Those beautiful creatures, running around the club, laughing, giggling, and shaking those sexy bodies.

So, how do you attract more women?

It’s a good question.

And before you try and answer it, you need to know about the are two different paths you can go down.

Neither one is better or worse – they’re just different with different sets of benefits and draw backs.

And before you go on your journey, you need to decide which path do you want to go down to attract more women into your life.

Path 1: Pretend to be someone you’re not just so people will hang out with you – The Pick Up Artist (PUA)

This is by far and away the most popular path because it promises so much in the short term.

The PUA path involves simply learning a bunch of lines and/or seduction techniques and then using them to try and attract more women.

You could literally learn something to say to women today and then walk out the door and apply it.

Sound good? Well, hang on a second there.

There’s something that they don’t tell you.

If you just change what you’re like on your surface level, what kind of women are you going to attract?

Shallow women who’re only interested in your surface level characteristics.

If you just change your surface level, what kind of relationships are you going to have? Shallow and meaningless relationships.

If you just change your surface level, how long are these women going to stick around? Just long enough till they find someone who’s got a shinier and prettier surface level.

Does that sound like the kind of life you want?

Lying to attractive women and hiding who you really are, just so you can have meaningless short term relationships?

If so, great. Go mental.

If you want to know where to find guy who can help you with that, download Seduction Community Sucks by clicking on the link under this post.

In the back, there’s a whole bunch of names and websites for guys who can help you down that path.

That’s as much as I can help you with on that path, but there is another way to attract more women.

Path 2: Find who you really are and what you stand for and find those women who are attracted to you for who you really are – unlocking your potential.

This path doesn’t get anywhere near as much attention as the PUA path.

It’s not full of lines and quick tricks you can just throw at women and hope they’ll come running..

..it doesn’t allow you to hide behind more and more layers of lies, it involves you finding your true self, breaking apart the layers that you’re using to hide behind, and letting it out.

It involves being real with people.

And that can be scary.

I was scared when I first started but I knew it was the only way. I wanted a life filled with people who I really liked and who liked me for who I was.

I wanted a life full of attractive, real, genuine, loving and caring women and men who I could be real, and genuine with.

I wanted a life full of people who I could laugh with, play with, go and hang out with – without having to worry about what I should say or who I should be around them.

I wanted to be me, I wanted them to be themselves, and I wanted to have the time of my life.

Sure, I wanted to attract more women.

That’s a no brainer.

But I wanted to attract more women who I could make real connections with rather than just use for meaningless sex.

I wanted to attract more women who I could actually have a real conversation with about the things that were important to me, rather than just having to tell someone else’s stories to keep her amused.

So before you go down this path of trying to attract more women, ask yourself:

“What kind of life do I want to build?”

I think the path you choose will be obvious.

LoGun

Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…

Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..

..but they’re actually making you worse with women.

Why? Well, have a a look a this set of rules I pulled from a PUA forum.

- “You can’t show too much interest so your opening line should be indirect…”

- “Women love celebrity gossip so you need to read up on that to have things to talk about…”

- “Don’t ever lean in when you talk. It telegraphs too much interest.”

- “You need to develop a solid routine stack so that if she’s not interested in what you have to say, you can transition to another routine.”

What do they all have in common?

Can’t tell? Have a look closer.

Your opener should (apparently) be indirect because if you show too much interest when she’s not attracted to you at all, she’s not going to listen to what you have to say.

But why are you showing interest before you’ve even spoken her?

How do you know she’s the kind of woman you like? If you had deep and real standards in your life rather than just being attracted to the superficial aspects of a person, would you need to learn this?

And even if you did have standards and you got the vibe from her that she was the kind of woman you want to pick up, if you were the kind of guy that she wanted to meet, would it matter if you showed interest?

Would she tell Brad Pitt to get lost if he told her he thought she was cute?

You (apparently) should learn things to talk about because if you don’t have something to say that’s interesting to her, she’s going to walk away.

But why are you trying to pick up a woman who you have nothing in common with?

Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn’t have anything interesting to add to a conversation?

If you spent your time looking for women who you clicked with rather than desperately trying to convince anyone who’ll take you to hang out with you, would you need to learn things to talk about?

And I could keep going here…

The one thing that all these tricks to pick up women have in common is that they’re designed to cover over your inner game issues.

If you didn’t have these inner game issues, you wouldn’t need to learn how to pick up women in the first place.

When you get your inner game sorted, you’ll be able to break and even contradict EVERY SINGLE ONE of these rules.

You wont have to learn anything to talk about because you wont be trying to bring women into your life that you don’t have anything in common with.

You won’t have to hide your intent because the women you desire will find you attractive, and if they don’t you can go and find ones that do.

You wont have to lean back to hide your interest in her because she’ll be interested in your too, and if she’s not, you can go and find women that are.

Have you seen the Matrix? Do you remember this line?

Neo: “Are you saying I’ll be able to dodge bullets?”
Morpheus: “No, I’m saying that when you’re ready, you wont have to.”

Pick up techniques are designed to teach you how to dodge bullets. Inner game shows you how to never have to dodge them again.

When you’re just learning how to pick up women, you have to learn how to deal with the tests that they throw at you.

When you deal with your inner game, you pass their test without even registering that they happened.

When you’re learning tricks for picking up women, you have to learn how to do ‘qualification’, when you deal with your inner game, qualification is the way you live your life so you don’t even have to think about it.

Now, most guys that teach tricks for picking up women say that by learning these tricks, you’ll take care of your inner game issues. Really?

Learning outer game only takes care of the surface level of the issue, not the deep core of the issue. The deep issue is still there.

Running out of things to say is an inner game issue.

The only reason you run out of things to say is because you’re stuck inside your head trying to come up with something cool, funny, interesting to say so you can impress her…

..instead of just saying what you’re thinking and how you feel.

Outer game deals with this by giving you things to say that people might think are cool and interesting but the core of the issue not only remains, but is reinforced.

You not only still have the issue that you think the things you have to say aren’t interesting or cool or fun..

..but you’ve reinforced the thought pattern that you’re not good enough as you are to be attractive to women and have to hide yourself behind these pick up tricks.

Inner game deals with this by helping you shift your mindset from:

“How can I get that hot chick to like me so then I’ll feel good about myself?”

To:

“How can I feel good about myself so it doesn’t matter whether hot chicks will like me?”.

One thing worth considering, which pathway do you think is going to be more attractive to women in the long run?

Am I saying that you wont get more women through learning pickup techniques? Of course not. You definitely can.

But have think about this for a second – what kind of women do you think you’ll end up with? What kind of standards will they live their life buy?

The kind of women who you’ll pickup are the kind of women settle for a guy who’s validation seeking, needy, scared of the world, and thinks that he’s not good enough without other people around him.

What kind of woman do you think that will be? Confident? Powerful? Independent? I doubt it…

How about needy? Insecure? Clingy?

That’s probably more likely…

What kind of issues do you think you’re going to face in the long run with her? Is she the kind of woman you pictured yourself with in the future?

Am I saying that all pickup tricks are a waste of time? Definitely not.

There’s some really cool, fun, interesting stuff to play with.

What I’m saying is that if you’re just learning it to cover over your inner game issues then you’re gong to spend the rest of your life learning how to dodge bullets when you could just be ignoring them all together.

What path are you going to choose?

LoGun

I gave this presentation a few months ago at a seminar which some guys paid hundreds of dollars to attend.

And I’m giving to you as a special “thank you” gift for being my subscriber.

Just a word of warning – it’s not a short clip: the most juicy stuff begins about 16 minutes into the first clip. Watch the whole thing to get the most out of it!

Part 1:
(sorry about the sound quality – I found that I was having trouble hearing the audio through the speakers, but through my headphones it was fine).

Part 2:

LoGun

Who would’ve thought that 5 pounds of fat could be so alluring..

Who would’ve thought you would spend months, if not years, devoted to bringing that 5 pound lump with a nipple on it, back to your place?

Crazy, huh?

You know that we deal primarily with long-term benefits of inner game on this blog…

…but I figured I should also give you a few short-term solutions which you can start using IMMEDIATELY to get more of those little fun bags into your life.

Sorry, what was that?

You say there’s already too many of these “Picking Up Women 101″ guides out there?

Really, I hadn’t noticed… The 200 spam emails I get each week, promoting the latest “quick fix” and “magic bullet” wasn’t enough of an indication.

That’s why this isn’t going to be some kind of 85-step “method” which requires 3 years of “internalisation” before you actually pick up a woman.

Instead, it’s going to be a no bullshit, get to the core, cut out the crap, just work on the simple parts, easy, simple, straight forward guide to picking up women.

And you can pick up a woman in TWO easy steps.

And you have to do them in the exact order, otherwise this whole system falls apart.

That’s right. If you fuck up the order, you’re not going to pick up a woman.

STEP 1. Work out how you want your world to be.
STEP 2. Settle for nothing less than that from yourself and the people in your life.

Yeah, I get that you’re wondering how this is going to help you pick up women in field…

…when every wannabe PUA out there is telling you that you need to follow their elaborate “seduction methods” and “dating tips”.

So let’s go on a little adventure.

You can be my wingman tonight…

And I’m going to show you how it works and how it can help you make picking up women easy and fun. Sound good?

Sweet. Strap yourself in my friend, it’s going to be a wild ride.

But before we go, I should point out something. This maybe the ‘you’ now, or it maybe a future ‘you’. It may even be a ‘you’ that you’ve seen in the past and want to get back to.

Whichever one it is, it’s definitely a ‘you’ that you can access if you can break through the barriers that you’re using to hold yourself back.

One foot, then the other.

Step by step we make our way to the writhing sea of humanity that awaits our imminent arrival.

And you don’t even have to in there to experience the energy. As we turn the corner, still 20m from the thumping music and sexy women of bar, we’re greeted by a close friend: the back of the queue.

Hey, if it wasn’t popular, why would you bother going? :-)

So it’s a this point, before any of the action starts, I want you just to take a minute to implement STEP 1.

Normally, we’d do this way before we hit the bar but this is as good a point as any in this guide to do this.

So, remember to get the steps in the right order here. I know it’s complicated and can be confusing, but please try. Otherwise the whole thing is fucked up :-)

This is the point in time where most people look at me and ask ‘What the fuck do you mean by how do I want my world to be?’

And it’s a fair enough question. We’ve got an exercise in the MasterClass where we go into depth with this but for now, just consider this:

“How do you want your world to be?”…

Is essentially a question about what kind of reality are you trying to create in your future.

Who’s it going to be filled with, what are you going to do in it? How are you going to spend your time?

What are you going to think about? Where are you going to live? But for now, as we don’t have that much time, lets just leave it at.

What kind of people do you want to fill your world with? There’s all different types of people in the world, which ones are you going to choose?

- Do you want your world filled with compassionate people or arseholes?
- Do you want your world filled with caring people or dickheads?
- Do you want your world filled with respectful people or disrespectful people?
- Do you want your world filled with open and trusting people or closed down and fearful people?
- Do you want your world filled with fun and playful people or boring and serious people?
- You’re going to encounter all sorts in your journey, which ones are you going to bring in and which ones are you going to move away from?

Good. So we’ve nailed STEP 1. Think you’re ready for STEP 2?

Have a look at your answers. What kind of standards are you going to accept from people around you? Now, the important part – what kind of standards are you going to accept from yourself?

Good. Now’s a good time to introduce a quote from my favourite bed sheet wearing vegetarian, Ghandi:

“Be the change you wish to see in the world”.

He may have constantly smelt like off cabbage but he was dammed switched on.

This is when you feel a poke in the shoulder “Ummm… Are you actually part of this queue or are you just lonely and looking for people to be around?”

This is when you realise that you’ve been daydreaming so long that I’ve moved almost 5m ahead or you and you’re just standing there by yourself looking stoned.

Hey, don’t blame me, you looked like you were having fun :-)

As you catch up to me, you see me playing with a cute girl:

“Look, I’d just like to apologise in advance if my friend here drools on you. Autism is a new thing for him and he’s still learning the ropes.”

Giggling, she looks at you.

This is your chance to implement this complicated and intricate 2-STEP seduction method I just told you about. How do you respond to this? Are you going hit me and say ‘fuck off’?

Is that the kind of world you want?

Are you going to sulk and walk off? Is that the kind of world you want?

Or, are you going hang your tongue out of your mouth, shake your head around, make some retarded noises, and pretend to slobber on her shoulder?

Well, it’s your world, but I know how I want my world to be.

As your slobber inches closer and closer to her shoulder, she playfully squeals and pretends to run away. Mission accomplished :-) Or so you think…

“Hey mate, that’s not funny. My brother is autistic.”

The guy behind you obviously didn’t agree with your interpretation.

Right now, you’re faced with another set of options.

You can tell him to fuck off as you’re just mucking around, but does that match the way you want your world to be?

You can shrug it off, mumble “I’m sorry…” and turn back around, but does that match the way you want your world to be?

Or, you can sincerely apologise for any issues you’ve caused, share why you did things, and then talk to him openly and freely.

“Sorry mate, I really am. I didn’t mean to offend anyone, I was just having a laugh. It was just a joke. Here, let me make it up to you, do you want to jump ahead of us?”

He responds with:

“That’s cool mate. I just see it a bit and it pisses me off when people have a go at him. You were just having a laugh. I get it. I just get a bit edgy…”

“I understand mate. Sorry. My bad. I recon you’re just jealous because you wanted me to drool on your shoulder. It’s OK mate, you just have to ask” :-)

Just as he starts to respond, you’re greeted with 8′5″ of Tongan fury…

“Hey bro. ID???”

Now it’s time for another one of those choices – the choices that we make in every moment, of every day, of every month, of every year – how do I want my world to be?

Do I want it filled with anger? “Mate, you just have to ask! What’s your problem??”

Do I want it filled with disrespect? “Oh, you think you’re so powerful, just because you’re a doorman at a shitty bar??”

Do I want it filled with arseholes? “How do you think you are to talk to me like that? Do you know who I am?”

Or do you want it filled with compassion, understanding, openness, and fun?:

“Sorry brother, this new friend of mine was just telling me how much he desires to get naked and roll in my saliva and I got distracted” :-)

A laugh, a drivers license, and a handshake later, you’re through the door.

It’s time to play.

The little cute girly you almost drooled on in the queue is just in front of you. Decision time. Open to her or shut down?

Be playful with her of be serious? Stand back and try and thin of something clever to say, go over and make a situational comment, or walk up and pretend to drool on her shoulder again?

Good choice.

Giggles. Jumps. Hides behind her friend.

Just as a side note – God I love it when women giggle. There’s just something about it that drives me wild. Wow…

….

I need a minute…

…

Ok, done :-)

Now, back to the girl. Your shuffle over to her, playful and beaming. Enter: the AFOG.

4 foot of staunch, powerful, determination blocks your path:

“What are you doing? She has a boyfriend!.”

Decision time once again.

“Oh, that’s a pity. I’ve been saving the ‘drooling on her’ pickup for this one special moment and it’s all been a waste!! What about you, do you have a boyfriend?”

As you turn on your playful ’seducer’ look start to pretend to drool on her, she can’t help but crack a smile. Win.

AFOG steps aside, but then the true colours of your girl come out:

“Yeah, I was at this mall the other day and I saw this spastic, running around and actually drooling and shit. We just laughed at him, he looked sooo retarded…”

Decision time again.

Is this how you want your world to be? Is this the kind of woman you want in your life?

But now another decision time. How do you respond? Do you blow up? Do you just turn away in disgust? What do you do? How do you want your world to be?

“Yeah, it must be really hard for them, not having the kind of control over their bodies that we’re lucky enough to have. Anyway, have a good night.”

As you walk away, the guy from the queue appears in front of you. You can’t help yourself:

“Hey sexy, miss me?” ;-)

“Like you wouldn’t believe… Ohhh… Come to me…”

As he wraps his arms around your chest and pulls you in tight, there’s only one thing going through your head: I hope he’s for real… I mean: This guy’s cool. That’s definitely what you were thinking ;-)

As you remove yourself from his strong, yet strangely comforting embrace…

You notice for the first time, the 5′3″ sex bomb standing opposite.

Decision time. Indirect? Situational? Natural game line you’ve read somewhere? How about exactly what you were thinking?

How about genuineness, openness, and realness?

“Wow…” You turn to your new ‘gay lover’.

“She’s stunning, is that who you’ve been cheating on me with the whole time?”

As you turn to her, it appears as though blushing is in this season.

He totally camps it up:

“I’m so sorry you had to find out this way…” then he throws his arms around her. She fights him off with everything she’s got.

Apparently it’s not his girlfriend.

Decision time. Neg? Banter deck? DHV? How about exactly how you feel? How about genuineness, openness, and realness?

“Well, if you had to pick anyone, I’m glad it’s someone who’s so strikingly beautiful that I find it hard to talk… Hi…”

“Hi…” And you know the look. That coy little, downward, glance, the blush.

You know it’s on.

“Oh, no, sorry, I wasn’t talking to you.” You say shifting your body language to the guy next to her.

Slap. Pout. Apology. “Come here…” Hug.

“You’re kinda cute, where have you been all my life?”

Her smile says it all – waiting. Waiting for a Man who’s able to create a space that I can be free in.

That I can let go to. A space that’s so powerful and compelling that I would pay money, just to be allowed to spend time in it, just for a few minutes.

As you take her hand and lead her only a few steps away to some empty bar stools, another decision time approaches.

How are you going to be, now?

What kind of actions are you going to take? How are you going to be when you’re with her? How do you want this relationship to be?

Are you going to try and impress her with stories of your celebrity encounters?

Are you going to try and big note yourself with all the things you’ve done?

Or are you going to drop your boundaries, let go of the bullshit you’ve been running, and openly express your desires, passions, and plans for your future?

You open. She opens.

You don’t have to think about what to say or how to act because it comes out of your realness and openness.

You don’t run out of things to say because you’re not trying to hold anything back from her.

You don’t have to consciously read her body language to decipher what she’s communicating because your attention is fully on her and it’s obvious.

You’re not stuck in your head so you’re free to be in hers.

You’re real and open and she’s follows your lead.

It’s at this point in time you realise that I’m standing 2 feet away from you, looking at you, trying to get your attention.

As I’m a whingey, impatient, petulant child, and you’re giving me a lift home, I *politely ask* that we leave.

“Why? it’s only early”.

“Yeah, early in the morning. It’s 3:30″ You’ve been with the girl for 4 hours and you didn’t even notice.

It’s amazing how fast time flies when you find someone you actually click with.

You know this is the kind of woman you want in your life.

You know that she’s the kind of girl who embodies everything you’ve been looking for. So you tell her. And she tells you the same thing back.

“Where do you live, why don’t I give you a lift home?”

What happens next? Who knows. But you could find out soon enough, if you choose to.

Now, most seduction community guys throw this kind of thing out the window, saying:

“But there’s just steps you need to learn! There’s things that you have to implement in order to be attractive to women!”

OK, cool. Lets have a look at them.

You have to develop social proof.

You did this with both the autistic hater, the autistic guys brother, and the bouncer, because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

You have to develop attraction.

This is done by being an Alpha Male. You did this the whole night because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

You didn’t wait for other people to tell you how to live your life, you just did it your way.

You have to deal with AMOG’s.

You did this with the man hater because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

You have to qualify.

You did that with the autistic hating girl because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

You have to show attraction, or SOI (statement of interest) to her – so that she knows you like her.

You did this with the stunning girl because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

You have to develop rapport.

What is rapport? Connection. You achieve this by dropping your barriers and opening up and finding someone who’s going to open up back.

You did this with the stunning girl because you knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or others.

It’s all there.

You didn’t have to learn it, you didn’t have to try and create it, you just did it. How? You knew how you wanted your world to be and you accepted nothing less from yourself or those around you.

Am I saying that you’ll get every girl by going this way? Of course not. But you will fill your life with the kind of people who bring you intrinsic satisfaction and joy.

How does that sound to you?

Now, it’s one thing to tell you to do this but in most cases it’s really not that easy. If it were, you’d just be able walk outside and do it now.

There’s a reason we take any action in our lives and that includes the way we act around women. There’s much deeper layers going on.

To help you start uncovering them, and let the amazing guy inside you come out, we’ve created the MasterClass MKII.

At the end of Feb we will be taking on a few students, so if walking into a club and being carefree, not stuck in your head, and open is your cup of tea, then keep an eye out on Steven’s emails and this blog.

LoGun

And Pleading You To Take Them Home And NAIL Them.

From: The Desk Of Your Friendly Local Dating Coach.

Dear Friend,

Introducing: The INSTANT BETA MALE 2.0 – THE PUA.

As you would know from the Beta Male 1.0 dating program, you can become a successful Beta Male in two easy steps:

Step 1: worry about what people think
Step 2: do what you think will please other people

So, for example, if you approach an attractive woman, you first work out if she wants you (Step 1).

If she is not attracted to you, you then “demonstrate qualities” of a man who you think she would be attracted to (Step 2). For example, you may say things which demonstrate social value.

Or you may give her a “sincere” compliment. But not too much (so she won’t think you’re too needy).

And so on.

Easy!

Instant Beta Male Is Born!

Never mind that this ASTONISHING program never shows you how to focus on what YOU really want.

And it never shows you how to follow through with your core desires so that you can experience long term happiness and fulfillment which magnetically draw women in.

Instead, here at Beta Male Training, we have developed a highly effective step-by-step system which will allow you to live your life by a complex set of rules…

…so you can eliminate all possibility of ever being yourself ever again!

DISCLAIMER: Will only work after a few more hundred approaches.

Now, let’s go back in time for a moment.

In the Beta Male 1 series dating coaches who came before us gave you a very powerful set of rules. These included the classics:

- Be nice to her
- Buy her flowers
- Listen politely whilst she tells you all her problems
- Take her to expensive restaurants

Fast forward to present day, and with the new “Instant Beta Male 2.0 – The PUA” program, we completely flipped the script.

All those years spent listening to your mum and your mates in the playground are totally out the window. It’s time to take it to a whole other reality!

We’ve taken the techniques “the born naturals” have been using to get massive success with women, copied exactly what they do, and now we’ll get you to copy them – even if it doesn’t feel right and doesn’t make you happy.

(DISCLAIMER: In order to develop this system, we’ve simply had to ignore the fact that the way you act is a product of deeply ingrained perceptions you have about the world…

We’ve ignored the fact that there are women out there who like different things…

We’ve ignored the fact that you have your own intrinsic desires that you’re only able to fulfill and experience the long term happiness that come with that when you actually pursue them).

But we’ve decided to just get you to pretend like you’re the kind of guy who women like to be around and hope that magically, somehow, by pretending enough, you’ll change.

Magic!

This limited edition program comes with many different styles, but they all contain one key ingredient: change who you are so that she likes you more.

This brand new system is based on very simple logic:

If women haven’t been attracted to the guy you’ve been pretending to be in Beta Male 1.0 series –

(that guy who follows societies rules, doesn’t step outside the mould, and who is hiding behind the rules his mum told him-

– just pretend to be a different person, follow a different set of rules (mine), step into a different mould and hide your true self behind a set of techniques and tricks!

Ignore the fact that you’ve never really been yourself long enough for women to get to know you, let alone feel attracted to you.

Ignore the fact that women desire Men who are strong enough to stand on their own two feet and do what they know to be right, and not succumb to someone else’s ideals…

…And just follow a different set of rules about how you should act around her.

How do you do this?

Easy.

- Talk to her about the things that we at Beta Male Training TELL YOU to talk to women about.

- Only go after women who would rate as attractive on someone else’s scale of looks rather than the women who draw you in with their magnetic personalities. (If she’s not hot according to Maxim, then she’s not worth it).

- Only go after women that have jobs that you can use to impress your mates with – like strippers or actresses. Because as long as your mates are impressed, you’re going to be happy with her.

- Go for quantity of interactions rather than quality. Your friends will find it far more impressive when you get lots of phone numbers (despite that most of them turn out to be flakes) rather than hearing about that one special girl you met and spent the whole night getting to know on a real level.

- Have more fun than anyone else. We provide you with a strict set of guidelines that allow you to do so.

- Make fun of anyone who doesn’t know the things that you do by calling them ‘chodes’, ‘chumps’ or ‘afc’s’. This will allow you to achieve that feeling superior and power that you’ve been desperately seeking and hide from the nagging feelings of inadequacy that you experience.

- Lie about or exaggerate the things you do so that she can like you for the shallow, superficial aspects of your life rather than who you are.

And there’s more!

If you follow these complex structures that we provide you with, you’ll be able to continue the trend of hiding who you are, long into your retirement years.

You’ll guarantee that the women you bring into your life don’t actually like you for who you are and sleep with you because of the things you’ve copied from our system…

…so that if you do accidentally stop pretending and slip into the kind of guy who fulfills his own desire, rather than the desires we’ve prescribed in our manual, they’ll leave you and find someone else.

With our easy step-by-step seduction system, you’re guaranteeing that you’re going to fill your life with shallow, insecure, needy women who only like you for the surface level actions you take, instead of the powerful Masculine Man you have locked inside you.

And it’s only going to cost you a few long years of your life!

(DISCLAIMER: As we haven’t really bothered to logically analyse what we’re doing and assess all the inconsistencies, we’re still trying to iron out a few kinks in the system. These include:

- You need to change who you are so that she likes you more and yet still remain detached from the outcome.

We’re not sure how it’s possible to spend so much of your time changing who you are, just so that she’ll want to spend more time with you and yet not care whether she spends more time with you.

- The way to get maximum success with women is to be totally present with them and totally in the moment, yet you need to follow this complex set of structures in order to get her.

We’re not sure how you can follow structures that are inside your head yet remain outside your head.

- That two of the most attractive traits in a Man are happiness and fulfillment and to get them, you need to follow your desires, and yet we’re telling you to not follow your desires.

- For every rule we can give you, there are guys out there who break it and guys out there who completely contradict it and get the results with women you’re looking for.

But you must follow our rules otherwise you wont get the success you want).

But, we’re sure that we can surround this product with enough hype, and marketing sounding jargon that you wont notice these inconsistencies anyway.

So it’s time to get started -

…put your life on hold, cut off all your chode friends, throw out your entire wardrobe, and get started on the least fulfilling journey you’ll ever undertake!

And whatever you do, don’t visit the guys at The Attraction Institute.

They’re going fill your head with junk that allows you to live a happy and fulfilling life, a life that magnetically draws women in, rather than having to desperately convince them to be part of your reality.

And we all know how shit that would be!

LoGun

PS. On a serious note, I’m not trying to discourage you from the PUA journey.

I’ve said a lot of things in here that point out all the inconsistencies and issues I’ve found through my journey in the community but, they’re just what I’ve found.

I can tell you these things, but until you’ve actually experienced them, they’re not going to mean anything to you.

If you feel as though you need to become a PUA and that’s gong to make you happy and fulfilled in your life, the definitely go ahead with it. In fact, commit to it fully. Don’t hold back. Make it your purpose in life.

But, if at any point in time you find that you’re not getting the happiness, fulfilment, and deep level of connection that you desire, then read through this again.

See how it feels once you’ve tried this path, and then consider having a look at this journey from another angle.

And then jumped online to learn a tonne of dating advice.

Maybe you even purchased a DVD program which taught you “fundamentals” of attraction. Or two?

You were lured by the idea of becoming a “pickup artist”. C’mon admit it, I was too.

But why is it that so many guys who embark on the “PUA path” never see the success with women that they thought they would?

Let me offer you a perspective.

The reason we were shit with women at some stage in our life is because we did things that we thought would get women to like us.

We supplicated, we put up with behaviour in women which we would not have tolerated in men, we bought presents for women out of need, rather than sincerity.

We were not being TRULY ourselves.

Instead, we moulded into whatever shape we thought would get us the end result – the girl.

That is the syndrome of being – as my girlfriend put it the other day – a walking doormat. Or, in seduction community terms, a ‘nice guy’.

Is it any wonder that the women rejected those spineless versions of ourselves which we served up to them?

Along came the seduction community.

“Don’t be needy, don’t supplicate, act indifferent – until she qualifies herself to you, be high-value, don’t talk about Warcraft, lean back, here’s a routine you can use as an opener.”

Check.

So, the words that the PUAs are saying to women have come a long way from the bad old days of…

“Can I buy you a drink?”

And PUAs have even gone as far as shifting the mindsets behind their words. “Don’t be attached to the outcome, give value”, they say.

But are those shifts are as profound as they seem? Let’s investigate.

Why are PUAs being “non-needy”, “non-supplicating”, “non-attached to the outcome”? Is it not to create attraction? Which means, they’re still doing their tricks just so that…

..women would like them!

Is it progress? Or is it just more of marching on the spot, albeit in a different uniform?

Are PUAs being 100% honest with the women they talk to?

When was the last time a PUA walked up to a woman and said:

“This is kinda random, but I thought you’re really cute and I’ll feel really fulfilled after I spend a night with you, so let me demonstrate some qualities of a non-needy guy, ready?”

It seems that as we embarked on this journey of “becoming better with women” we have proceeded to learn how to pick up women, without paying much attention to WHY we’re doing it.

And in doing so, we forgot to seek advice which helps us become truly fulfilled – and then approach a woman with a cup that is full.

Instead, a trap that a lot of us have fallen into many times – myself included – is that of “I want to learn how to pick up women – because that will make me feel fulfilled”.

Is that REAL fulfillment?

Is that real NON-NEEDY, ALPHA behaviour?

Just on that note, I was sitting in traffic the other day, and a guy pulled up alongside on a Harley motorcycle.

One look at him revealed that underneath the worn leathers, the thin helmet and the barking exhaust of his admittedly cool wheels, he was still a dork.

Some Harley salesman tapped into his pain and sold him on the idea that the motorcycle was going to make up for the shortcomings he felt on the inside.

It didn’t work.

Don’t let some dating guru sell you on the idea that once you learn how to be a PUA, you’ll be any less of a dork than you were when you were being a walking doormat.

Steven

So, let’s begin ;)

Seduction Community Prediction #1: People Will Stop Using The Term “Seduction Community”.

At the moment, the climate on a lot of seduction community forums is that of:

“We’re here for self-development, now just learning how to pick up women”.

Thing is, for many guys this mindset is still just a veiled attempt at being “unattached to the outcome” when approaching women.

But as time goes on, I feel that genuine interest in self development will awaken in many more guy…

…and picking up women will increasingly be seen as a by-product of fulfilled life – rather than its end goal.

Prediction #2: PUAs & Mystery Method Will Continue To Exist.

Every day a few hundred men get frustrated at their lack of success with women – to the point where they decide to do something about it.

Inevitably, they sit down in front of their computer, swallow their pride, and type into Google something like, “how to pick up women” or “how to approach women” or “dating tips”…

0.031 seconds later they have the “answers” at their fingertips…

And they begin reading. Soaking up dating theory, tips, routines, openers and techniques like a sponge.

Whilst for most guys having this knowledge feels like progress (“so this is why women see me just as a friend!!”)…

…It takes some time to realise that intellectually knowing the answers – having the answers – leads merely to being a very good imitator of the real deal.

To actually BECOME the real deal requires dealing with one’s true organic experience. And that is a process of removing layers of knowledge, rather than piling more on.

So, Mystery Method will continue to act as a necessary step in the lives of many men…

… To give them first hand experience of what DOESN’T offer them all the success they’re looking for – thereby motivating them to go out and look deeper for stuff that does.

Prediction #3: Many More Dating Gurus Will Emerge…

The Internet has made it possible for anyone with $200 to make a decent-looking website, slap together some content, and declare themselves a “guru”.

Whilst not many of those gurus will ever actually help anyone, and even fewer will make their website into a profitable business, many will continue to spring up …

Prediction #4: And Many Existing Dating Gurus Will Vanish.

This increased competition will separate the wheat from the chaff.

And many dating gurus who are currently in the business of just repackaging the same old stuff in an attempt to make a quick buck will vanish from the sphere of visibility…

… while the power of social media will help spread the word about those who truly are producing foundation-changing stuff, bring them to the spotlight.

And they will do amazing things.

Prediction #5: I will not get accepted into the Sydney Lair.

Doesn’t mean I won’t stop trying :)

Prediction #6: We Will Fail…

Every one of us will – at least once – end up standing next to a beautiful woman and racking our head for something to say.

It may happen in a line waiting for coffee, or on a bus, or waiting for the little man to go green…

But it will happen. And as soon as she is gone we will be kicking ourselves for not saying anything at all.

Prediction #7: And We Will Succeed.

Every one of us will strike up a conversation with a woman without worrying about what “the right thing” to say to her is, or what she is thinking…

And it will be a conversation of purity, freedom of expression and joy.

Prediction #8: LoGun will become louder.

Doesn’t mean we won’t try to silence him ;)

Steven

I’m serious.

Here, take it. I grant you the right, by the powers vested in me by whatever. Go nuts.

What do you mean, you don’t want it?

Oh, I’m not authorised to hand out such licenses?

Wait, you’re saying that NOBODY has this kind of license to give out?

That it doesn’t exist? That I’ve gone mental?

But then, why do you kiss ass so hard with *her* in the hope of getting a license?

Don’t act coy: I know you do.

You try to make the girls (and the boys) like you, so they finally let you do what you want. I know you do because I know you’re just like me.

A while ago, I met a guy through friends.

He was a ‘pick-up artist’, a student of the techniques of seduction. I had heard of this so-called ’seduction community’ and was interested in meeting a real PUA.

I clearly remember the first time I saw him. He was talking to a group of girls, they were all laughing, and I saw him smack one on the ass.

When I met him, I asked him about it. He responded with:

“I just met her… I couldn’t have done that a few weeks ago, I’m just starting to get good at this stuff.”

And I realised that had always been my deep desire: I wanted to be about to smack a girl on the ass, and do whatever else I wanted, and just get away with it.

So from that day, I became a protege of my new ass-spanking friend.

I wanted this freedom.

I wanted this license. I was asking, what can I do to get people to give me this license?

But I was ignoring another, deeper question: what was stopping my PUA friend from smacking that ass a few weeks ago?

Was his hand broken?

Was he a completely different person? What was the REAL difference?

I suppose I didn’t ask that question because I thought the answer was obvious. After all, when people like you, when you have their love and respect, you can get away with things.

You can pull things off.

It could be something as simple as going out wearing a fedora: if people like you, you’re ‘unique’; if they don’t like you, you’re ‘a dick’.

If you’re with friends, you have the ‘halo effect’ on your side. This is an observed effect in psychology wherein if someone is perceived as ‘good’, everything he does is assumed to be good.

He can smack her ass. He can sing. He can swear. He can dance. He can flirt. And it’s all good.

You can do crazy shit, and it will be seen as funny (not crazy).

You can try bizarre things and you’ll be seen as ballsy (not bizarre).

That is why I wanted to be liked. If people like you, they’re giving you a license that says:

“Do what the fuck you want. You’ve earned this license, and we will support you, without judgement.”

When I had this, I felt completely free.

The problem is, as we’ve seen, this whole license metaphor starts sounding really stupid pretty quickly, once you look into it…

Some licenses are only applicable in certain social circles. My mates gave me this kind of license (but how many more licenses do you need to cover every other scenario in your life?).

Some licenses have small print on them: it’s not a gold class license, so I can do what I want *only* up to a point (my family gave me one of these).

Some people will probably never give me the license – either they don’t have the license to give in the first place (perhaps they never
received their own license)…

…or maybe they’re the kind of person who expects you just to take the license without asking. Perhaps they hope you will.

How long are you going to wait for your license?

And when you finally get the license, will it be conditional?

Will it be revoked if you go too far with it? Will you know how to use it, or will you have waited so long that you don’t know how to do whatever you want anymore?

I think you get the idea. In lay terms: nobody else can really give you permission to do what you want. You have to give yourself
permission first.

Sure, people can react badly to you.

Not everyone is going to like you.

You can get fired, dumped, judged or rejected – but is that anything new?

And here’s the twist: the best way to avoid these things is to go ahead and print your own license anyway.

What do you think of men who do whatever they want? They’re described as badasses, real men, strong people, driven, confident, etc.

And do women like this type of man?

The irony is delicious.

All I wanted was to get away with it, to pull it off. And it seems that no matter which way you look at it, it all starts and ends with me.

Luke (deepPlay)

Oh my God – were the women there glorious –

… so many beautiful legs, and ample bosom (and that was just LoGun with his shirt off) – it got even better after that.

This chap was being shown the finer art of “kino” by a ‘dating guru’…

So I asked the lad how his night had been going.

His response was fairly typical of the “sarging noob”:

“It’s been up and down.”

I queried further, “What have the highlights of the evening been for you?”

His response: “The kino stuff that I learned has been incredible. It’s just great”.

Me: “So what’s been “down” about the night?” Him: “I haven’t got a root yet”.

To put it bluntly, saying this guy didn’t have much confidence is an understatement – again, fairly typical of seduction community noobs…

but his mistake is one that isn’t just common amongst noobs, I also see it among the most experienced of PUAs, MPUAs, whatever you want to call them…

He was purely there to see what he could get from her or any other woman he approached that night. And he had no idea what he would offer women in return.

Which brings me to the point of this post.

We all got into this game because we felt something lacking .. something we thought a woman could fill. We didn’t have the skills. Some of us were virgins.

Some of us were bitter about how an ex-girlfriend treated us. Some of us wanted to prove something to ourselves. And others.

Whatever it was, it never actually involved HER.

In the business world, we trade for what we want; do favours for a business we want to build a business relationship with. You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours.

But somehow, this didn’t translate in the pickup community. It was all summed up with one phrase that many of you hold on to dearly: YOU’RE the prize.

But are you?

I mean, what DO you have to offer a woman who is gracious enough to share her body with you? Or deeper still – her emotions, fantasies, and vulnerability?

Do you actually deserve them?

Have you ever asked that question of yourself?

Or are you trying to use these women so you can prove that you actually ARE worth it – because you still, D-E-E-P D-O-W-N, you don’t believe that you are?

Well, gentlemen, what makes you the kind of man that actually IS the prize?

How could just your presence gift these wonderful women? Unashamedly, unapologetically, un-judgingly (is that a word – my spell check seems to recognise it).

What are your qualities? And your gifts?

Remember these the next time you enter a ‘set’ and try to gift the interaction.

Rather than just trying to take from it (whether it be ‘practice’, a root, a k-close, a number close, to qualify her for your time etc), and just watch how this one little change in YOUR PURPOSE can change the complete interaction in a very positive way.

In this way, you’re starting to dig deeper into the cause of your issues, rather than just deal with the symptoms of them.

Jonathon

Mental note to self – I’m in this bar to have a good time, not pick up women.

Particularly not to run “game” to pick up women.

That routine-based PUA shit is so 2008.

I’m a natural now, a student of most cutting edge of seduction community content.

Surely natural game is not just a marketing gimmick created because the seduction community is so saturated with repackaged old stuff that they had to invent a new fad to repackage the old stuff in new and novel ways?

Nuh, of course not. Old routine-based stuff was all about manipulation and dishonesty. Being a natural is all about having a good time and being authentic. Hang on, but I still want to pork a girl, right?

DAMMIT DAMMIT, No-no-no, don’t think about that, going out to pork girls is bad.

I’m a natural and naturals are free of the outcome. They don’t care about getting results – which is precisely the reason they GET results.

He he he he. I’m onto those naturals and their little secret. DON’T FOCUS ON GETTING RESULTS TO GET RESULTS. It’s a clever little trick, innit?

I’m going to smoke all those PUAs who are still wasting their time being indifferent to women. OK. FUN. Right. Here we go.

“Hey you girls look smashing tonight. You can be my girlfriends for the next two minutes.”

He-he. They’re giggling. Being a natural WORKS! I learned that opener on the forums, but of course, this is a NATURAL opener.

Not like on of those routine openers about gay cats or girls fighting outside.

Damn, she is kinda cute, though, and I really want to pork her… don’t think about porking her, don’t think about porking her.

Repeat to yourself: You’re free of the outcome, you’re free of the outcome. YOU’RE FREE OF THE OUTCOME.

Should I give her an IOI? YES, I BELIEVE I SHOULD! I’m allowed to do it now, because that’s how naturals roll.

Naturals are not like those stone-age PUAs who have to be all evasive and manipulative about their intentions.

But I must IOI her based on something that I like about her. Hmm, what do I like about her? I haven’t been thinking much about that, I’ve been focusing on having fun and being unattached to the outcome.

OK, let’s think about that. What do I look for in a woman, really? Hmm, I never thought about that. This one has nice boobs. I just want to pork her bo … Aaaaargh.

Repeat to self: I just want to have fun and bring light and rhythm and energy to EVERYONE AROUND ME.

…So that I can get laid. Did I just think that? DAMMIT.

Anyway, where was I before this? What do I like about her? Aah, I’ll think about it later. Right now, I have to give her an IOI, and quickly.

“I like the fact that you’re a nurse. You must be one of those caring people, I like that.”

OK, a bit stunted, but not bad for a first set … I mean, woman. She is my warm-up set, I mean .. woman.

IOI fired away!

How is she reacting to the IOI? Hold it, hold it .. Hang on, I don’t care how she reacts – I’m just a high value guy who gives value freely. That’s right. So I just gave her some value.

Cool. Wait, where is the nurse going? Back to her friends, got it. Don’t panic. N-E-G that little sucker, she is making you look low value!!! No. No. You’re a natural now. No negging, buddy.

Ah, I got it. It’s OK that she is leaving, I wasn’t attached to the outcome anyway – right? Lucky me. I. Don’t Care. It would have been really nice to pork her, though…. SHHH.

Phew. Lucky I didn’t cling on to her like I would have in the past, because that would have demonstrated neediness. And women aren’t attracted to needy men.

I guess I was needy back then, back when I was a total AFC.

Good thing I have learned since then the difference in traits that an AFC demonstrates and a NATURAL demonstrates.

So, if I act like a natural, I will eventually BECOME one, right? RIGHT?

Hmm, sure, that sounds good. Sounds easy enough. Anyway, I’m too in my head now. What time is it anyway? Have to go home read more natural game theory…

Steven