..so I thought I’d put a little test together.

It’s pretty straight forward – 1 question and a 1 word answer.

Are you ready to find out how well you’re doing? Well. Here it is:

Are you currently experiencing everything you want out of life?

Yes / No.

It’s that simple.

If your answer is “Yes”, then your inner game is working for you and you don’t need to do anything about it.

If your answer is “No”, then your inner game isn’t working for you and you could benefit from changing it.

If you answered “Kind of…” or maybe or “it’s a shade of gray”..

..then it’s still not a firm “Yes” and you could benefit from changing it.

But if you didn’t answer “Yes”, does that mean it’s your inner game is bad? No, because it can’t be.

At no point in time is your inner game “bad” or “good”.

It’s simply your inner game. It’s simply a map in your head that you’re running. At some point in time, it may have helped you get what you want out of life..

..but if it’s not helping you get what you want out of life, then it’s currently not productive and could benefit from changing.

So, are you experiencing everything you’ve ever wanted out of life? And are you going to benefit from changing your inner game?

LoGun

And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..

..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?

The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?

It’s only once you lay that down that things really become clear. So, what is your definition of making it? What’s you goal?

If your definition of ‘making it’ is just being able to have empty, hollow and meaningless sex with women you don’t really know, then yes, you can make it.

Faking it can get you all the way there.

You can have insincere, and fake relationships with many beautiful women if you get REALLY good.

If that’s you thing, then that’s sweet. You can definitely make it by faking it. And I’m not going to judge you here.

It’s your path and you need to walk it in the way that you want. If this is you, then please don’t read on. You’re not going to get anything out of this.

It’s just going to be a waste of time.

But, if you’re looking for something more, something real, genuine, open, and honest, then no, you can never ‘make it’ through faking it. I’ll show you why…

The whole idea of faking it is to take a set of action and mindsets that you aren’t currently using and use them to replace your current actions.

When you achieve this, you’re said to have ‘internalised’ these actions.

How does that stop you from ever making it?

You can ‘internalise’ all these actions, you can pretend all you want, but at no point in time are those actions going to be your actions. They’re never going to be the real you.

They’re always just going to be a set of tricks that you use to make women like you.

Sure you might sleep with more women but if you’re looking to be able to form real and meaningful relationships with incredible women, then you’re not going to get anywhere.

How are you going to make real, genuine connections with women when you’re not being real and genuine with them?

How can they ever truly love the real you when you’re hiding the real you behind tricks?

Also, think about the kind of women you’re going to attract if you just changed your actions.

If a woman’s not attracted to you and all you do is change your surface level to make her attracted to you, what does it say about her? It says that she’s the kind of person who’s only interested in superficial things.

She’s only interested in the surface level parts of you.

She’s clearly not interested in the deeper, real, genuine side of who you are, she just likes you for the tricks you do.

If you only change the surface level to attract women then you’re only going to attract women who’re only interested in the surface level.

If you haven’t worked with the deeper core layers and learned how to express them, then you’re not going to attract women who like you for who you really are.

Do you want to be with women who only like you for the car you own?

Do you want to be with women who only like you for the money you have?

Do you want to be with women who only hang out with you because of the parties you can get them into?

Then why do you want to be with women who like you for the people you copy?

Why do you want to be with women who like you for the person you pretend to be?

Now, I know a lot of guys take this path because they don’t think they’re attractive. They don’t think they can’t be real with a woman and have her be into them.

And I know, from personal experience, that there’s definitely a part of most guys that isn’t’ very attractive to most women.

But I also know that there’s a very big part of guys that women are attracted to. It’s inside guys, right now, they just don’t know how to get in touch with it.

And this is where inner game work comes in.

This is where understanding yourself and taking control of your life comes into play. It’s about finding the part that women are attracted to because YOU’RE attracted to it.

It’s about building the kind of life that people are naturally drawn to because you’re drawn to it.

It’s about creating a life that’s so fulfilling, rewarding and captivating that you can’t help be excited and passionate about you’re world and sharing it with others.

It’s not about using tricks to pretend to be the kind of guy that women are attracted to, it’s about finding the parts of you that women are attracted to and expressing them openly.

Whoever said that you can’t be a natural simply didn’t understand what was going on underneath. You can. It’s inside you now.

And through inner game work, you can let it out.

There are some people who say that you just use routines and techniques as training wheels, and then once you’re comfortable, then you let them go.

If that’s your perspective, then that’s fine, but consider this:

What skill are you actually training with these ‘training wheels’? You’re training the skill of lying to people. You’re training the skill of trying to manipulate people.

You’re training the skill hiding who you really are and reinforcing the idea that you’re not an interesting enough person to be worthy of talking to these people.

Lets say you spend the next 6 months using these training wheels, what have you actually learned through this time?

That people are going to talk to you only if you have though up some interesting things to talk about before hand?

That attractive women are scary and dangerous creatures who you can’t be real around? Is that this kind of skill set you want?

Is that the kind of skills you really want to internalise?

Before you start on your journey, stop and work out what kind of future you want. Then you’ll know which path is right for you.

LoGun

“How do I attract a girl?”

If that question is at the forefront of your mind, then you’re making it unnecessary difficult for yourself to attract the said girl.

Why?

Because you’re looking for answers in the wrong place.

You’re looking outside yourself.

Let me explain.

Everything in your life is a reflection of your relationship with YOURSELF. (In other words, your inner game).

And when I say everything, I mean EVERYTHING:

The car you drive, the friendships you have, the job you do, the love you have for your family..

..and, needless to say, the attraction women feel for you.

If you’re looking for an answer on how to attract a girl, then you can make it a lot easier for yourself by looking in
the only place that matters:

Inside yourself.

Here are some questions you can ponder to start that process:

- Do you like your life? Or not so much?

- Do you like YOURSELF? Or not so much?

- Do *YOU* influence your actions? Or does opinion of others influence your actions?

- Do you know why you wake up every morning? Or do you just follow a routine you “fell into?”

- Do you come home after work feeling exhausted, spent, but fulfilled? Or tired, wanting, and hollow?

- Are you worried about not leaving this world a better place than you found it? Or are you worried about how to make others think better things of you?

- When someone asks what your job is, do you describe your role, owning your words – (even if you do a non-prestigious job): “I sell cars”.

- Or are you quicker to declare the name of the company you work for “I work at Lexus”, because you want prestige of the brand to rub off on you in the eyes of others?

Here’s what it all comes down to:

If you don’t like your life..

.. Why do you expect a woman to?

If you don’t like your life, you’ll cling to others to make it better. And you’ll repel people in the process.

But..

If you *DO* like your life..

You’ll become selective about who to let in. And people will be drawn to you.

That’s why learning tips and techniques which show you how to attract women is as pointless as it is to seek an answer to the “How do I attract a girl?” question.

Attracting a beautiful woman into your life is a great endeavour. But most guys approach the endeavour from the wrong end:

A woman who is attracted to you is a consequence of you having a great relationship with yourself. Not a means to it.

Not only is learning how to attract a girl merely a symptom..

It is treating just a part of a symptom.

Which makes it an even bigger waste of time.

And not only that. It’s selling yourself short. You are better than that, dude. You deserve to realise your potential. In this lifetime.

You deserve to love your life. For yourself. Because of yourself.

Not because some hot girl is validating you.

And not because her presence in your life means you can finally to “stick it” to the cool kids who always thought you
were a deuchebag.

That is a hollow dream.

Why do you need to prove anything to anyone in the first place? Why do you care?

And why is is that they don’t care about proving anything to you, and you still chase their acceptance?

- Don’t waste your life living it for someone
else.

- Don’t waste your life learning tricks to temporarily dull the pain.

- Don’t believe the “gurus” who tell you that chanting some affirmations like “I love my life and I’m awesome” is going to make you into James Bond.

All you gotta do is change your relationship with yourself. And the good news is, it’s not that hard to do.

LoGun and I have spent the past 3 years building the perfect system which does that for you..

And you can get a free test-drive right now:

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When you get it, you’ll get access to some of paying-customers-only content, including:

- how to become a man of her dreams (hint: it has nothing to do with learning how to become a man of her dreams)

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.. and much more.

It takes 30 seconds to register, and you will be watching those free videos within moments:

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All the best!

Steven

How to make sure women don’t lose interest in you:

Why 97% of dating advice doesn’t help guys:

How MasterClass helped guys, and how it can help you:

What you’ll get out of this seminar:

A tight group of special Men was invited to be the audience for this seminar.

They were Men who already realise that a Man’s life will not feel complete if they just spend it trying to get more stuff, women, money, pleasure…

(you guessed it – they were former MasterClass students).

These men also feel the need to pursue deeper, more rewarding and real challenges…

Such as discovering and living their purpose, cultivating acceptance and validation from within, creating something that has MEANING and is a CONTRIBUTION to the world…

(Rather than just trying to fill some kind of burning hole by constantly trying to TAKE something from the world).

I could tell you how one of the by-products of building that kind of life is having women ASK to be a part of it, and actually thanking you for letting them share in the journey..

..but seriously, in this context that is a nice side bonus, barely worthy of mention.

Because in this context, your life is a much greater reward, and is intrinsically fulfilling.

Women come and go, and some stay. And each woman adds her unique and amazing colours to your life. You love these women for who they are, but you never NEED them to feel complete.

So this seminar went way beyond the topic of “picking up women”.

It was about becoming the kind of Man you always wanted to be.

The kind of Man you want your kids to have as a father.

The kind of Man you never had for a father, perhaps – when YOU were a kid.

And the Men who were invited to take part were the former MasterClass students.

Bad news is that this seminar was a one-off, and we’re probably not going to do another again this year.

The good news is that we did film it – the whole thing – and instead of trying to charge you $3,000 for it, we want to GIVE IT to you.

Next 20 guys who sign up to the MasterClass MKII will get a free copy – which you can use to build the kind of life you want:

Find out more >>

This means that you get to:

1. Finally say goodbye to the inner game causes of your issues with women by doing the MasterClass MKII ($1,499 value). Then…

2. Learn to build the kind of life which is intrinsically rewarding – a life of a Man – where you don’t NEED anything outside yourself to feel complete ($3,000 value). And finally..

3. Learn how to make every conversation with a woman sexual – with 2.5 hours of Hristiyan’s video tutorials you can use to spice up your interactions with women – but only after your inner game is taken care of ($500 value).

This means that:

You get something like $5,000.00 worth of value…

.. and you can start off on this journey right now with only a $299 payment:

Find out more >>

Or you can go straight here and begin your program immediately:

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Steven

PS I must mention that if at any stage you feel that this MasterClass package is not for you, you can get 100% of your money back, within 60 DAYS from the date you sign up.

All we ask is that you give the program a shot.

To do that, just complete 5 easy exercises from your MasterClass MKII workbook, and email them to us.

We will send you your cash back, with no questions asked – and we’ll remain great friends.

To find out more about the 60 day money back guarantee, you can go here:

Find out more >>

PPS: Just so that there are no guys emailing me after this ends, I’m going to reiterate exactly what you get here:

First, you get to take care of the causes of problems which are causing you pain around women, using the MasterClass MKII…

Then you continue to grow as a Man, becoming centered in purpose rather than hollow pleasures..

..having a MEANING in your life, rather than rudderlessly working as a “means to an end”.

Becoming a man who embodies integrity, rather than desire for validation.

Finally, you learn how to “turn up the heat” in any conversation with a woman using Hristiyan’s collection of escalation tutorials.

By the time you’re using them, they will not seem like “tricks” you need to “get” a women, but fun toys you use to add an instant injection of life and spark to your interactions with women.

So, all the tools are here, now, at your fingertips. It’s up to you whether you choose to start using them to change your life, or to remain the same:

Find out more >>

Or:

Start My Program >>

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Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?

The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…

..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..

..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game.

Firstly, we need to separate the inner game and the outer game.

To quote the guy who originally coined the term ‘inner game’ back in the 70’s, Mr Timothy Gallway:

“In every human endeavour there are two arenas of engagement: the outer and the inner.”

The inner is the way you experience the world. The outer is the way you interact with the world.

Your inner game determines your experience of her telling you to go away, your outer game determines what actions you take.

There’s a whole bunch of guys out there who can give you tips on what to do, so I’m going to stick with what I know: your experience – the inner game.

Your experience of the world isn’t just one big element.

Just like outer game, it’s determined by a few different parts. They work in layers and just like an onion, dig down to the core.

So, lets start at the outside and work in.

How you feel.

The primary influencing factor of how you experience the world is how you feel – your state.

I’m going to guess that you’ve had at least one experience in your life where you were in such a good state that it didn’t matter what people did or what happened, they couldn’t phase you.

On the flip side, I’m sure you’ve had experiences where you were so volatile that the smallest, most insignificant thing would completely set you off.

(Just as a side note: if this is the case, is it the external element that’s the issue and the cause of you problems or is it your mood?)

It’s this state that you’re in that is the first layer of your inner game.

But you don’t just decide to feel good or bad. You don’t just wake up one day and look at the sky and think:

‘Well, I think I’m going to feel shit today. That sounds good.”

There’s underlying factors at play here. And the first one is:

Your focus.

How you feel about your world is determined by where you’re focussing.

At any one point in time, there’s really positive and empowering stuff going on in the world and there’s negative and disempowering stuff.

Your mind is structured so that it can only take in a small amount of information at any one point in time.

Where you direct your attention determines what information you actually take in. It the information that you take in that determines how your state.

Is the guys who sits in front of the TV all day watching news all day, watching news stories about the wars and violence around the world..

..who spends his time focussing on the misery and pain that he and everyone else is experiencing going to feel great?

I doubt it.

Is the guy who lives in Hawaii, spending his days surfing in the warm water and the perfect waves and focussing on the beauty and perfection that nature has to offer..

..focussing on the activities that he enjoys, going to feel good? Well, he’s got a much better chance than the pain guy.

So, which one of these guys is ‘right’?

Is either way more true than the other way? Well, yes and no.

The way of seeing the world is definitely ‘true’ for the guy experiencing it but is it globally true? Is it absolutely true?

Is the world a cruel and painful place of is it a beautiful and wonderful playground? It’s neither.

There’s plenty of stuff you’re going to love and plenty of stuff you’re going to hate going on all around you, the question you have to ask is what are you focussing on?

But you don’t just choose a focus.

It’s not like you woke up one day and went “Hmm… I’m going to focus on painful things today. That sounds great, thanks.”

There’s a layers beneath that is the primary determining factor in your focus.

Your purpose.

The thing in your life that you choose to focus on are a product of what you’re trying to achieve – your purpose.

Your purpose is the thing that you’re trying to achieve in any given moment. It can change from moment to moment but there’s always something that you’re trying to achieve.

If your purpose is to prove how scary and dangerous the world is..

..or to find a scape goat for all the fear you experience in your day, then you’re much more likely to spend time watching the news for stories about the dangers and problems that exist in the world.

If your purpose is bring as much pleasure into your life as possible and to celebrate all the blessings that we’re afforded every day..

..then then you’re much more likely to spend as much time as possible doing the activities that you enjoy, and if you happen to like surfing..

..then you’re going to spend your time focussing on how much you enjoy the waves.

In psychology, this is called ‘confirmation bias’.

When we receive information into our world, we extract the parts of that information that confirm the way we see the world and we discard the parts that don’t.

Does it mean that the pain and suffering that is experienced in other parts of the world is diminished? No.

But it just means that you’re choosing not to direct your attention to it because it doesn’t help you get what you want.

Our brains are fantastic at working out what’s necessary for us to pay attention to and what’s completely unnecessary.

If we weren’t we wouldn’t have made it to where we are today.

There’s no point in getting caught up in paying attention to the beautiful flowers when a sabertooth is about to eat you. It’s just not productive.

But what’s different about these two guys that means one guy spends his time focussing on the pain and suffering that goes on around..

..and the other guy focuses on how much he can enjoy himself?

You don’t just wake up one day and think:

‘Hmmm… Today I’m going to prove how painful the world is…’.

You guessed it – there’s a deeper layer. That layer is how you think you get what you want out of life.

The Pathway

The purpose that you choose in any given moment is determined by how you think you get what you want out of life.

This is your overriding goal, your mission. It’s the bigger picture.

If you think that in order for you to get what you want out of life, the external world has to be the way you want it to be and match your idea of perfection, then you’re going to be focussed externally.

If you’re not getting what you think want, then you’re going to focus how shit the world is.

You’re going to look at all the different ways that the world is preventing you from experiencing what you want.

If you ARE getting what you want, then you’re still going to focus on the shit parts of the world but you’re also going to focus on the good parts of the world.

If you think that in order for you to get what you want out of life, you need to go and do the things that fill you with joy..

..then you’re not going to be focussed externally on what the external conditions are like. Rather, you’re going to be focussed internally on what you can do.

If you’re not getting what you want out of life then you’re going to focus on what you can do to experience it. If you are getting what you want out of life then you’re simply going to focus on doing more of it.

This is the core element to the whole puzzle.

How you think you get what you want out of life determines what you’re trying to achieve, which determines where you focus, which determines how you feel.

And one thing to consider here: how much of an impact how you feel has on your actions?

Yes, there are learned habits that play a role in this but for the most part, it’s the deeper, underlying layers that are controlling this chain.

So, if you want to change your inner game, you can go about it any way you want. But I highly recommend start at the top and work your way out:

- How do you feel when you’re interacting with women?

- What are you focussing on that’s causing that feeling?

- What are you trying to achieve that’s directing that focus?

- And what does your purpose tell about the way you think you get what you want out of life?

LoGun

..and it showed me something about attracting women that I was aware of, but never considered when it came to being in shape.

I don’t if you’ve seen any of the videos I’ve made (I don’t know why you’d sit through any of those lies ;)

…but I work out. And I love doing it.

I love seeing just how hard I can push myself, how much progress I can make…

When I’m lying under a bar, or it’s racked on my shoulders, and I’m trying to lift more than you ever have, there’s nothing else.

No thoughts about work, no thoughts about what shopping I forgot to do on the way home,it’s just me and the bar.

Oh, and yes, it’s very attractive to women :-) There’s no denying that.

There’s no denying that well sculptured biceps, or shapely shoulders make you more attractive to most women, but is it really necessary?

“I’m not attracted to you because you’re strong, I’m attracted to you because you choose to be strong. It’s because you choose how you want things to be rather than letting things be chosen for you…

..It wouldn’t matter if you weren’t strong because you would still be choosing how you want things to be rather than allowing things to be chosen for you.”

And this comes back to core message that we’ve been teaching here at the Attraction Institute: attracting beautiful women isn’t about what you do, it’s why you do it.

It’s the underlying mindset that’s important.

Sure, having a great body will help you attract women, but it’s not just the body that really gets them, it’s what that body says about you.

It says you’re willing to stand up and go after what you want.

It says you don’t let the world push you around. It says that you have the strength to be able to change your world into the world you want.

It’s says you’re a Man.

But you don’t need a great body to say this to women. It comes out in everything you do.

You can communicate the exact same message to women through how you act, how you walk, what you say, what you do, without ever lifting a weight.

It all comes down to how willing you are to step up to the plate and take control of your world. It all comes back to your inner game.

You can basically do anything that you want around women and still get amazing results.

All the rules are bullshit.

As long as you are choosing how you want your world to be in every moment.

The question is, how willing are you to step up and create your world in the way you want?

LoGun

Confidence techniques, all these tricks to pick up women…

Whilst they all seem like they’re the answer you’re looking for, what I’m about to show you is that they’re not only not going to get you the results you want..

..but they’re actually making you worse with women.

Why? Well, have a a look a this set of rules I pulled from a PUA forum.

- “You can’t show too much interest so your opening line should be indirect…”

- “Women love celebrity gossip so you need to read up on that to have things to talk about…”

- “Don’t ever lean in when you talk. It telegraphs too much interest.”

- “You need to develop a solid routine stack so that if she’s not interested in what you have to say, you can transition to another routine.”

What do they all have in common?

Can’t tell? Have a look closer.

Your opener should (apparently) be indirect because if you show too much interest when she’s not attracted to you at all, she’s not going to listen to what you have to say.

But why are you showing interest before you’ve even spoken her?

How do you know she’s the kind of woman you like? If you had deep and real standards in your life rather than just being attracted to the superficial aspects of a person, would you need to learn this?

And even if you did have standards and you got the vibe from her that she was the kind of woman you want to pick up, if you were the kind of guy that she wanted to meet, would it matter if you showed interest?

Would she tell Brad Pitt to get lost if he told her he thought she was cute?

You (apparently) should learn things to talk about because if you don’t have something to say that’s interesting to her, she’s going to walk away.

But why are you trying to pick up a woman who you have nothing in common with?

Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn’t have anything interesting to add to a conversation?

If you spent your time looking for women who you clicked with rather than desperately trying to convince anyone who’ll take you to hang out with you, would you need to learn things to talk about?

And I could keep going here…

The one thing that all these tricks to pick up women have in common is that they’re designed to cover over your inner game issues.

If you didn’t have these inner game issues, you wouldn’t need to learn how to pick up women in the first place.

When you get your inner game sorted, you’ll be able to break and even contradict EVERY SINGLE ONE of these rules.

You wont have to learn anything to talk about because you wont be trying to bring women into your life that you don’t have anything in common with.

You won’t have to hide your intent because the women you desire will find you attractive, and if they don’t you can go and find ones that do.

You wont have to lean back to hide your interest in her because she’ll be interested in your too, and if she’s not, you can go and find women that are.

Have you seen the Matrix? Do you remember this line?

Neo: “Are you saying I’ll be able to dodge bullets?”
Morpheus: “No, I’m saying that when you’re ready, you wont have to.”

Pick up techniques are designed to teach you how to dodge bullets. Inner game shows you how to never have to dodge them again.

When you’re just learning how to pick up women, you have to learn how to deal with the tests that they throw at you.

When you deal with your inner game, you pass their test without even registering that they happened.

When you’re learning tricks for picking up women, you have to learn how to do ‘qualification’, when you deal with your inner game, qualification is the way you live your life so you don’t even have to think about it.

Now, most guys that teach tricks for picking up women say that by learning these tricks, you’ll take care of your inner game issues. Really?

Learning outer game only takes care of the surface level of the issue, not the deep core of the issue. The deep issue is still there.

Running out of things to say is an inner game issue.

The only reason you run out of things to say is because you’re stuck inside your head trying to come up with something cool, funny, interesting to say so you can impress her…

..instead of just saying what you’re thinking and how you feel.

Outer game deals with this by giving you things to say that people might think are cool and interesting but the core of the issue not only remains, but is reinforced.

You not only still have the issue that you think the things you have to say aren’t interesting or cool or fun..

..but you’ve reinforced the thought pattern that you’re not good enough as you are to be attractive to women and have to hide yourself behind these pick up tricks.

Inner game deals with this by helping you shift your mindset from:

“How can I get that hot chick to like me so then I’ll feel good about myself?”

To:

“How can I feel good about myself so it doesn’t matter whether hot chicks will like me?”.

One thing worth considering, which pathway do you think is going to be more attractive to women in the long run?

Am I saying that you wont get more women through learning pickup techniques? Of course not. You definitely can.

But have think about this for a second – what kind of women do you think you’ll end up with? What kind of standards will they live their life buy?

The kind of women who you’ll pickup are the kind of women settle for a guy who’s validation seeking, needy, scared of the world, and thinks that he’s not good enough without other people around him.

What kind of woman do you think that will be? Confident? Powerful? Independent? I doubt it…

How about needy? Insecure? Clingy?

That’s probably more likely…

What kind of issues do you think you’re going to face in the long run with her? Is she the kind of woman you pictured yourself with in the future?

Am I saying that all pickup tricks are a waste of time? Definitely not.

There’s some really cool, fun, interesting stuff to play with.

What I’m saying is that if you’re just learning it to cover over your inner game issues then you’re gong to spend the rest of your life learning how to dodge bullets when you could just be ignoring them all together.

What path are you going to choose?

LoGun

- Have you ever taken a girl on a date, walked her home, got a kiss on the cheek and never saw her again?

- Are you free and unrestrained around girls who you’re not that into, but crumble as soon as you see a hottie?

- Do you want to have relationships with multiple women – without lying to them?

If you’ve answered “YES” to any of the above questions, then you can get the answers in this podcast:

Or you can download the file to your computer.

Enjoy!

Steven

First, I met an Australian actress in a bookshop. She was the definition of cuteness, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.

Then came along a curvy and feminine lawyer who at first refused to sleep with me.

She insisted that she will only sleep with 10 guys in her life.

(I ended up being her 9th, and as far as I know, she is still with her 10th. Go, girl ;)

Then there was a sprinkling or random party girls here and there. Finally, came “the one” – the girl I fell for.

She was a girl-next-door type, who most guys would look past in the street and not look twice.

But the more you looked at her and the more you god to know her, the more her natural beauty would reveal itself to you.

She was classic delicate femininity and strong chick persona all rolled up into one. Which was one of the things I loved about her.

So, about 2 years after being a hopeless “nice guy”, I went through a phase of gaming and fucking and settled on that one girl. I wanted to keep her. I thought about marrying her.

Then, in January 2008, on new years day, I lost her.

I’m going to skip the boring details, as the relationship was complicated…

But the sum total of it was – she left because I had no idea how to *BE* with her.

I had alternate personalities. Half the time I was the same old “nice guy” of my past. The guy who women saw as a brother. A friend.

And the other half the time, I was the new, game playing, cocky, distant guy. Which was my newly adopted pickup persona for creating “attraction”.

So, in the relationship with this girl, I was a mixture of both. Kinda mixing and matching and hoping for the best.

Looking back at it now, I can see how our relationship must have been a total headfuck for her.

Around her, I felt like I was walking on a combination of thin ice and eggshells whilst probing around in complete darkness. I can’t imagine what a girl must feel when her man is like that.

And so – POOF! – a beautiful, smart girl I came to call my best friend and my lover was gone.

Nothing left.

In December 2007 I was full of hopes and dreams about a future with this girl. In January 2008 I was by myself again.

What do you think I did after she left on that fateful New Years Day in 2008?

I laughed.

That’s right. It may be hard for you to believe, but I remember it like yesterday. Seriously, we parted and when she was no longer in sight .. I laughed.

Here’s the reason I laughed: I knew WHERE I FUCKED UP. And by leaving, she also taught me the greatest possible lesson a woman could:

She taught me that anything less than 100% me isn’t good enough.

I’m not going to kid you – there was some real EMOTIONAL trauma in losing her. There were a few tough months of loneliness.

I missed the warmth of her company which I had become accustomed to.

But I never once worried about what I would do, how I should go forward, or whether a great woman would be again in my life.

I viewed her loss simply as a temporary silence before the next adventure…

I mean, I had the skills and the attitude to pick up another woman within days, and be fucking and dating in no time.

Sure, I was rusty “in field” after nearly a year in a relationship, but I could shrug off those cobwebs quickly.

But I had a feeling that learning to pick up women better was not my path.

What’s the point of picking up more women, if that’s not ME picking them up … and the REAL me can’t even keep them? What’s the point of picking up women if I’m only using their company as a barometer of my worth?

I didn’t even care about that girl back then, really. Mostly, I cared about how her presence in my life reflected on me. How she improved my “social value”.

So I knew that the future before me was not one of learning to pick up women better.

Instead, I wanted to become a better as a Man, so that picking up women was an automatic by-product of how I lived my life.

Not so much so that I could go to clubs and “Game” women, but so that I could see that ONE girl I liked, go meet her, and have something special with her.

And not worry about what I should say or how I should act…

So I got stuck more into inner game. And it didn’t take long..

You probably know all about LoGun’s inner game coaching. By that stage AI was well and truly up and running and he was experimenting with some high-octane head twisting inner game stuff…

And I (sometimes voluntarily, sometimes not) became his guinea pig for it.

You probably have an inkling that the guys he coaches do pretty well… I mean, I tend to have a tendency to listen to him with one hear, but even so the changes in my life have been dramatic.

I could go on and on about how my life is changing, but that is a whole another story.

For now, have a look to the right of this post to see how the lives of many other guys have changed.

And keep an eye out for more video case studies, which I’ll show you later this week.

Steven

Which LoGun probably didn’t want me to show just yet.

But this is, like 0.002 percent of the complete MasterClass MkII experience, so we can give away a little :)

But watch them before LoGun returns from the beach and pulls them down. Haha: