Have You Ever Been Rejected By A Woman?

by Leigh (LoGun) on January 27, 2010 · No Comments

rejected by a woman This one’s a bit of a weird post for me to write.

Mainly because rejection is something that I don’t believe in.

But a lot of guys are asking me about it, so I thought I’d share my thoughts on this big ‘rejection’ thing.

Firstly, I dislike the word “rejection” because I don’t believe a woman ever “rejects” you.

She just lets you know that in that moment, she doesn’t feel like you’re the kind of guy she wants to be with.

Nothing is ever final and it’s never final. It’s just her decision at that point in time.

But that’s beside the point for the moment…

There seems to be quite a few guys caught up on the idea of “rejection” being a bad thing, but I couldn’t disagree more.

How can her being up front and direct with you be a bad thing?

If she lets you know that she’s not interested right now then you’re free to move on and find someone who is interested.

Are you telling me you’d rather her lie to you and string you along only to get you to the end of the night and say “Ummm… No thanks. You’re kind of weird” … ?

If she was just to play politely with you, string you along, you could end up spending the rest of the night talking to her when you had no chance, right from the beginning.

Now that’s my idea of a wasted night!

By letting you know, right up front, that she’s not interested, she’s allowed you to move on with your night rather than wasting time pushing shit up hill.

So the next time a woman says ‘no thanks…’ thank her in return for being up front and allowing you the opportunity to make your night as productive as possible.

After all, she’s the one doing you a favour.

LoGun