When you realize that your life is about to end, and you look back, what is really going to matter to you?

Will you care about being rejected by a gorgeous woman in front of her friends?

Will you be concerned about what people thought of you?

Are these reasons important enough to not do what you want?

How would you feel about not living your life because of fear when you’re on your deathbed?

Deep down, you really know what direction you want to head in. You have an inner compass that will always guide you truthfully, and you can activate it by contemplating your death.

Worried about approaching that woman over there? Great, that’s perfectly normal. But will that fear be relevant when you look back on your life?

Or will you care more about the fact that you did approach that girl even though you were afraid?

Think about any question you may post up on a forum, anything you may ask advice from the other men for, and before you post, ask your compass by asking yourself:

“Would I really be that concerned if I was dying right now?”

You may be very surprised at the clarity of the answer that unfolds for you.

If in doubt, pretend to die, and see how important those doubts are.

Jonathon

Mainly because rejection is something that I don’t believe in.

But a lot of guys are asking me about it, so I thought I’d share my thoughts on this big ‘rejection’ thing.

Firstly, I dislike the word “rejection” because I don’t believe a woman ever “rejects” you.

She just lets you know that in that moment, she doesn’t feel like you’re the kind of guy she wants to be with.

Nothing is ever final and it’s never final. It’s just her decision at that point in time.

But that’s beside the point for the moment…

There seems to be quite a few guys caught up on the idea of “rejection” being a bad thing, but I couldn’t disagree more.

How can her being up front and direct with you be a bad thing?

If she lets you know that she’s not interested right now then you’re free to move on and find someone who is interested.

Are you telling me you’d rather her lie to you and string you along only to get you to the end of the night and say “Ummm… No thanks. You’re kind of weird” … ?

If she was just to play politely with you, string you along, you could end up spending the rest of the night talking to her when you had no chance, right from the beginning.

Now that’s my idea of a wasted night!

By letting you know, right up front, that she’s not interested, she’s allowed you to move on with your night rather than wasting time pushing shit up hill.

So the next time a woman says ‘no thanks…’ thank her in return for being up front and allowing you the opportunity to make your night as productive as possible.

After all, she’s the one doing you a favour.

LoGun