Trick 1: Talk To Everyone.

The thoughts in you head tell you that you can’t talk to people. They tell you it’s weird. Tell them to fuck off. In fact, better than that, prove to them that they’re wrong. Don’t just go out and try to magically turn these thoughts off, start your day with it.

Talk to the bus driver, talk to the barista, talk to the old couple sitting on their front porch, talk to everyone, all the time.

2. Have fun.

When your head’s full of thoughts about how you can have more fun, there’s no room to entertain thoughts about what other people are thinking.

I’m sure you’ve all had those nights where we were just on fire. Were you thinking about what others were thinking then or were you just focusing on having fun?

3. Picture her naked.

Just like above, push those disempowering thoughts out the door by focusing on what you’re really talking to her for – getting her naked.

Focus on her curves, her lines, her naked body, the sound she makes when she moans in ecstasy, the feel of her naked skin against yours.

I need a bathroom break.

All these things are great but by far and away the technique that affects the biggest amount of change in my clients in the shortest amount of time is this:

The secret weapon!

So these thoughts that are running through your head when you have approach anxiety, what are they? They’re an argument. You’re arguing with yourself about what you should or shouldn’t do.

What’s the best way to deal with an argument? Don’t have one in the first place. Accept the other person point of view.

Made the link?

This is how you destroy your approach anxiety – simply accept what’s going through your head.

Try this, right now. Imagine yourself standing 10m from the woman of your dreams. Imagine her lines, her curves, those lips and those eyes.

Imagine the thoughts racing through your head – people might be watching, she might reject me – and then simply say to yourself:

“I accept that.”

Where do those thoughts go? Do they continue or do they just melt away?

Silence…

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Myth 2: People will think I’m weird.

You know what? Yes, they probably will. Walking up to someone you’ve never met before in the middle of the day is something that people could probably label weird. Why? Because it falls outside the social norm.

But, consider this: do you actually want to stay inside the social norm?

If you spend your life living inside the social norm, what kind of life do you think you’ll end up with?

Marrying someone you’re kind of satisfied with, maybe met through a friend, maybe through school, spending you life working your way up through middle management in a job that really doesn’t inspire you to get out of bed in the morning.

Then coming home to your two kids, dog, complaining about your day, de-stressing in front of your TV till dinner’s ready…

What sounds better to you – living this empty and unfulfilled life that society tells you, you’re allowed to live or being labeled weird by a handful of people who you’ll never see again?

Your choice.

Once again, this barrier to meeting the woman of your dreams only exists in your head. It’s a construct of your inner game.

Myth 3: I don’t know what to say.

This one is really common – I see her, I want to talk to her but I don’t know what to say. You really don’t know? I think you do.

Lets start here: what do you want to say?

Still not sure? OK. Why did you go over there? If you’re anything like me, it’s because there’s something about her that caught your eye and you wanted to find out what she’s like as a person. Sound familiar? Good. Now what’s stopping you from saying that when you go over to her? Rules, restrictions? Inner game.

You can say whatever you want. There’s nothing stopping you from saying the exact thing that’s running through your head. Nothing. And, if you’re anything like me, I bet there’s a lot of stuff running through there!

So what do you say after that? Well, what do you want to know? You can talk about anything you want and ask anything you want, but you just have to do it.

And once again, again, this barrier to meeting the woman of your dreams only exists in your head. It’s a construct of your inner game.

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