And Pleading You To Take Them Home And NAIL Them.

From: The Desk Of Your Friendly Local Dating Coach.

Dear Friend,

Introducing: The INSTANT BETA MALE 2.0 – THE PUA.

As you would know from the Beta Male 1.0 dating program, you can become a successful Beta Male in two easy steps:

Step 1: worry about what people think
Step 2: do what you think will please other people

So, for example, if you approach an attractive woman, you first work out if she wants you (Step 1).

If she is not attracted to you, you then “demonstrate qualities” of a man who you think she would be attracted to (Step 2). For example, you may say things which demonstrate social value.

Or you may give her a “sincere” compliment. But not too much (so she won’t think you’re too needy).

And so on.

Easy!

Instant Beta Male Is Born!

Never mind that this ASTONISHING program never shows you how to focus on what YOU really want.

And it never shows you how to follow through with your core desires so that you can experience long term happiness and fulfillment which magnetically draw women in.

Instead, here at Beta Male Training, we have developed a highly effective step-by-step system which will allow you to live your life by a complex set of rules…

…so you can eliminate all possibility of ever being yourself ever again!

DISCLAIMER: Will only work after a few more hundred approaches.

Now, let’s go back in time for a moment.

In the Beta Male 1 series dating coaches who came before us gave you a very powerful set of rules. These included the classics:

- Be nice to her
- Buy her flowers
- Listen politely whilst she tells you all her problems
- Take her to expensive restaurants

Fast forward to present day, and with the new “Instant Beta Male 2.0 – The PUA” program, we completely flipped the script.

All those years spent listening to your mum and your mates in the playground are totally out the window. It’s time to take it to a whole other reality!

We’ve taken the techniques “the born naturals” have been using to get massive success with women, copied exactly what they do, and now we’ll get you to copy them – even if it doesn’t feel right and doesn’t make you happy.

(DISCLAIMER: In order to develop this system, we’ve simply had to ignore the fact that the way you act is a product of deeply ingrained perceptions you have about the world…

We’ve ignored the fact that there are women out there who like different things…

We’ve ignored the fact that you have your own intrinsic desires that you’re only able to fulfill and experience the long term happiness that come with that when you actually pursue them).

But we’ve decided to just get you to pretend like you’re the kind of guy who women like to be around and hope that magically, somehow, by pretending enough, you’ll change.

Magic!

This limited edition program comes with many different styles, but they all contain one key ingredient: change who you are so that she likes you more.

This brand new system is based on very simple logic:

If women haven’t been attracted to the guy you’ve been pretending to be in Beta Male 1.0 series –

(that guy who follows societies rules, doesn’t step outside the mould, and who is hiding behind the rules his mum told him-

– just pretend to be a different person, follow a different set of rules (mine), step into a different mould and hide your true self behind a set of techniques and tricks!

Ignore the fact that you’ve never really been yourself long enough for women to get to know you, let alone feel attracted to you.

Ignore the fact that women desire Men who are strong enough to stand on their own two feet and do what they know to be right, and not succumb to someone else’s ideals…

…And just follow a different set of rules about how you should act around her.

How do you do this?

Easy.

- Talk to her about the things that we at Beta Male Training TELL YOU to talk to women about.

- Only go after women who would rate as attractive on someone else’s scale of looks rather than the women who draw you in with their magnetic personalities. (If she’s not hot according to Maxim, then she’s not worth it).

- Only go after women that have jobs that you can use to impress your mates with – like strippers or actresses. Because as long as your mates are impressed, you’re going to be happy with her.

- Go for quantity of interactions rather than quality. Your friends will find it far more impressive when you get lots of phone numbers (despite that most of them turn out to be flakes) rather than hearing about that one special girl you met and spent the whole night getting to know on a real level.

- Have more fun than anyone else. We provide you with a strict set of guidelines that allow you to do so.

- Make fun of anyone who doesn’t know the things that you do by calling them ‘chodes’, ‘chumps’ or ‘afc’s’. This will allow you to achieve that feeling superior and power that you’ve been desperately seeking and hide from the nagging feelings of inadequacy that you experience.

- Lie about or exaggerate the things you do so that she can like you for the shallow, superficial aspects of your life rather than who you are.

And there’s more!

If you follow these complex structures that we provide you with, you’ll be able to continue the trend of hiding who you are, long into your retirement years.

You’ll guarantee that the women you bring into your life don’t actually like you for who you are and sleep with you because of the things you’ve copied from our system…

…so that if you do accidentally stop pretending and slip into the kind of guy who fulfills his own desire, rather than the desires we’ve prescribed in our manual, they’ll leave you and find someone else.

With our easy step-by-step seduction system, you’re guaranteeing that you’re going to fill your life with shallow, insecure, needy women who only like you for the surface level actions you take, instead of the powerful Masculine Man you have locked inside you.

And it’s only going to cost you a few long years of your life!

(DISCLAIMER: As we haven’t really bothered to logically analyse what we’re doing and assess all the inconsistencies, we’re still trying to iron out a few kinks in the system. These include:

- You need to change who you are so that she likes you more and yet still remain detached from the outcome.

We’re not sure how it’s possible to spend so much of your time changing who you are, just so that she’ll want to spend more time with you and yet not care whether she spends more time with you.

- The way to get maximum success with women is to be totally present with them and totally in the moment, yet you need to follow this complex set of structures in order to get her.

We’re not sure how you can follow structures that are inside your head yet remain outside your head.

- That two of the most attractive traits in a Man are happiness and fulfillment and to get them, you need to follow your desires, and yet we’re telling you to not follow your desires.

- For every rule we can give you, there are guys out there who break it and guys out there who completely contradict it and get the results with women you’re looking for.

But you must follow our rules otherwise you wont get the success you want).

But, we’re sure that we can surround this product with enough hype, and marketing sounding jargon that you wont notice these inconsistencies anyway.

So it’s time to get started -

…put your life on hold, cut off all your chode friends, throw out your entire wardrobe, and get started on the least fulfilling journey you’ll ever undertake!

And whatever you do, don’t visit the guys at The Attraction Institute.

They’re going fill your head with junk that allows you to live a happy and fulfilling life, a life that magnetically draws women in, rather than having to desperately convince them to be part of your reality.

And we all know how shit that would be!

LoGun

PS. On a serious note, I’m not trying to discourage you from the PUA journey.

I’ve said a lot of things in here that point out all the inconsistencies and issues I’ve found through my journey in the community but, they’re just what I’ve found.

I can tell you these things, but until you’ve actually experienced them, they’re not going to mean anything to you.

If you feel as though you need to become a PUA and that’s gong to make you happy and fulfilled in your life, the definitely go ahead with it. In fact, commit to it fully. Don’t hold back. Make it your purpose in life.

But, if at any point in time you find that you’re not getting the happiness, fulfilment, and deep level of connection that you desire, then read through this again.

See how it feels once you’ve tried this path, and then consider having a look at this journey from another angle.

- freedom to sleep with whomever they chose

- freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners

- and just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.

Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach anxiety.

Freedom from “not being in state”.

And freedom from feeling shitty after being rejected by a woman.

The freedom to not be affected by negative emotions: that’s all about being the alpha male, right?

This quest for freedom has seen many men within the seduction community waiting for the day when they never experience approach anxiety…

…or never experience that sense of loss, or loneliness.

These men (I volunteer myself as one such man) are waiting.

Waiting for it all to be better, before they live the life they’ve always wanted to live, now.

Waiting for freedom to “happen” instead.

What freedom didn’t mean to be free of those emotions, but rather meant that you were free even though you were experiencing them?

Approach anxiety still exists, but you are free from its control.

The emotion of loneliness still exists, but it does not define who you are as “lonely”.

Your emotions occur; they will always exist.

But you don’t have to be trapped by them: instead you have the ability to experience them fully, and still be who you want to be, and do what you want to do in the face of those unpleasant feelings.

This isn’t something that will be available to you someday in the “I-hope-not-so-distant-future”.

It is available to you right now.

And all it takes is a choice, and the choice is simple:

Do I want to be controlled by my emotions, or is it possible that even though I feel shit, or feel anxious, that I can still do what I want to do?

You are not your emotions: you experience them.

So don’t let these fleeting feelings dictate who you’re going to be.

Feel them fully, but be aware of what it is that’s feeling those emotions – that’s the real you, and it can do whatever it wants, even if what it’s feeling doesn’t want to.

Right now.

Jonathon

You see that you could start a business, and you KNOW it will work, and you don’t. Why?

There’s a promotion coming up at work that you know you deserve, but you don’t apply for it. Why?

For so long, we have lived our lives waiting for something to happen. Some spark, some form of motivation, that will lift us up and get us going.

Or, we wait until we’re “in state”.

Why?

I’m still looking for that rulebook about life, and specifically the phrase that says that we must feel a certain way, look a certain way, believe in ourselves a certain way…

… before we’re allowed to do what we REALLY want.

Your mood will pass, but what you do right now will dictate the very future you walk into: not your mood.

And yet we allow our mood to forever dictate our actions, as fleeting as this mood may be.

So I ask you: why wait?

And what are you really waiting for?

Has there ever been a time when you’ve “not really felt like it”, but done it anyway? I’m sure there has. And were you glad that you did?

Yet endlessly, we allow these “reasons” to prevent us from stepping forth into a perfectly crafted future, the one that begins now.

Life will never be fully lived in waiting, unless it is waiting in absolute presence (but it‘s not really waiting then is it: it is appreciation in action).

Your life is lived in the actions you take.

Sure, there are going to be MANY times that you don’t take the action you know you should, because of a feeling: approach anxiety is the perfect example.

And yet, it’s not really your anxiety that is preventing you from approaching. It’s you waiting for your anxiety to subside.

You are now action-less, waiting for life to happen to you, rather than living your life for your self.

Let me ask you: how much longer are you going to continue letting life live you, while you wait?

Why not live life, now, in action, and allow the rest to fall into place?

Step forward when you’re feeling down, not as your feelings, but as you, who is feeling, but will still walk the path anyway.

Don’t allow your emotions to dictate how you’ll perceive the world as you walk the path though: you’re much MUCH bigger than that.

Instead, walk the path fully experiencing your “down” emotion, open to the possibility that in one single moment your mood could completely change.

Then you will walk the path with a different experience but the same view: the one that has never changed. Ever. Yours.

Jonathon

“Damn, you do some embarrassing shit!”

Apparently it’s embarrassing to approach a stunning little brunette with green eyes and curves that are out of this world who’s eating lunch with her family.

Who knew???

Well, to be perfectly honest, the old me did.

I used to get embarrassed so easily.

Standing on the footpath, watching some smoking hot woman pass me by and knowing that I had to go approach her was anxiety-inducing enough, let alone when she told me to she to ‘leave me alone’.

But not the new me.

Have I developed some kind of super routine stack that will never get me blown out?

Do I have enough ‘high-octane material’ in my head which ensures that I’ll never have to face the embarrassment of having to walk away, hanging my head in shame?

No. So what changed?

Well, let me explain..

What does it mean to “be embarrassed?”

It’s when you’re looking at yourself through other peoples eyes and judging yourself.

You’re taking your opinions, attitudes, and thoughts – and assuming that someone else holds the exact same thoughts as you…

Assuming that they actually give enough of a sh*t to be watching you…

Assuming that they then have the amount of mental space to apply those thoughts to your actions..

Assuming that their thoughts about you actually matter, and then feeling a certain way because you’re sure that someone (who you’ll probably never see again) just applied all of that judgment to you.

??????????????

When you read it like that, can you see how pointless it is?

The only way you can be embarrassed is if you lie to yourself and tell yourself that you can read minds. But, if you can actually read minds, how did you not know what to say to that girl you approached?

Hmm???

So here’s the secret to never being embarrassed again.

If you’re trying to come up with a fool-proof plan, so that she never rejects you again, then you’ll probably suffer from embarrassment again.

But if you want to eradicate it forever, then you have to cut to the core – and stop focusing on the symptoms of your suffering.

The way to deal with it for good is to stop lying to yourself, admit that you know absolutely nothing about what someone else who you’ll never see again is thinking, and just focus on one simple thing:

What *YOU* desire.

That’s it.

Stop wasting your time trying to guess what everyone else is thinking. Let it all go, and go after what *YOU* want.

LoGun

Every guy I’ve ever coached have suffered from this in some way. I suffered from it.

And I tried countless techniques to deal with it, but it wasn’t till I realised a simple and obvious truth that I was ever able to rid myself of fear of rejection for good.

Let’s take a moment to see what fear of rejection is.

It can grip you, HARD. Sweaty palms, butterflies, tight chest, and then the mind chatter starts: “What’s going to happen? What should I say? What if she…”

But think about this – fear of rejection doesn’t grip you EVERY time you talk to a woman, right?

Yes, sometimes it’s fierce. But other times it’s non-existent, and you can run free, without thinking, doing what you want and saying what you want to say.

How is this possible? I racked my brain trying to work it out.

Was the difference caused by the bar I was in? Not really, although being in familiar surroundings can help.

Was the difference caused by the group I was rolling with? No, but being in a cool group could make me feel better.

Was the difference in techniques? Well, no.

And then it struck me, and it was so obvious: the difference wasn’t what I was doing. It wasn’t how I was doing it

It was how I felt!

When I felt great, when my mood was amazing, I didn’t care whether women responsded positively (which usually meant she did anyway).

It was only when I felt ordinary that I cared at all. The more ordinary I felt, the more the fear of rejection took hold.

So consider this:

Have you ever been in such a great mood – have you ever walked so tall – that it didn’t even matter what happened with ‘that girl’?

Have you ever felt so great that you didn’t even care whether she responded positively or not?

Then do you think it’d be faster and easier to work on fading ways to deal with every kind of rejection scenario she could give you?

Or do you think it would be faster and easier to just get in a great mood and not have to care what she thinks?

Do you want to set yourself for a lifetime of hard work, constantly having to battle against your fears and doubts, or do you want to be able to leave them all behind and do what you want, when you want?

Thing is, you can never guarantee that she’s going to respond positively. Ever.

I don’t care what kind of super duper, highly advanced, NASA designed routine stack you have.

She could be in a shit mood, she could be testing you, she could even be doing just for the hell of it. She’s feminine, it’s how she works.

If you spend your time going down that path, it’s only going to lead you to more and more work.

If you take control of how you feel though, you wont have to worry about dealing with those kinds of problems because they simply wont matter.

But before you decide which path you’re going to go down, I want you to consider one more thing.

Do you think she’s more likely to respond positively to someone who’s delivering a half-arsed canned opener (structured or natural) through a thin veil of non-attachment designed to (poorly) hide the ever rising fear?

Or do you think she’s more likely to respond positively to the genuinely happy and loving guy who’s being real, present, and open with her?

Think about it and get back to me…

LoGun

And how to ELIMINATE approach anxiety:

To learn more about which dangerous seduction community myths to avoid, check out this: Why Dating Advice Can Make You Worse With Women.

There’s no difference. The butterflies, the tingling, everything is exactly the same.

The only difference between the two is the thoughts running through your head.

If you think you’re going to gain from the experience / enjoy yourself / things are exciting. It’s only when you think you’re set to lose out of the experience that you feel fear.

For example: if someone gave you a present and told you there was something very expensive in there for you, you’d get excited because you thought you were going to gain.

Then you opened it and found out it was a bomb ready to explode, you’d experience fear because you thought you were about to lose.

If you flip the situation, it stays the same.

If you were given a box and were told that you had to open it and when you did, you’d experience pain, you’d experience fear.

But, if you opened it and found a whole wad of cash that you could use to buy whatever you want, you’d experience excitement as you were going to gain.


Did that make sense?

Approach Anxiety is just a thought in your head. You don’t need external techniques to get rid of it because it’s not an external problem.

If you want to get rid of it, deal with what’s in your head and your approach anxiety will go away.


This was the secret that helped me remove approach anxiety from my world. I stopped looking outside me for techniques and routines to fix this issue and I started to dig inside.


I changed what I viewed as gaining and losing and all of a sudden, approach anxiety became approach excitement!

Instead of focussing on what I had to lose is I went over and spoke to that beautiful woman, I focussed on what I had to gain by going over there – the fun, the excitement, pushing my boundaries, potential of SEX, finding that one perfect girl!

Now, instead of standing on the sideline, with my drink, watching all the beautiful women walking by and not doing anything about it, I was in there.

I was talking, laughing, dancing, having a great time, with all those beautiful women I thought were out of my reach.


Sounds too easy, doesn’t it?


Whilst this is simple concept, it’s not easy. It’s not something you wake up tomorrow and it’s completely changed. It takes work. It takes courage.

But you stand to gain more than just the ability to eradicate your approach anxiety, you have the chance to completely transform your entire world and start down the path to achieving your dreams!


To make the power to do this accessible to everyone, we’ve put together a completely free, no strings attached program to help you start your journey.

It’s called the Inner Game Challenge and it’s still free to join.


LoGun

Trick 1: Talk To Everyone.

The thoughts in you head tell you that you can’t talk to people. They tell you it’s weird. Tell them to fuck off. In fact, better than that, prove to them that they’re wrong. Don’t just go out and try to magically turn these thoughts off, start your day with it.

Talk to the bus driver, talk to the barista, talk to the old couple sitting on their front porch, talk to everyone, all the time.

2. Have fun.

When your head’s full of thoughts about how you can have more fun, there’s no room to entertain thoughts about what other people are thinking.

I’m sure you’ve all had those nights where we were just on fire. Were you thinking about what others were thinking then or were you just focusing on having fun?

3. Picture her naked.

Just like above, push those disempowering thoughts out the door by focusing on what you’re really talking to her for – getting her naked.

Focus on her curves, her lines, her naked body, the sound she makes when she moans in ecstasy, the feel of her naked skin against yours.

I need a bathroom break.

All these things are great but by far and away the technique that affects the biggest amount of change in my clients in the shortest amount of time is this:

The secret weapon!

So these thoughts that are running through your head when you have approach anxiety, what are they? They’re an argument. You’re arguing with yourself about what you should or shouldn’t do.

What’s the best way to deal with an argument? Don’t have one in the first place. Accept the other person point of view.

Made the link?

This is how you destroy your approach anxiety – simply accept what’s going through your head.

Try this, right now. Imagine yourself standing 10m from the woman of your dreams. Imagine her lines, her curves, those lips and those eyes.

Imagine the thoughts racing through your head – people might be watching, she might reject me – and then simply say to yourself:

“I accept that.”

Where do those thoughts go? Do they continue or do they just melt away?

Silence…

LoGun

This is where your inner game comes into play.

With each step, what’s running through your head? Where are you focusing?

Is it on those legs, those eyes, all the dirty little things you want to do with her? Do you feel calm and confident?

Or is there something else flashing through your head? Are there people around her that you’re worried about? What are you going to say? What angle should you come from?

And how do those thoughts make you feel?

Do you feel confident, courageous, strong, or nervous? Do feel ready to walk straight up to her, or does the anxiety begin to grip you?

This anxiety, these barriers you see, they’re only there because of the thoughts that run through your head. Nothing else. If you want to get rid of them, if you want to have nothing in your life that holds you back, if you want to be able to achieve your ultimate goals in life, you need to work on your inner game.

‘But how?’, you ask.

I don’t know how, or when, but somewhere along the line, someone came up with the idea that you can improve your inner game by reading a book at home.

They constructed the concept that if you want to change the way you see the world, you do so meditating and chanting in some monastery. If you want to improve your meditating and chanting, that’s a good way to do it. If you want to change the way you see the world, it’s not.

I’m about to let you in on a little secret that’s so blatantly obvious that I don’t know why everyone isn’t talking about it.

The secret to ultimate inner game isn’t in the books you read, it isn’t in the hours you spend every day in silent meditation, it isn’t in the self-inquiry exercises.

It’s in how you apply it to your world.

Did you catch that? It’s in how you apply it to your world.

It’s not the information, but what you do with that information that counts.

How can you expect to change the way you see your world and the way you interact with your world when you’re not in your world??

The only thing that sitting behind a computer talking inner game theory with a bunch of other keyboard jockeys is going to improve is your ability to sit behind a computer with a bunch of keyboard jockeys and talk about inner game theory.

You need to get out of your house. You need to stop talking about it with other guys. You need to be interacting and challenging your world.

And when you come up against something that you want to change, you need to take conscious control of it and actively change the way you see and do your reality.

That’s when you start to see real results.

That’s when the barriers, borders, and restrictions in your life melt away. That’s when you start to achieve everything you’ve ever dreamed of.

That’s the secret to ultimate inner game.

So, if you want to be the kind of Man who:


- has nothing in his life holding him back,
- has no thoughts preventing him from getting the girl of his dreams,
- has no limiting beliefs stopping him from finding and getting what he wants from his life,
- has no restrictions on the way he moves through the world,

then you need to start challenging your world and you need to start doing it now.

To begin on that path today, grab your free copy of the Seduction Community Sucks e-book by subscribing to the newsletter below.

LoGun