Choosing The Ultimate Date Location.

by Leigh (LoGun) on June 23, 2010 · No Comments

date location It’s an eternal question.

You’ve met this great girl. You want to take her out on a date. So, what’s a good date location?

Where should you take her?

Well, when picking your date location, there’s something really important that you need to keep in mind.

Firstly, I’m assuming that you’ve already worked out that this girl is someone you want to go on a date with.

You’ve chatted with her, you like her, you click with her, and now you’re going to take it up a notch and spend some quality time together.

So, where do you go?

How about min-putt-putt? How does that sound to you for a date location? You could prove how skillful you are by beating her by a huge margin.

How about the art gallery? How does that sound to you? You could prove how well read you are by talking for hours about art.

How about dinner?

How does that sound to you? You could prove how much money you have by buying expensive food.

They all sound like great places, but there all missing the one key point..

She’s not going out with you because of the things you’re doing together or how much money you have..

(well, she might be but that’s more to do with your choice of woman than anything)

..or how good you are at golf.

She’s going out with you because she wants to spend time WITH YOU. She’s going out because she wants to know who you are on a deep level.

Sure, the date location is a bonus – but it’s not why she’s there.

The date location is just a context she’s using just so that she can get to know you.

Some of the most incredible dates I’ve ever had with women have been in the supermarket. Others have been in the video store.

Not watching the videos, but actually running around the store. It’s got nothing to do with where you are and everything do with how you feel there.

So which is the best date location?

Pick a date location where you feel safe and comfortable expressing who you really are.

Pick somewhere that’s going to allow you to relax and let out the real you. She’s there to see who you really are – so chose a space that’s going to allow you to show her.

It might be the golf, it might be the gallery, it might be birthing calves at an animal hospital, but whatever you choose, make sure it’s somewhere that’s going to help you really express who you are and what you love.

If you don’t, then even if the date goes well, she’s only going to like you for the person you’re pretending to be..

…rather than the person you really are.

And every minute you spend with her, you’re just going to have to keep pretending.

How much fun does that sound to you?

Now, the other key point is to remember that you’re going out with her to find out what she’s like as well.

If the thing you do allows you to express who you are but gives her no space to express who she is then you’re going to know nothing about her at the end.

So whilst it’s important that it’s a space where you feel comfortable, make sure it’s a space where she feels open as well.

Good luck!

LoGun