Ok so a recent experience has me questioning some things,
A girl i was kinda seeing ended up telling me she has a bf.. n has been with him for a while.. at the time i handled it pretty much typical PUA style by making fun of it.. (i said yeah so do i i cant believe im cheating on him wit u).. n i kept persisting.. it was more natural reaction then anything.

But she kept insisting she does.. the funny thing is i have done sexual things wit her before that night.. so im trying to think how i should have gone about it.. my mate thinks that you should let the girl know that its not on.. confront her about it.. telling her theres something seriously wrong if shes meeting up with guys behind her bfs back etc..

My take on it was different as ive been reading alot of David Dieda which talks about logic not working with women as they are emotion based.. so i didnt confront her at the time i just continued being my lovely self .. also i dont want to be reactive but in these situations do u think you should be reactive and let loose on what ur feeling at the time..

Ive kinda cut contact with her for a couple of days so i can gather my thoughts on how to handle this situation.. but the more i dont talk to the girl the more im thinking about it.. so i think i need to handle this asap.. so i can move forward.. my main concerns are that i was starting to like her.. but thats out of the question as i dont think i'd want to be with a girl that thinks its ok to meet up with other guys behind her bfs back.. shes a cool gal to be friends with but this is a problem too as im very attracted to her and as a scorpio theres little doubt that i would jump her bones when i see her..

any advice would be appreciated