When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?

Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?

Will you be concerned about what people thought of you?

Are these reasons important enough to not do what you want?

How would you feel about not living your life because of fear when you’re on your deathbed?

Deep down, you really know what direction you want to head in. You have an inner compass that will always guide you truthfully, and you can activate it by contemplating your death.

Worried about approaching that woman over there? Great, that’s perfectly normal. But will that fear be relevant when you look back on your life?

Or will you care more about the fact that you did approach that girl even though you were afraid?

Think about any question you may post up on a forum, anything you may ask advice from the other men for, and before you post, ask your compass by asking yourself:

“Would I really be that concerned if I was dying right now?”

You may be very surprised at the clarity of the answer that unfolds for you.

If in doubt, pretend to die, and see how important those doubts are.

Jonathon

We have eyes and so therefore, we’re visual creatures.

But before I answer this question, I want you to consider the most important factors in this equation:

Why you’re actually asking it in the first place.

In my experience, guys who are asking this question are the ones who aren’t getting the success with women that they want..

..and they’re rationalising that they’re simply not good looking enough to get the girls.

Are you falling into the same trap, by any chance?

Are you putting your lack of success down to your perception that you’re not good looking enough?

I want you to consider this: regardless of your looks, are you the kind of guy who captivates women? Do they feel drawn to you?

Do they get lost in your stories? Do they feel excited by your passion and drive? Do they thrive under your Masculine presence?

Do you create a space for them that is so compelling that they have to fight off other women, just to hold your attention?

And if all that was true, do you think your physical appearance would really play that much of a role?

Sort out the important stuff first – your inner game – and the rest will fall into place.

LoGun

..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.

All they’re focusing on is..

..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in their latest DHV routine that they forget the fact that there’s another person standing across from them who’s actually part of building the conversation with them.

I remember sitting with one student through a conversation and listening till he ejected.

When I asked why, he said because there wasn’t anything to talk about yet I managed to count 22 different things that she mentioned that she clearly would’ve been open to talking about but he just passed over.

If he’d stopped for a second and listened, then I’m pretty sure he could still be talking now if he wanted to!

But why wasn’t he? And why don’t most guys actually listen? This comes back to a deeper level:

The things you notice are a product of what you’re focusing on.

You’re not going to notice what she’s talking about when all you’re focused on is what ’stage’ you’re at in the interaction and what DHV routine you should use next.

But, if you’re focus is directed towards her and what she’s giving you, then you’re much more likely to notice what she’s saying.

Where you focus is a product of what you’re trying to achieve.

If you’re just trying to work out a way to impress her or seduce her, then you’re going to be stuck inside your head trying to work out where you are in the seduction process or what DHV routine you can come up with next to impress her.

If you’re focused on trying to work out if she’s the kind of woman you want in your life then you’re going to be listening to what she’s saying and paying attention to the non-verbal communication she’s giving you.

The other added bonus..

..Of trying to work out if she’s the kind of person that you want in your life is that you’re also going to qualify, SOI, lead and escalate without even trying to.

Ever wonder why it’s so much easier to talk to and seduce women you’re not interested in?

Because you’re not stuck in your head trying to come up with shit to impress her with and you actually pay attention to the most important part of the seduction:

HER.

So, if you’re running out of things to say, you might want to stop for a second and actually listen to what she’s saying.

You might just surprise yourself with how much there is to talk about.

LoGun

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“The man who, being really on the Way, falls upon hard times in the world will not, as a consequence..

..turn to that friend who offers him refuge and comfort and encourages his old self to survive..

Rather, he will seek out someone who will faithfully and inexorably help him to risk himself..

..so that he may endure the suffering and pass courageously through it, thus making of it a “raft that leads to the far shore.”

Only to the extent that man exposes himself over and over again to annihilation, can that which is indestructible arise within him. In this lies the dignity of daring.

Thus, the aim of (spiritual) practice..

..is not to develop an attitude which allows a man to acquire a state of harmony and peace wherein nothing can ever trouble him..

On the contrary, practice should teach him to let himself be assaulted, perturbed, moved, insulted, broken and battered -

- that is to say, it should enable him to dare to let go his futile hankering after harmony, surcease from pain, and a comfortable life in order that he may discover, in doing battle with the forces that oppose him, that which awaits him beyond the world of opposites..

The first necessity is..

..that we should have the courage to face life, and to encounter all that is most perilous in the world..

When this is possible, meditation itself becomes the means by which we accept and welcome the demons which arise from the unconscious..

..a process very different from the practice of concentration on some object as a protection against such forces..

Only if we venture repeatedly through zones of annihilation can our contact with Divine Being, which is beyond annihilation, become firm and stable..

The more a man learns..

..whole-heartedly to confront the world that threatens him with isolation, the more are the depths of the Ground of Being revealed and the possibilities of New Life and Becoming opened.”

- The Way of Transformation by Karlfried Gras von Durkheim

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How to make sure women don’t lose interest in you:

Why 97% of dating advice doesn’t help guys:

How MasterClass helped guys, and how it can help you:

What you’ll get out of this seminar:

A tight group of special Men was invited to be the audience for this seminar.

They were Men who already realise that a Man’s life will not feel complete if they just spend it trying to get more stuff, women, money, pleasure…

(you guessed it – they were former MasterClass students).

These men also feel the need to pursue deeper, more rewarding and real challenges…

Such as discovering and living their purpose, cultivating acceptance and validation from within, creating something that has MEANING and is a CONTRIBUTION to the world…

(Rather than just trying to fill some kind of burning hole by constantly trying to TAKE something from the world).

I could tell you how one of the by-products of building that kind of life is having women ASK to be a part of it, and actually thanking you for letting them share in the journey..

..but seriously, in this context that is a nice side bonus, barely worthy of mention.

Because in this context, your life is a much greater reward, and is intrinsically fulfilling.

Women come and go, and some stay. And each woman adds her unique and amazing colours to your life. You love these women for who they are, but you never NEED them to feel complete.

So this seminar went way beyond the topic of “picking up women”.

It was about becoming the kind of Man you always wanted to be.

The kind of Man you want your kids to have as a father.

The kind of Man you never had for a father, perhaps – when YOU were a kid.

And the Men who were invited to take part were the former MasterClass students.

Bad news is that this seminar was a one-off, and we’re probably not going to do another again this year.

The good news is that we did film it – the whole thing – and instead of trying to charge you $3,000 for it, we want to GIVE IT to you.

Next 20 guys who sign up to the MasterClass MKII will get a free copy – which you can use to build the kind of life you want:

Find out more >>

This means that you get to:

1. Finally say goodbye to the inner game causes of your issues with women by doing the MasterClass MKII ($1,499 value). Then…

2. Learn to build the kind of life which is intrinsically rewarding – a life of a Man – where you don’t NEED anything outside yourself to feel complete ($3,000 value). And finally..

3. Learn how to make every conversation with a woman sexual – with 2.5 hours of Hristiyan’s video tutorials you can use to spice up your interactions with women – but only after your inner game is taken care of ($500 value).

This means that:

You get something like $5,000.00 worth of value…

.. and you can start off on this journey right now with only a $299 payment:

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Or you can go straight here and begin your program immediately:

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Steven

PS I must mention that if at any stage you feel that this MasterClass package is not for you, you can get 100% of your money back, within 60 DAYS from the date you sign up.

All we ask is that you give the program a shot.

To do that, just complete 5 easy exercises from your MasterClass MKII workbook, and email them to us.

We will send you your cash back, with no questions asked – and we’ll remain great friends.

To find out more about the 60 day money back guarantee, you can go here:

Find out more >>

PPS: Just so that there are no guys emailing me after this ends, I’m going to reiterate exactly what you get here:

First, you get to take care of the causes of problems which are causing you pain around women, using the MasterClass MKII…

Then you continue to grow as a Man, becoming centered in purpose rather than hollow pleasures..

..having a MEANING in your life, rather than rudderlessly working as a “means to an end”.

Becoming a man who embodies integrity, rather than desire for validation.

Finally, you learn how to “turn up the heat” in any conversation with a woman using Hristiyan’s collection of escalation tutorials.

By the time you’re using them, they will not seem like “tricks” you need to “get” a women, but fun toys you use to add an instant injection of life and spark to your interactions with women.

So, all the tools are here, now, at your fingertips. It’s up to you whether you choose to start using them to change your life, or to remain the same:

Find out more >>

Or:

Start My Program >>

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Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?

The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…

..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..

..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game.

Firstly, we need to separate the inner game and the outer game.

To quote the guy who originally coined the term ‘inner game’ back in the 70’s, Mr Timothy Gallway:

“In every human endeavour there are two arenas of engagement: the outer and the inner.”

The inner is the way you experience the world. The outer is the way you interact with the world.

Your inner game determines your experience of her telling you to go away, your outer game determines what actions you take.

There’s a whole bunch of guys out there who can give you tips on what to do, so I’m going to stick with what I know: your experience – the inner game.

Your experience of the world isn’t just one big element.

Just like outer game, it’s determined by a few different parts. They work in layers and just like an onion, dig down to the core.

So, lets start at the outside and work in.

How you feel.

The primary influencing factor of how you experience the world is how you feel – your state.

I’m going to guess that you’ve had at least one experience in your life where you were in such a good state that it didn’t matter what people did or what happened, they couldn’t phase you.

On the flip side, I’m sure you’ve had experiences where you were so volatile that the smallest, most insignificant thing would completely set you off.

(Just as a side note: if this is the case, is it the external element that’s the issue and the cause of you problems or is it your mood?)

It’s this state that you’re in that is the first layer of your inner game.

But you don’t just decide to feel good or bad. You don’t just wake up one day and look at the sky and think:

‘Well, I think I’m going to feel shit today. That sounds good.”

There’s underlying factors at play here. And the first one is:

Your focus.

How you feel about your world is determined by where you’re focussing.

At any one point in time, there’s really positive and empowering stuff going on in the world and there’s negative and disempowering stuff.

Your mind is structured so that it can only take in a small amount of information at any one point in time.

Where you direct your attention determines what information you actually take in. It the information that you take in that determines how your state.

Is the guys who sits in front of the TV all day watching news all day, watching news stories about the wars and violence around the world..

..who spends his time focussing on the misery and pain that he and everyone else is experiencing going to feel great?

I doubt it.

Is the guy who lives in Hawaii, spending his days surfing in the warm water and the perfect waves and focussing on the beauty and perfection that nature has to offer..

..focussing on the activities that he enjoys, going to feel good? Well, he’s got a much better chance than the pain guy.

So, which one of these guys is ‘right’?

Is either way more true than the other way? Well, yes and no.

The way of seeing the world is definitely ‘true’ for the guy experiencing it but is it globally true? Is it absolutely true?

Is the world a cruel and painful place of is it a beautiful and wonderful playground? It’s neither.

There’s plenty of stuff you’re going to love and plenty of stuff you’re going to hate going on all around you, the question you have to ask is what are you focussing on?

But you don’t just choose a focus.

It’s not like you woke up one day and went “Hmm… I’m going to focus on painful things today. That sounds great, thanks.”

There’s a layers beneath that is the primary determining factor in your focus.

Your purpose.

The thing in your life that you choose to focus on are a product of what you’re trying to achieve – your purpose.

Your purpose is the thing that you’re trying to achieve in any given moment. It can change from moment to moment but there’s always something that you’re trying to achieve.

If your purpose is to prove how scary and dangerous the world is..

..or to find a scape goat for all the fear you experience in your day, then you’re much more likely to spend time watching the news for stories about the dangers and problems that exist in the world.

If your purpose is bring as much pleasure into your life as possible and to celebrate all the blessings that we’re afforded every day..

..then then you’re much more likely to spend as much time as possible doing the activities that you enjoy, and if you happen to like surfing..

..then you’re going to spend your time focussing on how much you enjoy the waves.

In psychology, this is called ‘confirmation bias’.

When we receive information into our world, we extract the parts of that information that confirm the way we see the world and we discard the parts that don’t.

Does it mean that the pain and suffering that is experienced in other parts of the world is diminished? No.

But it just means that you’re choosing not to direct your attention to it because it doesn’t help you get what you want.

Our brains are fantastic at working out what’s necessary for us to pay attention to and what’s completely unnecessary.

If we weren’t we wouldn’t have made it to where we are today.

There’s no point in getting caught up in paying attention to the beautiful flowers when a sabertooth is about to eat you. It’s just not productive.

But what’s different about these two guys that means one guy spends his time focussing on the pain and suffering that goes on around..

..and the other guy focuses on how much he can enjoy himself?

You don’t just wake up one day and think:

‘Hmmm… Today I’m going to prove how painful the world is…’.

You guessed it – there’s a deeper layer. That layer is how you think you get what you want out of life.

The Pathway

The purpose that you choose in any given moment is determined by how you think you get what you want out of life.

This is your overriding goal, your mission. It’s the bigger picture.

If you think that in order for you to get what you want out of life, the external world has to be the way you want it to be and match your idea of perfection, then you’re going to be focussed externally.

If you’re not getting what you think want, then you’re going to focus how shit the world is.

You’re going to look at all the different ways that the world is preventing you from experiencing what you want.

If you ARE getting what you want, then you’re still going to focus on the shit parts of the world but you’re also going to focus on the good parts of the world.

If you think that in order for you to get what you want out of life, you need to go and do the things that fill you with joy..

..then you’re not going to be focussed externally on what the external conditions are like. Rather, you’re going to be focussed internally on what you can do.

If you’re not getting what you want out of life then you’re going to focus on what you can do to experience it. If you are getting what you want out of life then you’re simply going to focus on doing more of it.

This is the core element to the whole puzzle.

How you think you get what you want out of life determines what you’re trying to achieve, which determines where you focus, which determines how you feel.

And one thing to consider here: how much of an impact how you feel has on your actions?

Yes, there are learned habits that play a role in this but for the most part, it’s the deeper, underlying layers that are controlling this chain.

So, if you want to change your inner game, you can go about it any way you want. But I highly recommend start at the top and work your way out:

- How do you feel when you’re interacting with women?

- What are you focussing on that’s causing that feeling?

- What are you trying to achieve that’s directing that focus?

- And what does your purpose tell about the way you think you get what you want out of life?

LoGun

..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.

I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies ;)

…but I work out. And I love doing it.

I love seeing just how hard I can push myself, how much progress I can make…

When I’m lying under a bar, or it’s racked on my shoulders, and I’m trying to lift more than you ever have, there’s nothing else.

No thoughts about work, no thoughts about what shopping I forgot to do on the way home,it’s just me and the bar.

Oh, and yes, it’s very attractive to women :-) There’s no denying that.

There’s no denying that well sculptured biceps, or shapely shoulders make you more attractive to most women, but is it really necessary?

“I’m not attracted to you because you’re strong, I’m attracted to you because you choose to be strong. It’s because you choose how you want things to be rather than letting things be chosen for you…

..It wouldn’t matter if you weren’t strong because you would still be choosing how you want things to be rather than allowing things to be chosen for you.”

And this comes back to core message that we’ve been teaching here at the Attraction Institute: attracting beautiful women isn’t about what you do, it’s why you do it.

It’s the underlying mindset that’s important.

Sure, having a great body will help you attract women, but it’s not just the body that really gets them, it’s what that body says about you.

It says you’re willing to stand up and go after what you want.

It says you don’t let the world push you around. It says that you have the strength to be able to change your world into the world you want.

It’s says you’re a Man.

But you don’t need a great body to say this to women. It comes out in everything you do.

You can communicate the exact same message to women through how you act, how you walk, what you say, what you do, without ever lifting a weight.

It all comes down to how willing you are to step up to the plate and take control of your world. It all comes back to your inner game.

You can basically do anything that you want around women and still get amazing results.

All the rules are bullshit.

As long as you are choosing how you want your world to be in every moment.

The question is, how willing are you to step up and create your world in the way you want?

LoGun

Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…

Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..

..but they’re actually making you worse with women.

Why? Well, have a a look a this set of rules I pulled from a PUA forum.

- “You can’t show too much interest so your opening line should be indirect…”

- “Women love celebrity gossip so you need to read up on that to have things to talk about…”

- “Don’t ever lean in when you talk. It telegraphs too much interest.”

- “You need to develop a solid routine stack so that if she’s not interested in what you have to say, you can transition to another routine.”

What do they all have in common?

Can’t tell? Have a look closer.

Your opener should (apparently) be indirect because if you show too much interest when she’s not attracted to you at all, she’s not going to listen to what you have to say.

But why are you showing interest before you’ve even spoken her?

How do you know she’s the kind of woman you like? If you had deep and real standards in your life rather than just being attracted to the superficial aspects of a person, would you need to learn this?

And even if you did have standards and you got the vibe from her that she was the kind of woman you want to pick up, if you were the kind of guy that she wanted to meet, would it matter if you showed interest?

Would she tell Brad Pitt to get lost if he told her he thought she was cute?

You (apparently) should learn things to talk about because if you don’t have something to say that’s interesting to her, she’s going to walk away.

But why are you trying to pick up a woman who you have nothing in common with?

Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn’t have anything interesting to add to a conversation?

If you spent your time looking for women who you clicked with rather than desperately trying to convince anyone who’ll take you to hang out with you, would you need to learn things to talk about?

And I could keep going here…

The one thing that all these tricks to pick up women have in common is that they’re designed to cover over your inner game issues.

If you didn’t have these inner game issues, you wouldn’t need to learn how to pick up women in the first place.

When you get your inner game sorted, you’ll be able to break and even contradict EVERY SINGLE ONE of these rules.

You wont have to learn anything to talk about because you wont be trying to bring women into your life that you don’t have anything in common with.

You won’t have to hide your intent because the women you desire will find you attractive, and if they don’t you can go and find ones that do.

You wont have to lean back to hide your interest in her because she’ll be interested in your too, and if she’s not, you can go and find women that are.

Have you seen the Matrix? Do you remember this line?

Neo: “Are you saying I’ll be able to dodge bullets?”
Morpheus: “No, I’m saying that when you’re ready, you wont have to.”

Pick up techniques are designed to teach you how to dodge bullets. Inner game shows you how to never have to dodge them again.

When you’re just learning how to pick up women, you have to learn how to deal with the tests that they throw at you.

When you deal with your inner game, you pass their test without even registering that they happened.

When you’re learning tricks for picking up women, you have to learn how to do ‘qualification’, when you deal with your inner game, qualification is the way you live your life so you don’t even have to think about it.

Now, most guys that teach tricks for picking up women say that by learning these tricks, you’ll take care of your inner game issues. Really?

Learning outer game only takes care of the surface level of the issue, not the deep core of the issue. The deep issue is still there.

Running out of things to say is an inner game issue.

The only reason you run out of things to say is because you’re stuck inside your head trying to come up with something cool, funny, interesting to say so you can impress her…

..instead of just saying what you’re thinking and how you feel.

Outer game deals with this by giving you things to say that people might think are cool and interesting but the core of the issue not only remains, but is reinforced.

You not only still have the issue that you think the things you have to say aren’t interesting or cool or fun..

..but you’ve reinforced the thought pattern that you’re not good enough as you are to be attractive to women and have to hide yourself behind these pick up tricks.

Inner game deals with this by helping you shift your mindset from:

“How can I get that hot chick to like me so then I’ll feel good about myself?”

To:

“How can I feel good about myself so it doesn’t matter whether hot chicks will like me?”.

One thing worth considering, which pathway do you think is going to be more attractive to women in the long run?

Am I saying that you wont get more women through learning pickup techniques? Of course not. You definitely can.

But have think about this for a second – what kind of women do you think you’ll end up with? What kind of standards will they live their life buy?

The kind of women who you’ll pickup are the kind of women settle for a guy who’s validation seeking, needy, scared of the world, and thinks that he’s not good enough without other people around him.

What kind of woman do you think that will be? Confident? Powerful? Independent? I doubt it…

How about needy? Insecure? Clingy?

That’s probably more likely…

What kind of issues do you think you’re going to face in the long run with her? Is she the kind of woman you pictured yourself with in the future?

Am I saying that all pickup tricks are a waste of time? Definitely not.

There’s some really cool, fun, interesting stuff to play with.

What I’m saying is that if you’re just learning it to cover over your inner game issues then you’re gong to spend the rest of your life learning how to dodge bullets when you could just be ignoring them all together.

What path are you going to choose?

LoGun

What kind of Man do you REALLY want to become?

If you’ve ever seen a beautiful woman and didn’t approach her then this is for you:

Why you DON’T NEED to learn any more seduction community advice to the kind of Man who women are drawn to:

Is there a better way?

Why caring about what people think should not hold you back from approaching women:

And by the way, I’d like to use this moment to say a special thanks to Cinefilo – who wrote me this email:

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“hey man…. i´m from Venezuela in Latinamerica…

Basically i had read everything in the community… from juggler, ross jeffries, savoy, mystery, etc

Recently i just found that the 3 best companys were RSD, Enlightment Seduction ( Zan perrion ) and David X…

Well, i said “were” becuase you are now in the top…. the stuff you are teaching is amazing… and i wanna say thanks for everything…

well that´s all goodbye Cinefilo”
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LoGun and I get a lot of positive feedback here at AI, but emails like these really move me – I have never been to Venezuela, but it’s pretty touching to know that the word about inner game stuff we teach has gone as far as that ;) Thanks, Cinefilo.

Sean:

Chris at first was the biggest skeptic we have EVER encountered. Like, literally, he’s only turn up to seminars just to argue:

This is more of him .. arguing ;)

Another unexpected piece of feedback:

On guys becoming assholes. And more ;)

On going from scatterbrain to being being calm & cool..

Steven