but it actually was for me. I don’t really go out much any more. I used to go out a lot! Steven and I would be out 3 or 4 times a week. We’d [...]

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This is the next installment of the ‘Thought of the day’ series. These are little quotes, sayings, and (mostly) questions that I ask myself to keep me moving towards the life I want to create. Today’s is one of my favourites: Who is the Man of your dreams? This question isn’t about finding some dude [...]

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If you haven’t watched Californication, you need to. What a great show. Except for the current season. I don’t know if they got new writers or if they just ran out of ideas but it’s really gone down hill… Anyway, you’re not reading this to find out what I think of Californicaiton, you’re reading this [...]

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I know there are a lot of guys who read this blog who want to start something big. They want to make a difference to the world and are looking for a way to do it. Here’s a short video that explains just how to start a movement. Enjoy.

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The quality of your life isn’t determined by what you have or what you go through, it’s determined by what you choose to do with it. This guy is an AMAZING example of that. He was born without arms or legs and he’s one of the happiest and most powerful people I’ve seen in a [...]

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This is a great clip from Arnold Schwarzenegger talking about what it takes to be a champion. Really inspirational stuff. It’s easy to see how he became so successful in so many different areas of his life. Enjoy. How do you think your life would change if you started looking at your life like this?

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Want to know how to be happy with yourself? Here’s my Number 1 way of doing it:

Step Outside Your Comfort Zone.

You feel most alive when you are doing something which gets your pulse going, don’t you? But you don’t need to go skydiving to do that. Want to feel alive today? Want to know how to be happy with yourself?

Go tell that attractive woman who you see in the bar exactly what you feel…

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Here are some pitfalls to avoid when choosing a confidence course:

3. Be wary of NLP.

I’m not saying NLP doesn’t work. It may help you to produce some results – but its a poor choice for a confidence course if you want to expand, grow and realise your full potential as a Man.

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I’m astounded by the number of supposed Alpha Male Characteristics that you’re supposed to learn in order to be an Alpha Male.

It seems like self-help guru’s sat around for years just observing people who they thought were Alpha Males and wrote down EVERYTHING they did.

They came up with a list of alpha male characteristics which just baffles my brain:

Stand up straight
Take up space
Talk loudly…

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There’s a secret you haven’t been told about the psychology of attracting women.

It’s got nothing to do with magic sprays or hypnosis but it’s something you’re going to need to know if you’re going to have incredible relationships with amazing women…

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Becoming A Man.

August 23, 2010 by

If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a beautiful woman say:

“There’s just not enough real Men these days”..

..then I wouldn’t be writing this blog post.

I’d be sitting in the Bahamas dictating it to one of my loyal sweat shop workers who would transcribe it, before…

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If you want to increase your presence in the world..

..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..

..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:

Feel the world..

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I’ve had the wonderful fortune of being involved in a Men’s Group coming into the New Year.

Since I had no idea what was involved in a Men’s Group before I was invited, I’m guessing you don’t have much of an idea either…

…so allow me to share my experience of…

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It was an arse that defied the very laws of nature from which it was created.

It was perfection, in denim shorts.

It was conclusive proof that God is indeed a Man and that yes, he loves us :-)

So, it’s time to…

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The seduction community has been telling you to ‘be more Alpha’ for a long time.

They told you that by following their rules, you’ll become Alpha.

But before you more of your time reading ‘must have’, top secret…

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I’m running with a bit of a David Deida theme this week….

Since his work has been such an inspiration, and great teaching.

I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve noticed within many men throughout this community -

The pursuing of this trait we call alpha male, or masculine.

In the words of David Deida…

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I’m going to take a wild punt and guess that you were not a born trust fund baby.

Which means just like me, you probably spend a big chunk of your daily life at work. Earning cash.

When I’m not doing AI stuff, I work in a bar, and I see many of my customers just…

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How To Become A Leader.

August 20, 2009 by

First, let me ask you – are you a master of reality, or a product of reality?

One moves effortlessly through the world, and the other is tormented by it.

One dates the women he desires. The other chips away at approach…

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OK, nice – I’m finally inside.

Mental note to self – I’m in this bar to have a good time, not pick up women. Especially not to run “game” to pick up women.

That routine-based PUA shit…

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I’ve noticed that a lot of guys are concerned with being AMOGGED, and spend a considerable amount of time learning AMOG techniques.

There are some funny ones I’ve come across, which I can’t wait to use on LoGun, e.g -

“Hey man, you don’t have to try so…

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David Deida is a sham. There. I said it. A sham.

Don’t get me wrong, I have a deep admiration for his work. It changed my life, he changed my life. But, in saying that, there’s a deeply ingrained flaw in his teaching that contradicts the core essence of his work. I’m going to expose that contradiction to you now.

I purchased David Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man nearly…

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Have you ever met one of those men who just seem to effortlessly radiate energy?

True alpha males. Men with presence. Men who ooze confidence, rather than just act confidently…

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I’m very fortunate in that through my work, I get to meet some incredible people.

Some are more aware of their skills than others and today, I’ve had the pleasure of interacting with the most skillful Man who ever lived..

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Have you ever wondered why it is that alpha males seem to attract women very easily?

And those who are not alpha males always feel like attracting women us an uphill struggle?

And why is it that other men (who are not as alpha) seem to like alpha males, accept them, and follow their lead?

So what if I told you that you could become one of those alpha male…

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I’m curious ..

What drove you to the seduction community?

- Did you want to have a cute ‘girl next door’ girlfriend?

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