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		<title>9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. Find the CORE ISSUE which is causing you to get nervous around girls.</strong>

Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.

For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching her...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.attractioninstitute.org/inner-game/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/be-attractive-to-women-300x199.jpg" alt="getting nervous around women" title="getting nervous around women" width="300" height="199" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3891" /><strong>1. Find the CORE ISSUE.</strong></p>
<p>Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.</p>
<p>For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching, take the first step, and feel nervousness.</p>
<p>So they will try to clamp down on the nervousness. Suppress it. Or they just try to ignore it.</p>
<p>Needless to say, it doesn&#8217;t usually work well. </p>
<p><strong>2. Go DEEPER.</strong></p>
<p>The most important thing here is to work out what you&#8217;re actually choosing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s actually something much deeper.</p>
<p>Now, according to most seduction community literature, you should be learning how to stop getting nervous around girls in conjunction with a myriad of other problems&#8230;</p>
<p>So, you should learn some body language tips so that you don&#8217;t &#8220;lean in&#8221; and don&#8217;t move your hands too much&#8230;</p>
<p>You should learn some tapping techniques to eradicate the chest tightness.</p>
<p>You should learn some openers to conceal the blank mind. And some proven DHV routines to stop your mindless mutterings.</p>
<p>And some Alpha male mindsets to stop supplicating.</p>
<p><strong>3. Is there a FASTER and EASIER way?</strong></p>
<p>What if there was a simple way to take care of ALL of those &#8211; at the same time? (yeah, and to stop getting nervous around girls, as well).</p>
<p>I know it sounds like a little to good to be true. But think about this&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>3. Your Nervousness Is Situational.</strong></p>
<p>Do you get nervous around your best mates? Do you get nervous watching TV with your family? Do you get a tightness in your chest in a movie cinema with your friends?</p>
<p>How often do you experience anxiety while eating at your favourite restaurant?</p>
<p>Yes, you probably do feel more comfortable in those &#8220;low pressure&#8221; places and that allows you to have a completely different experience of the world.</p>
<p>But why? And how?</p>
<p><strong>4. Getting Into STATE.</strong></p>
<p>So I want you to think back to one of your most enjoyable nights out, ever. It may have been a night out with the boys getting drunk and rowdy.</p>
<p>It may have been since you joined the seduction community community, picking up girls, it might have just been laughing with a beautiful woman.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter. All that matters is that it was a night that was fun and very fulfilling.</p>
<p>So now that you&#8217;re there, I want you to pay attention to one particular thing&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>5. Your FOCUS.</strong></p>
<p>Were you focusing on the external world &#8211; like what people are doing, what that mean, sand what that means about you?</p>
<p>Or were you focused on the internal world &#8211; on how you feel and what you desire to do?</p>
<p>And how did that focus allow you to act?</p>
<p>Did you check your actions, hiding the real you away because you were concerned about what other people think?</p>
<p>Or did you freely follow your desires &#8211; not because you thought everyone liked you, but simply because you were not thinking about what other people think?</p>
<p>And how did you feel because of the actions you take that come from the focus you have? Did you feel caged, trapped, scared and nervous?</p>
<p>Or did you feel happy, joyous, free, and alive?</p>
<p><strong>6. Were You NERVOUS??</strong></p>
<p>On those nights, did you need body language tips, openers, routines, DHV&#8217;s and body tapping to help you stop getting nervous?</p>
<p>Or was there just nothing to worry about?</p>
<p>Now, I want you to run through the same questions over again, but this time for a night out where you didn&#8217;t enjoy yourself.</p>
<p><strong>7. Imagine Your Worst Night Ever.</strong></p>
<p>Go on, actually do it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important that you give it a shot because it&#8217;s the one thing that&#8217;s going to help you stop getting nervous around girls. </p>
<p>So what do you think this all means? What&#8217;s the key element here?</p>
<p><strong>8. Internal Focus.</strong></p>
<p>This is where most seduction community &#8220;gurus&#8221; will say, &#8220;It can&#8217;t be that easy!&#8221; Well, I&#8217;m pretty sure it can&#8217;t be as hard as most of those gurus make it.</p>
<p>The structures, the routines, the openers, attraction switches, the DHV&#8217;s negs, more, more, more, more!!!</p>
<p>How come when you&#8217;re in state, you don&#8217;t need to learn any of this? Have you ever wondered why picking up is so much easier when you just go out to have fun?</p>
<p>Now, the fun part. This is where we dig deep.</p>
<p>Whilst it can help you stop getting nervous around girls, it does require that you understand what&#8217;s going on underneath.</p>
<p><strong>9. Fix Your Inner Game.</strong></p>
<p>You&#8217;re trying to get girls attracted to you for a reason. And, as a result you&#8217;re getting nervous around girls for a reason.</p>
<p>Once you understand what that reason is, everything will change. (Hint: it has something to do with inner game). </p>
<p>If you want to start that inner game journey now, then begin by learning why <a href="http://www.attractioninstitute.org/7-reasons-why-dating-advice-makes-you-worse-with-women" onclick="return TrackClick('http%3A%2F%2Fwww.attractioninstitute.org%2F7-reasons-why-dating-advice-makes-you-worse-with-women','7+Reasons+Why+Dating+Advice+Can+Make+You+Worse+With+Women')">7 Reasons Why Dating Advice Can Make You Worse With Women</a>.</p>
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<p>LoGun</p>
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