My New Years Resolution
Ever since I can remember, I’ve had the same new years resolution: To Live. A simple and effective reminder that this is my life and I’m the only one who’s ever going to give me what I want. This year, I’ve decided to change it. Ever since Steven left, my workload at AI has ballooned. [...]
Continue Reading →What would you do differently?
You can feel the barrel of the gun, pressed against your temples. The psychotic gunman has demanded to know what you really want to do with your life. After you respond, he tells you that if you’re not taking big steps towards that life when he visits you in 6 weeks, he’s going to kill [...]
Continue Reading →What YOU want: How to find your deep desires in 3 simple steps.
Getting in touch with what you really desire is one of the core elements of… …becoming naturally attractive to women. After all, if you don’t know what you want, then you can’t experience it. And if you can’t experience it without her, then you’re always going to be needy and dependent on her to give [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Your Ego: 3 Simple Steps
This is one for all the spiritual guys out there. The evils of the Ego gets a lot of attention from all the spiritual teachers out there. The Ego has been blamed for everything from the breakdown of relationships to creating wars! But no-one’s really given you a game plan to both identify and overcome [...]
Continue Reading →Everything’s Amazing and Nobody is Happy
I just saw this and thought it was awesome. Check it out: It really got me thinking about how much I take for granted in my life. Today, I drove to the farmers markets with the woman I love, sat and ate some beautiful food from 3 different continents, surrounded by family and friends, then [...]
Continue Reading →Finding Your Deepest Gift
“How do I find my purpose / gifts?” is a question that pops up frequently on the Attraction Institute Forum. If you’re one of those people who’s searching for that deeper and more meaningful part of himself, then here’s a great article on it from www.psychologytoday.com on how to find your deepest gifts. ———— How [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day #6 – What are you going to do about it?
“What are you going to do about it?” The world is never going to give you what you want. You’re never going to wake up and one day everything is going to be perfect. The quality of your life isn’t determined by how perfect the world is, it’s determined by how you respond when it [...]
Continue Reading →How To Be Attractive To Women
“How do I be more attractive to women?” was the question that started me on my journey firstly into the seduction community, then out of it.
I get asked it so often that I thought I’d write out the three things I wish I’d been told when I first wanted to know how to be attractive to women.
No. 1 – Stop trying to attract women…
Continue Reading →RIP Steve Jobs
Yesterday, the world lost a great man. Thank you for the incredible contribution you made to the world. I hope, that one day, I can make even a fraction of the difference that you have made. Below is a speech he made back in 2005. He touches on life, death, passion, love, and how to [...]
Continue Reading →Do You Believe In Anything This Much?
How valuable something is to you can be judged by what you’re willing to do for it. The more you care about it, the harder you’re going to fight for it. This is a Man who believes so strongly in personal freedom and expression that he’s willing to go to jail over and over again. [...]
Continue Reading →How to know EXACTLY what to do in any situation
There’s plenty of advice on the Internet about the different ways you can attract women. There’s even plenty of advice on this site. So, I’m not going to cover that today. This post is about helping you decide which piece of advice is the best piece for you. It’s one, simple question you can use [...]
Continue Reading →It could happen any time…
As I was walking to football this morning, I watched a car jump the medium strip of a six lane road and smash head on into a car coming the other direction. I have no idea how, but by some act of a higher power, no-one was seriously injured. But they could have been. Both [...]
Continue Reading →AI Myths and Misconceptions: BUSTED
If you’ve found your way to this post, I’m sure you’re aware that the Attraction Institute philosophy is very unique. Because it’s so unique, there seems to be a bit of confusion about what we really stand for. To help clear that confusion, I’ve put together a list of the most common misconceptions and why [...]
Continue Reading →Becoming completely FREE around women
Sure, when you woke up this morning… - You chose what you ate for breakfast, - You weren’t forced into any strict religious practice - You decided what you were going to wear today …but is that really freedom? Is that all there is to it? How free are you, really? Yes, you have the [...]
Continue Reading →What’s your dream?
Without a dream, you’re not going to push yourself when it gets hard. Without a dream, you’re not going to get up when you fall down. Without a dream, you’re not going to take that extra step when it really counts. So, what’s your dream? I’m having a little NFL love fest this week.
Continue Reading →Thought of the day #3 and #4 (How to be free around women)
For those who haven’t been keeping up with the blog posts… …I have reminders in my phone that go off EVERY DAY to make sure I’m directing my attention in productive directions. Years and years and years of being stuck in my head wondering what other people are thinking of me can be hard to shake… I [...]
Continue Reading →Should you be vulnerable?
This is an amazing video that looks at the link between vulnerability and happiness. If you’ve ever wondered whether being vulnerable was going to do anything for you then you should definitely check this out. Oh, and just to give you some context, this is the most watched TED talk ever. L.
Continue Reading →Should you learn how to attract women?
There’s one question that’s going to determine just how easy you find it to transform your relationships with women. The answer is the reason that your journey is either effortless and rewarding or demanding and frustrating. That question is: Should you learn to attract women? Now, the answer might seem obvious. I mean, that’s why [...]
Continue Reading →You’re not the only one who…
I know from my years of trying to transform my life, that it can seem like you’re the only one who gets this wrong. This post is an attempt to show you that you’re not the only one. I’ve put together a list of all the pointless things I’ve done (and still do) in my [...]
Continue Reading →Who deserves to win the June 2011 Get Real Challenge?
I got nervous just watching it. You can see the terror in his face, you can feel his fear through the screen, and yet he still goes through with it. He still puts his arm out, he still lets the guy put it on his hand, and he still passes the Tarantula from hand to [...]
Continue Reading →Being Authentic with Women: it’s a Trap!
Despite the immense benefits that being authentic and real with women can bring to your life, there’s also a down side that you have to be aware of. It’s something that comes up a lot in both Get Real and Be Powerful and I thought I should warn you about it. It’ll make it easier [...]
Continue Reading →‘My Story’ is now open!
Check out My Story It’s one thing to know what you need to do to experience all that life has to offer. It’s something completely different to understand how that theory can be applied to your life. And it’s SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY to see practical examples of how you can create the life you truly [...]
Continue Reading →How to have fun in ANY situation
I went to a party last night. I know… CRAZY!!! This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but it actually was for me. I don’t really go out much any more. I used to go out a lot! Steven and I would be out 3 or 4 times a week. We’d [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day: The Man of your Dreams
This is the next installment of the ‘Thought of the day’ series. These are little quotes, sayings, and (mostly) questions that I ask myself to keep me moving towards the life I want to create. Today’s is one of my favourites: Who is the Man of your dreams? This question isn’t about finding some dude [...]
Continue Reading →Hank Moody: A ‘how to’ guide
If you haven’t watched Californication, you need to. What a great show. Except for the current season. I don’t know if they got new writers or if they just ran out of ideas but it’s really gone down hill… Anyway, you’re not reading this to find out what I think of Californicaiton, you’re reading this [...]
Continue Reading →LoGun’s (Incomplete) Law of Attraction
It seems that any seduction guru worth his salt has published a theory of attraction at some point. So, if I’m ever to make it to the status of an mPUAG, I should probably get mine out there as well. Note, this is not in any way a ‘finished’ theory and so would appreciate your [...]
Continue Reading →Can Eckhart Tolle help you be better with women?
For those who don’t know who Eckhart Tolle is (which rock have you been hiding under?), he’s the author of books such as The Power of Now and A New Earth. The key fundamental tennet of his teaching is that achieving presence is a powerful way to transform the core of any issue. There’s quite [...]
Continue Reading →Problems with women? 3 questions to get you to the core
I get quite a few emails from guys asking me to help them solve a problem. What I’ve found is that most of the trouble they’re having finding a solution to their problem is that they don’t know what the real problem is. There’s three quick questions that I always ask to help them get [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming a fear of rejection
As promised in the last email, here is the article you’ve been waiting for – overcoming a fear of rejection. I’ve broken it down into 3 short steps that are going to help you break through this barrier. I’m going to go into quite specific detail in this. I’m not going to talk about theoretical [...]
Continue Reading →How to start a movement
I know there are a lot of guys who read this blog who want to start something big. They want to make a difference to the world and are looking for a way to do it. Here’s a short video that explains just how to start a movement. Enjoy.
Continue Reading →Thought of the Day
If I just let my mind wander off, it can end up in all kinds of useless places. If I let myself, I can spend hours surfing through YouTube videos, watching football highlights, and just screwing around on facebook. This, in no way, helps me move closer to the life I want to live. To [...]
Continue Reading →Think you have it tough? At least you have limbs
The quality of your life isn’t determined by what you have or what you go through, it’s determined by what you choose to do with it. This guy is an AMAZING example of that. He was born without arms or legs and he’s one of the happiest and most powerful people I’ve seen in a [...]
Continue Reading →How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend
64 simple steps. Enjoy. L.
Continue Reading →What It Takes To Be A Champion (Video)
This is a great clip from Arnold Schwarzenegger talking about what it takes to be a champion. Really inspirational stuff. It’s easy to see how he became so successful in so many different areas of his life. Enjoy. How do you think your life would change if you started looking at your life like this?
Continue Reading →Get Motivated: 2 Simple Steps
Motivation came up as one of the big things that guys were struggling with in our recent survey. (BTW, the more information we have on what you’re looking for, the more we can give you so if you haven’t filled out the survey, please do so. It’ll mean you get more of the answers you [...]
Continue Reading →What do you love?
A friend of mine shared this great blog with me. It’s written by his boss. Every few days he writes a post about something that he loves. It’s really beautiful. You can
Continue Reading →You Only Live Once
“You only live once.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this. So many times that it’s just started to be empty words. Just like: “I’ll have a beer, thanks…” Or… “Get the f*#k out of my house you filthy slob!” But today, someone said it to me and I actually stopped to [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Frustration
Do you know what 4:45am on a Monday looks like? Apparently it’s dark. Very dark. And not so warm either. It makes you yawn a lot and you are also overcome with burning desires to crawl back into bed. Funny that… I know this because I got to taste 4:45am on a Monday this morning. [...]
Continue Reading →How Incredible Do You Want Your Life To Be?
How incredible do you want your life to be? Do you want it to be REASONABLY incredible? Do you want it to feel an AVERAGE amount of greatness? Do you dream of experiencing a bit more than half of what life has to offer you? Now, do you think you can ever experience the extremes [...]
Continue Reading →Must Read Books: 5 Books That Will Change Your Life
5 must read books that will change your life. 1. The Tao of Pooh This book will answer the question: “What’s going on when the world doesn’t feel quite right?” This book had a profound influence on my life. I still remember sitting down to ‘just flick through the first few pages’ and emerging from [...]
Continue Reading →I’m going to throw something out there: You’re here because you’re looking an answer. You’re looking for a THE piece of information that’s going to help you take the next big step. That’s right, I’m very clever. I know this because if you weren’t you wouldn’t be here. You’d be out there, living your life. [...]
Continue Reading →My New Favourite Quote…
“When you never compromise, you have nothing to hide” Have a guess where this comes from: Some self help guru? Some PUA god? The latest spiritual leader? Tattooed on the back of a dancing midget? Surprisingly, all wrong. This comes directly from the marketing mouth of the American car manufacturer GMC. It’s their company slogan [...]
Continue Reading →Get Over Your Ex: 3 simple steps
I’ve been there before. I’ve fallen in love and had my heart broken in two. I know what it feels like to be left alone, wondering if you’re ever going to recover from the pain. So today, I’m going to share with you how I got over my ex and how you can get over [...]
Continue Reading →False time constraint: should you use one?
Question and answer time!!! Yay… That’s right. If you write to me with the question sitting at the edge of your tongue, you may just find yourself on our happy little blog. The question comes from a discussion I was having with a PUA about false time constraints. I was having a bit of a [...]
Continue Reading →Confidence Training For Men: 3 Easy Steps.
Want to feel more powerful? Want to feel more in control?
Want to feel all those amazing feelings that unshakable confidence brings?
Well, you’ve come to the right place. I’m going to give you the latest confidence training tools to so that nothing can stop you from living the life you want. But I’m also going to give you the one thing you NEED to know if you want to make that confidence long lasting.
The basic principle of any solid confidence training program is to help you prove to yourself that you can create the life you want.
If you can prove to yourself…
Continue Reading →Confidence Boosters For Men.
There are two different types of confidence boosters you can use and the one you choose is going to determine how much confidence boost you get stable your confidence boost is.
Seeing as I’m a very gifted linguist, I’m come up with the two very powerful names for these different types of confidence boost: external and internal.
An external confidence boost is the most…
Continue Reading →How To Attract A Woman: Things They Don’t Tell You.
The secret to how to attract a woman isn’t complex. It’s not long, hard, or complicated.
To show you just how you can attract a woman, I’m just going to ask you one simple question:
When have you had most success attracting a woman: when you’ve been trying to attract a woman or when you haven’t been trying at all and you’ve just been concentrating on enjoying yourself?
So what do you think you need to do to attract a woman?
Continue Reading →What Women Find Attractive: Guide For Men.
I wish it were as simple as waving a magic wand and saying ‘All women find x attractive!’ but in reality, it’s not. Why?
Well, do you and you mate find the same women attractive? Maybe sometimes, but all the time? No?
Then why would all women find the same guy attractive?
Duh…
So, to help you work out what women find attractive, we first need to nail down what kind of women we’re talking about.
Lets start with the easy one: What does she look like?
Is she tall or short? Is she brunette or blonde? Does she have blue eyes or brown? Is she curvy or slim?
Next, what kind of things does she like to do?
Does she like to play sports…
Continue Reading →Realise Your Potential As A Man.
If you’re reading this, then I’m going to guess that you’re aware of your potential.
You’re aware that there’s something powerful, something strong, something amazing inside you and you’re looking for a way to let it out.
That’s a great place to be.
It’s far easier to work with someone who realises…
Continue Reading →How To Improve Self Esteem: Foolproof Method.
I’ve got a foolproof way to improve self-esteem – become very good at achieving your goals.
It makes sense, doesn’t it? If you can set yourself goals that you really want to achieve and you achieve them they’re you’re going to improve your self esteem.
I’ve also got a foolproof way to NOT improve self-esteem. Funnily enough, it’s the same way – become very good at achieving your goals.
Confused? There’s a very subtle element that you need to be aware of to avoid the same trap that a lot of people who’re searching for ‘how to improve self esteem’ fall into..
Continue Reading →Self Improvement Books: What They Don’t Tell You.
I’ve been involved in the self-improvement community for nearly 8 years.
I’ve spent 5 of those as a coach. The number complaint I hear from my clients is that “I’ve read all these books and I’ve even taken workshops, but I’m still not living the life I want.”
If you’ve read through any self-improvement books and want to know why you’re still not living the life you want, then you need to read what’s written below…
Continue Reading →How To Be Confident With Girls: 3 Awesome Tips.
Here are some tips on how to be confident with girls:
Tip 3. Don’t Edit Yourself.
Feeling nervous? Say to her that you’re nervous. Don’t know what to say to her? Say to her that you don’t know what to say to her. Think that she looks spunky in that skirt? Say to her that she looks spunky in that skirt. Simple.
If you hide your true feelings and thoughts…
Continue Reading →How To Build Confidence And Self Esteem
Here are some ways you can build confidence and self esteem:
3. Stop Reading.
Really. How many “How to build confidence” guides have you read before this one? Be honest now :) Here’s a secret: having the knowledge in your head does not make any difference for your confidence and self esteem.
So stop being a knowledge junkie – it will not help you build confidence and self..
Continue Reading →How To Get Confidence: Guide For Men.
If you’re wondering how to get confidence, then you probably have this trait as well:
You look to others for approval.
And that is what undermines your confidence. You can read all the “how to get confidence” guides on the Internet – and become an world expert on confidence..
And yet still not be confident.
See, the problem is not a lack of knowledge..
Continue Reading →How To Improve Self Esteem: The #1 Rule.
There is so much advice on how to improve self esteem.
I’m sure you’ve read at least some of it. It’s a bit overwhelming, isn’t it?
I was also trying to figure out how to improve self esteem, reading through tips like:
“Pinpoint your negative thinking”
“Become aware of beliefs and thoughts”
“Identify troubling conditions and situations”
Just reading it was enough to make my brain..
Continue Reading →Improving Self Confidence: Pitfalls To Avoid.
There is a lot of advice on the Internet on improving self confidence. But does all of it work? Here are some pitfalls you can avoid:
Pitfall 3: Knowledge Is King.
If you think you’re going to read a blog post and socialise confidently the next day, you’ve been misled.
Knowledge does not give you access to improving self-confidence. You can become a world expert on improving self confidence and still have low self confidence.
Pitfall 2: “Just Be..
Continue Reading →Increase Self-Esteem In 3 Easy Steps.
Here’s how you can increase self-esteem:
Step 1: Stop Treating the Symptoms.
Some “experts” will tell you that to increase self-esteem you have to:
- look people in the eye
- stop thinking negative thoughts
- try new hobbies
- exercise…
How To Be Happy With Yourself – 3 Simple Steps
Want to know how to be happy with yourself? Here’s my Number 1 way of doing it:
Step Outside Your Comfort Zone.
You feel most alive when you are doing something which gets your pulse going, don’t you? But you don’t need to go skydiving to do that. Want to feel alive today? Want to know how to be happy with yourself?
Go tell that attractive woman who you see in the bar exactly what you feel…
Continue Reading →How To Improve Communication Skills.
If you’re wondering how to improve your communication skills, I invite you to consider something:
You’re missing the point.
You don’t need to learn how to improve your communication skills. Your communication skills are fine.
You have been learning to communicate since age 3, so you’ve had 20, maybe even 30 or 40 years of on-the-job training…
Continue Reading →Best Confidence Course for Men? Pitfalls To Avoid.
Here are some pitfalls to avoid when choosing a confidence course:
3. Be wary of NLP.
I’m not saying NLP doesn’t work. It may help you to produce some results – but its a poor choice for a confidence course if you want to expand, grow and realise your full potential as a Man.
Continue Reading →You’re Not An AFC
In my travels around the dating community, I’m constantly hearing guy referring to themselves as AFC.
If you’re one of those guys then this post is for you…
Continue Reading →Improving Self Esteem – is it really the solution to your issues?
There are plenty of articles out there on how to build self esteem and then how to make your self-esteem bullet proof so I’m not going to tackle that little puppy.
Instead, I’m going to ask a deeper question that you must consider before you embark down the journey of trying to develop incredible self-esteem:
Is building self-esteem really the answer to your issues?
Continue Reading →Changing Your Life.
Are you in the process of changing your life?
How long have you been doing this process? A year? Two years?
Shouldn’t you have a Bachelor’s degree in Changing Your Life by now? ;)
Now, what you probably know by now is the old cliche: the more things change, the more things remain the same.
I heard that one before – many times – but I never really got why…
Continue Reading →How To Be Confident.
I’m sure you’ve read other blog articles about how to be confident.
This one will be a little different.
And here’s why. It has nothing to do with learning how to be confident. Rather, it will show you how to let your natural confidence emerge.
I find that I’m most confident when I have nothing to hide. Like really – it’s only when I’m trying to pretend something in front of a woman that confidence becomes an issue…
Continue Reading →Stingy Much?
I realised recently just how stingy I am with people.
I went on a date a few days ago. And you know what my real, underlying purpose for going was?
To leave her thinking:
“Jeez, he was a great guy.”
Like, really. Underneath my words, the banter and even the kiss at the end, that date was not about my date. It was all about me…
Continue Reading →How To Change The World.
I know there are a lot of guys in our little community who want to do more.
I’ve been messaged more than once by guys saying:
“I want to be able to give back, I want to be able to help more people, I want to do something to make this world a better place, but I don’t know how I can.”
So I thought I’d share with you just how you can…
Continue Reading →Never Run Out Of Things To Say.
I’m going to let you in on a little secret.
It’s the secret that allows me to have effortless conversations with just about anybody in my life and never run out of things to say – especially with the women I’m attracted to.
It’s not due to the sheer volume of routines I’ve memorised or the complex word associations game I’ve learned…
Continue Reading →I Don’t Have My Shit Together.
I’ve been writing and talking a lot about areas of my life which are not working lately.
I find it interesting. I noticed I really enjoy having conversations with people where we both acknowledge that we don’t have all our shit together.
I call them the “what are you dealing with?” conversations…
Continue Reading →#1 Reason Not To Play It Cool.
We are amazingly good at playing it cool. I remember seeing a quote once, which said:
“Seriousness is Man’s oldest con game.”
My interpretation of the meaning behind it was this: to act serious, somber, non-expressive, as we all do around people who we hardly know, is a facade – which we all play into because it’s safe.
And we play into this facade because inside it, there’s little risk. There’s little chance people might laugh…
Continue Reading →A Beginners Guide To BEING POWERFUL.
Do you have a habit of complaining?
About life? About people? Women? Your parents? Your boss? Good. Welcome to being human.
So, let’s have a look at that.
I invite you to begin viewing all the things you complain about as a product of your creation.
By that I mean – resist the temptation to blame someone else for your anger, frustration…
Continue Reading →How Much ‘Faking It’ Till You ‘Make It’?
From everything I’m hearing from the Pick Up community, fake-it-till-you-make-it is not only the fastest way to get better with women..
.. but also the best way.
But before you choose to go along that path, consider this.
Apparently, if you just keep faking it for long enough, eventually women wont be able to tell that you’re faking.
Eventually, they’re just going to believe it’s the real you and you can get all the women…
Continue Reading →It’s NOT Your Fault.
It can be tempting to say this to yourself:
It’s not your fault that your interactions with women are not as amazing, real, authentic, powerful, deep and moving as you want them to be..
It’s the fault of people who brought you up.
I mean, they just didn’t teach you the lessons you needed to learn. So you became inauthentic – you became the “nice guy” as a strategy to getting..
Continue Reading →3 Steps To Taking Control Of Your Life.
If you’re reading this then I’m sure you’re aware that the limited success you’re having with women isn’t driven by your lack of ‘knowledge’ or ‘information’.
I’m sure you’re aware that there’s something internally that’s preventing you from expressing the attractive and powerful guy you have inside you..
..and you’re looking for a way to remove the barriers which prevent him from…
Continue Reading →On Seeking Validation.
A little earlier I was sitting in a busy cafe behind my laptop..
..when I noticed something odd about myself.
When I opened up a tab with the latest edition of Harvard Business Review, I also became very aware if someone in the vicinity saw what I was reading, they’d be impressed.
And I noticed myself relax and become present. It’s like there was more of me to take…
Continue Reading →Overcoming Loneliness 101
Here’s one for all you science nerds out there..
..the scientific formula for overcoming loneliness. Yes, that’s right. I’ve discovered a formula for it.
Want to know what it is? Well, here you go:
C = L x R1 x R2 x N
Pretty straight forward, isn’t it? Oh, you want me to…
Continue Reading →Becoming A Man.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a beautiful woman say:
“There’s just not enough real Men these days”..
..then I wouldn’t be writing this blog post.
I’d be sitting in the Bahamas dictating it to one of my loyal sweat shop workers who would transcribe it, before…
Continue Reading →Are You Living TOO Comfortably?
“How are you?”
“I’m Good.”
Such a standard greeting and such a token, throwaway answer. I bet you said it yourself – at least twice today.
But what’s behind “I’m good”? Well, let’s try this on:
When you say “I’m good”, is it fair to say that most of the time what you’re really saying is..
Continue Reading →What Do You REALLY Think About Yourself?
Have you ever heard of confirmation bias?
It’s a psychology term used to describe the way we filter out any information which..
..doesn’t support how we see the world and allow in everything that does.
It’s a pretty nifty little trick that our minds use to make us feel good. And it’s pretty good at it too! But it’s also really good at hiding…
Continue Reading →Is There ANYONE Out There?
You know a bunch of people. Some of them you like, others you don’t really like.
Some are nice. Some are angry. Some are annoying. Some are good. Some are bad. And so on…
If you don’t like some people, you tend to move away from them.
And if you like them, you tend to keep them…
Continue Reading →Is Being Real Just Too Hard?
I realise that being real with people can seem hard.
After all, if you’ve been running the same patterns of hiding who you are and what you stand for, for years and years, it can seem like a lot of work..
Continue Reading →Simple Strategies For An Effective Life.
I haven’t written here – in a long time!
Why not? Well, that’s easy.
Somewhere between launching Endgame with Leigh, making headway at my new dayjob..
..and starting a new project with Leigh which will empower…
Continue Reading →How To Lose A Great Job .. And Find A Better One.
A couple of weeks ago I’ve blogged about about getting great jobs.
Point of that story was to show how I went from surviving at work (and often getting fired) to getting a job I really wanted – and loving it.
The access to that was to begin craving challenge in my job. I wanted to get a job which I was…
Continue Reading →Do You Know The Truth?
Consider this: truth is made, rather than found..
What do you hold as “true”? Do you realise that another person could have a different perspective on your truth, and call it a “truth” also?
Which one of you is right? Who is wrong?
Continue Reading →Seeking Out Discomfort.
Going out of your way to find uncomfortable situations isn’t natural, but it’s essential…
At work, we spend hours (and millions of dollars seeking a place we can defend, a market position and sinecure we can feel safe in…
Continue Reading →On “Faking It Till You Make It”.
To those who are approaching endless women, expecting that they can “fake it till they make it”, I offer this quote:
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” – Albert Einstein.
Continue Reading →A Life Worth Risking.
It’s commonly known that Apple was started by two Steves: Jobs and Wozniak.
But did you know that Apple had a little-known third founder?
Third guy left the partnership two weeks after Apple was incorporated, selling his 10% share for less than a grand – a share which would be worth billions today.
He cited “too much risk” as the reason for leaving.
Some people say he is foolish, and describe his decision as the worst investment decision in history.
They miss one vital point…
Continue Reading →Are You “Good Enough” To Be On TV?
I’ve recently blogged about how the movie characters we love represent the outcomes we seek.
In a nutshell, I was saying that the TV and movie characters you get most addicted to possess the qualities that you want to possess.
For example Hank Moody from Californication is addictive because…
Continue Reading →Why Feeling Shit Is A Good Thing.
I am searching.
I am purpose-less.
I am empty.
I am unsatisfied..
These are just some of the feelings I experienced yesterday.
My immediate reaction was to suppress them. To ignore…
Continue Reading →Inner Game Vs Outer Game: Which One Should You Work On?
The inner game / outer game debate is constantly raging..
..but there’s one thing that is constantly being left out of it.
So to make sure you can make an informed decision about which direction you want to go, I thought I’d ask the questions that need to be asked.
If you walked into a store that sold machines that cut off your balls..
..would whether or not you bought one would be determined by how good the salesman was?
Continue Reading →How Good Is Your Inner Game?
I get a lot of guys asking me how to work out whether they have good or bad inner game..
..so I thought I’d put a little test together.
It’s pretty straight forward – 1 question and a 1 word answer.
Are you ready to find out how well you’re doing? Well. Here it is:
Are you currently experiencing everything you..
Continue Reading →Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you…
Continue Reading →Unconditional Self-Acceptance: Your how-to guide
Contrary to popular belief, developing self acceptance isn’t some kind of technique that you have to internalise or develop..
..it’s actually a by-product of a much deeper mechanism that’s been at play all your life.
We’re all looking for things in our life.
We want stuff, and when we get it we fell good. It’s a no brainer. Think about the car you’ve always wanted. If you got that .. how would you feel?
Or even, think about the girl of your dreams. If you got her, how would…
Continue Reading →Stripping Away Your Inner Crap 101.
You are a unique manifestation of God.
And when I say “God”, I’m not talking about the God who typically comes to mind in a traditional Biblical context.
Thus, I’m not talking about a Creator, or a Trinity, or an omnipresent spirit being..
.. who metes out punishment, forgives sin and answers prayers.
Although you’re free to believe in that, if you…
Continue Reading →How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Continue Reading →Can Meditation Help You Attract Women?
To put it simply, YES.
But I must clarify: it’s not a “secret seduction technique” or whatever, so please do not adopt it as such.
If you approach meditation as a means to a certain end (attracting girls), you will be disappointed. It is not a magic bullet of seduction.
But it just so happens that the practice of meditation helps get you outside of your…
Continue Reading →Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Continue Reading →Do Women Trust You?
I’ve heard a saying that a woman will not sleep with a man unless she trusts him on some level.
I’ve seen many men attempt to manufacture this trust.
I’ve seen many companies created purely to create products that would teach men how to manufacture this trust.
But it all starts with one person: you. How well do you trust…
Continue Reading →Beginners Guide To Purposeful Living.
Sometimes it can be very easy to lose yourself in the distraction of the world..
Your daily duties and obligations, and your social commitments.
Sometimes it’s very easy to forget who you are.
So how well do you know yourself? Are you conscious of each decision you…
Continue Reading →The #1 Deadliest Mistake Men Make.
You are going to die.
When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?
Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?
Will you be concerned about what people thought of…
Continue Reading →NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To A Woman!
The number one thing that I ALWAYS find, without fail, with guys who’re struggling with conversations..
..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.
All they’re focusing on is..
..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in…
Continue Reading →The Way Of Transformation.
Here’s a quote I just came across. What does it mean to YOU?
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“The man who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to…
Continue Reading →Beyond Picking Up Women (seminar video).
- Have you ever thought to yourself “When I get this girl, then I’ll be happy?
- How to make sure women don’t lose interest in you.
- Why 97% of dating advice doesn’t help guys.
- How MasterClass helped guys, and how it can help you.
Definitive Guide To Fixing Your Inner Game.
Alright, so you’ve come to fix this whole ‘women’ thing and you think you need to work on your inner game.
Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?
The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…
..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..
..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game..
Continue Reading →Is Being In Shape Necessary To Attract Women?
I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..
..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…
Continue Reading →Inner Game 101 (FREE PODCAST).
- Have you ever seen a girl in the street, but don’t approach because you think it will be embarrassing if someone sees you get rejected?
- Have you ever taken a girl on a date, walked her home, got a kiss on the cheek and never saw her again?
- Are you free and unrestrained around girls who you’re not that into, but crumble as soon as you see a hottie?
- Do you want to have relationships with multiple…
Continue Reading →Protected: Let’s Get To Know Each Other A Little :)
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Continue Reading →Why Your “Game” Is Not Improving As Fast As You’d Like.
Over 30 minutes of video from the exclusive Attraction MasterClass Tour.
Continue Reading →Are You Acting Too Keen Around Women?
“As soon as she knows she’s got you, she will not want you any more.”
I remember reading this piece of dating advice last time I was in a relationship, and choosing to live by it.
I feared that if I acted “too keen” and became “too nice” to my girlfriend at the time, then attraction would somehow dissolve…
…And she would leave me.
Continue Reading →Can She Meet You? Can You Meet Her?
Over the past year I’ve had the fortune of meeting many different women…
Learned from my many mistakes, and undertaken many personal practices that have helped develop my path.
One thing I’ve noticed that sits with me today that was definitely missing a year ago is a certain intensity in my gaze.
With this new development, however, has come an interesting…
Continue Reading →Benefits Of Being In Your Body.
I love women. The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell…
…the way they carry themselves through the world, the way they shut down, and the way they open up.
All of it.
Most of all, I love the way they…
Continue Reading →How Real Is Your Sexual Fantasy?
Those beautiful women that you oggle at and think about all day.
You know them:
The ones that make you think “How good would it be to bang her”…
As you fantasize about every little detail of her incredible ass, gorgeous legs, unbelievable rack, and impeccable figure.
Have you ever had that fantasy realised? To actually achieve what…
Continue Reading →Why Are You Approaching Women?
Have you approached a woman in the last month or so?
If yes, why?
“To seduce her, of course”, you might respond. Or maybe your answer would be, “to see if she is my kind of woman”.
Either answer is fine.
Or you may have…
Continue Reading →Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Continue Reading →Do You Get Self-Conscious?
As human beings we naturally want to be real, authentic, and truly ourselves.
We might not all be consciously aware of this drive towards authenticity, but inherently we value being ourselves, especially when it is easy and effortless.
Fulfillment comes from knowing what and who we are, and we seek security in this knowledge.
We want the sense of who we are to be stable, and we want this stability…
Continue Reading →Goal Setting Tips For Maximum Growth.
Where will you be in five years time: financially, romantically, physically?
How do you intend to get there?
Are you even aware of what it is you really want to have achieved in the next five years?
Or are you too caught up in the noise, and the distraction of the game at hand…
…that you forgot there ever could be a future that would effect the very way…
Continue Reading →How Awake Are You Right Now?
What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?
How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?
Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?
Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody…
Continue Reading →How Human Are Your Interactions?
I’ve been noticing something a little disturbing lately…
…and it’s not just within the seduction community.
It’s certainly exaggerated within the seduction community, but most definitely not limited to it.
What I’m referring to is the clinical nature in which men interact with the opposite sex.
You see that beautiful woman over there and you want to approach her.
But there’s this problem that needs to be solved before you can get what you want.
The problem of “HER”…
The problem of “HER”…
Continue Reading →Life Back In The Year 2010.
(An essay written in a not-too-distant-future).
Back then, when a guy walked past a cute girl in the street, he would rarely give her a smile.
And the girl, despite knowing that the guy was walking towards her, would choose to look straight ahead.
She would choose not to acknowledge him.
The guy and the girl would walk past each other, refusing to…
Continue Reading →Are You A Man Of Your Word?
How powerful are you?
How powerful is your WORD?
I know many people who really make an effort to keep their promises to other people:
- to be accountable,
- responsible…
Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
Continue Reading →Do Evil Emotions Control Your Life?
We love experiencing the “good emotions”, don’t we?
Love. Joy. Serenity. Peace.
But the ugly ones? Well, we don’t really talk about those, do we?
However, those ugly emotions are just as important for us to…
Continue Reading →Who Are You Hiding From?
How much of you do you reveal to the big wide world?
When you’re out and about – at work, in a social situation, doing your daily duties…
How much of you does the world get to see?
We all have our faults. Every single one of…
Continue Reading →Stop TRYING To Be Confident – And BE Confident.
Do you ever have nights where you’re just ‘on’?
You’ve had a good week. You’re feeling good. You’re looking good.
You’re ‘in state’. Everything just works. You destroy the bar.
Every woman is asking her friends, “Who *IS* that guy?…
Continue Reading →How To Get Away With Anything.
I’m about to give you a license to do whatever the fuck you want.
I’m serious.
Here, take it. I grant you the right, by the powers vested in me by whatever. Go nuts.
What do you mean, you don’t want it? Oh, I’m not authorised to…
Continue Reading →You Are The Pilot.
This is a quick post to let you know that MasterClass MKII has just launched.
To those cosmonauts who are already on board and are being taken to new life, a big salut!
(Yeh, it does sound a bit corny – deal with it ;) …
Continue Reading →Things You Were Not Supposed To See…
This is the stuff only paying MasterClass MKII customers were supposed to watch…
Continue Reading →Get Nervous Around Women?
Nerves around women, the bane of most men.
You see that girl, and your heart immediately jumps an extra 30 beats per second.
Your mind starts racing.
Then it goes blank, and you may even get a little bit sweaty.
You want to go approach, but you “can’t”. Why do you…
Continue Reading →LoGun Is Getting Emotional.
I wanted to slap him.
I wanted to snap at him with something like..
“Quit your whinging, grab your life by the balls and WAKE UP TO YOURSELF, MAN!”
But I don’t think that would’ve achieved anything close to what I wanted to achieve.
I went on a little road trip around Australia a little while ago and it was a very…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Be Externally Validated.
I have a secret to tell you-
I like external validation. It feels really good.
And not just a little bit good, but a lot.
I know there’s a lot of community “gurus” telling you that you shouldn’t be externally validated, but I completely disagree – and let me show you why…
Continue Reading →Tips For Being A Better Man.
Live your perfect day for you: the one that doesn’t involve women, and isn’t designed around everybody else.
Design your day such that every activity takes you deeper and deeper into your own bliss…
Every mouth-full of food savoured. Every emotion embraced. Every experience…
Continue Reading →Keyboard Jockeys, Women + More (MasterClass Case Study).
Last week I caught up with another ex-student who took the MasterClass 3 months ago.
Did his results last?
Did he expose LoGun as a keyboard jockey? Watch to find out:
Continue Reading →How And Why I Became A Fan Of Inner Game.
Look, after I got into the seduction community I began to enjoy some pretty good success with women.
First, I met a cute Australian actress in a bookshop.
She was the definition of cuteness with, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.
Then came along a curvy…
Continue Reading →What Are You Waiting For?
You see that beautiful woman and you don’t approach. Why?
You see that you could start a business, and you KNOW it will work, and you don’t. Why?
There’s a promotion coming up at work that you know you deserve, but you don’t apply for it. Why?
For so long, we have lived our lives waiting for…
Continue Reading →How To NEVER Be EMBARRASSED Again.
I was chilling with one of my mates the other day and he said something that really took me by surprise:
“Damn, you do some embarrassing shit!”
Apparently it’s embarrassing to approach a stunning little brunette with green eyes and curves that are out of this world who’s eating lunch with her family.
Who knew???
Well, to be perfectly honest, the old me…
Continue Reading →Give Your Identity A Reality Check.
“Keep taking the easy way out until you can’t anymore…
“And when you can’t anymore, absolutely commit yourself to love, because you know that the easy way out leads to suffering: it *IS* suffering.” – David Deida
Identity; Who you…
Continue Reading →Wanna Play God? How To Be God, Now.
Look around you at this thing you label “reality”.
The images, the smells, the sensations, the sounds, the tastes. All of it.
Look around at this reality and know this: you MAKE it exist – for without *YOU* acting as the conduit, or the interpreter, it would all just be atoms floating in space.
No form, no beauty. YOU are the key to…
Continue Reading →Who Is The Source Of Your Happiness?
I was dating a girl some time ago. And, as most couples do, sooner or later her and I had a slight disagreement
(I poured a drink on her sister’s head in the middle of Hugo’s – in retaliation for her throwing ice at me … mature, I know)
My girl got understandably upset and, on the way home, said something to me which I found disturbing…
Continue Reading →Why Most Men FAIL At BEING COOL.
Here’s how I used to try and be cool:
Step 1: see a guy who *IS* cool.
Step 2: imitate him.
Now, here’s the FATAL FLAW in that system:
I would meet / spot another guy who I thought was cool. I’d start…
Continue Reading →Why You Will Never FIX Your INNER GAME.
If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to fix your inner game.
Many people think that fixing their inner game is a bit like getting a seduction ‘superweapon’…
Which will give them the ability to attract women everywhere they go.
But there’s something I need to tell you. Here it…
Continue Reading →Worried About What Women Think Of You?
Here’s a tip to stop you caring about what others think about you – give up you.
Whilst giving up you does mean giving up your wants, needs, and tendencies, it also means giving up your insecurities, fears, and shames.
And without one, the other cannot exist.
There have been many times that I’ve been aware of the opportunity…
Continue Reading →Attraction Is Not A (Conscious) Choice.
Attraction is not a choice.
I’m sure you’ve heard that dating tip many times before – especially as it relates to meeting women.
But have you thought of how it relates to you?
I put it to you, that attraction is not yet a choice for you, EITHER…
Continue Reading →Most Men Are Wasting Their Lives. Are You?
Do you often walk into a bar and begin to wonder what people are thinking of you?
Now, stop for a moment to think how it affects your ability to do what you want. Perhaps it limits you in some ways?
And do you ever catch yourself talking to a woman, and begining to think … “what should I…
Continue Reading →A Tip To Make You Less Nervous.
This one struck me the other night when I ran into a fellow student of the seduction community at the Argyle.
Oh my God – were the women there glorious –
… so many beautiful legs, and ample bosom (and that was just LoGun with his shirt off) – it got even better after that.
This chap was being shown the finer art of “kino” by a ‘dating guru’…
Continue Reading →Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women.
We spend our lives distracting ourselves from the noise.
That noise that is constantly droning in the background, telling us we’re not good enough.
That we’re living a life of mediocrity and we know, we god-damned well KNOW that we’re wasting our potential…
Continue Reading →To Become Liked, Don’t Try To Be Liked.
What if I told you that you were already accepted by everyone?
What if I told you that everybody here thought incredibly highly of you – and you never had to do anything extra to maintain your reputation?
How would that change the way you act…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect The Women You ‘Game’?
Is it possible to respect the women that you ‘game’, knowing that you’ve simply “tricked” them into sleeping with you?
Knowing that she’s fallen for a shell identity you presented to her – which you know is not the real you?
Are you really capable of respecting a woman who is so easily ‘won over’…
Continue Reading →Can You Act Your Way Out Of Insecurity?
Something Jonno said to me recently brought on a peculiar epiphany.
It was at a recent inner game seminar we did. I was talking to one of the guys after the gig; Jonno was in close vicinity, talking to himself…
Continue Reading →What Is Your Masculine Purpose In Life?
I’m going to take a wild punt and guess that you were not a born trust fund baby.
Which means just like me, you probably spend a big chunk of your daily life at work. Earning cash.
When I’m not doing AI stuff, I work in a bar, and I see many of my customers just…
Continue Reading →Are You Too SOFT To Read This?
This whole masculinity thing has been a little bit of a sore topic for me of late.
Don’t get me wrong, I love the premise, and have very much been enjoying getting back in touch with my very suppressed inner man.
Embracing this part of my life has really allowed some new perspectives to surface.
And I’ve certainly been appreciating the new…
Continue Reading →Not Being Yourself When You Go Out? Read This.
When you go out to meet women, who are you going out for: you, or them?
Are you going out to gain something, or because going out is the best way in which you can both experience, and gift the world?
Are you chasing tail, or are you on an adventure that, by it’s very nature, cannot help but uplift those around you?
Basically, the big change in focus for me was going out to serve, rather…
Continue Reading →Are You A Victim Of “The Chase?”
On a forum the other day, a few of the men raised an unusual topic for conversation. The topic was all about ‘the chase‘…
The more this topic was contributed to, the more all of these men realised how much they are consumed by the chase: they love it.
Not knowing what the outcome will be, the risk…
Continue Reading →Just Be Yourself – Why Being Yourself Can Suck.
“Just be yourself”!
This advice from your mother had the seduction community gurus rolling in its grave.
“Your mum doesn’t know…
Continue Reading →What Is Your Ultimate Sexual Fantasy?
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
For me, it is bedding all nine of the Victoria’s Secret Angels, at once, together.
For the purpose of this exercise, use your…
Continue Reading →What Kind Of Man Are You?
Let me tell you a story of two men who wanted it all.
Both began on the same path, but both took a different approach to the same path.
Both men are brought into…
Continue Reading →What’s Behind Your Mask?
“You’re about to LEARN 7 SECRET NINJA OPENERS and have women THROWING THEMSELVES at you…”
Heh. Don’t you just get hopping mad every time you see another one of those hypey sales pages full…
Continue Reading →How To Become A Leader.
First, let me ask you – are you a master of reality, or a product of reality?
One moves effortlessly through the world, and the other is tormented by it.
One dates the women he desires. The other chips away at approach…
Continue Reading →Become Bulletproof.
I am not correct. All I offer is a perspective. Try it on, see how it fits, and see if it feels right for you:
You don’t know anything. You are not right…
Continue Reading →Wanna Be A Player?
If you wanna be a player, you’re in good hands.
And, as with any other advice you read here, you should know that the answers you’re about to receive will be different to what you’re expecting…
Continue Reading →OK, nice – I’m finally inside.
Mental note to self – I’m in this bar to have a good time, not pick up women. Especially not to run “game” to pick up women.
That routine-based PUA shit…
Continue Reading →Are You Missing ONE Vital Point?
I have to be honest here: I feel very sorry for all the women of the world.
ESPECIALLY the really attractive ones.
I mean, lets face it – when you see one of those REALLY…
Continue Reading →“Hard-Hitting” Inner Game Interview, Part 2.
Here is Part 2 of Inner Game Interview, Part 1:
“Why Aren’t Guys Seeing The Results They Want?”
Continue Reading →“Hard-Hitting” Inner Game Interview, Part 1.
Here is Part 1 of the unexpected interview we did with Sean from Get Hitched a few days ago:
1. Totally Staged Opening Scene + “How To Become The Man Of Her Dreams”.
Continue Reading →Why You Should Care About What People Think.
“I don’t care about what people think”, i hear someone say at least twice a week.
Are you sure?
Do you really not care about what people think? If so, then why are you saying…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect Yourself Enough To Attract Women?
Respect for yourself. It’s a phrase that isn’t often mentioned in the dating community.
The importance of it is, however, something I stumbled across…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Just Be “Yourself” Around Women.
Just be yourself..
Because you are perfect, you are amazing, you are incredible, you are everything a woman could ever desire in a Man.
All you have to do is let go of the barriers that are holding you back from showing..
Continue Reading →Are You Living Your Purpose?
You could die, right now.
This very moment could be your last. If not this one, it could be the next, or the one right after.
Your heart could give out, or a truck could come careering through your front wall, or a massive…
Continue Reading →Best Piece Of Advice I’ve Ever Received.
There’s a lot of advice available to you and I in the dating community: some of it is from spiritual backgrounds, some pick-up related, and other stuff comes from self-help community.
There are theories that align. Others will point you in opposite directions. And there are others that just plain contradict each other! So which way do you go?
Continue Reading →If You Were Going To Die In 6 Months..
I had a really strange dream last night where my sister was going to die in 6 months and it got me thinking..
How I would change and what I would do if I was going to die in 6 months.
So, my question to…
Continue Reading →Breaking Down Your Limiting Beliefs.
Let’s explore this little idea:
You are NOT your beliefs.
Getting your head around it is something that will take your inner growth to a whole new level. So, here we…
Continue Reading →Natural Game made EFFORTLESS
The essense of natural game is being able to flow without using routines, yet still get you success with women that you’re looking for.
The million dollar question that no-one is answering is…
Continue Reading →Why Bother With Inner Game?
I had a lot of guy ask me recently, “Why should I bother with inner game?”
So, I thought I’d share the answer with you guys here.
The success with women you achieve is, as far as you can control it, determined by…
Continue Reading →I’m Not Attractive. WTF??
I’m not an attractive guy. I’m not cool, I’m not suave, I’m not fun, I’m not exciting, and I’m definitely not…
Continue Reading →Most Skillful Man Who Ever Lived…
I’m very fortunate in that through my work, I get to meet some incredible people.
Some are more aware of their skills than others and today, I’ve had the pleasure of interacting with the most skillful Man who ever lived..
Continue Reading →Developing An Abundance Mentality.
Having the mentality that the world is abundantly full of the things you desire is an incredibly empowering way to make yourself more attractive…
Continue Reading →Are You Being ‘Needy’ Around Women?
This concept of ‘being needy’ around women is one thing that’s thrown around the community fairly regularly.
I’m pretty sure that we all know the benefits of not being needy around women – but how do you actually do it?
Continue Reading →The Pickup Artist Myth & The Inner Game Manifesto.
Why most guys who decide to become pickup artists don’t get the results they want .. and what to do about it.
Continue Reading →Fuck Inner Game.
Yeah, that’s right. Fuck it. It’s all bullshit anyway.
You don’t NEED it, heaps of people are fucking hot chicks, right now, without ever hearing of inner game so why should you bother?
Continue Reading →AFC To PUA, To..
About 4 years ago I set out on a journey to become the centre of attention of every hot woman I met.
I knew it wouldn’t be an easy path, but my newfound hobby: The Mystery Method, at least gave me…
Continue Reading →Your Questions Answered.
Your MOST BURNING inner game questions answered.
We give you new tips on how to get your inner game sorted and become attractive to women, without being all lame about it.
Continue Reading →Why following seduction community dogma will only take you so far. And what can you do before it’s too late.
Continue Reading →Advanced Frame Control: 3 Simple Steps
Want to know the secret to Frame Control?
I’m not talking some kind of half arse, incomplete piece of marketing hype little secrets here, it’s the real deal.
Continue Reading →What They Don’t Tell You About Your Inner Game (VIDEO).
This footage was recorded during an exclusive inner game seminar we ran recently in Sydney.. And no money in the world would get you admission into that room. The seminar’s purpose was to sharpen up the skills of a small group of senior seduction community members whom we hand-picked to become student field instructors. And [...]
Continue Reading →How NOT To Build Your Inner Game Foundations.
I have a secret to tell you. I don’t know how you’re going to take this but it needs to be said: You are not attractive. But, on top of this, you’re also not interesting, fun, or exciting. I know this must sound like I’m just being an arsehole but I’m not. I’m actually pointing [...]
Continue Reading →Why Inner Game?
Inner game has every answer you’ve been searching for. Big statement, I know. There’s so many gurus out there telling you need their outer game techniques. And their methods, their routines, their ‘secrets of seduction’. Well, I’m about to show you just how wrong they are. I’m not going to waste your time with in [...]
Continue Reading →The Secret To Ultimate Inner Game..
If you want to work out just how much your inner game is holding you back, picture this:
You step into the bar. Flashing lights, thumping music, ladies dancing and guys…
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"I summarize the book in one sentence: solve your problems at the core and the rest will be taken care of" - Mr Chan
"Spot on. Really hit the nail on the head." - Jamie
"The message I'm hearing by page 25 is "be an iPod in a Walkman world ... If you were an iPod you would not *be* in a Walkman world" - Santiago
"Highly recommend it" - James
"When the author says: "Don't fake it - actually make it", he has created a new classic quote" - Santiago (more)
"The concluding chapters ... are too precious..." - Santiago (even more)
"WORD ... nothing else to add!" - Toby
