Meeting Women On The Beach – Efffortless Game.

by Leigh (LoGun) on October 25, 2009 · No Comments

meeting women on the beach Long tanned legs? Check.

The tiniest black shorts you’ve ever seen? Check.

Beautiful dark hair? Check.

We could have a winner here… But I wonder what she looks like from the front?

Check :-)

I didn’t head out today with a plan of meeting women but sometimes, it just happens by accident.

All I wanted to do was sit quietly on the beach and read for a while but when I got there, I had a feeling that it was going to be a little different.

I’d forgotten just how amazing the view across the beach is. Especially when it’s 28 degrees and all the lovely little backpackers have decided it’s a good day to work on their tans.

Standing at the top of the stairs, listening to the waves break against the shore in the baking hot sun, all I could see was bare skin for miles in both directions.

Yes, it was a good day.

I choose a spot in between two groups of perfectly formed curves and started trying to read. That lasted about 30 seconds.

At first, all I saw were her calves,: tanned, tight, this could be interesting.

Then it was her perfectly formed arse, barely covered by her tiny little shorts. Yes, definitely interested.

As she sat herself down 3 meters in front of me and slid her shirt off over her tight little frame, I could feel my body definitely getting interested.

I was halfway through a paragraph so I went back to reading. But that only lasted another 30 seconds.

“Do you want to go on a cruise on Thursday night?” It was the most nasal, whining English accent I’d heard in days. Thank God he wasn’t talking to me.

“Umm.. . no thanks.” It turns out little miss black shorts has an Aussie accent.

Apparently it’s not uncommon for backpackers to try and sell parties up and down the beach, because it didn’t take a minute for another one to turn up.

“Have you heard of this party?”

“No thanks…” She politely said.

That was my queue to step in “Wow… Aren’t you little miss popular today. I’ve been here twice as long and no-one’s bothered to talk to me yet.”

She dropped her head phones out of her ears and we just went from there.

I don’t remember exactly what we said but we must have chatted for about an hour.

If you went back and analysed it, it would’ve read like a textbook ‘sarge’.

I started talking to her about something in the environment (situational opener), teased her a bit (push / pull), told some stories (DHV) found out some things about her that I liked (qualified) and then told her that I liked them (SOI)…

We got to know each other for a while (rapport), and then before I left, I got her phone number (closed).

But, was any of this, at any point in time, intentional? Of course not. It was the product of something very simple and very powerful.

I started talking to her because I saw something and wanted to comment on it. So I did.

I teased her and played around because I was in a playful mood.

I told some stories because I was just sharing what was on my mind. I talk very passionately about what I do because I’m passionate about what I do. She found that interesting.

I was interesting in finding out if she’s the kind of person that I want to have in my life. So I asked her about the things she has in her life to find out.

When she said things that I liked, I told her that I liked them because that’s what I was thinking.

I wanted to see her again and needed a way to get back in contact with her, so I asked her for her number.

If at any point in time, it looked like she wasn’t the kind of person I wanted in my life then the conversation would’ve ended as continuing wouldn’t have been necessary.

Everything I did was because I was happy, carefree, knew what I wanted in my life, and was looking for it.

Simple.

I spoke to her because I there was something I wanted to talk about and I wasn’t all caught up in my head trying to work out how to impress her with some fancy line or follow some kind of structure.

I just wanted to say it.

If she wasn’t playful, I wouldn’t have bothered finding out more things about her. If she hadn’t talked about things I liked then I wouldn’t have bothered telling her that I liked them.

If you’re looking at this game as a series of steps that you have to go through then you’re condemning yourself to having to try and remember step after step after step.

If you take responsibility for your own happiness, make your life the way you want it to be, and actively seek the things you want, then you’re not going to have to remember steps at all as they’re just going to be the way you interact with the world.

LoGun