Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
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These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a dating guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current dating issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board quoting the “latest dating theory findings”…
…as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER do it this way, and this is FACT!”
But is it?
Is anything that we postulate really “fact”?
Field tested or not, there is no “be all and end all” rule-set that has every answer, every time.
There is no truth.
Not even what I’m writing right now is truth. It is simply an opinion; a different perspective, or viewpoint, communicated to you by somebody other than you.
I do not pretend to know the answers – all I offer is a different perspective.
So in that vein, perhaps you may like to try this on for size:
Whether you’re purchasing a dating guru’s e-book, or attending the next greatest pickup artist super-conference, there’s no need to believe everything that is communicated to you as fact.
Instead, take it all on as a perspective you’ve not thought of just yet; a different uniform to wear when you go out and interact with the world.
It’s simply something to try on-
-Not something that has to define who you are.
When you’re told you should “NEVER supplicate to a woman because that comes off as being too needy”…
…don’t just blindly accept that advice. Simply try it on and see how it works for you.
Do you think that it’s possible that men have supplicated to “high-value” women in the past before, and NOT come off as needy?
You bet your ass it’s possible.
So does that mean that YOU should NEVER supplicate to a woman because it will come off as needy?
Maybe, maybe not.
But you’re not going to know until you try it on, rather than just blindly accept it.
You’re an intelligent guy – you have to be, if you’re into this sort of personal development stuff. So stop selling your own intelligence short.
Come up with your own rulebook…
…The one that works for you, independent of what all the dating guru’s (and dating guru wannabe’s) are telling you – certainly try on their advice, but don’t be bound by it.
But also know that that isn’t gospel either, and be willing to change your approach based on the path you want to walk, and the direction you’re currently headed.
There is only one question left to ask:
Has taking on the dating theory you’ve learned so far as gospel, moved you closer to your own happiness and freedom? Where do you want to go next, then?
Jonathon
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