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“How do I be more attractive to women?” was the question that started me on my journey firstly into the seduction community, then out of it.

I get asked it so often that I thought I’d write out the three things I wish I’d been told when I first wanted to know how to be attractive to women.

No. 1 – Stop trying to attract women…

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This is the next installment of the ‘Thought of the day’ series. These are little quotes, sayings, and (mostly) questions that I ask myself to keep me moving towards the life I want to create. Today’s is one of my favourites: Who is the Man of your dreams? This question isn’t about finding some dude [...]

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I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this but Neil Strauss has lied to you. His ideas and techniques for transforming your relationships with women might seem great on the surface there’s an inherent flaw that is going to prevent you from ever getting the results with women that you deserve. The way [...]

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The secret to how to attract a woman isn’t complex. It’s not long, hard, or complicated.

To show you just how you can attract a woman, I’m just going to ask you one simple question:

When have you had most success attracting a woman: when you’ve been trying to attract a woman or when you haven’t been trying at all and you’ve just been concentrating on enjoying yourself?

So what do you think you need to do to attract a woman?

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I wish it were as simple as waving a magic wand and saying ‘All women find x attractive!’ but in reality, it’s not. Why?

Well, do you and you mate find the same women attractive? Maybe sometimes, but all the time? No?

Then why would all women find the same guy attractive?

Duh…

So, to help you work out what women find attractive, we first need to nail down what kind of women we’re talking about.

Lets start with the easy one: What does she look like?

Is she tall or short?
Is she brunette or blonde?
 Does she have blue eyes or brown?
 Is she curvy or slim?

Next, what kind of things does she like to do?

Does she like to play sports…

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What Attracts Women To Men?

January 26, 2011 by

If you’re searching for what attracts women to men, you probably are looking for tips on how you can act differently..

..so that women feel attracted to you.

Now, I’m not any kind of guru – I’m just a guy is on a journey of realising my fullest potential as a man. And I’m lucky to have some great women in his life.

And so I asked one of them – what attracts women to men? What does she want in a man?

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Is your self-confidence not quite what you want it to be?

Are you looking for self-confidence tips to find the happiness you desire?

Well, here are 3 self-confidence tips you need to know – if you want to bring long-term satisfaction into your life.

Self-Confidence Tip No. 1 – Stop blaming your lack of self-confidence for anything..

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I’m going to make this really simple.

I’m not going to go into complex theories and silly pranks to overcome your approach anxiety. Instead, I’m just going to give you the 6 thing that you can use to eliminate approach anxiety forever:

1. You’re not genetically programmed to experience approach anxiety.

Your approach anxiety has nothing to do with your fore fathers being afraid…

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I’m going to shoot straight from the hip here.

You may not like what I have to say, in fact, it may even offend you, but in my experience in nearly 4 years (3 and a half of those as a coach) in the community, this is what I’ve seen through every single guy.

Every single one.

There’s only one reason you NEED to learn pick up, and that’s:

Because you’re trying to trick her into liking you.

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There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.

And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..

..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?

The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?

It’s only once you…

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I mean, it’s why you’re here.

Those beautiful creatures, running around the club, laughing, giggling, and shaking those sexy bodies.

So, how do you attract more women?

It’s a good question.

And before you try and answer it, you need to know about the are two different…

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I’m going to let you in on one of the best kept secrets in the dating arena.

The highly controversial technique for being able to approach a woman, anywhere, anytime.

It’s quite complicated, but be patient with me because when you master, you’ll be able to approach every woman you see.

So, here goes:

Step 1 – get close enough to her so she can hear you.
Step 2 – say what…

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I was in a video shop the other day, renting The Thomas Crown Affair.

And then I had this little epiphany.

Why was I choosing THIS movie?

I’ve seen it a billion times already ..

I can quote from it freely, and it’s not like the plot is going to reveal any new surprises for me when I watch it this time.

And yet here I was, about to..

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I keep hearing this a lot: women are apparently attracted to rich men.

A chap even emailed me a few weeks ago, saying that he has tried every dating product under the sun and it hasn’t worked for him.

His conclusion: women are only attracted to rich (and tall, according to him), men. And no amount of dating advice was going to change that universal law…

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I’m about to let the cat out of the bag.

This is the one secret that’s going to transform your game forever.

It’s the one that’s going to elevate you from where you are, right now, to the level of God-like ability with women.

The dating gurus have been trying to prevent me from letting this out for years but now, they can’t stop me..

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To put it simply, YES.

But I must clarify: it’s not a “secret seduction technique” or whatever, so please do not adopt it as such.

If you approach meditation as a means to a certain end (attracting girls), you will be disappointed. It is not a magic bullet of seduction.

But it just so happens that the practice of meditation helps get you outside of your…

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Lots of guys write in to me and ask:

“How do I attract a girl?”

If that question is at the forefront of your mind, then you’re making it unnecessary difficult for yourself to attract the said girl.

Why?

Because you’re looking for answers in the wrong..

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I had a really interesting conversation with my girlfriend about working out the other day..

..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.

I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies…

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What would happen if you saw a woman you were attracted to, and you purposefully didn’t approach her?

I’m being serious here.

You see a gorgeous woman. You KNOW you’re attracted to her because of the way you feel when you see her.

And yet, you do not approach this…

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I’m going to be honest with you here:

I have no idea how many different seduction methods there are out there.

If I was to take a conservative guess, I’d say maybe 100 or 200 … who knows?

It’s safe to say that there are many seduction methods … and I’m sure that every one works, at least for the guy who made it.

Otherwise he wouldn’t be…

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There is a common belief that rich men attract women with ease.

More specifically, that women are attracted to men with MONEY.

The seduction community has gone to some way to upset that myth…

Mostly, by demonstrating that a guy who can banter…

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Well, of course you should.

There are definitely things that you need to learn in order to attract women.

And without them, you’re never going to get the success you’re looking for. EVER.

You’re going to relegated to her “let’s just be friends” zone…

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“Imagine how much your quality of life would improve…

…if you could meet and attract women of your choice almost anywhere?”

That was the headline of a sales page I recently stumbled across.

The “dating guru” who wrote that page went on to describe a “daygame” product…

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And try RSD.

And some natural game at Pickup101.

Please subscribe to their newsletters, read their blogs, even try their products.

You owe it to yourself…

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I’m sure it seemed like the answer to your dreams:

A community full of guys who could teach you how to attract the women you wanted.

And not only that, but also how to get the happiness you wanted.

Those HB9′s and HB10′s who so elusively strut around the club. Finally, you’d…

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I’m running with a bit of a David Deida theme this week….

Since his work has been such an inspiration, and great teaching.

I’ve noticed something in myself that I’ve noticed within many men throughout this community -

The pursuing of this trait we call alpha male, or masculine.

In the words of David Deida…

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If you’re reading this blog, you probably want to fix your inner game.

Many people think that fixing their inner game is a bit like getting a seduction ‘superweapon’…

Which will give them the ability to attract women everywhere they go.

But there’s something I need to tell you. Here it…

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Am I taking the piss? Have I finally lost the plot?

How can a man attract women by watching Californication, Boston Legal and House?

To attract women, a man needs to go out in the field, and ‘sarge’, right? Well, maybe…

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If you’ve just spent a year of your life learning reading dating advice…

..And haven’t seen the results you want, you probably are starting to realise that:

7. Learning routines hasn’t helped you to talk to women.

6. Learning qualification has not *really* helped you…

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Evolution Of Dating Advice.

August 25, 2009 by

We have seen 2 generations of ‘dating advice’ so far:

Generation 1 – let’s call them “The Romantics” – who repeated the same kind of dating advice our mothers gave us.

“Be nice to her”, they insisted. “Listen…

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David Deida is a sham. There. I said it. A sham.

Don’t get me wrong, I have a deep admiration for his work. It changed my life, he changed my life. But, in saying that, there’s a deeply ingrained flaw in his teaching that contradicts the core essence of his work. I’m going to expose that contradiction to you now.

I purchased David Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man nearly…

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For starters, I’ve never liked the word ‘sarging’. It conjures up all these images of creepy, seedy, old men trying to hypnotise women into GO DOWN ON ME INNER GAME PENIS EXTENSION (did that work?) sleeping with them. A lot of guys use the word to feel part of the group so they can become [...]

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Getting her to like you is a waste of time.

Sure she’s beautiful, and I bet you’ve never met anyone else like her before either, but trying to get her to like you isn’t going to help you get what you…

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