All Entries in the "Spirituality & Dating" Category
The Way Of Transformation.
Here’s a quote I just came across. What does it mean to YOU?
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“The man who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to…
Benefits Of Being In Your Body.
I love women. The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell…
…the way they carry themselves through the world, the way they shut down, and the way they open up.
All of it.
Most of all, I love the way they…
Are You Sexually Connecting With Women?
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
I’m talking about sex, of course.
The allure of it is all-pervasive…
Do Rich Men REALLY Attract Women?
There is a common belief that rich men attract women with ease.
More specifically, that women are attracted to men with MONEY.
The seduction community has gone to some way to upset that myth…
Mostly, by demonstrating that a guy who can banter…
2010 Seduction Community Predictions.
It will be amusing to come back here in one years’ time and see how many of these seduction community predictions I got wrong.
So, let’s begin ;)
Seduction Community Prediction #1: People Will Stop Using The Term “Seduction…
Do You Get Self-Conscious?
As human beings we naturally want to be real, authentic, and truly ourselves.
We might not all be consciously aware of this drive towards authenticity, but inherently we value being ourselves, especially when it is easy and effortless.
Fulfillment comes from knowing what and who we are, and we seek security in this knowledge.
We want the sense of who we are to be stable, and we want this stability…
Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board…
…quoting the “latest dating theory findings” as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER…
How Awake Are You Right Now?
What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?
How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?
Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?
Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody…
Life Back In The Year 2010.
(An essay written in a not-too-distant-future).
Back then, when a guy walked past a cute girl in the street, he would rarely give her a smile.
And the girl, despite knowing that the guy was walking towards her, would choose to look straight ahead.
She would choose not to acknowledge him.
The guy and the girl would walk past each other, refusing to…
Are You A Man Of Your Word?
How powerful are you?
How powerful is your WORD?
I know many people who really make an effort to keep their promises to other people:
- to be accountable,
- responsible…
Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
How To Get Away With Anything.
I’m about to give you a license to do whatever the fuck you want.
I’m serious.
Here, take it. I grant you the right, by the powers vested in me by whatever. Go nuts.
What do you mean, you don’t want it? Oh, I’m not authorised to…
Why You Should Be Externally Validated.
I have a secret to tell you-
I like external validation. It feels really good.
And not just a little bit good, but a lot.
I know there’s a lot of community “gurus” telling you that you shouldn’t be externally validated, but I completely disagree – and let me show you why…
5 Things You Don’t Know About LoGun, Me & MasterClass MKII.
1. We Beat The Church Of Satan.
I will admit it. I like the fact that this humble blog just got ranked in the top 200,000 websites in the world.
Well, 199,340th today, to be exact.
Which may seem like not much, until you consider…
Meeting Women On The Beach – Efffortless Game.
Long tanned legs? Check.
The tiniest black shorts you’ve ever seen? Check.
Beautiful dark hair? Check. We could have a winner here… But I wonder what she looks like from the front..
Check :-) I didn’t head out with a plan of meeting women…
Who Is The Source Of Your Happiness?
I was dating a girl some time ago. And, as most couples do, sooner or later her and I had a slight disagreement
(I poured a drink on her sister’s head in the middle of Hugo’s – in retaliation for her throwing ice at me … mature, I know)
My girl got understandably upset and, on the way home, said something to me which I found disturbing…
Why Most Men FAIL At BEING COOL.
Here’s how I used to try and be cool:
Step 1: see a guy who *IS* cool.
Step 2: imitate him.
Now, here’s the FATAL FLAW in that system:
I would meet / spot another guy who I thought was cool. I’d start…
7 Reasons Why Dating Advice Makes You WORSE With Women.
If you’ve just spent a year of your life learning reading dating advice…
..And haven’t seen the results you want, you probably are starting to realise that:
7. Learning routines hasn’t helped you to talk to women.
6. Learning qualification has not *really* helped you…
Not Being Yourself When You Go Out? Read This.
When you go out to meet women, who are you going out for: you, or them?
Are you going out to gain something, or because going out is the best way in which you can both experience, and gift the world?
Are you chasing tail, or are you on an adventure that, by it’s very nature, cannot help but uplift those around you?
Basically, the big change in focus for me was going out to serve, rather…
Seduction Community Pitfalls.
Let’s be honest, the reason we all got into this whole “game” thing was to get better with women.
And why do we want to get better with women? Because if we’re “better with women” then we’ll have better results with women.
If we have better results with women, then we’ll be happy with those results.
If we’re happy with those results, then…
Are You A Victim Of “The Chase?”
On a forum the other day, a few of the men raised an unusual topic for conversation. The topic was all about ‘the chase‘…
The more this topic was contributed to, the more all of these men realised how much they are consumed by the chase: they love it.
Not knowing what the outcome will be, the risk…
Just Be Yourself – Why Being Yourself Can Suck.
“Just be yourself”!
This advice from your mother had the seduction community gurus rolling in its grave.
“Your mum doesn’t know…
Evolution Of Dating Advice.
We have seen 2 generations of ‘dating advice’ so far:
Generation 1 – let’s call them “The Romantics” – who repeated the same kind of dating advice our mothers gave us.
“Be nice to her”, they insisted. “Listen…
What Is Your Ultimate Sexual Fantasy?
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
For me, it is bedding all nine of the Victoria’s Secret Angels, at once, together.
For the purpose of this exercise, use your…
What’s Behind Your Mask?
“You’re about to LEARN 7 SECRET NINJA OPENERS and have women THROWING THEMSELVES at you…”
Heh. Don’t you just get hopping mad every time you see another one of those hypey sales pages full…
Do You Respect Yourself Enough To Attract Women?
Respect for yourself. It’s a phrase that isn’t often mentioned in the dating community.
The importance of it is, however, something I stumbled across…
Dealing With “But I Have A Boyfriend”.
You approach a pretty girl. You are talking to her for a little bit and things are looking promising.
So, you decide to ‘close’ this deal and so you whip out your Nokia in a swift ninja motion and tell her you’d like to see her again.
“But .. I have a boyfriend.”…
What Makes A Healthy Relationship?
I thought you guys might enjoy this quote:
The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is…
Number 1 Thing That Women Desperately Want.
Everyone wants more pleasure. Some people try and pretend they don’t, but they’re getting secret pleasure from that denial.
Everyone wants more..
Why Approaching HB10s Can Be Bad For You.
A lot of guys get in the dating community to get their dating ‘issues’ sorted.
More importantly, they get in to it to “enrich” their relationships with women and improve their chances of…
