Neil Strauss LIED to you
I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this but Neil Strauss has lied to you. His ideas and techniques for transforming your relationships with women might seem great on the surface there’s an inherent flaw that is going to prevent you from ever getting the results with women that you deserve. The way [...]
Continue Reading →Mystery Method EXPOSED
Mystery Method is a scam. I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it is. Now, don’t get me wrong, it can work for some people but if you’re not the 10% of people who are perfectly suited for it, then it’s going to fail. Let me tell you why. Mystery Method [...]
Continue Reading →So You Got A Girlfriend .. Can You Keep Her?
I’ve been there more than once in my life…
I find the girl of my dreams.
She’s everything I’ve ever looked for.
We get into a relationship and everything going sweet.
Then it happens. You can feel it in the wind. Things just start to go down. And down. And…
Continue Reading →Number 1 Secret For Attracting Women.
I’m about to let the cat out of the bag.
This is the one secret that’s going to transform your game forever.
It’s the one that’s going to elevate you from where you are, right now, to the level of God-like ability with women.
The dating gurus have been trying to prevent me from letting this out for years but now, they can’t stop me..
Continue Reading →Developing Abundance Mentality 101
She is everywhere, she gifts you always, and you shrink in fear, or retaliate from bitterness:
That’s how I’ve come to know most men within the seduction community.
Unfortunately, just about all of the men I’ve interacted with in this community weren’t drawn to learn these skills out of a want to better the world.
I know, because I am one such person.
We are birthed into the seduction community out of a need to..
Continue Reading →Attracting Women: Do Looks Matter?
This is a pretty common question, both inside and outside the seduction community.
We have eyes and so therefore, we’re visual creatures.
But before I answer this question, I want you to consider the most important factors in this equation:
Why you’re..
Continue Reading →Definitive Guide To Fixing Your Inner Game.
Alright, so you’ve come to fix this whole ‘women’ thing and you think you need to work on your inner game.
Sweet. But do you know what you’re actually working on?
The seduction community’s really good at telling people that their inner game needs work…
..but they don’t actually tell you what that is, so I’m going to break it down for you into a couple of very manageable pieces..
..and then show you how changing your inner game can ELIMINATE the need for learning ANY outer game..
Continue Reading →How To REALLY Get A Girlfriend.
This one’s an easy one. No brainer.
Just learn some “techniques” and “seduction theory” – and you’re going to get a girlfriend quickly and easily. Really?
Well, that’s the story the seduction community has been feeding you for years.
But I consider this: If you have to hide…
Continue Reading →The Definitive “Quick Fix” Guide To Picking Up Women.
I like boobs. A lot. They’re just great.
Who would’ve thought that 5 pounds of fat could be so alluring..
Who would’ve thought you would spend months, if not years, devoted to bringing that 5 pound lump with a nipple on it, back to your place?
You know that we deal primarily with long-term benefits of inner game on this blog…
…but I figured I should also give you a few short-term solutions which you can start using IMMEDIATELY…
Continue Reading →9 Tips To STOP Getting Nervous Around GIRLS.
1. Find the CORE ISSUE which is causing you to get nervous around girls.
Most guys completely miss that, and try to fix their nervousness by treating their surface symptoms.
For example, they will see a girl they like, think of approaching her…
Continue Reading →Tired Of Reading Crap Dating Advice?
“I’ve gone through e-books and DVD sets by Mystery, Tyler, David D, Zan, Badboy ,the Naturals, PUATraining…
I joined a seduction lair.
I even took a bootcamp.
I went out and approached women. I even worked on my…
Continue Reading →Are You Sexually Connecting With Women?
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community…
…but it may be our greatest undoing as well.
I’m talking about sex, of course.
The allure of it is all-pervasive…
Continue Reading →All PUAs Are Liars.
If you’re like me when you decided to ‘get better with women’, you’ve probably first read ‘The Game’.
And then jumped online to learn a tonne of dating advice.
Maybe you even purchased a DVD program which taught you “fundamentals” of attraction. Or two.
So why is it that those who are on the “PUA path” still aren’t seeing…
Continue Reading →Do Rich Men REALLY Attract Women?
There is a common belief that rich men attract women with ease.
More specifically, that women are attracted to men with MONEY.
The seduction community has gone to some way to upset that myth…
Mostly, by demonstrating that a guy who can banter…
Continue Reading →2010 Seduction Community Predictions.
It will be amusing to come back here in one years’ time and see how many of these seduction community predictions I got wrong.
So, let’s begin ;)
Seduction Community Prediction #1: People Will Stop Using The Term “Seduction…
Continue Reading →Are You FREE Around WOMEN?
I know many men who entered the seduction community to have more freedom around women:
Freedom to sleep with whomever they chose…
Freedom to have multiple (hot) sexual partners…
And just the ability to not feel so trapped by their inability to approach that “one” woman.
Going deeper still, I see many men seeking freedom from approach…
Continue Reading →Dating Gurus: Liars Or Visionaries?
These days, in the seduction community, just about everybody is a guru.
If you don’t believe me, jump on your nearest seduction forum and ask anybody how you should proceed “with this current issue I am facing”.
Every man and his donkey will jump on board…
…quoting the “latest dating theory findings” as if they were published in a reputable medical journal:
“you MUST do it this way, and NEVER…
Continue Reading →How Human Are Your Interactions?
I’ve been noticing something a little disturbing lately…
…and it’s not just within the seduction community.
It’s certainly exaggerated within the seduction community, but most definitely not limited to it.
What I’m referring to is the clinical nature in which men interact with the opposite sex.
You see that beautiful woman over there and you want to approach her.
But there’s this problem that needs to be solved before you can get what you want.
The problem of “HER”…
The problem of “HER”…
Continue Reading →Fear Of Commitment?
This is such a huge topic, and very relevant to many of the men within the seduction community, myself included.
Commitment.
Yep, that word.
I’ve seen that word turn the sturdiest of men…
Continue Reading →How To Get Away With Anything.
I’m about to give you a license to do whatever the fuck you want.
I’m serious.
Here, take it. I grant you the right, by the powers vested in me by whatever. Go nuts.
What do you mean, you don’t want it? Oh, I’m not authorised to…
Continue Reading →The Ugly Truth About SARGING.
I’m sure it seemed like the answer to your dreams:
A community full of guys who could teach you how to attract the women you wanted.
And not only that, but also how to get the happiness you wanted.
Those HB9′s and HB10′s who so elusively strut around the club. Finally, you’d…
Continue Reading →Why You Should Be Externally Validated.
I have a secret to tell you-
I like external validation. It feels really good.
And not just a little bit good, but a lot.
I know there’s a lot of community “gurus” telling you that you shouldn’t be externally validated, but I completely disagree – and let me show you why…
Continue Reading →How And Why I Became A Fan Of Inner Game.
Look, after I got into the seduction community I began to enjoy some pretty good success with women.
First, I met a cute Australian actress in a bookshop.
She was the definition of cuteness with, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.
Then came along a curvy…
Continue Reading →Can The Real Alpha Male Please Stand Up?
The seduction community has been telling you to ‘be more Alpha’ for a long time.
They told you that by following their rules, you’ll become Alpha.
But before you more of your time reading ‘must have’, top secret…
Continue Reading →Wanna Play God? How To Be God, Now.
Look around you at this thing you label “reality”.
The images, the smells, the sensations, the sounds, the tastes. All of it.
Look around at this reality and know this: you MAKE it exist – for without *YOU* acting as the conduit, or the interpreter, it would all just be atoms floating in space.
No form, no beauty. YOU are the key to…
Continue Reading →How To Attract Women By Watching TV.
Am I taking the piss? Have I finally lost the plot?
How can a man attract women by watching Californication, Boston Legal and House?
To attract women, a man needs to go out in the field, and ‘sarge’, right? Well, maybe…
Continue Reading →A Tip To Make You Less Nervous.
This one struck me the other night when I ran into a fellow student of the seduction community at the Argyle.
Oh my God – were the women there glorious –
… so many beautiful legs, and ample bosom (and that was just LoGun with his shirt off) – it got even better after that.
This chap was being shown the finer art of “kino” by a ‘dating guru’…
Continue Reading →Do You Respect The Women You ‘Game’?
Is it possible to respect the women that you ‘game’, knowing that you’ve simply “tricked” them into sleeping with you?
Knowing that she’s fallen for a shell identity you presented to her – which you know is not the real you?
Are you really capable of respecting a woman who is so easily ‘won over’…
Continue Reading →How Much Sex Is Enough Sex?
When I first entered the seduction community I was filled with hope, aspiration, and overflowing with illusions of grandeur.
I could almost taste it: entering a night-club that had refused me entry but a week ago as the guest of honour.
Many a woman would stop in her tracks when she saw ME in all my glory, King…
Continue Reading →Seduction Community Pitfalls.
Let’s be honest, the reason we all got into this whole “game” thing was to get better with women.
And why do we want to get better with women? Because if we’re “better with women” then we’ll have better results with women.
If we have better results with women, then we’ll be happy with those results.
If we’re happy with those results, then…
Continue Reading →Just Be Yourself – Why Being Yourself Can Suck.
“Just be yourself”!
This advice from your mother had the seduction community gurus rolling in its grave.
“Your mum doesn’t know…
Continue Reading →Fast-Track Your Progress To Success With Women.
Many of those ‘gurus’ out there are going to get angry with me for telling you this.
It’s the dirty little secret that they don’t want you to know…
Continue Reading →Anatomy Of An Alpha Male.
I’m curious ..
What drove you to the seduction community?
- Did you want to have a cute ‘girl next door’ girlfriend?
Continue Reading →Why Direct Game Isn’t Working For You.
Direct game has become the new buzz word in the seduction community.
Everyone is saying ‘foret lines, forget routines. Just be direct!’ And you know what? I couldn’t agree more. What they’re not telling you, though, is…
How NOT To Build Your Inner Game Foundations.
I have a secret to tell you. I don’t know how you’re going to take this but it needs to be said: You are not attractive. But, on top of this, you’re also not interesting, fun, or exciting. I know this must sound like I’m just being an arsehole but I’m not. I’m actually pointing [...]
Continue Reading →Why Inner Game?
Inner game has every answer you’ve been searching for. Big statement, I know. There’s so many gurus out there telling you need their outer game techniques. And their methods, their routines, their ‘secrets of seduction’. Well, I’m about to show you just how wrong they are. I’m not going to waste your time with in [...]
Continue Reading →What To Look For In A Bootcamp/Workshop.
Ok, let’s get one thing straight first.
I’m a biased creature. I’m the co-founder of this company and it sells inner game training. And I want you to buy this company’s products.
So, how can I possibly give advice on choosing a good bootcamp without…
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