Success With Women: It’s Just One Step Away.

by Leigh (LoGun) on November 26, 2009 · No Comments

success with women You probably think that you have a whole bunch of issues…

…Which are preventing you from experiencing success with women. For example:

- approaching women
- flirting with women
- dealing with shit tests
- running out of things to say, and the rest…

Good news is – your situation isn’t as bad as you think.

In fact, it’s not anywhere near as bad as you think.

Success with women can be around the corner – if you want.

Because there isn’t a whole raft of issues preventing you from having amazing success with women.

There isn’t a series of intricate steps that you have to unlock before you can start attracting women into your life.

There’s only one.

Yes, one.

Now, I know this might seem a little strange.

Because I’m sure that you see a whole bunch of issues you want to change. And whilst they all exist, they’re all just a product of one little thing.

The reason you get really nervous when you approach a woman is … the same reason you don’t know what to say to her.

The reason you don’t have things to talk about is … the same reason you fail her tests.

The reason you struggle with leading is … the same reason you don’t know how to close.

They’re all the same.

Want to know what that is?

Well, lets see if you can guess it.

Imagine yourself walking down a busy street and all of a sudden you see ‘her’.

And not just any ‘her’. I’m talking about ‘HER’.

There’s just something magical about this girl. Its something about the way she walks … the lines of her legs, just everything. You know you MUST talk to her.

What are you going to say?

Do you have something in mind? Well, how about exactly what you’re feeling?

Yeah, I know, you can’t just say that … apparently.

Apparently it’s wrong to go with exactly how you feel. Yeah, she might reject you.

She might walk away and leave you standing there alone, with everyone looking at you. And you know what they’re going to think, don’t you…

You know they’re thinking how much of a loser you are because she rejected you.

You can read minds, after all…

And even if she doesn’t reject you after your opener, what is going to happen when you say something that she doesn’t like?

She’s surely going to walk away after that.

And then the exact same thing’s going to happen – people are going to look, they’re going to laugh, they’re going to think you’re a loser.

But what if she likes then things you say?

What if she likes the things you’re talking about and is impressed with what you do, but then you stuff up the close?

What if you stumble through your closing technique (because you haven’t practiced it enough)?

What if she sees that you’re really not as much of an alpha male as you first projected? Surely she’s going to walk away then.

Surely her “No thanks…” is going to be follow by those stares and scorn of everyone who saw you fail.

Where will you be then?

What will you be worth then?

How are you going to be happy then?

You just failed at this. You just missed your chance to be really successful in life.

You just failed at a chance to be really happy. You needed her because without the ability to get her, you’re not going to be truly happy.

There’s no way you’re going to be the envy of your mates now, and there’s no way people are going to look up to you. Because you failed.

There goes an opportunity to finally be really happy.

But chin up. Have an abundance mentality.

There’s plenty more women out there who you could use to finally be really happy.

I know it might seem irrelevant – because regardless of how many women are out there, if they’re all rejecting you it really doesn’t matter…

But one day, you’ll find one that will allow you to finally experience happiness, right?

Right?

But what if we flipped the script a bit here.

What if, instead of wondering if she’s going to like the opener you’re using … you were focused on finding out if she’s the kind of woman you want to bring into your life?

What if, instead of desperately hoping that she likes the kinds of things you were talking about … you were wondering if you like the kinds of things that she’s talking about?

What if, instead of wondering if she’s going to like the closing techniques you use…

…You were focusing on whether or not she’s the kind of person that you want to bring into your world?

And no, I’m not talking about some kind of ‘be the prize’ mentality.

Because at the end of the day, that’s just a cover to hide something much deeper.

I’m talking about creating a life that YOU love. I’m talking about filling your life with joy.

I’m talking about carving the kind of life that makes you want to get out of bed in the morning, and then working out if you want her in it or not.

Imagine this:

You wake up in the morning and the firs thing you do is jump out of bed with enthusiasm because you know there’s something just around the corner that fills you with passion.

And even though you’ve only had 5 hours sleep, you’re like a 5 year old at Christmas.

As you finish that little project off, you pack up your stuff really quickly because you’ve got somewhere else that you’re dying to get to.

As you jog down to your car, you see the woman of your dreams – so you decide to go say hi.

As you look at her, she can feel the excitement in your voice, as you talk, she can feel the passion in your life.

You don’t know what you say because you just talk about the things you’ve been doing and where you’re going. The thought of telling her something you think she wants to hear doesn’t even cross your mind.

She can sense how much of adventure you live and she wants to be part of it.

You’re not yet sure about whether or not she’s the kind of person you’re willing to devote your precious hours to.

But as you go to leave, she asks you for your number…

…Because she wants in.

You give it to her on the chance she might show you something that you missed.

Do you think that would be easier?

Do you think that would be more fun?

Do you think you’d be more successful, not only with women but in life in general?

Do you think you’d have to convince people to hang out with you or do you think they’d be magnetically drawn in?

Do you think you’d spend your nights at home, wondering if someone was going to call you so you had something to do?

Or do you think you’d be more likely to have to sift through the offers that people were making to you?

You only have one issue in meeting women.

There’s not 10,000 different things you have to change to finally get the success with women you’ve been so desperately chasing.

There’s only one.

You have to stop trying to make her responsible for your happiness. You have to take control of your life.

You have to take responsibility for where you are, right now, and where you’re going in the future.

If you do that, then meeting and attracting beautiful women isn’t going to be just another layer you use to try and cover over your burning sense of inadequacy.

It’s simply going to be a way of life.

It’s going to be something that happens when you’re buying your groceries.

It’s going to be something that happens when you’re at work.

It’s going to be something that happens when you washing your car.

It’s not going to be a skill set. Rather, it’s going to be you simply living your life in the way you want to. And getting everything you’ve ever desired.

LoGun