Do Rich Men REALLY Attract Women?

by Steven on January 2, 2010 · No Comments

rich-man-attract-women There is a common belief that rich men attract women with ease.

More specifically, that women are attracted to men with MONEY.

The seduction community has gone to some way to upset that myth…

Mostly, by demonstrating that a guy who can banter…

…can tool a “high-status” businessman type in a bar, and keep a woman’s attention much more effectively than the latter’s offers of free drinks.

Nonetheless, some dating gurus still maintain that status, which is associated with having wealth, can compensate – at least in part – for lack of deep inner confidence…

…and ability to be 100% present with a woman, no matter what she throws at you.

Here’s the spanner in those works, however.

As part of my bartending gigs I have met quite a few rich men. They have been my long-term regulars in bars I work.

And, like the popular stereotype goes, I’ve seen many of them attract women with ease.

However, I’ve seen just as many of them struggle at attracting women.

I remember working at a private function in an exclusive Bondi Beach restaurant last summer…

Beautiful girls wearing summer dresses were skipping about, laughing and sipping Champagne on the sun-drenched balconies.

Also at the party was a guy there who was the founder of a major footwear / sportswear company. I won’t reveal which one, but to put it mildly, he was loaded.

And relatively young.

All day he tried to impress girls with his wealth, buying rounds of martinis, and smiling politely. They would give him a tight-lipped smile back, take the free drinks and ….

Politely, but promptly cut him out of the conversation.

I was chatting about this with a beautiful femme friend of mine recently, who is a self-confessed magnet for rich men.

She said something to me that was unexpected:

“There’s never a shortage of rich old men hitting on you”.

It really made me think, because despite all my involvement in inner game at all this AI stuff…

…a part of me still exists which thinks I’ll be able to compensate for some of my inner flaws with … stuff, junk, money and toys.

Maybe I will be able to – to a small extent. I mean, trophy wives do exist, right? But then do I really want to be with a woman who is lured by bling and status?

Will pursuit of such woman be a journey of growth and discovery? Or that of hollow pleasures and cheap thrills?

Thinking like that really helps realign priorities and focus on what matters.

I really don’t want to be a 50-something year old man, single, rich and hoping that my toys buy me some love which I can’t get myself.

Another story would be being old, rich, and using using toys as a seasoning of sorts, would be a totally different story. Something like this, perhaps:
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