Here’s one from the mailbag. It’s an email I received from a guy who’d had a girl mysteriously give him the ‘I can only be friends right now…’ after three weeks of seeing each other… …and he wanted to make sure it didn’t happen again. Here’s what I had to say. —– Dear Leigh, End [...]
Impressing women is a profoundly simple thing to do. It doesn’t require complex scripts, intricate methods, or advanced tactics. All that’s required to impress a woman is some basic logic and self awareness. First of all though, you need to clarify exactly what kind of woman you want to impress, because different kinds of women [...]
What Women Want
She wants you to be inspirational. She wants you to be courageous. She wants you to stand up for what you believe in. She wants you to have morals and principles. She wants you to have direction and purpose. She wants you to live your life on your terms. And most of all, she wants [...]
Continue Reading →Developing An Unlimited Routine Stack: 4 Simple Steps
Running out of things to say when talking to beautiful women is a common problem. The seduction community solution for this is to learn a large amount of stories and topics to talk about so that you can pull something up on demand. If you want to spend half your night reading notes about stories [...]
Continue Reading →Q&A: The Perfect Opener?
Here’s a question I received a few days ago about a situation I’m sure you’ve been in. If you’re still working through the whole PUA mindset, you’ll find my answer very useful. Question: Hey, I don’t know if this is the right place to send this to, but I really need some advice. Everything [...]
Continue Reading →My New Years Resolution
Ever since I can remember, I’ve had the same new years resolution: To Live. A simple and effective reminder that this is my life and I’m the only one who’s ever going to give me what I want. This year, I’ve decided to change it. Ever since Steven left, my workload at AI has ballooned. [...]
Continue Reading →What An Extraordinary Year It’s Been…
This year has been such an incredible journey. There’s been so many massive changes in not only my life, but in AI as well that I couldn’t begin to list them all here. When this year started, I had no idea of the journey I’d be going on. There’s no way you could have convinced [...]
Continue Reading →Bulletproofing Interactions With Women
Bulletproofing Interactions With Women Want to know how to feel more relaxed, confident, and fun when talking to women? I know I did. I’ve struggled my entire life to just relax around women. I’m an intense guy. These struggles only grew worse when I began desiring women who were looking for fun and excitement in [...]
Continue Reading →I’m Glad This Isn’t Me Anymore…
Mike went to the NY Philharmonic orchestra by himself because he loves classical music. Lauren had planned to meet friends there but they cancelled so she ended up alone as well. Mike and Lauren met and went on a date. Mike thought it went well and tried to organise a second date with Lauren by [...]
Continue Reading →What would you do differently?
You can feel the barrel of the gun, pressed against your temples. The psychotic gunman has demanded to know what you really want to do with your life. After you respond, he tells you that if you’re not taking big steps towards that life when he visits you in6 weeks, he’s going to kill you. [...]
Continue Reading →How To Spot Her Tests
I see it all the time. Guys write field reports and always ask “Was this a test? Was she testing me here?” So, here’s a little known secret to work out whether or not she was testing you. It’s fool-proof and guarantees that you pick every test, every time and you’re never left confused about [...]
Continue Reading →The Difference Between a PUA and a Naturally Attractive Man
You’re here because you want to be naturally attractive to women. I get it. You want to live your life, on your terms, doing what you want, and have the women you desire be attracted to you for it. That’s great. It’s why I’m here as well. I also get that you don’t want to [...]
Continue Reading →What YOU want: How to find your deep desires in 3 simple steps.
Getting in touch with what you really desire is one of the core elements of… …becoming naturally attractive to women. After all, if you don’t know what you want, then you can’t experience it. And if you can’t experience it without her, then you’re always going to be needy and dependent on her to give [...]
Continue Reading →What Women Really Want
When I was growing up, I was taught to be nice to women. I was taught to treat them like friends, really good friends, and eventually, they’re going to see just how attractive you are. I was taught it was wrong to think of women as sexual creatures and it was wrong to show sexual [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Your Ego: 3 Simple Steps
This is one for all the spiritual guys out there. The evils of the Ego gets a lot of attention from all the spiritual teachers out there. The Ego has been blamed for everything from the breakdown of relationships to creating wars! But no-one’s really given you a game plan to both identify and overcome [...]
Continue Reading →Everything’s Amazing and Nobody is Happy
I just saw this and thought it was awesome. Check it out: It really got me thinking about how much I take for granted in my life. Today, I drove to the farmers markets with the woman I love, sat and ate some beautiful food from 3 different continents, surrounded by family and friends, then [...]
Continue Reading →Finding Your Deepest Gift
“How do I find my purpose / gifts?” is a question that pops up frequently on the Attraction Institute Forum. If you’re one of those people who’s searching for that deeper and more meaningful part of himself, then here’s a great article on it from www.psychologytoday.com on how to find your deepest gifts. ———— How [...]
Continue Reading →Boost Your Testosterone: A Cheap and Easy Way
Testosterone is that awesome little chemical that helps you feel like a Man. It controls sex drive and aggression and is key to pushing forward with your life rather than wasting it sitting on a couch. There’s quite a few guys on the forum who are quittingmasturbating and all kinds of fun things to boost [...]
Continue Reading →How To Stop Running Out Of Thing To Say
For some magical reason, this topic came up in both the Get Real and Be Powerful calls I did this week… …so I thought I’d share it with all you guys. I know how much of a bitch running out of things to say is so here’s my – ULTIMATE POWERHOUSE MAGIC QUICK FIX SOLUTION [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day #6 – What are you going to do about it?
“What are you going to do about it?” The world is never going to give you what you want. You’re never going to wake up and one day everything is going to be perfect. The quality of your life isn’t determined by how perfect the world is, it’s determined by how you respond when it [...]
Continue Reading →How To Be Attractive To Women
“How do I be more attractive to women?” was the question that started me on my journey firstly into the seduction community, then out of it.
I get asked it so often that I thought I’d write out the three things I wish I’d been told when I first wanted to know how to be attractive to women.
No. 1 – Stop trying to attract women…
Continue Reading →RIP Steve Jobs
Yesterday, the world lost a great man. Thank you for the incredible contribution you made to the world. I hope, that one day, I can make even a fraction of the difference that you have made. Below is a speech he made back in 2005. He touches on life, death, passion, love, and how to [...]
Continue Reading →Should you learn PUA Techniques?
Well, you can if you want, but just be aware that they’re going to do more damage than good. Here’s why: If you’re learning and attempting to implement pickup structures, routines, and techniques, then you’re going to be thinking about them when you’re with a woman. You’re going to be stuck in your head instead [...]
Continue Reading →Easy or Hard? One Question That Will Define Your Success with women
In the 5 years I’ve been coaching guys on how to become naturally attractive to women, I’ve seen it all. I’ve seen guys literally transform their lives after spending 5 minutes on the forum. They log on, read one thing, apply it to their life and their success with women and in the rest of [...]
Continue Reading →The Reason She’s Not Attracted To You…
Working out why you’re not getting the women you want… …can be confusing and difficult. Today, I’m going to make it really simple for you. There are three simple steps you can follow to get the answer. 1. Read this post: www.attractioninstitute.org/how-to-attract-women 2. Then answer this question: How do attractive women feel when they’re around [...]
Continue Reading →Sexual Expression for Dummies: A ‘how to’ guide
I’ve spent the last few weeks… …working with a select group of guys to help the blast through their approach anxiety… …because they identified it as the number one thing preventing them from attracting the women they want. After all the work we’ve done, it turns out they were wrong. Throughout all the exercises and [...]
Continue Reading →Do You Believe In Anything This Much?
How valuable something is to you can be judged by what you’re willing to do for it. The more you care about it, the harder you’re going to fight for it. This is a Man who believes so strongly in personal freedom and expression that he’s willing to go to jail over and over again. [...]
Continue Reading →How To Eradicate Your Approaching Nerves
From time to time, I get a particularly good question in my inbox and I thought I’d share this one with you. If you have issues approaching women, this one should clear up a big sticking point. Question: Hey guys. Loved Endgame. I’ve spent most of my life as a sculptor. Wood carver. I [...]
Continue Reading →Should you call her back?
Maybe you met at a bar, maybe at a party… You had a good time, a few laughs, and so you decided to swap numbers. You call her a few days later and things don’t go so well. She says she’s a bit busy and to call her soon. So you don’t look too needy, [...]
Continue Reading →How To Impress a Girl: One Secret They’re Not Telling You
Impressing a girl is easy. VERY easy, when you know what you’re doing… And if you’re not impressing women right now, it’s because you’re listening to advice that misses the most important point. There’s plenty of advice on how to impress a girl floating around the internet. Apparently, the way to impress a girl is: [...]
Continue Reading →How to know EXACTLY what to do in any situation
There’s plenty of advice on the Internet about the different ways you can attract women. There’s even plenty of advice on this site. So, I’m not going to cover that today. This post is about helping you decide which piece of advice is the best piece for you. It’s one, simple question you can use [...]
Continue Reading →It could happen any time…
As I was walking to football this morning, I watched a car jump the medium strip of a six lane road and smash head on into a car coming the other direction. I have no idea how, but by some act of a higher power, no-one was seriously injured. But they could have been. Both [...]
Continue Reading →How to Attract Women: The One Thing They Don’t Tell You
There are thousands of tips on the Internet on how to attract women… …and EVERY SINGLE one of them misses the most crucial piece of information possible. I know this because I read almost all of them when I was trying to get better at attracting women. It wasn’t till I worked out this one [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the Day #5 – Follow your fear…
And now for the next installment… ‘Follow your fear.’ How would your life be different today if you decided to move towards the things that scare you, rather than running and hiding from them? What would ‘ve been different when you saw that cute girl that you decided not to approach? What would’ve been different [...]
Continue Reading →AI Myths and Misconceptions: BUSTED
If you’ve found your way to this post, I’m sure you’re aware that the Attraction Institute philosophy is very unique. Because it’s so unique, there seems to be a bit of confusion about what we really stand for. To help clear that confusion, I’ve put together a list of the most common misconceptions and why [...]
Continue Reading →Becoming completely FREE around women
Sure, when you woke up this morning… - You chose what you ate for breakfast, - You weren’t forced into any strict religious practice - You decided what you were going to wear today …but is that really freedom? Is that all there is to it? How free are you, really? Yes, you have the [...]
Continue Reading →Meeting Women Made Easy
I know how overwhelming this whole ‘meeting, attracting, flirting with women’ thing can seem. I remember when I first started, it just felt like there was SOOO much to do and SOOO much to learn before I could even start getting the success I wanted. It was quite intimidating. That’s why, today, I’m going to [...]
Continue Reading →LoGun’s Guide to Rockstar Social Status
It’s time for a bit of a Q&A. —————- Hi LoGun, I regularly read your posts and want to ask you for a favour. Can you write something about STATUS? What I mean is we’re taught by the PUA community that everything is about status and that it determines your value in the society. I [...]
Continue Reading →What’s your dream?
Without a dream, you’re not going to push yourself when it gets hard. Without a dream, you’re not going to get up when you fall down. Without a dream, you’re not going to take that extra step when it really counts. So, what’s your dream? I’m having a little NFL love fest this week.
Continue Reading →It doesn’t matter where you’ve come from…
I know it can seem like the world is against you. I know it can seem like everyone has it easier than you. But did you have to sleep in the same bed as your grandma till you were 15? Did you have to sleep in the same room as your Grandma till you were [...]
Continue Reading →The Best Way To Approach Women
Thought of the day #3 and #4 (How to be free around women)
For those who haven’t been keeping up with the blog posts… …I have reminders in my phone that go off EVERY DAY to make sure I’m directing my attention in productive directions. Years and years and years of being stuck in my head wondering what other people are thinking of me can be hard to shake… I [...]
Continue Reading →Should you smile when talking to women?
I know a lot of people who say ‘Yes, you should smile when talking to women. It makes you appear more friendly and attractive to women.” That sounds great I theory, but if you take a quick look under the surface, you’ll see just how bad an idea it is try and appear more friendly [...]
Continue Reading →Should you be vulnerable?
This is an amazing video that looks at the link between vulnerability and happiness. If you’ve ever wondered whether being vulnerable was going to do anything for you then you should definitely check this out. Oh, and just to give you some context, this is the most watched TED talk ever. L.
Continue Reading →How to get your lunch for free (field report)
I witnessed one of the most beautiful and simple ‘pickups’ I’ve ever seen yesterday. It was beautiful because the Man felt strong and in control of his world… …and the woman left smiling and feeling like the most beautiful woman on earth. It was simple because there was no techniques, no routines, no structures, just [...]
Continue Reading →When I meet a woman I’m attracted to, I always talk about the same thing. Always. It’s one topic that allows me to flirt with her, push her buttons, play around, and get deep and serious. I can talk about this and have a fun, quick conversation or a deep and meaningful conversation for hours [...]
Continue Reading →How to get out of the Friend Zone
This one is simple. I’m not going to go into complex details, I’m just going to give it to you straight. The way to get out of the friend zone is to stop treating her like a friend. That’s it. She doesn’t put you in the friend zone, you put you in the friend zone. [...]
Continue Reading →Should you learn how to attract women?
There’s one question that’s going to determine just how easy you find it to transform your relationships with women. The answer is the reason that your journey is either effortless and rewarding or demanding and frustrating. That question is: Should you learn to attract women? Now, the answer might seem obvious. I mean, that’s why [...]
Continue Reading →You’re not the only one who…
I know from my years of trying to transform my life, that it can seem like you’re the only one who gets this wrong. This post is an attempt to show you that you’re not the only one. I’ve put together a list of all the pointless things I’ve done (and still do) in my [...]
Continue Reading →The Winner of the June 2011 Get Real challenge is…
Congratulations to everyone who participated in the June 2011 Get Real challenge. There were many boundaries pushed, many barriers overcome, and many lives transformed over the last 2 weeks. It takes a lot of balls to firstly, publicly air your fears, and secondly, push yourself through them. I know there were many guys who read [...]
Continue Reading →Who deserves to win the June 2011 Get Real Challenge?
I got nervous just watching it. You can see the terror in his face, you can feel his fear through the screen, and yet he still goes through with it. He still puts his arm out, he still lets the guy put it on his hand, and he still passes the Tarantula from hand to [...]
Continue Reading →Being Authentic with Women: it’s a Trap!
Despite the immense benefits that being authentic and real with women can bring to your life, there’s also a down side that you have to be aware of. It’s something that comes up a lot in both Get Real and Be Powerful and I thought I should warn you about it. It’ll make it easier [...]
Continue Reading →‘My Story’ is now open!
Check out My Story It’s one thing to know what you need to do to experience all that life has to offer. It’s something completely different to understand how that theory can be applied to your life. And it’s SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY to see practical examples of how you can create the life you truly [...]
Continue Reading →What Women Want in Bed
This is one of the best posts I’ve ever read on sex. It’s written by a Woman, to Men, trying to help them understand sex from a woman’s perspective and what she’s looking for. Enjoy. ———– Dear Men of Craigslist, Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, [...]
Continue Reading →How to have fun in ANY situation
I went to a party last night. I know… CRAZY!!! This might not seem like a big deal to you guys, but it actually was for me. I don’t really go out much any more. I used to go out a lot! Steven and I would be out 3 or 4 times a week. We’d [...]
Continue Reading →Thought of the day: The Man of your Dreams
This is the next installment of the ‘Thought of the day’ series. These are little quotes, sayings, and (mostly) questions that I ask myself to keep me moving towards the life I want to create. Today’s is one of my favourites: Who is the Man of your dreams? This question isn’t about finding some dude [...]
Continue Reading →Hank Moody: A ‘how to’ guide
If you haven’t watched Californication, you need to. What a great show. Except for the current season. I don’t know if they got new writers or if they just ran out of ideas but it’s really gone down hill… Anyway, you’re not reading this to find out what I think of Californicaiton, you’re reading this [...]
Continue Reading →Attraction Institute facebook page is LIVE!
I mentioned this is an email a few weeks ago but I forgot to share it here. The AI Facebook page is now LIVE! Check it out
Continue Reading →LoGun’s (Incomplete) Law of Attraction
It seems that any seduction guru worth his salt has published a theory of attraction at some point. So, if I’m ever to make it to the status of an mPUAG, I should probably get mine out there as well. Note, this is not in any way a ‘finished’ theory and so would appreciate your [...]
Continue Reading →Can Eckhart Tolle help you be better with women?
For those who don’t know who Eckhart Tolle is (which rock have you been hiding under?), he’s the author of books such as The Power of Now and A New Earth. The key fundamental tennet of his teaching is that achieving presence is a powerful way to transform the core of any issue. There’s quite [...]
Continue Reading →Problems with women? 3 questions to get you to the core
I get quite a few emails from guys asking me to help them solve a problem. What I’ve found is that most of the trouble they’re having finding a solution to their problem is that they don’t know what the real problem is. There’s three quick questions that I always ask to help them get [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming a fear of rejection
As promised in the last email, here is the article you’ve been waiting for – overcoming a fear of rejection. I’ve broken it down into 3 short steps that are going to help you break through this barrier. I’m going to go into quite specific detail in this. I’m not going to talk about theoretical [...]
Continue Reading →Be More Productive
When Steven left a few months ago, one of two things was going to happen. Either I was going to continue with the same (poor) time management systems I’d been running and AI would fall further and further into disarray or I would find a new way of operating and AI would continue to grow. [...]
Continue Reading →How to start a movement
I know there are a lot of guys who read this blog who want to start something big. They want to make a difference to the world and are looking for a way to do it. Here’s a shortvideo that explains just how to start a movement. Enjoy.
Continue Reading →Thought of the Day
If I just let my mind wander off, it can end up in all kinds of useless places. If I let myself, I can spend hours surfing through YouTube videos, watching football highlights, and just screwing around on facebook. This, in no way, helps me move closer to the life I want to live. To [...]
Continue Reading →Think you have it tough? At least you have limbs
The quality of your life isn’t determined by what you have or what you go through, it’s determined by what you choose to do with it. This guy is an AMAZING example ofthat. He was born without arms or legs and he’s one of the happiest and most powerful people I’ve seen in a long [...]
Continue Reading →How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend
64 simple steps. Enjoy. L.
Continue Reading →What It Takes To Be A Champion (Video)
This is a great clip from Arnold Schwarzenegger talking about what it takes to be a champion. Really inspirational stuff. It’s easy to see how he became so successful in so many different areas ofhis life. Enjoy. How do you think your life would change if you started looking at your life like this?
Continue Reading →Get Motivated: 2 Simple Steps
Motivation came up as one of the big things that guys were struggling with in our recent survey. (BTW, the more information we have on what you’re looking for, the more we can give you so if you haven’t filled out the survey, please do so. It’ll mean you get more of the answers you [...]
Continue Reading →Married Life
Have you ever wanted to live in 1894? Well, you wont after reading this! This is advice written in 1894 to alert young brides to the terrible turmoils of the sexual debauchery of married life. Can you imagine what it would have been like to just have a bit of sex if this was the [...]
Continue Reading →What do you love?
A friend of mine shared this great blog with me. It’s written by his boss. Every few days he writes a post about something that he loves. It’s really beautiful. You can
Continue Reading →You Only Live Once
“You only live once.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this. So many times that it’s just started to be empty words. Just like: “I’ll have a beer, thanks…” Or… “Get the f*#k out of my house you filthy slob!” But today, someone said it to me and I actually stopped to [...]
Continue Reading →Overcoming Frustration
Do you know what 4:45am on a Monday looks like? Apparently it’s dark. Very dark. And not so warm either. It makes you yawn a lot and you are also overcome with burning desires to crawl back into bed. Funny that… I know this because I got to taste 4:45am on a Monday this morning. [...]
Continue Reading →How Incredible Do You Want Your Life To Be?
How incredible do you want your life to be? Do you want it to be REASONABLY incredible? Do you want it to feel an AVERAGE amount of greatness? Do you dream of experiencing a bit more than half of what life has to offer you? Now, do you think you can ever experience the extremes [...]
Continue Reading →Must Read Books: 5 Books That Will Change Your Life
5 must read books that will change your life. 1. The Tao of Pooh This book will answer the question: “What’s going on when the world doesn’t feel quite right?” This book had a profound influence on my life. I still remember sitting down to ‘just flick through the first few pages’ and emerging from [...]
Continue Reading →I’m going to throw something out there: You’re here because you’re looking an answer. You’re looking for a THE piece of information that’s going to help you take the next big step. That’s right, I’m very clever. I know this because if you weren’t you wouldn’t be here. You’d be out there, living your life. [...]
Continue Reading →My New Favourite Quote…
“When you never compromise, you have nothing to hide” Have a guess where this comes from: Some self help guru? Some PUA god? The latest spiritual leader? Tattooed on the back of a dancing midget? Surprisingly, all wrong. This comes directly from the marketing mouth of the American car manufacturer GMC. It’s their company slogan [...]
Continue Reading →Get Over Your Ex: 3 simple steps
I’ve been there before. I’ve fallen in love and had my heart broken in two. I know what it feels like to be left alone, wondering if you’re ever going to recover from the pain. So today, I’m going to share with you how I got over my ex and how you can get over [...]
Continue Reading →False time constraint: should you use one?
Question and answer time!!! Yay… That’s right. If you write to me with the question sitting at the edge of your tongue, you may just find yourself on our happy little blog. The question comes from a discussion I was having with a PUA about false time constraints. I was having a bit of a [...]
Continue Reading →Confidence Training For Men: 3 Easy Steps.
Want to feel more powerful? Want to feel more in control?
Want to feel all those amazing feelings that unshakable confidence brings?
Well, you’ve come to the right place. I’m going to give you the latest confidence training tools to so that nothing can stop you from living the life you want. But I’m also going to give you the one thing you NEED to know if you want to make that confidence long lasting.
The basic principle of any solid confidence training program is to help you prove to yourself that you can create the life you want.
If you can prove to yourself…
Continue Reading →Confidence Boosters For Men.
There are two different types of confidence boosters you can use and the one you choose is going to determine how much confidence boost you get stable your confidence boost is.
Seeing as I’m a very gifted linguist, I’m come up with the two very powerful names for these different types of confidence boost: external and internal.
An external confidence boost is the most…
Continue Reading →How To Attract A Woman: Things They Don’t Tell You.
The secret to how to attract a woman isn’t complex. It’s not long, hard, or complicated.
To show you just how you can attract a woman, I’m just going to ask you one simple question:
When have you had most success attracting a woman: when you’ve been trying to attract a woman or when you haven’t been trying at all and you’ve just been concentrating on enjoying yourself?
So what do you think you need to do to attract a woman?
Continue Reading →What Women Find Attractive: Guide For Men.
I wish it were as simple as waving a magic wand and saying ‘All women find x attractive!’ but in reality, it’s not. Why?
Well, do you and you mate find the same women attractive? Maybe sometimes, but all the time? No?
Then why would all women find the same guy attractive?
Duh…
So, to help you work out what women find attractive, we first need to nail down what kind of women we’re talking about.
Lets start with the easy one: What does she look like?
Is she tall or short? Is she brunette or blonde? Does she have blue eyes or brown? Is she curvy or slim?
Next, what kind of things does she like to do?
Does she like to play sports…
Continue Reading →Realise Your Potential As A Man.
If you’re reading this, then I’m going to guess that you’re aware of your potential.
You’re aware that there’s something powerful, something strong, something amazing inside you and you’re looking for a way to let it out.
That’s a great place to be.
It’s far easier to work with someone who realises…
Continue Reading →How To Improve Self Esteem: Foolproof Method.
I’ve got a foolproof way to improve self-esteem – become very good at achieving your goals.
It makes sense, doesn’t it? If you can set yourself goals that you really want to achieve and you achieve them they’re you’re going to improve your self esteem.
I’ve also got a foolproof way to NOT improve self-esteem. Funnily enough, it’s the same way – become very good at achieving your goals.
Confused? There’s a very subtle element that you need to be aware of to avoid the same trap that a lot of people who’re searching for ‘how to improve self esteem’ fall into..
Continue Reading →Self Improvement Books: What They Don’t Tell You.
I’ve been involved in the self-improvement community for nearly 8 years.
I’ve spent 5 of those as a coach. The number complaint I hear from my clients is that “I’ve read all these books and I’ve even taken workshops, but I’m still not living the life I want.”
If you’ve read through any self-improvement books and want to know why you’re still not living the life you want, then you need to read what’s written below…
Continue Reading →Places To Meet Women: Best Places To Meet Women.
I’ve had quite a few guys write to me asking for advice on places to meet women so I thought I’d write out a comprehensive list of every place that you can meet women in your life.
That list has one item on it: Every place in your life is a place to meet women.
That’s it. That’s the whole list.
Think back through the last week of your life…
Continue Reading →How To Be Confident With Girls: 3 Awesome Tips.
Here are some tips on how to be confident with girls:
Tip 3. Don’t Edit Yourself.
Feeling nervous? Say to her that you’re nervous. Don’t know what to say to her? Say to her that you don’t know what to say to her. Think that she looks spunky in that skirt? Say to her that she looks spunky in that skirt. Simple.
If you hide your true feelings and thoughts…
Continue Reading →How To Build Confidence And Self Esteem
Here are some ways you can build confidence and self esteem:
3. Stop Reading.
Really. How many “How to build confidence” guides have you read before this one? Be honest now :) Here’s a secret: having the knowledge in your head does not make any difference for your confidence and self esteem.
So stop being a knowledge junkie – it will not help you build confidence and self..
Continue Reading →How To Get Confidence: Guide For Men.
If you’re wondering how to get confidence, then you probably have this trait as well:
You look to others for approval.
And that is what undermines your confidence. You can read all the “how to get confidence” guides on the Internet – and become an world expert on confidence..
And yet still not be confident.
See, the problem is not a lack of knowledge..
Continue Reading →How To Improve Self Esteem: The #1 Rule.
There is so much advice on how to improve self esteem.
I’m sure you’ve read at least some of it. It’s a bit overwhelming, isn’t it?
I was also trying to figure out how to improve self esteem, reading through tips like:
“Pinpoint your negative thinking”
“Become aware of beliefs and thoughts”
“Identify troubling conditions and situations”
Just reading it was enough to make my brain..
Continue Reading →Improving Self Confidence: Pitfalls To Avoid.
There is a lot of advice on the Internet on improving self confidence. But does all of it work? Here are some pitfalls you can avoid:
Pitfall 3: Knowledge Is King.
If you think you’re going to read a blog post and socialise confidently the next day, you’ve been misled.
Knowledge does not give you access to improving self-confidence. You can become a world expert on improving self confidence and still have low self confidence.
Pitfall 2: “Just Be..
Continue Reading →Increase Self-Esteem In 3 Easy Steps.
Here’s how you can increase self-esteem:
Step 1: Stop Treating the Symptoms.
Some “experts” will tell you that to increase self-esteem you have to:
- look people in the eye
- stop thinking negative thoughts
- try new hobbies
- exercise…
Online Dating Australia: Why it Sucks.
In Australia, online dating is becoming the new way for busy men to meet a woman.
And it seems like a perfect solution, right? Create an online dating profile and virtually “hit on” all the women you like.
Then come back a day later and harvest the replies. Take the time to craft your own replies, maybe even use some Google to help you sound more witty and seductive.
Just like Facebook has taken the college experience and put it online, online dating has taken…
Continue Reading →How To Meet Beautiful Women In 3 Easy Steps.
Step 1: Get off the Internet.
Seriously. You ALREADY know where to meet beautiful women. They walk past you every day. Beautiful women are everywhere and to meet them, you have to open your mouth and start talking to them. So why don’t you?
Step 2. Be straight with..
Continue Reading →Speed Dating Sydney: The Secret to Success!
The Secret to Speed Dating success
I’m about to give you the secret to undreamed of success at speed dating. It’s a secret that will at least triple the amount of beautiful women you get to meet.
Yes, at least triple. If not waaaaaaay more.
It’s 4 simple steps.
Continue Reading →How To Be Happy With Yourself – 3 Simple Steps
Want to know how to be happy with yourself? Here’s my Number 1 way of doing it:
Step Outside Your Comfort Zone.
You feel most alive when you are doing something which gets your pulse going, don’t you? But you don’t need to go skydiving to do that. Want to feel alive today? Want to know how to be happy with yourself?
Go tell that attractive woman who you see in the bar exactly what you feel…
Continue Reading →How To Improve Communication Skills.
If you’re wondering how to improve your communication skills, I invite you to consider something:
You’re missing the point.
You don’t need to learn how to improve your communication skills. Your communication skills are fine.
You have been learning to communicate since age 3, so you’ve had 20, maybe even 30 or 40 years of on-the-job training…
Continue Reading →Best Confidence Course for Men? Pitfalls To Avoid.
Here are some pitfalls to avoid when choosing a confidence course:
3. Be wary of NLP.
I’m not saying NLP doesn’t work. It may help you to produce some results – but its a poor choice for a confidence course if you want to expand, grow and realise your full potential as a Man.
Continue Reading →HOW TO FLIRT WITH GIRLS: FLIRTING 101
Look, there are plenty of “guides” on the Internet which will teach you how to flirt with girls.
And in those you’ll hear some familiar themes: be playful, make her feel sexy, don’t care about the outcome, tease her..
But here’s the interesting part: KNOWING THAT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE. You can be a world expert on how to flirt with girls..
You can read 100 articles which describe flirting techniques..
Continue Reading →Where To Find Women: Guide For Real Men
Is there a “woman drought”? Lots of guys are wondering about where to find women these days.
Well, how many women do you walk past each day? Quite a few, right? There’s probably a cute girl who makes you coffee in the mornings.
And a hot girl you saw on the bus. And in a bookshop. And the woman who strutted past you in the street.
I’ll assert that your real problem is not a case of “where to find women?” as “how do I approach women who I see every day?”
Continue Reading →What Attracts Women To Men?
If you’re searching for what attracts women to men, you probably are looking for tips on how you can act differently..
..so that women feel attracted to you.
Now, I’m not any kind of guru – I’m just a guy is on a journey of realising my fullest potential as a man. And I’m lucky to have some great women in his life.
And so I asked one of them – what attracts women to men? What does she want in a man?
Continue Reading →Self Confidence Tips For Men: Attract Women By Being Yourself.
Is your self-confidence not quite what you want it to be?
Are you looking for self-confidence tips to find the happiness you desire?
Well, here are 3 self-confidence tips you need to know – if you want to bring long-term satisfaction into your life.
Self-Confidence Tip No. 1 – Stop blaming your lack of self-confidence for anything..
Continue Reading →How To Attract Women Tips For Attracting Women
I realize you came here for tips on how to attract women, but I’m going to give you something better.
Instead of giving you little tick after little trick that may, on some magical day, help you attract the women one or two women..
..I’m going to help you find what you can do to never have to learn tips to attract women again.
Does being the kind of Man who women are naturally attracted to without constantly needing to use tricks sound interesting to you?
Good, then read on.
There are lots of tips on the internet on how to attract women…
Continue Reading →You’re Not An AFC
In my travels around the dating community, I’m constantly hearing guy referring to themselves as AFC.
If you’re one of those guys then this post is for you…
Continue Reading →How To Get Women Into Bed: Simply And Easy.
It’s a question which we, men, wrestle with from the time we hit our teenage years:
“How to get women into bed?”
Well, there are two basic different paths you can follow.
And the one you choose is going to determine, firstly, how easy your journey is. And secondly, how much you enjoy yourself on the way…
Continue Reading →Alpha Male Characteristics: Which Ones Are You Missing?
I’m astounded by the number of supposed Alpha Male Characteristics that you’re supposed to learn in order to be an Alpha Male.
It seems like self-help guru’s sat around for years just observing people who they thought were Alpha Males and wrote down EVERYTHING they did.
They came up with a list of alpha male characteristics which just baffles my brain:
Stand up straight
Take up space
Talk loudly…
Ultimate PUA Openers: Most Powerful PUA Opener Ever?
Are you searching for the best PUA openers? Good.
Of all the PUA openers I’ve seen, this is the most powerful one of them all.
It’s guaranteed to work, every time. Every time. Would you like to know what it is?
Would you like to be able to throw away all your other PUA openers and just head out at night armed with one weapon, which is going to open every woman, every time?
Continue Reading →Test Your Self Esteem: The 1-Minute Self Esteem Test.
Want to know how good your self esteem is? Would you like a little self esteem test to see exactly how you shape up?
Imagine you’re sitting at work and your boss comes up to you.
She (I’m just going to fly in the face of gender stereotypes – and pretend your boss is a woman) leans over your desk and in her sweetest and most soothing voice says:
“You’re lazy and you’re work is shit.”
How do you respond to this self esteem test?
Continue Reading →Improving Self Esteem – is it really the solution to your issues?
There are plenty of articles out there on how to build self esteem and then how to make your self-esteem bullet proof so I’m not going to tackle that little puppy.
Instead, I’m going to ask a deeper question that you must consider before you embark down the journey of trying to develop incredible self-esteem:
Is building self-esteem really the answer to your issues?
Continue Reading →Psychology of Attracting Women
There’s a secret you haven’t been told about the psychology of attracting women.
It’s got nothing to do with magic sprays or hypnosis but it’s something you’re going to need to know if you’re going to have incredible relationships with amazing women…
Continue Reading →Changing Your Life.
Are you in the process of changing your life?
How long have you been doing this process? A year? Two years?
Shouldn’t you have a Bachelor’s degree in Changing Your Life by now? ;)
Now, what you probably know by now is the old cliche: the more things change, the more things remain the same.
I heard that one before – many times – but I never really got why…
Continue Reading →How To Be Confident.
I’m sure you’ve read other blog articles about how to be confident.
This one will be a little different.
And here’s why. It has nothing to do with learning how to be confident. Rather, it will show you how to let your natural confidence emerge.
I find that I’m most confident when I have nothing to hide. Like really – it’s only when I’m trying to pretend something in front of a woman that confidence becomes an issue…
Continue Reading →How To Talk To Women – Effortlessly.
The secret to being able to talk to women effortlessly is…. Drum roll… More drums…
Talk to them.
That’s it. Walk up there, express yourself openly and freely, and then see what happens.
Not the kind of answer you were hoping for, right? Well, that’s because it’s only part of the answer.
The part you really wanted to hear – the end. In order for this to really make sense…
Continue Reading →Living A Life Of Adventure.
Have you ever felt bored? Trapped? Caged by your life?
Ever caught yourself day dreaming about travelling the world? Finding excitement and adventure in foreign lands?
Well, there is an easier way.
There’s a way you can experience all the excitement, adventure, and the thrill of really living that you’re looking for without leaving the country.
In fact, you don’t even have to…
Continue Reading →Approach Anxiety: Overcome It Today.
I’m going to make this really simple.
I’m not going to go into complex theories and silly pranks to overcome your approach anxiety. Instead, I’m just going to give you the 6 thing that you can use to eliminate approach anxiety forever:
1. You’re not genetically programmed to experience approach anxiety.
Your approach anxiety has nothing to do with your fore fathers being afraid…
Continue Reading →Stingy Much?
I realised recently just how stingy I am with people.
I went on a date a few days ago. And you know what my real, underlying purpose for going was?
To leave her thinking:
“Jeez, he was a great guy.”
Like, really. Underneath my words, the banter and even the kiss at the end, that date was not about my date. It was all about me…
Continue Reading →How To Change The World.
I know there are a lot of guys in our little community who want to do more.
I’ve been messaged more than once by guys saying:
“I want to be able to give back, I want to be able to help more people, I want to do something to make this world a better place, but I don’t know how I can.”
So I thought I’d share with you just how you can…
Continue Reading →Never Run Out Of Things To Say.
I’m going to let you in on a little secret.
It’s the secret that allows me to have effortless conversations with just about anybody in my life and never run out of things to say – especially with the women I’m attracted to.
It’s not due to the sheer volume of routines I’ve memorised or the complex word associations game I’ve learned…
Continue Reading →I Don’t Have My Shit Together.
I’ve been writing and talking a lot about areas of my life which are not working lately.
I find it interesting. I noticed I really enjoy having conversations with people where we both acknowledge that we don’t have all our shit together.
I call them the “what are you dealing with?” conversations…
Continue Reading →Number One Universal Truth About Women
I’m a man of few words so I’ll keep this short… Theylove to fuck as much as we do. Never forget that!
Continue Reading →#1 Reason Not To Play It Cool.
We are amazingly good at playing it cool. I remember seeing a quote once, which said:
“Seriousness is Man’s oldest con game.”
My interpretation of the meaning behind it was this: to act serious, somber, non-expressive, as we all do around people who we hardly know, is a facade – which we all play into because it’s safe.
And we play into this facade because inside it, there’s little risk. There’s little chance people might laugh…
Continue Reading →A Beginners Guide To BEING POWERFUL.
Do you have a habit of complaining?
About life? About people? Women? Your parents? Your boss? Good. Welcome to being human.
So, let’s have a look at that.
I invite you to begin viewing all the things you complain about as a product of your creation.
By that I mean – resist the temptation to blame someone else for your anger, frustration…
Continue Reading →How Much ‘Faking It’ Till You ‘Make It’?
From everything I’m hearing from the Pick Up community, fake-it-till-you-make-it is not only the fastest way to get better with women..
.. but also the best way.
But before you choose to go along that path, consider this.
Apparently, if you just keep faking it for long enough, eventually women wont be able to tell that you’re faking.
Eventually, they’re just going to believe it’s the real you and you can get all the women…
Continue Reading →It’s NOT Your Fault.
It can be tempting to say this to yourself:
It’s not your fault that your interactions with women are not as amazing, real, authentic, powerful, deep and moving as you want them to be..
It’s the fault of people who brought you up.
I mean, they just didn’t teach you the lessons you needed to learn. So you became inauthentic – you became the “nice guy” as a strategy to getting..
Continue Reading →3 Steps To Taking Control Of Your Life.
If you’re reading this then I’m sure you’re aware that the limited success you’re having with women isn’t driven by your lack of ‘knowledge’ or ‘information’.
I’m sure you’re aware that there’s something internally that’s preventing you from expressing the attractive and powerful guy you have inside you..
..and you’re looking for a way to remove the barriers which prevent him from…
Continue Reading →On Seeking Validation.
A little earlier I was sitting in a busy cafe behind my laptop..
..when I noticed something odd about myself.
When I opened up a tab with the latest edition of Harvard Business Review, I also became very aware if someone in the vicinity saw what I was reading, they’d be impressed.
And I noticed myself relax and become present. It’s like there was more of me to take…
Continue Reading →Overcoming Loneliness 101
Here’s one for all you science nerds out there..
..the scientific formula for overcoming loneliness. Yes, that’s right. I’ve discovered a formula for it.
Want to know what it is? Well, here you go:
C = L x R1 x R2 x N
Pretty straight forward, isn’t it? Oh, you want me to…
Continue Reading →Becoming A Man.
If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a beautiful woman say:
“There’s just not enough real Men these days”..
..then I wouldn’t be writing this blog post.
I’d be sitting in the Bahamas dictating it to one of my loyal sweat shop workers who would transcribe it, before…
Continue Reading →Are You Living TOO Comfortably?
“How are you?”
“I’m Good.”
Such a standard greeting and such a token, throwaway answer. I bet you said it yourself – at least twice today.
But what’s behind “I’m good”? Well, let’s try this on:
When you say “I’m good”, is it fair to say that most of the time what you’re really saying is..
Continue Reading →What Do You REALLY Think About Yourself?
Have you ever heard of confirmation bias?
It’s a psychology term used to describe the way we filter out any information which..
..doesn’t support how we see the world and allow in everything that does.
It’s a pretty nifty little trick that our minds use to make us feel good. And it’s pretty good at it too! But it’s also really good at hiding…
Continue Reading →Why Love Songs Are Rubbish.
I was in the gym the other day, looking at myself in the mir.. I mean, pushing my boundaries, when a strange videoclip began to play on the plasma screens.
It was a shirtless man by the name of Steelheart, singing a pop dance love song, in which he reassured…
Continue Reading →Is There ANYONE Out There?
You know a bunch of people. Some of them you like, others you don’t really like.
Some are nice. Some are angry. Some are annoying. Some are good. Some are bad. And so on…
If you don’t like some people, you tend to move away from them.
And if you like them, you tend to keep them…
Continue Reading →Is Being Real Just Too Hard?
I realise that being real with people can seem hard.
After all, if you’ve been running the same patterns of hiding who you are and what you stand for, for years and years, it can seem like a lot of work..
Continue Reading →Simple Strategies For An Effective Life.
I haven’t written here – in a long time!
Why not? Well, that’s easy.
Somewhere between launching Endgame with Leigh, making headway at my new dayjob..
..and starting a new project with Leigh which will empower…
Continue Reading →How To Lose A Great Job .. And Find A Better One.
A couple of weeks ago I’ve blogged about about getting great jobs.
Point of that story was to show how I went from surviving at work (and often getting fired) to getting a job I really wanted – and loving it.
The access to that was to begin craving challenge in my job. I wanted to get a job which I was…
Continue Reading →The ONLY Reason You Would Learn Pickup.
I’m going to shoot straight from the hip here.
You may not like what I have to say, in fact, it may even offend you, but in my experience in nearly 4 years (3 and a half of those as a coach) in the community, this is what I’ve seen through every single guy.
Every single one.
There’s only one reason you NEED to learn pick up, and that’s:
Because you’re trying to trick her into liking you.
Continue Reading →If You Want To Change The World .. Love A Woman.
This poem will show why depth of connection prevails over number of marks on your bedpost:
Continue Reading →Do You Know The Truth?
Consider this: truth is made, rather than found..
What do you hold as “true”? Do you realise that another person could have a different perspective on your truth, and call it a “truth” also?
Which one of you is right? Who is wrong?
Continue Reading →Choosing The Ultimate Date Location.
It’s an eternal question.
You’ve met this great girl. You want to take her out on a date. So, what’s a good date location?
Where should you take her?
Well, when picking your date location, there’s something really important that you need to keep in mind.
Continue Reading →Seeking Out Discomfort.
Going out of your way to find uncomfortable situations isn’t natural, but it’s essential…
At work, we spend hours (and millions of dollars seeking a place we can defend, a market position and sinecure we can feel safe in…
Continue Reading →How To Get A Great Job .. And Other Stuff.
If you’ve met me in person, or if you read this blog often, then you probably know that I have worked as a bartender for the past 5 years.
Heck, I remember serving a drink or six to many loyal AI subscribers and customers over the years. It’s been great.
But all that has recently come to an abrupt end..
Continue Reading →Simple Guide To Talking With Women.
“What do I talk about with women?”
“And what should I never talk about with women?”
These are some of the most commonly asked – and answered – questions in the dating advice circles.
I realised something yesterday: there is a difference between “talking about” and…
Continue Reading →On “Faking It Till You Make It”.
To those who are approaching endless women, expecting that they can “fake it till they make it”, I offer this quote:
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” – Albert Einstein.
Continue Reading →A Life Worth Risking.
It’s commonly known that Apple was started by two Steves: Jobs and Wozniak.
But did you know that Apple had a little-known third founder?
Third guy left the partnership two weeks after Apple was incorporated, selling his 10% share for less than a grand – a share which would be worth billions today.
He cited “too much risk” as the reason for leaving.
Some people say he is foolish, and describe his decision as the worst investment decision in history.
They miss one vital point…
Continue Reading →Are You “Good Enough” To Be On TV?
I’ve recently blogged about how the movie characters we love represent the outcomes we seek.
In a nutshell, I was saying that the TV and movie characters you get most addicted to possess the qualities that you want to possess.
For example Hank Moody from Californication is addictive because…
Continue Reading →The Death Of Dating Advice.
“The world doesn’t need any more dating advice”.
This was the thought which I woke to this morning.
And it’s not all bad news.
Death, like birth, is an inevitable part of expansion, and in the ash-heap of dating advice history will emerge..
Continue Reading →What A Woman Really Wants (right from her mouth).
I know the pain that can go with getting out there, meeting new people, and not getting the success you want.
It can be rough.
Be I have to share something with you that will help you see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I’m very lucky to have many incredibly beautiful women in my life.
This morning, I got to spend it with one of the most beautiful. She’s an..
Continue Reading →Why Feeling Shit Is A Good Thing.
I am searching.
I am purpose-less.
I am empty.
I am unsatisfied..
These are just some of the feelings I experienced yesterday.
My immediate reaction was to suppress them. To ignore…
Continue Reading →Inner Game Vs Outer Game: Which One Should You Work On?
The inner game / outer game debate is constantly raging..
..but there’s one thing that is constantly being left out of it.
So to make sure you can make an informed decision about which direction you want to go, I thought I’d ask the questions that need to be asked.
If you walked into a store that sold machines that cut off your balls..
..would whether or not you bought one would be determined by how good the salesman was?
Continue Reading →How Good Is Your Inner Game?
I get a lot of guys asking me how to work out whether they have good or bad inner game..
..so I thought I’d put a little test together.
It’s pretty straight forward – 1 question and a 1 word answer.
Are you ready to find out how well you’re doing? Well. Here it is:
Are you currently experiencing everything you..
Continue Reading →Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you…
Continue Reading →Unconditional Self-Acceptance: Your how-to guide
Contrary to popular belief, developing self acceptance isn’t some kind of technique that you have to internalise or develop..
..it’s actually a by-product of a much deeper mechanism that’s been at play all your life.
We’re all looking for things in our life.
We want stuff, and when we get it we fell good. It’s a no brainer. Think about the car you’ve always wanted. If you got that .. how would you feel?
Or even, think about the girl of your dreams. If you got her, how would…
Continue Reading →How To Attract More Women.
I mean, it’s why you’re here.
Those beautiful creatures, running around the club, laughing, giggling, and shaking those sexy bodies.
So, how do you attract more women?
It’s a good question.
And before you try and answer it, you need to know about the are two different…
Continue Reading →How To Approach A Girl.
I’m going to let you in on one of the best kept secrets in the dating arena.
The highly controversial technique for being able to approach a woman, anywhere, anytime.
It’s quite complicated, but be patient with me because when you master, you’ll be able to approach every woman you see.
So, here goes:
Step 1 – get close enough to her so she can hear you.
Step 2 – say what…
Stripping Away Your Inner Crap 101.
You are a unique manifestation of God.
And when I say “God”, I’m not talking about the God who typically comes to mind in a traditional Biblical context.
Thus, I’m not talking about a Creator, or a Trinity, or an omnipresent spirit being..
.. who metes out punishment, forgives sin and answers prayers.
Although you’re free to believe in that, if you…
Continue Reading →Watching Movies Will Help You Attract Women?
I was in a video shop the other day, renting The Thomas Crown Affair.
And then I had this little epiphany.
Why was I choosing THIS movie?
I’ve seen it a billion times already ..
I can quote from it freely, and it’s not like the plot is going to reveal any new surprises for me when I watch it this time.
And yet here I was, about to..
Continue Reading →So You Got A Girlfriend .. Can You Keep Her?
I’ve been there more than once in my life…
I find the girl of my dreams.
She’s everything I’ve ever looked for.
We get into a relationship and everything going sweet.
Then it happens. You can feel it in the wind. Things just start to go down. And down. And…
Continue Reading →Read This If You Have Female Friends.
When I was going through my Mr Nice Guy Who Women Just Want To Be Friends With (TM) phase…
..I befriended lots of women.
They weren’t honest friendships – I harboured “secret crushes” on most of them, and secretly hoped that once they realise how great and stable and smart I am..
Continue Reading →Building Incredible Connections With Women.
I work in sales, and we’re always told to build rapport with the customer..
..especially over those long distance deals.
When you build rapport with the customer, they are more likely to purchase something from you.
Rapport works in sales because neither you…
Continue Reading →Do RICH MEN Attract WOMEN?
I keep hearing this a lot: women are apparently attracted to rich men.
A chap even emailed me a few weeks ago, saying that he has tried every dating product under the sun and it hasn’t worked for him.
His conclusion: women are only attracted to rich (and tall, according to him), men. And no amount of dating advice was going to change that universal law…
Continue Reading →How To Increase Your Personal Power.
If you want to increase your presence in the world..
..to increase your power as a man, and to increase your visibility to the opposite sex..
..I offer you this practice, which has been inspired by David Deida’s teachings:
Feel the world..
Continue Reading →Attract Women With A Single Pump.
Steven here with a quick update on our April Fool’s gag.
(In case you haven’t heard, we’ve started a rumour on PUA and seduction forums that a new NASAL SPRAY is about to arrive..
..which instantly fixes your inner game and makes women…
Continue Reading →Number 1 Secret For Attracting Women.
I’m about to let the cat out of the bag.
This is the one secret that’s going to transform your game forever.
It’s the one that’s going to elevate you from where you are, right now, to the level of God-like ability with women.
The dating gurus have been trying to prevent me from letting this out for years but now, they can’t stop me..
Continue Reading →Can Meditation Help You Attract Women?
To put it simply, YES.
But I must clarify: it’s not a “secret seduction technique” or whatever, so please do not adopt it as such.
If you approach meditation as a means to a certain end (attracting girls), you will be disappointed. It is not a magic bullet of seduction.
But it just so happens that the practice of meditation helps get you outside of your…
Continue Reading →Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Continue Reading →Do Women Trust You?
I’ve heard a saying that a woman will not sleep with a man unless she trusts him on some level.
I’ve seen many men attempt to manufacture this trust.
I’ve seen many companies created purely to create products that would teach men how to manufacture this trust.
But it all starts with one person: you. How well do you trust…
Continue Reading →“How To Attract GIRLS?” The Brutal Answer.
Lots of guys write in to me and ask:
“How do I attract a girl?”
If that question is at the forefront of your mind, then you’re making it unnecessary difficult for yourself to attract the said girl.
Why?
Because you’re looking for answers in the wrong..
Continue Reading →Beginners Guide To Purposeful Living.
Sometimes it can be very easy to lose yourself in the distraction of the world..
Your daily duties and obligations, and your social commitments.
Sometimes it’s very easy to forget who you are.
So how well do you know yourself? Are you conscious of each decision you…
Continue Reading →The #1 Deadliest Mistake Men Make.
You are going to die.
When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?
Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?
Will you be concerned about what people thought of…
Continue Reading →Attracting Women: Do Looks Matter?
This is a pretty common question, both inside and outside the seduction community.
We have eyes and so therefore, we’re visual creatures.
But before I answer this question, I want you to consider the most important factors in this equation:
Why you’re..
Continue Reading →NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To A Woman!
The number one thing that I ALWAYS find, without fail, with guys who’re struggling with conversations..
..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.
All they’re focusing on is..
..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in…
Continue Reading →The Way Of Transformation.
Here’s a quote I just came across. What does it mean to YOU?
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“The man who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence, turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to…
Continue Reading →Beyond Picking Up Women (seminar video).
- Have you ever thought to yourself “When I get this girl, then I’ll be happy?
- How to make sure women don’t lose interest in you.
- Why 97% of dating advice doesn’t help guys.
- How MasterClass helped guys, and how it can help you.
Definitive Guide To Fixing Your Inner Game.
Alright, so you’ve come to fix this whole ‘women’ thing and you think you need to work on your inner game.
Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?
The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…
..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..
..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game..
Continue Reading →Is Being In Shape Necessary To Attract Women?
I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..
..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.
I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…
Continue Reading →Why Learning To Pick Up Women Is A Waste Of Time.
Opening lines, conversation topics, body language secrets..
Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…
Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..
..but they’re actually making you worse with women.
Continue Reading →Inner Game 101 (FREE PODCAST).
- Have you ever seen a girl in the street, but don’t approach because you think it will be embarrassing if someone sees you get rejected?
- Have you ever taken a girl on a date, walked her home, got a kiss on the cheek and never saw her again?
- Are you free and unrestrained around girls who you’re not that into, but crumble as soon as you see a hottie?
- Do you want to have relationships with multiple…
Continue Reading →Attracting Women: Does Your Height Matter?
Of course it does!
Just ask any woman – and almost every single, without fail, will say…
That she wants a lover who’s taller than her.
If you’re short, you’ve got almost no chance. Or so it seems…
Continue Reading →How To REALLY Get A Girlfriend.
This one’s an easy one. No brainer.
Just learn some “techniques” and “seduction theory” – and you’re going to get a girlfriend quickly and easily. Really?
Well, that’s the story the seduction community has been feeding you for years.
But I consider this: If you have to hide…
Continue Reading →Protected: Let’s Get To Know Each Other A Little :)
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Continue Reading →Why Your “Game” Is Not Improving As Fast As You’d Like.
Over 30 minutes of video from the exclusive Attraction MasterClass Tour.
Continue Reading →The Definitive “Quick Fix” Guide To Picking Up Women.
I like boobs. A lot. They’re just great.
Who would’ve thought that 5 pounds of fat could be so alluring..
Who would’ve thought you would spend months, if not years, devoted to bringing that 5 pound lump with a nipple on it, back to your place?
You know that we deal primarily with long-term benefits of inner game on this blog…
…but I figured I should also give you a few short-term solutions which you can start using IMMEDIATELY…
Continue Reading →Are You Acting Too Keen Around Women?
“As soon as she knows she’s got you, she will not want you any more.”
I remember reading this piece of dating advice last time I was in a relationship, and choosing to live by it.
I feared that if I acted “too keen” and became “too nice” to my girlfriend at the time, then attraction would somehow dissolve…
…And she would leave me.
Continue Reading →Body Language Secrets Which You Probably Didn’t Know.
There are two very separate elements that go into your body language:
The physical and the mental.
The physical side is the part of your body language that you’ve just trained into yourself over the years.
This can include slumped shoulders, head down, poor eye contact.
The Internet is filled with advice on this kind of stuff, so I’m not going to waste your time with that…
Continue Reading →The Definitive Guide To Build Self Confidence With Women.
“Just be more confident!”
Your mum probably told you about just as many times as your friends did.
And, funnily enough, it’s one of the few pieces of information that has transcended the community from the general population.
But unless you’re very careful, developing confidence can be…
Continue Reading →9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS.
1. Find the CORE ISSUE which is causing you to get nervous around girls.
Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.
For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching her…
Continue Reading →Have You Ever Been Rejected By A Woman?
This one’s a bit of a weird post for me to write.
Mainly because rejection is something that I don’t believe in.
But a lot of guys are asking me about it, so I thought I’d share my thoughts on this big ‘rejection’ thing.
Firstly, I dislike the word “rejection” because…
Continue Reading →You Know NOTHING About Approaching Women.
And knowing nothing changes everything.
If you think about it, the only thing that has ever held you back from approaching that gorgeous woman has been an assumption.
Two assumptions, actually.
The first is that you assume…
Continue Reading →Can She Meet You? Can You Meet Her?
Over the past year I’ve had the fortune of meeting many different women…
Learned from my many mistakes, and undertaken many personal practices that have helped develop my path.
One thing I’ve noticed that sits with me today that was definitely missing a year ago is a certain intensity in my gaze.
With this new development, however, has come an interesting…
Continue Reading →An New Approach To Approaching A Woman.
What would happen if you saw a woman you were attracted to, and you purposefully didn’t approach her?
I’m being serious here.
You see a gorgeous woman. You KNOW you’re attracted to her because of the way you feel when you see her.
And yet, you do not approach this…
Continue Reading →Tired Of Reading Crap Dating Advice?
“I’ve gone through e-books and DVD sets by Mystery, Tyler, David D, Zan, Badboy ,the Naturals, PUATraining…
I joined a seduction lair.
I even took a bootcamp.
I went out and approached women. I even worked on my…
Continue Reading →7 Reasons Why Dating Advice For Men Is Like A Religion.
Let’s put the two side-by-side ;)
The Role Models:
Dating advice: “Here’s Mystery / Style / other guru, expert. This is how an attractive man behaves. Now go imitate him.”
Religion: “Here’s Jesus / Mohammad / other deity / saint. This is how…
Continue Reading →Picking Up Women: A Fresh Look At Outcome Dependency.
They say that being outcome dependent is bad for picking up women.
Which makes sense.
If you’re in a busy bar, and you’re trying to LOOK LIKE you’re having fun, and yet you’re only there to pick up a woman…
Continue Reading →Become Like James Bond .. Almost.
I’ve had the wonderful fortune of being involved in a Men’s Group coming into the New Year.
Since I had no idea what was involved in a Men’s Group before I was invited, I’m guessing you don’t have much of an idea either…
…so allow me to share my experience of…
Continue Reading →Benefits Of Being In Your Body.
I love women. The way they walk, the way they dress, the way they smell…
…the way they carry themselves through the world, the way they shut down, and the way they open up.
All of it.
Most of all, I love the way they…
Continue Reading →Which Seduction Method Is Right For You?
I’m going to be honest with you here:
I have no idea how many different seduction methods there are out there.
If I was to take a conservative guess, I’d say maybe 100 or 200 … who knows?
It’s safe to say that there are many seduction methods … and I’m sure that every one works, at least for the guy who made it.
Otherwise he wouldn’t be…
Continue Reading →How Real Is Your Sexual Fantasy?
Those beautiful women that you oggle at and think about all day.
You know them:
The ones that make you think “How good would it be to bang her”…
As you fantasize about every little detail of her incredible ass, gorgeous legs, unbelievable rack, and impeccable figure.
Have you ever had that fantasy realised? To actually achieve what…
Continue Reading →How To Pick Up Women – Made Easy.
What is it that makes “picking up women” hard?
Is it really that hard go pick up women? Or do we just make it out to ourselves that it is?
After the dating gurus promised to turn pickup into…
Continue Reading →Are You Sexually Connecting With Women?
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
I’m talking about sex, of course.
The allure of it is all-pervasive…
Continue Reading →PUA Scam: What the Pick Up Artist Guru’s Don’t Want You To Know
You Can Have DYNASTIES Of Women Lining Up To Approach You…
Being Drawn By Your UNSTOPPABLE Pulling Power…
And FIGHTING Between Themselves To Have A Chance With You…
And Pleading You To Take Them Home And NAIL Them.
All PUAs Are Liars.
If you’re like me when you decided to ‘get better with women’, you’ve probably first read ‘The Game’.
And then jumped online to learn a tonne of dating advice.
Maybe you even purchased a DVD program which taught you “fundamentals” of attraction. Or two.
So why is it that those who are on the “PUA path” still aren’t seeing…
Continue Reading →Why Are You Approaching Women?
Have you approached a woman in the last month or so?
If yes, why?
“To seduce her, of course”, you might respond. Or maybe your answer would be, “to see if she is my kind of woman”.
Either answer is fine.
Or you may have…
Continue Reading →Do Rich Men REALLY Attract Women?
There is a common belief that rich men attract women with ease.
More specifically, that women are attracted to men with MONEY.
The seduction community has gone to some way to upset that myth…
Mostly, by demonstrating that a guy who can banter…
Continue Reading →Approaching Women: Advanced Tips.
When you approach a woman…
How meaningful do you want your interactions women to be?
To be able to penetrate through the surface-layers of insecurity and bullshit..
To be completely devastated by the ecstasy of incredible sex with a beautiful…
Continue Reading →2010 Seduction Community Predictions.
It will be amusing to come back here in one years’ time and see how many of these seduction community predictions I got wrong.
So, let’s begin ;)
Seduction Community Prediction #1: People Will Stop Using The Term “Seduction…
Continue Reading →Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Continue Reading →Calling A Woman: When To Call Her?
It’s the age old question… How soon is too soon to call a woman?
The next day? 3 days? 5 days?
A week?
You don’t want to scare the woman away by calling to early. But then again, you still want her to know…
Continue Reading →Do You Get Self-Conscious?
As human beings we naturally want to be real, authentic, and truly ourselves.
We might not all be consciously aware of this drive towards authenticity, but inherently we value being ourselves, especially when it is easy and effortless.
Fulfillment comes from knowing what and who we are, and we seek security in this knowledge.
We want the sense of who we are to be stable, and we want this stability…
Continue Reading →Goal Setting Tips For Maximum Growth.
Where will you be in five years time: financially, romantically, physically?
How do you intend to get there?
Are you even aware of what it is you really want to have achieved in the next five years?
Or are you too caught up in the noise, and the distraction of the game at hand…
…that you forgot there ever could be a future that would effect the very way…
Continue Reading →Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board…
…quoting the “latest dating theory findings” as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER…
Continue Reading →Should You Learn To “Game” Women?
Well, of course you should.
There are definitely things that you need to learn in order to attract women.
And without them, you’re never going to get the success you’re looking for. EVER.
You’re going to relegated to her “let’s just be friends” zone…
Continue Reading →How Awake Are You Right Now?
What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?
How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?
Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?
Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody…
Continue Reading →How Human Are Your Interactions?
I’ve been noticing something a little disturbing lately…
…and it’s not just within the seduction community.
It’s certainly exaggerated within the seduction community, but most definitely not limited to it.
What I’m referring to is the clinical nature in which men interact with the opposite sex.
You see that beautiful woman over there and you want to approach her.
But there’s this problem that needs to be solved before you can get what you want.
The problem of “HER”…
The problem of “HER”…
Continue Reading →Life Back In The Year 2010.
(An essay written in a not-too-distant-future).
Back then, when a guy walked past a cute girl in the street, he would rarely give her a smile.
And the girl, despite knowing that the guy was walking towards her, would choose to look straight ahead.
She would choose not to acknowledge him.
The guy and the girl would walk past each other, refusing to…
Continue Reading →Are You A Man Of Your Word?
How powerful are you?
How powerful is your WORD?
I know many people who really make an effort to keep their promises to other people:
- to be accountable,
- responsible…
Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
Continue Reading →Do Evil Emotions Control Your Life?
We love experiencing the “good emotions”, don’t we?
Love. Joy. Serenity. Peace.
But the ugly ones? Well, we don’t really talk about those, do we?
However, those ugly emotions are just as important for us to…
Continue Reading →Success With Women: It’s Just One Step Away.
You probably think that you have a whole bunch of issues…
…Which are preventing you from experiencing success with women. For example:
- approaching women
- flirting with women
- dealing with shit tests
- running out of things to say, and the rest…
Good news is – your situation isn’t…
Continue Reading →Meet And Attract Women: An Unexpected Guide.
“Imagine how much your quality of life would improve…
…if you could meet and attract women of your choice almost anywhere?”
That was the headline of a sales page I recently stumbled across.
The “dating guru” who wrote that page went on to describe a “daygame” product…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Learn Mystery Method.
And try RSD.
And some natural game at Pickup101.
Please subscribe to their newsletters, read their blogs, even try their products.
You owe it to yourself…
Continue Reading →Who Are You Hiding From?
How much of you do you reveal to the big wide world?
When you’re out and about – at work, in a social situation, doing your daily duties…
How much of you does the world get to see?
We all have our faults. Every single one of…
Continue Reading →Stop TRYING To Be Confident – And BE Confident.
Do you ever have nights where you’re just ‘on’?
You’ve had a good week. You’re feeling good. You’re looking good.
You’re ‘in state’. Everything just works. You destroy the bar.
Every woman is asking her friends, “Who *IS* that guy?…
Continue Reading →How To Get Away With Anything.
I’m about to give you a license to do whatever the fuck you want.
I’m serious.
Here, take it. I grant you the right, by the powers vested in me by whatever. Go nuts.
What do you mean, you don’t want it? Oh, I’m not authorised to…
Continue Reading →Should you take her back when she’s cheated?
The Ugly Truth About SARGING.
I’m sure it seemed like the answer to your dreams:
A community full of guys who could teach you how to attract the women you wanted.
And not only that, but also how to get the happiness you wanted.
Those HB9′s and HB10′s who so elusively strut around the club. Finally, you’d…
Continue Reading →AMOGing 101 – How To AMOG.
It was an arse that defied the very laws of nature from which it was created.
It was perfection, in denim shorts.
It was conclusive proof that God is indeed a Man and that yes, he loves us :-)
So, it’s time to…
Continue Reading →You Are The Pilot.
This is a quick post to let you know that MasterClass MKII has just launched.
To those cosmonauts who are already on board and are being taken to new life, a big salut!
(Yeh, it does sound a bit corny – deal with it ;) …
Continue Reading →Things You Were Not Supposed To See…
This is the stuff only paying MasterClass MKII customers were supposed to watch…
Continue Reading →Get Nervous Around Women?
Nerves around women, the bane of most men.
You see that girl, and your heart immediately jumps an extra 30 beats per second.
Your mind starts racing.
Then it goes blank, and you may even get a little bit sweaty.
You want to go approach, but you “can’t”. Why do you…
Continue Reading →LoGun Is Getting Emotional.
I wanted to slap him.
I wanted to snap at him with something like..
“Quit your whinging, grab your life by the balls and WAKE UP TO YOURSELF, MAN!”
But I don’t think that would’ve achieved anything close to what I wanted to achieve.
I went on a little road trip around Australia a little while ago and it was a very…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Be Externally Validated.
I have a secret to tell you-
I like external validation. It feels really good.
And not just a little bit good, but a lot.
I know there’s a lot of community “gurus” telling you that you shouldn’t be externally validated, but I completely disagree – and let me show you why…
Continue Reading →Tips For Being A Better Man.
Live your perfect day for you: the one that doesn’t involve women, and isn’t designed around everybody else.
Design your day such that every activity takes you deeper and deeper into your own bliss…
Every mouth-full of food savoured. Every emotion embraced. Every experience…
Continue Reading →Keyboard Jockeys, Women + More (MasterClass Case Study).
Last week I caught up with another ex-student who took the MasterClass 3 months ago.
Did his results last?
Did he expose LoGun as a keyboard jockey? Watch to find out:
Continue Reading →How And Why I Became A Fan Of Inner Game.
Look, after I got into the seduction community I began to enjoy some pretty good success with women.
First, I met a cute Australian actress in a bookshop.
She was the definition of cuteness with, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.
Then came along a curvy…
Continue Reading →Can The Real Alpha Male Please Stand Up?
The seduction community has been telling you to ‘be more Alpha’ for a long time.
They told you that by following their rules, you’ll become Alpha.
But before you more of your time reading ‘must have’, top secret…
Continue Reading →5 Things You Don’t Know About LoGun, Me & MasterClass MKII.
1. We Beat The Church Of Satan.
I will admit it. I like the fact that this humble blog just got ranked in the top 200,000 websites in the world.
Well, 199,340th today, to be exact.
Which may seem like not much, until you consider…
Continue Reading →What Are You Waiting For?
You see that beautiful woman and you don’t approach. Why?
You see that you could start a business, and you KNOW it will work, and you don’t. Why?
There’s a promotion coming up at work that you know you deserve, but you don’t apply for it. Why?
For so long, we have lived our lives waiting for…
Continue Reading →Meeting Women On The Beach – Efffortless Game.
Long tanned legs? Check.
The tiniest black shorts you’ve ever seen? Check.
Beautiful dark hair? Check. We could have a winner here… But I wonder what she looks like from the front..
Check :-) I didn’t head out with a plan of meeting women…
Continue Reading →How To NEVER Be EMBARRASSED Again.
I was chilling with one of my mates the other day and he said something that really took me by surprise:
“Damn, you do some embarrassing shit!”
Apparently it’s embarrassing to approach a stunning little brunette with green eyes and curves that are out of this world who’s eating lunch with her family.
Who knew???
Well, to be perfectly honest, the old me…
Continue Reading →How To Be An Alpha Male: David Deida.
I’m running with a bit of a David Deida theme this week….
Since his work has been such an inspiration, and great teaching.
I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve noticed within many men throughout this community -
The pursuing of this trait we call alpha male, or masculine.
In the words of David Deida…
Continue Reading →Give Your Identity A Reality Check.
“Keep taking the easy way out until you can’t anymore…
“And when you can’t anymore, absolutely commit yourself to love, because you know that the easy way out leads to suffering: it *IS* suffering.” – David Deida
Identity; Who you…
Continue Reading →Wanna Play God? How To Be God, Now.
Look around you at this thing you label “reality”.
The images, the smells, the sensations, the sounds, the tastes. All of it.
Look around at this reality and know this: you MAKE it exist – for without *YOU* acting as the conduit, or the interpreter, it would all just be atoms floating in space.
No form, no beauty. YOU are the key to…
Continue Reading →Who Is The Source Of Your Happiness?
I was dating a girl some time ago. And, as most couples do, sooner or later her and I had a slight disagreement
(I poured a drink on her sister’s head in the middle of Hugo’s – in retaliation for her throwing ice at me … mature, I know)
My girl got understandably upset and, on the way home, said something to me which I found disturbing…
Continue Reading →What Does It Mean To “SET THE FRAME”?
You ever notice how much your expectations rule your day-to-day living?
When you do a good deed, you expect to be rewarded. Or at least recognised.
When you stay back at work, day after day, slaving away at your work, you expect a promotion.
When you approach a beautiful woman you hope…
Continue Reading →Spy Shots Of MasterClass Mk II.
Here are some pre-release clips of the Advanced Inner Game MasterClass MkII…
Which LoGun probably didn’t want me to show just yet.
Watch them before he returns from the beach and pulls them down. Haha..
Continue Reading →Why Most Men FAIL At BEING COOL.
Here’s how I used to try and be cool:
Step 1: see a guy who *IS* cool.
Step 2: imitate him.
Now, here’s the FATAL FLAW in that system:
I would meet / spot another guy who I thought was cool. I’d start…
Continue Reading →The Absolute Truth About Approaching Women.
Select the CORRECT answer:
A beautiful woman is someone who:
1) will make you feel better
2) you can dominate, so that you can feel powerful
3) can dominate you, so that you…
Why You Will Never FIX Your INNER GAME.
If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to fix your inner game.
Many people think that fixing their inner game is a bit like getting a seduction ‘superweapon’…
Which will give them the ability to attract women everywhere they go.
But there’s something I need to tell you. Here it…
Continue Reading →How To Attract Women By Watching TV.
Am I taking the piss? Have I finally lost the plot?
How can a man attract women by watching Californication, Boston Legal and House?
To attract women, a man needs to go out in the field, and ‘sarge’, right? Well, maybe…
Continue Reading →Worried About What Women Think Of You?
Here’s a tip to stop you caring about what others think about you – give up you.
Whilst giving up you does mean giving up your wants, needs, and tendencies, it also means giving up your insecurities, fears, and shames.
And without one, the other cannot exist.
There have been many times that I’ve been aware of the opportunity…
Continue Reading →Attraction Is Not A (Conscious) Choice.
Attraction is not a choice.
I’m sure you’ve heard that dating tip many times before – especially as it relates to meeting women.
But have you thought of how it relates to you?
I put it to you, that attraction is not yet a choice for you, EITHER…
Continue Reading →You Approach A Woman & She Acts Bitchy. Why?
I’ve been hearing that all women in Sydney are bitches for a long time.
Last Saturday night got a first hand look at just how ‘bitchy’ these women are.
“She’s just a bitch, mate. I went over to her and she was just rude. Who does she think she is?? …
Continue Reading →How To Seduce Any Woman – And Why You Shouldn’t.
I see so many beautiful women throughout my day.
Some blondes, some brunettes. I love them all. I used to want to be able to seduce all of them, too.
Every single one. And I tried.
So, so hard … sometime successfully. Sometimes not. And then I realised just how this impacted my…
Continue Reading →Most Men Are Wasting Their Lives. Are You?
Do you often walk into a bar and begin to wonder what people are thinking of you?
Now, stop for a moment to think how it affects your ability to do what you want. Perhaps it limits you in some ways?
And do you ever catch yourself talking to a woman, and begining to think … “what should I…
Continue Reading →A Tip To Make You Less Nervous.
This one struck me the other night when I ran into a fellow student of the seduction community at the Argyle.
Oh my God – were the women there glorious –
… so many beautiful legs, and ample bosom (and that was just LoGun with his shirt off) – it got even better after that.
This chap was being shown the finer art of “kino” by a ‘dating guru’…
Continue Reading →Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women.
We spend our lives distracting ourselves from the noise.
That noise that is constantly droning in the background, telling us we’re not good enough.
That we’re living a life of mediocrity and we know, we god-damned well KNOW that we’re wasting our potential…
Continue Reading →To Become Liked, Don’t Try To Be Liked.
What if I told you that you were already accepted by everyone?
What if I told you that everybody here thought incredibly highly of you – and you never had to do anything extra to maintain your reputation?
How would that change the way you act…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect The Women You ‘Game’?
Is it possible to respect the women that you ‘game’, knowing that you’ve simply “tricked” them into sleeping with you?
Knowing that she’s fallen for a shell identity you presented to her – which you know is not the real you?
Are you really capable of respecting a woman who is so easily ‘won over’…
Continue Reading →7 Reasons Why Dating Advice Makes You WORSE With Women.
If you’ve just spent a year of your life learning reading dating advice…
..And haven’t seen the results you want, you probably are starting to realise that:
7. Learning routines hasn’t helped you to talk to women.
6. Learning qualification has not *really* helped you…
Continue Reading →Can You Act Your Way Out Of Insecurity?
Something Jonno said to me recently brought on a peculiar epiphany.
It was at a recent inner game seminar we did. I was talking to one of the guys after the gig; Jonno was in close vicinity, talking to himself…
Continue Reading →What Is Your Masculine Purpose In Life?
I’m going to take a wild punt and guess that you were not a born trust fund baby.
Which means just like me, you probably spend a big chunk of your daily life at work. Earning cash.
When I’m not doing AI stuff, I work in a bar, and I see many of my customers just…
Continue Reading →Want To Be A Better Seducer? Forget Seduction!
There are so many pickup schools out there these days.
And despite their different titles, flashy logo’s, and high budget marketing, they’re all actually teaching you the same thing.
Yes, yes, they all have different methods, seduction “secrets” and dating tips.
But the heart of everything they teach is the same: how to *ACT* as if you didn’t…
Continue Reading →Are You Too SOFT To Read This?
This whole masculinity thing has been a little bit of a sore topic for me of late.
Don’t get me wrong, I love the premise, and have very much been enjoying getting back in touch with my very suppressed inner man.
Embracing this part of my life has really allowed some new perspectives to surface.
And I’ve certainly been appreciating the new…
Continue Reading →How Much Sex Is Enough Sex?
When I first entered the seduction community I was filled with hope, aspiration, and overflowing with illusions of grandeur.
I could almost taste it: entering a night-club that had refused me entry but a week ago as the guest of honour.
Many a woman would stop in her tracks when she saw ME in all my glory, King…
Continue Reading →Are You A Member Of A “Seduction Lair”?
By popular request, this is a repost of one of my recent emails.
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You many have heard that I was in hot water recently.
LoGun and I did a presentation for a local lair a few months ago, and I posted up a few video clips of the talk on YouTube.
Alas, all sh*t hit the fan when the leader of the lair…
Continue Reading →Not Being Yourself When You Go Out? Read This.
When you go out to meet women, who are you going out for: you, or them?
Are you going out to gain something, or because going out is the best way in which you can both experience, and gift the world?
Are you chasing tail, or are you on an adventure that, by it’s very nature, cannot help but uplift those around you?
Basically, the big change in focus for me was going out to serve, rather…
Continue Reading →Seduction Community Pitfalls.
Let’s be honest, the reason we all got into this whole “game” thing was to get better with women.
And why do we want to get better with women? Because if we’re “better with women” then we’ll have better results with women.
If we have better results with women, then we’ll be happy with those results.
If we’re happy with those results, then…
Continue Reading →Are You A Victim Of “The Chase?”
On a forum the other day, a few of the men raised an unusual topic for conversation. The topic was all about ‘the chase‘…
The more this topic was contributed to, the more all of these men realised how much they are consumed by the chase: they love it.
Not knowing what the outcome will be, the risk…
Continue Reading →Just Be Yourself – Why Being Yourself Can Suck.
“Just be yourself”!
This advice from your mother had the seduction community gurus rolling in its grave.
“Your mum doesn’t know…
Continue Reading →Fear Of Rejection – Cure Fear Of Rejection For Good.
ear of rejection is a very real issue.
Every guy I’ve ever coached have suffered from this in some way. I suffered from it.
And I tried countless techniques to deal…
Continue Reading →Evolution Of Dating Advice.
We have seen 2 generations of ‘dating advice’ so far:
Generation 1 – let’s call them “The Romantics” – who repeated the same kind of dating advice our mothers gave us.
“Be nice to her”, they insisted. “Listen…
Continue Reading →What Is Your Ultimate Sexual Fantasy?
What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?
For me, it is bedding all nine of the Victoria’s Secret Angels, at once, together.
For the purpose of this exercise, use your…
Continue Reading →What Kind Of Man Are You?
Let me tell you a story of two men who wanted it all.
Both began on the same path, but both took a different approach to the same path.
Both men are brought into…
Continue Reading →What’s Behind Your Mask?
“You’re about to LEARN 7 SECRET NINJA OPENERS and have women THROWING THEMSELVES at you…”
Heh. Don’t you just get hopping mad every time you see another one of those hypey sales pages full…
Continue Reading →How To Become A Leader.
First, let me ask you – are you a master of reality, or a product of reality?
One moves effortlessly through the world, and the other is tormented by it.
One dates the women he desires. The other chips away at approach…
Continue Reading →Become Bulletproof.
I am not correct. All I offer is a perspective. Try it on, see how it fits, and see if it feels right for you:
You don’t know anything. You are not right…
Continue Reading →Wanna Be A Player?
If you wanna be a player, you’re in good hands.
And, as with any other advice you read here, you should know that the answers you’re about to receive will be different to what you’re expecting…
Continue Reading →OK, nice – I’m finally inside.
Mental note to self – I’m in this bar to have a good time, not pick up women. Especially not to run “game” to pick up women.
That routine-based PUA shit…
Continue Reading →Are You Missing ONE Vital Point?
I have to be honest here: I feel very sorry for all the women of the world.
ESPECIALLY the really attractive ones.
I mean, lets face it – when you see one of those REALLY…
Continue Reading →“Hard-Hitting” Inner Game Interview, Part 2.
Here is Part 2 of Inner Game Interview, Part 1:
“Why Aren’t Guys Seeing The Results They Want?”
Continue Reading →Best AMOG Technique EVER – AMOG Anyone.
I’ve noticed that a lot of guys are concerned with being AMOGGED, and spend a considerable amount of time learning AMOG techniques.
There are some funny ones I’ve come across, which I can’t wait to use on LoGun, e.g -
“Hey man, you don’t have to try so…
Continue Reading →“Hard-Hitting” Inner Game Interview, Part 1.
Here is Part 1 of the unexpected interview we did with Sean from Get Hitched a few days ago:
1. Totally Staged Opening Scene + “How To Become The Man Of Her Dreams”.
Continue Reading →Why You Should Care About What People Think.
“I don’t care about what people think”, i hear someone say at least twice a week.
Are you sure?
Do you really not care about what people think? If so, then why are you saying…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect Yourself Enough To Attract Women?
Respect for yourself. It’s a phrase that isn’t often mentioned in the dating community.
The importance of it is, however, something I stumbled across…
Continue Reading →Why Relationships Fail.
We meet a woman.
A temptation exists to see her as the solution to our dissatisfaction; as a missing piece of a puzzle that now just became that little bit more complete.
We project that expectation…
Continue Reading →Dealing With “But I Have A Boyfriend”.
You approach a pretty girl. You are talking to her for a little bit and things are looking promising.
So, you decide to ‘close’ this deal and so you whip out your Nokia in a swift ninja motion and tell her you’d like to see her again.
“But .. I have a boyfriend.”…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Just Be “Yourself” Around Women.
Just be yourself..
Because you are perfect, you are amazing, you are incredible, you are everything a woman could ever desire in a Man.
All you have to do is let go of the barriers that are holding you back from showing..
Continue Reading →Are You Living Your Purpose?
You could die, right now.
This very moment could be your last. If not this one, it could be the next, or the one right after.
Your heart could give out, or a truck could come careering through your front wall, or a massive…
Continue Reading →Quick Trick For Getting Into State PERMANENTLY.
On Getting Into State..
Every day of your life, things are going to happen that make you feel good and things are going to happen that make you feel bad.
Shit just…
Continue Reading →How To Get Into State In 10 Seconds.
Meditation is an extremely powerful tool in helping you ‘get into state’.
It helps clear away all the junk and creates a silence (setting you free from your own mental ‘chatter’ in…
Continue Reading →Best Piece Of Advice I’ve Ever Received.
There’s a lot of advice available to you and I in the dating community: some of it is from spiritual backgrounds, some pick-up related, and other stuff comes from self-help community.
There are theories that align. Others will point you in opposite directions. And there are others that just plain contradict each other! So which way do you go?
Continue Reading →If You Were Going To Die In 6 Months..
I had a really strange dream last night where my sister was going to die in 6 months and it got me thinking..
How I would change and what I would do if I was going to die in 6 months.
So, my question to…
Continue Reading →Turn Your Dates Into ADVENTURES.
A date can be a date. Or it can be an adventure. And girls love adventures! All it takes is a bit of creativity.
Yesterday I took a girl on a date to see Monet & Impressionists at Art Gallery of NSW. We decided to spice the date up with a bit of a role play. To add that sense of adventure…
Continue Reading →How To Meet Women In Bookshops.
Seriously. Is a bookshop just not the best place to meet women?
I’m not going to tell you some kind of magic opener here. If you’re reading this you’re probably not a…
Continue Reading →What Makes A Healthy Relationship?
I thought you guys might enjoy this quote:
The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is…
Continue Reading →David Deida Exposed: The Way Of The Superior Sham
David Deida is a sham. There. I said it. A sham.
Don’t get me wrong, I have a deep admiration for his work. It changed my life, he changed my life. But, in saying that, there’s a deeply ingrained flaw in his teaching that contradicts the core essence of his work. I’m going to expose that contradiction to you now.
I purchased David Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man nearly…
Continue Reading →‘Dirty’ Secrets Of Alpha Males Exposed.
Have you ever met one of those men who just seem to effortlessly radiate energy?
True alpha males. Men with presence. Men who ooze confidence, rather than just act confidently…
Continue Reading →Why I Don’t Believe In Dating Rules.
There are 3 reasons why I don’t believe in dating rules, and they are:
1) Every rule that has ever been made has been bent, manipulated, and then broken. Every dating rule.
“Don’t show interest before she has, don’t…
Continue Reading →How To Flirt With Women.
There are a couple of techniques you can use (which work MUCH better when you have a foundation of inner game under your belt) to flirt with women.
If you’ve ever been talking to a woman and felt the conversation fizzling out, this is for you…
Continue Reading →Easy Humour Tricks You Can Swipe Immediately.
So, how do you create humour on the spot?
Well, for starters, you use the environment around as a source of funny material. Sometimes it is best to learn through examples, so let me give you a couple…
Continue Reading →Shit Tests: Why You Fail Her Shit Tests.
There seems to be a bit of confusion in the dating community about so-called ‘shit tests’.
..So let me give you some thoughts on how you can ‘pass’ them.
Hopefully by the time you finish reading this, you’ll be able to…
Continue Reading →Breaking Down Your Limiting Beliefs.
Let’s explore this little idea:
You are NOT your beliefs.
Getting your head around it is something that will take your inner growth to a whole new level. So, here we…
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