All Entries in the "Inner Game" Category
On Seeking Validation.
A little earlier I was sitting in a busy cafe behind my laptop..
..when I noticed something odd about myself.
When I opened up a tab with the latest edition of Harvard Business Review, I also became very aware if someone in the vicinity saw what I was reading, they’d be impressed.
And I noticed myself relax and become present. It’s like there was more of me to take…
What Do You REALLY Think About Yourself?
Have you ever heard of confirmation bias?
It’s a psychology term used to describe the way we filter out any information which..
..doesn’t support how we see the world and allow in everything that does.
It’s a pretty nifty little trick that our minds use to make us feel good. And it’s pretty good at it too! But it’s also really good at hiding…
Is There ANYONE Out There?
You know a bunch of people. Some of them you like, others you don’t really like.
Some are nice. Some are angry. Some are annoying. Some are good. Some are bad. And so on…
If you don’t like some people, you tend to move away from them.
And if you like them, you tend to keep them…
How To Get A Great Job .. And Other Stuff.
If you’ve met me in person, or if you read this blog often, then you probably know that I have worked as a bartender for the past 5 years.
Heck, I remember serving a drink or six to many loyal AI subscribers and customers over the years. It’s been great.
But all that has recently come to an abrupt end..
Inner Game Vs Outer Game: Which One Should You Work On?
The inner game / outer game debate is constantly raging..
..but there’s one thing that is constantly being left out of it.
So to make sure you can make an informed decision about which direction you want to go, I thought I’d ask the questions that need to be asked.
If you walked into a store that sold machines that cut off your balls..
..would whether or not you bought one would be determined by how good the salesman was?
How Good Is Your Inner Game?
I get a lot of guys asking me how to work out whether they have good or bad inner game..
..so I thought I’d put a little test together.
It’s pretty straight forward – 1 question and a 1 word answer.
Are you ready to find out how well you’re doing? Well. Here it is:
Are you currently experiencing everything you..
Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you…
How To Develop Unconditional Self-Acceptance.
Contrary to popular belief, developing self acceptance isn’t some kind of technique that you have to internalise or develop..
..it’s actually a by-product of a much deeper mechanism that’s been at play all your life.
We’re all looking for things in our life.
We want stuff, and when we get it we fell good. It’s a no brainer. Think about the car you’ve always wanted. If you got that .. how would you feel?
Or even, think about the girl of your dreams. If you got her, how would…
How To Attract More Women.
I mean, it’s why you’re here.
Those beautiful creatures, running around the club, laughing, giggling, and shaking those sexy bodies.
So, how do you attract more women?
It’s a good question.
And before you try and answer it, you need to know about the are two different…
Stripping Away Your Inner Crap 101.
You are a unique manifestation of God.
And when I say “God”, I’m not talking about the God who typically comes to mind in a traditional Biblical context.
Thus, I’m not talking about a Creator, or a Trinity, or an omnipresent spirit being..
.. who metes out punishment, forgives sin and answers prayers.
Although you’re free to believe in that, if you…
How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Number 1 Secret For Attracting Women.
I’m about to let the cat out of the bag.
This is the one secret that’s going to transform your game forever.
It’s the one that’s going to elevate you from where you are, right now, to the level of God-like ability with women.
The dating gurus have been trying to prevent me from letting this out for years but now, they can’t stop me..
“How Do I Attract A GIRL?” The Brutal Answer.
Lots of guys write in to me and ask:
“How do I attract a girl?”
If that question is at the forefront of your mind, then you’re making it unnecessary difficult for yourself to attract the said girl.
Why?
Because you’re looking for answers in the wrong..
Beginners Guide To Purposeful Living.
Sometimes it can be very easy to lose yourself in the distraction of the world..
Your daily duties and obligations, and your social commitments.
Sometimes it’s very easy to forget who you are.
So how well do you know yourself? Are you conscious of each decision you…
Definitive Guide To Fixing Your Inner Game.
Alright, so you’ve come to fix this whole ‘women’ thing and you think you need to work on your inner game.
Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?
The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…
..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..
..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game..
Is Being In Shape Necessary To Attract Women?
I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..
..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…
Why Learning To Pick Up Women Is A Waste Of Time.
Opening lines, conversation topics, body language secrets..
Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…
Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..
..but they’re actually making you worse with women.
Inner Game 101 (FREE PODCAST).
- Have you ever seen a girl in the street, but don’t approach because you think it will be embarrassing if someone sees you get rejected?
- Have you ever taken a girl on a date, walked her home, got a kiss on the cheek and never saw her again?
- Are you free and unrestrained around girls who you’re not that into, but crumble as soon as you see a hottie?
- Do you want to have relationships with multiple…
How To Pick Up Women – Made Easy.
What is it that makes “picking up women” hard?
Is it really that hard go pick up women? Or do we just make it out to ourselves that it is?
After the dating gurus promised to turn pickup into…
Approaching Women: Advanced Tips.
When you approach a woman…
How meaningful do you want your interactions women to be?
To be able to penetrate through the surface-layers of insecurity and bullshit..
To be completely devastated by the ecstasy of incredible sex with a beautiful…
Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Calling A Woman: When To Call Her?
It’s the age old question… How soon is too soon to call a woman?
The next day? 3 days? 5 days?
A week?
You don’t want to scare the woman away by calling to early. But then again, you still want her to know…
Do You Get Self-Conscious?
As human beings we naturally want to be real, authentic, and truly ourselves.
We might not all be consciously aware of this drive towards authenticity, but inherently we value being ourselves, especially when it is easy and effortless.
Fulfillment comes from knowing what and who we are, and we seek security in this knowledge.
We want the sense of who we are to be stable, and we want this stability…
Do Evil Emotions Control Your Life?
We love experiencing the “good emotions”, don’t we?
Love. Joy. Serenity. Peace.
But the ugly ones? Well, we don’t really talk about those, do we?
However, those ugly emotions are just as important for us to…
How And Why I Became A Fan Of Inner Game.
Look, after I got into the seduction community I began to enjoy some pretty good success with women.
First, I met a cute Australian actress in a bookshop.
She was the definition of cuteness with, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.
Then came along a curvy…
5 Things You Don’t Know About LoGun, Me & MasterClass MKII.
1. We Beat The Church Of Satan.
I will admit it. I like the fact that this humble blog just got ranked in the top 200,000 websites in the world.
Well, 199,340th today, to be exact.
Which may seem like not much, until you consider…
Give Your Identity A Reality Check.
“Keep taking the easy way out until you can’t anymore…
“And when you can’t anymore, absolutely commit yourself to love, because you know that the easy way out leads to suffering: it *IS* suffering.” – David Deida
Identity; Who you…
Spy Shots Of MasterClass Mk II.
Here are some pre-release clips of the Advanced Inner Game MasterClass MkII…
Which LoGun probably didn’t want me to show just yet.
Watch them before he returns from the beach and pulls them down. Haha..
The Absolute Truth About Approaching Women.
Select the CORRECT answer:
A beautiful woman is someone who:
1) will make you feel better
2) you can dominate, so that you can feel powerful
3) can dominate you, so that you…
Why You Will Never FIX Your INNER GAME.
If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to fix your inner game.
Many people think that fixing their inner game is a bit like getting a seduction ’superweapon’…
Which will give them the ability to attract women everywhere they go.
But there’s something I need to tell you. Here it…