Developing An Unlimited Routine Stack: 4 Simple Steps

by Leigh (LoGun) · 4 Comments

Running out of things to say when talking to beautiful women is a common problem.

The seduction community solution for this is to learn a large amount of stories and topics to talk about so that you can pull something up on demand.

If you want to spend half your night reading notes about stories you could talk about and being stuck in your head trying to remember everything…

…then this is a great idea.

But, if you want to be able to actually enjoy your time talking to women, I have a better idea.

It’s 4 simple steps that will make sure you not only have a fun night connecting with cool people, but you’ll actually be talking without being stuck in your head all night.

Here are the 4 steps:

Make conscious and deliberate decisions about how you’re going to live your life

Stop wasting your life allowing other people to dictate how you live it. Make conscious and deliberate decisions about how you’re going to live your life.

Always wanted to be a guitarist in a rock band? Then commit to doing it.

Always wanted to learn to dance the Cha Cha? Then commit to doing it.

Ready to drop that extra weight by going on a diet? Then commit to doing it.

Making deliberate decisions about how you live your life will automatically give you more stuff to talk about over just going through the same old motions you normally live your life by.

2. Follow through on those decisions

There’s no point in making decisions about how you’re going to live your life unless you follow through.

Sure, committing to live your life in a different way will give you some interesting stuff to share when you start a conversation, but not even close to what you’ll have if you actually take action.

If you think about doing something differently, you’ll be able to talk about your current life, how you found out about this new way of doing things, the research you’ve done, and when you plan to do it.

If you actually do it, you’ll have a whole list of stories to tell, about actually doing what you said you would.

You’ll be able to talk about everything listed above but also how you felt, what you saw, what it was like, and all the changes you’ve made in your life.

3. Share the decisions, actions and experiences with people you meet

Doing either of the two steps above aren’t going to give you anything more to talk about unless you actually share these things with people.

When someone asks you about your day, tell them how it was. Share how you feel about your day and why you feel like that.

“It’s been great. I started this new diet yesterday and I’ve got more energy than I’ve had since I was 15.”

“It was a little disappointing… I’ve been trying to find a new Salsa school for a few months and every one I go to just isn’t what I’m looking for.”

Sharing what you’re going through and why you’re going through it will mean there’s plenty of stuff to talk about.

4. Find people who enjoy talking about that kind of stuff

Now, here’s the real clincher. Not everyone is going to want to talk about this kind of stuff.

Not everyone is really going to want to hear how you really feel, why you feel like that, and the decisions you’ve made about your life.

Some people really only want to hear about big numbers and famous celebrities.

Some people really only want to hear about the kind of car you drive and the brand name of your suit.

That’s fine. If that’s what they’re into, then that’s what they’re into and they’re not going to want to hear about your life.

So don’t bother with them.

If they’re only interested in that kind of stuff now then they’re still only going to be interested in 20 minutes as well.

If you want to spend the rest of your night trying to come up with impressive sounding stats, then by all means, hang out with these people.

If you want to have a fun conversation with cool people who’re interested in changing their life and having a great time whilst doing it, then move on and find them.

“But that sounds scary!”

Yeah, it does.

But if you can’t do something as simple as doing the things you’ve always wanted to do, how do you ever expect to do things like approaching the woman of your dreams?

But there are things you can do to make it easier. You can actually deal with the underlying layers that are making this scary.

I don’t have space to go into them here but you can find out all about it in Seduction Community Sucks.

Download it for free from the right hand side of this page.

“But what about generating attraction? Don’t I have to brag about knowing famous people and demonstrate blah, blah, blah…?”

Well, I’m not sure what you’re supposed to demonstrate or what you’re supposed to brag about but I have a question for you:

What do you think confident, strong, attractive women are going to find more attractive?

The kind of guy who brags about his life to try and impress people
The kind of guy who lives his life on his terms because he’s decided to take control of his life

Something to think about…

So, to make sure you don’t run out of things to say, just follow these 4 steps: