NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To A Woman!

by Leigh (LoGun) on March 10, 2010 · No Comments

run out of things to say to a woman The number one thing that I ALWAYS find, without fail, with guys who’re struggling with conversations..

..is that they’re missing the most vital point of a conversation – the other person.

All they’re focusing on is..

..what they could say next or where they could try and squeeze in their latest DHV routine that they forget the fact that there’s another person standing across from them who’s actually part of building the conversation with them.

I remember sitting with one student through a conversation and listening till he ejected.

When I asked why, he said because there wasn’t anything to talk about yet I managed to count 22 different things that she mentioned that she clearly would’ve been open to talking about but he just passed over.

If he’d stopped for a second and listened, then I’m pretty sure he could still be talking now if he wanted to!

But why wasn’t he? And why don’t most guys actually listen? This comes back to a deeper level:

The things you notice are a product of what you’re focusing on.

You’re not going to notice what she’s talking about when all you’re focused on is what ‘stage’ you’re at in the interaction and what DHV routine you should use next.

But, if you’re focus is directed towards her and what she’s giving you, then you’re much more likely to notice what she’s saying.

Where you focus is a product of what you’re trying to achieve.

If you’re just trying to work out a way to impress her or seduce her, then you’re going to be stuck inside your head trying to work out where you are in the seduction process or what DHV routine you can come up with next to impress her.

If you’re focused on trying to work out if she’s the kind of woman you want in your life then you’re going to be listening to what she’s saying and paying attention to the non-verbal communication she’s giving you.

The other added bonus..

..Of trying to work out if she’s the kind of person that you want in your life is that you’re also going to qualify, SOI, lead and escalate without even trying to.

Ever wonder why it’s so much easier to talk to and seduce women you’re not interested in?

Because you’re not stuck in your head trying to come up with shit to impress her with and you actually pay attention to the most important part of the seduction:

HER.

So, if you’re running out of things to say, you might want to stop for a second and actually listen to what she’s saying.

You might just surprise yourself with how much there is to talk about.

LoGun