Become The Man of YOUR Dreams…
Destroying Your Fears And Anxieties, Radiating Confidence,
Oozing Charisma and Becoming Effortlessly Attractive to Women…
…Made Easy
Knowing the theory of how to become naturally attractive to women…
…is like knowing the theory of how to swim.
It’s great whilst you’re standing on outside looking in, but as soon as you jump in the deep end…
Well…
If you’re reading this, then I’m going to guess that it didn’t go as well as you wanted it to.
What ruined your chances with her?
- Did you stumble when you went for the number and screw up a great opportunity?
- Run out of things to say and have to sit through the awkward silence?
- Screw up the opener and embarrass yourself in front of all your mates?
Or even worse, and my personal favourite…
…not even get off your arse to talk to her in the first place?
Don’t be discouraged.
It took me 8 years from when I first started working on becoming totally and unashamedly free around women till I had enough knowledge and experience to create Get Real.
If you’ve been doing it for less than 8 years, you’re doing better than I did.
But, if you don’t want to spend the next 8 years trying, struggling, and pushing through, not knowing if you’re going in the right direction it…
…then Get Real is the program for you.
When I first discovered that there was only one thing I needed to change to eliminate all my barriers with women, I was over the moon.
In my head, it meant an end of dealing with endless painful symptoms.
It meant I could stop focusing on:
- Overcoming approach anxiety
- Coming up with things to talk about
- Generating attraction
- Following structures
- Remembering tactics
- Deciphering which stage of the interaction I was in
- Leading
- Qualification
- DHVing
- AMOGing
- Closing
And start focusing on:
- Living my life on my terms
It made everything seem so much easier.
“Stop Doing Attraction and Start Being Attractive.”
That became my philosophy.
The only problem was how.
I’d turned up the volume.
I was sick of trying convince women to like me for the Man I was pretending to be.
I knew it wasn’t going to work for me, but I wasn’t sure where to go from here.
After a few years of struggling with this problem, I had a huge realisation.
The one piece that was missing from this puzzle was ‘Me’.
There was a few key parts that I didn’t know:
- How I was causing every problem I faced in my life (not just my purpose but the specific details)
- Why I was creating it (and yes, I created every one)
- What I was really searching for (which of the two components of certainty I craved and in which situation)
- How I could find what I was searching for in another way
- Which actions were going to provide me with the most bang for my buck
- How I could overcome the specific barriers that came up when I tried to do this
- How I can use all this when interacting with the women I wanted
This is when I really started turning theory into action.
I started by understanding myself and who I was on my deepest level.
What did I desire? What did I crave?
“And how did all this theory apply to the
specific situations I faced?”
Once got in touch with myself on my deepest level, then I started to take action.
I put myself in scary situations, I stood in front of fear, I did all the things I could think of that would I would normally run away from and developed tools to deal with these situations when I did.
It was the pickup equivalent of standing in front of a firing squad.
- I approached the coldest, scariest women I cold find with the full knowledge that they were going to blow me out. And when she did, I dealt with the pain.
- I started conversations with people and intentionally created awkward silences to develop tools to work with that.
- I intentionally got stuck inside my head trying to come up with seduction secrets just to figure out ways to get out of it
Was it painful? Yes. Was it embarrassing? Yes.
But I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life trying to hide from these things any more.
I’d spent enough time hiding from pain, frustration, and
misery to put up with it any longer.
I tried and failed. And then I failed again. And again.
But slowly, I discovered tools to deal with this.
No, I didn’t just desensitise myself. Getting used to rejection is just another way of hiding from it.
I learned to go THROUGH the rejection and find what I was looking for on the other side.
I learned to use the frustration.
I learned to harness the misery.
I learned that the life I was looking for didn’t lie in running away from this pain, it was actually sitting just on the other side of it.
Once I realised this, I stopped running AWAY from tension and started running TOWARDS it.
I stopped HIDING from blowouts and started SEARCHING FOR THEM.
I replaced my TERROR of fear with a CRAVING for it
And now you can as well.
In 5 short weeks, you could be:
- Staring failure, strong and proudly in the face
- Laughing at the harshest blowouts
- Actively searching for fear out of enjoyment
- Totally and completely free around women
And…
Radiating the strength and confidence that
women find irresistible
But Get Real is about more than changing the way you interact with women.
It’s about more than just finding freedom around intimidating beauties.
Get Real is about transforming the way you live your entire life.
You see, your life isn’t made up of separate parts.
- Your work isn’t separate from your friendships
- Your family life isn’t separate from your free time
- Your issues with women aren’t separate from your anything
There’s a common denominator that runs through all of them.
Can you guess what it is?
It’s you.
You’re the common element in EVERY problem you face in life.
Specifically, the way you engage the world and relate to the world is the common element in every problem you face.
There’s no doubt that the knowledge, awareness and tools you find in Get Real will transform your relationships with women beyond all imagination.
But they’ll also help you find freedom, confidence, and happiness in every area of your life.
This was one of the most powerful changes for me.
Everything changed.
- My friendships became deep, real, and fun rather than shallow and stale
- My work became rewarding and fulfilling rather than draining and boring
- And I actually started getting along with my family for the first time in years
“I didn’t realise that this level of freedom,
connection, and power was possible.”
Consider this -
What would change about your life if:
- Your friends inspired you, every day, to be a better, strong, more powerful Man?
- Your work challenged you and pushed you to the edge but supported you all the way through?
- Your free time was a place of fulfilment and satisfaction?
- You developed deep and real connections with everyone you met, regardless of how long you spent together?
How would that change the way you felt about your life?
How would that change the way you lived your life?
You have an opportunity to experience this, right now.
Don’t get me wrong.
Get Real isn’t a magic wand that you can wave and everything will change.
It’s going to require effort, commitment, dedication and most importantly ACTION…
But it will give you the tools, structure, and support you need to create a fulfilling, rewarding, and intrinsically rewarding life.
By the time you finish Get Real, you will -
- Know yourself on your deepest level
- Have clarity about your direction and your purpose in life
- Have a clear image of the life you want to create
- Know what steps you need to take to create that life
- Understand the specific roadblocks that have been preventing you from living a rewarding and fulfilling life
- Clearly see all possible barriers that could prevent you from getting there
- Have an easy to use set of tools to over come these barriers
- Learn how to find what you’re looking for THROUGH your barriers so instead of running away from them, you move towards them
- Understand how to apply these tools to your interactions with women so you get what you want, regardless of how she responds
- Get to live your life on your terms, regardless of how the world responds to you
- Embody the traits that strong, confident, feminine women desire in Men
And much, much more…
Sound too good to be true?
Well, here’s what some recent graduates have to say…
Jermaine (3:19)
TheBlank (6:11)
Luke (11:44)
Luke’s testimonial was so long, I had to cut it down to have any chance of getting someone to listen to it. If you hate life and would like to listen the whole nearly 23 minutes, you can do it here:
Luke (22:44)
This is all achieved through the unique 5 week coaching structure of Get Real.
- The Preparation Week will help you identify the specific way you’re creating all the issues you face with women, and in life, right now.
- By the end of Week 1, you have a complete understanding of the life you want to create to experience fulfilment and satisfaction and how you need to life your life to experience that.
- Week 2 is where you will find the ONLY barrier that’s preventing you from living your life in that way and experience the freedom that comes from living your life on your terms.
- Week 3 is dedicated to helping you find the tools to over this core barrier so that your freedom is never compromised again.
- And week 4 is where we bring it all back to your interactions with women and help you understand what hasto change for you to naturally attract the women you desire.
As you can see from the outline, this isn’t a random set of pieces of information thrown together in the hope that it works for you.
Get Real is a 5 week journey where we take you deep inside your psyche, help you see all your limitations, the core creating them all, then give you the tools to remove them so that…
…the Naturally Attractive Man is free to come out in all areas of your life.
By the end of Get Real, you will be doing things that you thought were impossible before you started…
…but feel totally confident doing them because of the structured progression you’ve followed.
The 6 Transformative Tools of Get Real
There are 6 major tools used throughout Get Real to make sure you get the transformation you are looking for.
1. Weekly Homework assignments
One of the major elements required to become naturally attractive to women is fulfilment and satisfaction that come from following your desires in every moment.
To be able to follow your desires in every moment, you have to be aware of them in every moment.
If you’re stuck in your head, worrying about what other people are thinking or trying to come up with the next killer line, it’s just not going to work.
At the start of every week of Get Real, you will receive a homework assignment for you to do every day of the week.
It’s a quick 15 minute practical exercise designed to help you stay focussed on what you want in every moment in even the most distracting and confusing environments.
This gets progressively more challenging and difficult as you progress through the program.
2. Articles
6 days a week, every week, there’s a quick article for you to read.
These articles are similar to the articles on the Attraction Institute blog and will give you the theoretical understanding the concept you’re working with for that particular day.
3. Written Exercises
Reading an article an expecting your life to change is as useful as reading a recipe book and expecting dinner to be cooked.
Information is useless without application.
Every article in Get Real has an accompanying written exercise to help you take that days core concept and apply it to the barriers and challenges you face in your life.
These exercises will give you the insight into your life and the way you’re living it to be able to make real changes.
4. Activities
Having insight into the challenges you face is great. But nothing changes until you do something with that insight.
For change to happen, you must take action.
To make sure you’re taking action with every new insight, every written exercise has an accompanying physical activity to do.
That activity may be as simple as visiting a particular space and contemplating an idea or as challenging as interacting with women.
But each day will get you pushing your boundaries and challenging yourself so that you’re not just left with lots of useless information and insights.
Don’t worry though. You’re not going to just be hung out to dry.
You won’t just be told to go and approach the hottest woman you can see on the first day of the program.
You will be gradually building upon each days success so that activities that seemed impossible before the program will feel totally achievable by the time you’re doing them.
5. Playtime assignments
At the end of every week, there’s a special activity for you to do. It’s called a playtime assignment.
The reason you found AI was because you wanted to transform your relationships with women.
To meet women, you need to be in places where women gather.
These playtime assignments are specific activities for you to do in places where women gather socially.
They’ll help reinforce all the work you’ve done throughout the entire week and give it a real life context.
6. Coaching calls
Without a doubt, you’re going to have questions as you go through the program.
That’s fine. Given the nature of the program, I’d be concerned if you didn’t.
So, to help you get clarity around everything you’re experiencing, and to interact the other guys who’re going through the program with you, there are weekly coaching calls at the end of every week.
This is your time to ask questions about the specific situations you’re facing and find clarity around how the concepts from that week can help you deal with them.
“But that sounds like a lot of work!”
Yes, you’re right. There are a lot of tools packed into a short time frame.
But it’s not going to eat up too much of your time.
Whilst there are some exercises that can take longer than others, most days work will only take you half an hour.
“But I don’t know if I can fit it in!”
Think about it like this –
How much of your day is spend dealing with problems that only occur because you’re not living the life you want?
How much time do you spend dealing with stress, anxiety, frustration, and pain?
How much time do you spend trying to get away from these things by surfing the net, flicking through TV channels, watching movies you’ve already seen, and reading books that don’t get you to the core of your issues?
Do you think you could instead, devote 30 minutes a day of that time to doing something that will get rid of the real core of the issue?
If you’re anything like most guys…
…you’ll probably find that you have MORE time in your life as you’re going through this program.
When you deal with the real core of your issues, you stop having to constantly sort out the symptoms.
“Do I have to be in Australia to be part of Get Real?”
When we first created Get Real, it was delivered by coaches in a training room, live to students.
After a while, we found this created two MAJOR problems.
1. Cost
If we have to fly instructors to you coach you, then the price of your ticket has to cover their airfares and accommodation, as well as their wages.
This seriously limits the people who can participate.
Our mission has always been to help as many Men as possible so delivering Get Real as a live coaching seminar prevented us from doing this.
2. Timing
If Get Real is delivered live by coaches, then we can only help as many Men as we have coaches.
We can’t reach the Men who want our coaching, when they want it.
They have to fit in with our schedule rather than us reaching them when their schedule is right.
This, again, prevents us from reaching as many Men as possible.
To avoid both these problems…
…we created an online portal to deliver
your Get Real content through.
You can now find the freedom to be yourself around even the most intimidating women, whenever you want, wherever you want, anywhere around the world.
All you need is a computer and an average internet connection.
If you can read this page then you can participate in Get Real.
Think of it like a how a University delivers it’s distance education teaching and you’ll be close.
All you need to do is log into your online content portal once a day to get the next article, exercise, and activity.
How Much Does It Cost To Get Real?
There are literally hundreds of workshops designed to help you improve your relationships with women.
Some are as cheap as $1,500. There are others that cost over $4000!
I’ve been told by participants that they would have comfortably paid that much for what they got out of Get Real…
…but it’s not going to cost you even a quarter of that.
Get to the Price!
Your place in Get Real is only going to cost you $99/week for 5 weeks.
That’s right, the TOTAL cost of Get Real is less than 20% the cost of other workshops…
…runs for 10 times as long as most workshops…
…and deals with the real issues, rather than the surface level symptoms.
Your $99 a week will gain you access to:
- 31 in-depth articles to help you see how your hidden barriers work
- 31 written exercises to help you understand how those hidden barriers are responsible for the pain and frustration in your life
- 35 daily activities to integrate the solutions you uncover through these exercises so that they goes from empty theory to full personal realisations
- Unlimited email support
- Unlimited coaching forum support
- 4 live coaching calls to make sure you not only fully understand the concepts, but also understand how they apply to your life and how you can use them to experience all the richness life has to offer
…all for less than one hundred dollars a week.
Is There A Guarantee?
Of course there’s a guarantee.
But I’m not going to make you one of those ordinary 100% money back guarantees.
I’m going to take it one step further.
I understand that you didn’t sign up to Get Real because you had some spare cash floating around and were looking for something to blow it on.
You signed up to Get Real because you wanted a solution.
So, my guarantee to you isn’t just that you’ll get your money back.
That’s a pointless guarantee because it doesn’t help you get where you want to go.
If you participate in Get Real and don’t find the core issues that are preventing you from naturally attracting the women you want and / or have a game plan for overcoming that barrier, then I will not only give you a 100% refund…
…but I will work with you to help you find that core issue and develop a game plan to remove it forever.
All you need to do is email me before the schedule completion of your program and let me know that you haven’t got the answers you need.
As soon as I receive it, you’ll have a full refund into your bank account.
It’s a no lose situation for you.
You either get the answer you’re looking for, or, you get the answer you’re looking for. Simple.
There is zero risk on your behalf.
And to get your refund you don’t have to provide explanations or dig up obscure support desk phone numbers.
In Get Real, you get my personal email address and you can contact me on that.
When Does It Start and How Up I Sign Up?
Your opportunity to destroy your fears, eliminate your anxiety, and live the life you’ve always deserved, starts on the 13th February.
All you need to do to secure your spot is click on the link below.
It’ll take you to the registration page where you can submit all your details and give you all the details you need to prepare for the March 12th kickoff.
Still Have More Questions?
And if you have any unanswered questions about timing, payments, schedules, duration, or just want to know when the next course will be run, I’m standing by.
Just flick me an email at leigh at attraction institute dot org and I’ll get back to you ASAP
I look forward to working with you soon,
Leigh