All Entries in the "Better Men" Category
Overcoming Loneliness 101
Here’s one for all you science nerds out there..
..the scientific formula for overcoming loneliness. Yes, that’s right. I’ve discovered a formula for it.
Want to know what it is? Well, here you go:
C = L x R1 x R2 x N
Pretty straight forward, isn’t it? Oh, you want me to…
Becoming A Man.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a beautiful woman say:
“There’s just not enough real Men these days”..
..then I wouldn’t be writing this blog post.
I’d be sitting in the Bahamas dictating it to one of my loyal sweat shop workers who would transcribe it, before…
Are You Living TOO Comfortably?
“How are you?”
“I’m Good.”
Such a standard greeting and such a token, throwaway answer. I bet you said it yourself – at least twice today.
But what’s behind “I’m good”? Well, let’s try this on:
When you say “I’m good”, is it fair to say that most of the time what you’re really saying is..
Is Being Real Just Too Hard?
I realise that being real with people can seem hard.
After all, if you’ve been running the same patterns of hiding who you are and what you stand for, for years and years, it can seem like a lot of work..
Simple Strategies For An Effective Life.
I haven’t written here – in a long time!
Why not? Well, that’s easy.
Somewhere between launching Endgame with Leigh, making headway at my new dayjob..
..and starting a new project with Leigh which will empower…
How To Lose A Great Job .. And Find A Better One.
A couple of weeks ago I’ve blogged about about getting great jobs.
Point of that story was to show how I went from surviving at work (and often getting fired) to getting a job I really wanted – and loving it.
The access to that was to begin craving challenge in my job. I wanted to get a job which I was…
If You Want To Change The World .. Love A Woman.
This poem will show why depth of connection prevails over number of marks on your bedpost:
Seeking Out Discomfort.
Going out of your way to find uncomfortable situations isn’t natural, but it’s essential…
At work, we spend hours (and millions of dollars seeking a place we can defend, a market position and sinecure we can feel safe in…
How To Get A Great Job .. And Other Stuff.
If you’ve met me in person, or if you read this blog often, then you probably know that I have worked as a bartender for the past 5 years.
Heck, I remember serving a drink or six to many loyal AI subscribers and customers over the years. It’s been great.
But all that has recently come to an abrupt end..
A Life Worth Risking.
It’s commonly known that Apple was started by two Steves: Jobs and Wozniak.
But did you know that Apple had a little-known third founder?
Third guy left the partnership two weeks after Apple was incorporated, selling his 10% share for less than a grand – a share which would be worth billions today.
He cited “too much risk” as the reason for leaving.
Some people say he is foolish, and describe his decision as the worst investment decision in history.
They miss one vital point…
Are You “Good Enough” To Be On TV?
I’ve recently blogged about how the movie characters we love represent the outcomes we seek.
In a nutshell, I was saying that the TV and movie characters you get most addicted to possess the qualities that you want to possess.
For example Hank Moody from Californication is addictive because…
Why Feeling Shit Is A Good Thing.
I am searching.
I am purpose-less.
I am empty.
I am unsatisfied..
These are just some of the feelings I experienced yesterday.
My immediate reaction was to suppress them. To ignore…
Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you…
Watching Movies Will Help You Attract Women?
I was in a video shop the other day, renting The Thomas Crown Affair.
And then I had this little epiphany.
Why was I choosing THIS movie?
I’ve seen it a billion times already ..
I can quote from it freely, and it’s not like the plot is going to reveal any new surprises for me when I watch it this time.
And yet here I was, about to..
Read This If You Have Female Friends.
When I was going through my Mr Nice Guy Who Women Just Want To Be Friends With (TM) phase…
..I befriended lots of women.
They weren’t honest friendships – I harboured “secret crushes” on most of them, and secretly hoped that once they realise how great and stable and smart I am..
Do RICH MEN Attract WOMEN?
I keep hearing this a lot: women are apparently attracted to rich men.
A chap even emailed me a few weeks ago, saying that he has tried every dating product under the sun and it hasn’t worked for him.
His conclusion: women are only attracted to rich (and tall, according to him), men. And no amount of dating advice was going to change that universal law…
How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Attract Women With A Single Pump.
Steven here with a quick update on our April Fool’s gag.
(In case you haven’t heard, we’ve started a rumour on PUA and seduction forums that a new NASAL SPRAY is about to arrive..
..which instantly fixes your inner game and makes women…
Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Do Women Trust You?
I’ve heard a saying that a woman will not sleep with a man unless she trusts him on some level.
I’ve seen many men attempt to manufacture this trust.
I’ve seen many companies created purely to create products that would teach men how to manufacture this trust.
But it all starts with one person: you. How well do you trust…
The #1 Deadliest Mistake Men Make.
You are going to die.
When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?
Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?
Will you be concerned about what people thought of…
NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To A Woman!
The number one thing that I ALWAYS find, without fail, with guys who’re struggling with conversations..
..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.
All they’re focusing on is..
..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in…
The Way Of Transformation.
Here’s a quote I just came across. What does it mean to YOU?
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“The man who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to…
Is Being In Shape Necessary To Attract Women?
I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..
..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…
Why Learning To Pick Up Women Is A Waste Of Time.
Opening lines, conversation topics, body language secrets..
Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…
Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..
..but they’re actually making you worse with women.
Inner Game 101 (FREE PODCAST).
- Have you ever seen a girl in the street, but don’t approach because you think it will be embarrassing if someone sees you get rejected?
- Have you ever taken a girl on a date, walked her home, got a kiss on the cheek and never saw her again?
- Are you free and unrestrained around girls who you’re not that into, but crumble as soon as you see a hottie?
- Do you want to have relationships with multiple…
How To REALLY Get A Girlfriend.
This one’s an easy one. No brainer.
Just learn some “techniques” and “seduction theory” – and you’re going to get a girlfriend quickly and easily. Really?
Well, that’s the story the seduction community has been feeding you for years.
But I consider this: If you have to hide…
Are You Acting Too Keen Around Women?
“As soon as she knows she’s got you, she will not want you any more.”
I remember reading this piece of dating advice last time I was in a relationship, and choosing to live by it.
I feared that if I acted “too keen” and became “too nice” to my girlfriend at the time, then attraction would somehow dissolve…
…And she would leave me.
Body Language Secrets Which You Probably Didn’t Know.
There are two very separate elements that go into your body language:
The physical and the mental.
The physical side is the part of your body language that you’ve just trained into yourself over the years.
This can include slumped shoulders, head down, poor eye contact.
The Internet is filled with advice on this kind of stuff, so I’m not going to waste your time with that…
Can She Meet You? Can You Meet Her?
Over the past year I’ve had the fortune of meeting many different women…
Learned from my many mistakes, and undertaken many personal practices that have helped develop my path.
One thing I’ve noticed that sits with me today that was definitely missing a year ago is a certain intensity in my gaze.
With this new development, however, has come an interesting…