What path do you walk, and why do you walk it?

How conscious are you of the life you are living in this very moment?

Is the life you’re living the product of your manufacture?

Or are you just going with the flow, leaving that responsibility up to somebody else?

Who are you leaving it up to, then?

How satisfied are you with that path?

These questions are never easy to ask ourselves.

And sometimes the answers are very unsavoury. But there’s no need to get down on yourself if you really don’t like those answers.

You’ve just asked yourself a very important question that may affect the very foundation of the rest of your life.

Yeah, it can be that huge.

Becoming aware and facing the very problem that has trapped you is a powerful step: for it is very difficult to change something when you don’t know there’s an issue to begin with.

Dealing with this will obviously have a huge impact on your quality of life. But for the sake of simplicity, I’m going to deal with one realm only:

The beautiful women.

(that is why you’re here after all, isn’t it?)

How would it feel for you to be in a relationship with somebody who was completely at the beck and call of the elements that surrounded them?

How would it feel to date a puppet?

Knowing that the only reason they move, or do anything, is because they are reacting to the strings that command them?

Who would be more appealing to you:

The puppet, or the puppeteer?

One is animated through circumstance, the other one animates through creation. One has the gift of performance, the other creates entertainment.

I would suggest to you that any woman you meet right now, is very much interacting with the puppet that is you…

… and deep down (if the relationship is to become more serious, especially) is wondering who is pulling the strings of your life…

…and how much say you have in the path you will both walk together.

To quote one of my personal favourite characters:

“This is your life, and it’s ending, one minute at a time.”

So, how have you been spending that time?

Don’t get too caught up in the details though. Remember that you are a human being, not a human doing.

So, the real question to help you cut the fat is: how are you being?

The circumstances and the doing will change. But who you are what you will stand for is all yours.

I’m here to help you wake up.

How awake are you now?

Jonathon

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