Top 5 Most Dangerous Things About The Seduction Community:
# 5: Seduction Community Only Treats The Symptoms.
Most guys don’t realise that their problems with women are symptoms of another issue that is laying under the surface.
For example, a common problem is that guys run out of things to say to a woman. The obvious solution to treating this symptom would be to learn more interesting things to talk about.
Digging deeper, you might also realise that you feel that talking about what you REALLY want to be talking about is not attractive to a woman.
So, you run out of things to say to a woman because you talk to women while racking your brains for memorised content.
And you end up getting caught up in your head about what you *should* be saying to a woman – rather than being present in the conversation and endlessly speaking from your heart.
#4: Treating Symptoms Makes Your Journey Unnecessary Long.
Let me give you a quick example. Suppose your car has just overheated. There you are, sitting in traffic, and you notice that your temperature gauge is in the red, and reading 120 degrees.
Not good.
Well, following dating advice which shows you how not to running out of things to say to a woman is just like listening to a mechanic who says you just have to swap the temperature gauge in your car to one that reads “zero”.
But really, shouldn’t you be looking under the hood – most likely at the radiator?
You may kid yourself into thinking that the car is fine just because your temperature gauge reads “ZERO”, but how long will it be until other problems surface because you didn’t take care of the boiling engine?
#3: Seduction Community Makes You DEPENDENT On Forums, DVD programs And “Latest” Seduction Secrets.
Do you know what is the easiest way to sell something? It is to make it as ‘niche’ as possible.
So, seduction community dating gurus make a tonne of ‘niche’ products for you to consume.
- A DVD program on how to eliminate approach anxiety here.
- A workshop to teach you how to flirt there.
- A podcast to tell you about how to approach women in bars and clubs over there.
Unfortunately, you’re not built in niches. But before you’ve realised that, you’ve spent $3000 – 5000. And you’re still only chasing the symptoms.
You may feel like you’re getting better with women as a result of those remedies, but it’s only because at that moment one of your symptoms is suppressed enough for you to enjoy some progress.
Most guys find that approach anxiety returns as soon as they stop ‘working onit’ – and they return back to their usual self. That is your symptoms returning, because the cause never really went away.
It is usually at this point that a seduction community “dating guru” will tell you that you need another workshop – this time an ‘advanced’ one. Clever, innit?
#2: You Can Take Care Of All Your Symptoms By Fixing The Cause.
What if there was a way to turn off the symptoms at the core?
I mean – really – why not just take care of the causes, so that you stop spinning your wheels (excuse the car metaphors, I’m a bit of a petrolhead :) – and your outside symptoms dissolve?
Many guys avoid this path because it seems long and hard.
Irony is, that by not going for the ‘quick fix’, you’re actually making progress faster, and leaving all those who are still stuck in groundhog day of learning seduction methods, routines or ‘natural game’ in your rear view mirror.
(Ok, I couldn’t help that one. I promise to stop the petrolhead stuff now – I have issues, I know).
And you’re not just learning how to pick up women. You’re becoming a rock-solid man who lives out of his deepest principles, for whom picking up women is a non-issue. For him, seduction “just happens” when he sees a girl he knows is his type, and strolls over to meet this woman.
So, how much would you pay some guru who promises to show you how to pinpoint the common core of your deeper issues – so that you can switch it off and never think about seduction again?
Well, I may have some good news for you.
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