“How Do I Attract A GIRL?” The Brutal Answer.
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Lots of guys write in to me and ask:
“How do I attract a girl?”
If that question is at the forefront of your mind, then you’re making it unnecessary difficult for yourself to attract the said girl.
Why?
Because you’re looking for answers in the wrong place.
You’re looking outside yourself.
Let me explain.
Everything in your life is a reflection of your relationship with YOURSELF. (In other words, your inner game).
And when I say everything, I mean EVERYTHING:
The car you drive, the friendships you have, the job you do, the love you have for your family..
..and, needless to say, the attraction women feel for you.
If you’re looking for an answer on how to attract a girl, then you can make it a lot easier for yourself by looking in
the only place that matters:
Inside yourself.
Here are some questions you can ponder to start that process:
- Do you like your life? Or not so much?
- Do you like YOURSELF? Or not so much?
- Do *YOU* influence your actions? Or does opinion of others influence your actions?
- Do you know why you wake up every morning? Or do you just follow a routine you “fell into?”
- Do you come home after work feeling exhausted, spent, but fulfilled? Or tired, wanting, and hollow?
- Are you worried about not leaving this world a better place than you found it? Or are you worried about how to make others think better things of you?
- When someone asks what your job is, do you describe your role, owning your words – (even if you do a non-prestigious job): “I sell cars”.
- Or are you quicker to declare the name of the company you work for “I work at Lexus”, because you want prestige of the brand to rub off on you in the eyes of others?
Here’s what it all comes down to:
If you don’t like your life..
.. Why do you expect a woman to?
If you don’t like your life, you’ll cling to others to make it better. And you’ll repel people in the process.
But..
If you *DO* like your life..
You’ll become selective about who to let in. And people will be drawn to you.
That’s why learning tips and techniques which show you how to attract women is as pointless as it is to seek an answer to the “How do I attract a girl?” question.
Attracting a beautiful woman into your life is a great endeavour. But most guys approach the endeavour from the wrong end:
A woman who is attracted to you is a consequence of you having a great relationship with yourself. Not a means to it.
Not only is learning how to attract a girl merely a symptom..
It is treating just a part of a symptom.
Which makes it an even bigger waste of time.
And not only that. It’s selling yourself short. You are better than that, dude. You deserve to realise your potential. In this lifetime.
You deserve to love your life. For yourself. Because of yourself.
Not because some hot girl is validating you.
And not because her presence in your life means you can finally to “stick it” to the cool kids who always thought you
were a deuchebag.
That is a hollow dream.
Why do you need to prove anything to anyone in the first place? Why do you care?
And why is is that they don’t care about proving anything to you, and you still chase their acceptance?
- Don’t waste your life living it for someone
else.
- Don’t waste your life learning tricks to temporarily dull the pain.
- Don’t believe the “gurus” who tell you that chanting some affirmations like “I love my life and I’m awesome” is going to make you into James Bond.
All you gotta do is change your relationship with yourself. And the good news is, it’s not that hard to do.
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All the best!
Steven
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