We have eyes and so therefore, we’re visual creatures.

But before I answer this question, I want you to consider the most important factors in this equation:

Why you’re actually asking it in the first place.

In my experience, guys who are asking this question are the ones who aren’t getting the success with women that they want..

..and they’re rationalising that they’re simply not good looking enough to get the girls.

Are you falling into the same trap, by any chance?

Are you putting your lack of success down to your perception that you’re not good looking enough?

I want you to consider this: regardless of your looks, are you the kind of guy who captivates women? Do they feel drawn to you?

Do they get lost in your stories? Do they feel excited by your passion and drive? Do they thrive under your Masculine presence?

Do you create a space for them that is so compelling that they have to fight off other women, just to hold your attention?

And if all that was true, do you think your physical appearance would really play that much of a role?

Sort out the important stuff first – your inner game – and the rest will fall into place.

LoGun

1. The Role Models:

Dating advice: “Here’s Mystery / Style / other guru, expert. This is how an attractive man behaves. Now go imitate him.”

Religion: “Here’s Jesus / Mohammad / other deity / saint. This is how a good man behaves. Now go imitate him.

2. The Promises:

Dating advice: “If you learn and live by the teachings of this dating guru long enough, you’ll reach the place of sexual abundance, be happy, you’ll fuck virgins, have multiple long term relationships.

Religion: “If you learn and live by the teachings of this deity long enough, you’ll go to heaven, be happy / have eternal life / fuck virgins / have multiple long term relationships”.

3. The Reality:

Dating advice: If you learn and live by the teachings of this dating guru long enough, you’ll still be the same guy, albeit with a head full of confusing theory. You’ll be tempted to become an “online guru”, confidently dispensing dating advice to “chumps”, “chodes” and “AFCs”, and secretly hoping that your own success with women is just around the corner.

Religion: If you learn and live by the teachings of this deity long enough, you’ll still be the same guy, albeit with a head full of confusing scripture. You’ll be tempted to preach your new-found knowledge to “worldly” people and “sinners” during coffee breaks and at bus stops, secretly hoping a better life is just around the corner.

4. The Stumbling Blocks:

Dating advice: If you are somewhere between MPUA and AFC, you’ll end up in a seduction lair.

Religion: If you’re neither saint or sinner, you’ll end up in a purgatory.

5. The Contradictions:

Dating advice: There are plenty of seduction methods to choose from. Every dating guru you meet will tell you that his seduction method is the quickest path into women’s panties. He will happily show you “inconsistencies” in other seduction methods. He will remain oblivious to inconsistencies in his own.

Religion: There are plenty of religions to choose from. Every minister / preacher you meet will tell you that his religion is the most accurate interpretation of God’s message and that everybody else got it wrong. He will happily show you evidence of inconsistencies in other religions. He will remain oblivious to inconsistencies in his own.

6. The Women:

Dating advice: Repress your true feelings for women. If you express what you desire, and act unashamedly upon those desires, you’re going to get blown out. It is wrong.

Religion: Repress your true feelings for them. If you expressing what you desire, and act upon your desire, you’re going straight to hell. It’s wrong.

7. You Are:

Dating advice: You’re broken. You need fixing and guidance. Without dating advice you’ll be a frustrated “hey, let’s just be friends” chump forever.

Religion: You’re imperfect. You need salvation and guidance. Without dating advice you’ll be a rudderless sinner and possibly be destroyed at Armageddon / burn in a fiery pit.

Which makes sense.

If you’re in a busy bar, and you’re trying to LOOK LIKE you’re having fun, and yet you’re only there to pick up a woman…

It will show.

So how do you stop being outcome dependent? Let’s look into it a little deeper.

OK, so to stop being outcome dependent you have to first work out why you’re actually dependent on the outcome in the first place.

You see a woman you like and approach her. You want pick up that woman.

You want her in your life.

Why?

Because you’re predicting some kind of positive outcome.

To find out what that positive outcome is, complete this sentence for me: “When I pick up this woman, I’ll…”

And just to make this easier for you, I’ll throw in a few options. I’m not saying that there are the only ones but I think they’re a good place to start:

1. Be able to have sex with her whenever I want
2. Be the envy of my mates
3. Be able to relax and not put any effort in any more
4. Have a life that’s basically OK.

The option you choose really doesn’t matter that much.

But the fact you’re looking TO HER for a solution DOES.

You’re predicting that when you pick up this woman, things will be better.

And that’s why you’re attached to the outcome – because you’re imagining your future with her will be better than your present situation.

Which is OK. We all fall into that trap from time to time.

I’ve done it more times than I can count.

When you think about it, the whole world is built like this. We tend to set ourselves a goal, and tell ourselves that when we reach that goal, things will be OK.

We wake up in the morning, and we tell ourselves a story:

“When I learn how to pick up women, and when I pick up THAT PERFECT WOMAN, I’ll be happy.”

And that’s the story we live by. Problem is, we’ve got this story back to front.

The secret to beating outcome dependency (and picking up women effortlessly, to the point where they are beating down your door, is this:

Construct your life so that it’s full of happiness and beauty now. And then let that kind of life attract opportunities, women, friends, well-being into that life.

Simple, innit?

Or would you rather spend a year learning “seduction theory” which promises that when you learn how to pick up women, you’ll feel better about your life?

LoGun

I have no idea how many different seduction methods there are out there.

If I was to take a conservative guess, I’d say maybe 100 or 200 … who knows?

It’s safe to say that there are many seduction methods … and I’m sure that every one works, at least for the guy who made it.

Otherwise he wouldn’t be selling it.

But with all these seduction methods out there that are at least working for some guys, which one should you choose?

To make your choice easier, I’m going to help you understand a few things -

And hopefully you’ll be able to make a choice which is going to help you get the success with women you’ve been looking for.

So, first things first.

If you want to know how to get somewhere, you first need to know where you’re going.

So, where are you going?

What kind of women do you want to attract? Here’s list of elements that might help you narrow down your criteria:

Looks:

o Height
o Hair colour
o Eye colour
o Skin colour
o Curvy or petite

Hobbies:

o Movies
o Sports
o Dancing
o Long walks on the beach
o Music
o Art

Personality:

o Passionate or apathetic?
o Shallow or deep?
o Introverted or extroverted?
o Outgoing or reserved?
o Aggressive or passive?
o Confident or insecure?
o Needy or independent?

Sure, she may fall somewhere in between, but these are just two ends of a spectrum that you can decide which side she’d fall on.

Great, but that’s not really the whole end point.

There’s a little bit more to it.

In order to attract this kind of woman, you need to work out one more thing: What kind of Man do you think she’s looking for?

For now, let’s exclude looks, because you can’t really influence that too much. Which leaves us with just a few things to consider.

Particularly, is she looking for a man with a personality that is:

o Passionate or apathetic?
o Shallow or deep?
o Introverted or extroverted?
o Outgoing or reserved?
o Aggressive or passive?
o Confident or insecure?
o Needy or independent?

And lastly, there’s one more thing I want you to consider:

Is he the kind of guy who changes who he is, what he does, and what he stands for -

- just so that women are more attracted to him?

Or is he the kind of who lives his life, on his purpose, following his beliefs and standing up for what he knows to be right?

This is the crucial point that I want you to have a think about – because it’s the key to determining what pathway you choose.

In case you haven’t noticed, the fundamental basis of the seduction method is:

“Change who you are and what you do so that she’ll be attracted to you”.

It’s what every seduction method, technique, tip, trick and mindset out there are based on.

Is this path going to give you long-term success with women, satisfaction and happiness? Hmmm…

Now, I’m not trying to tell you that moving down the path of learning seduction methods is a waste of time…

But before you embark, it’s important to consider where you want to go, what you need to do to get there, and the underlying motivation of your journey.

LoGun

And Pleading You To Take Them Home And NAIL Them.

From: The Desk Of Your Friendly Local Dating Coach.

Dear Friend,

Introducing: The INSTANT BETA MALE 2.0 – THE PUA.

As you would know from the Beta Male 1.0 dating program, you can become a successful Beta Male in two easy steps:

Step 1: worry about what people think
Step 2: do what you think will please other people

So, for example, if you approach an attractive woman, you first work out if she wants you (Step 1).

If she is not attracted to you, you then “demonstrate qualities” of a man who you think she would be attracted to (Step 2). For example, you may say things which demonstrate social value.

Or you may give her a “sincere” compliment. But not too much (so she won’t think you’re too needy).

And so on.

Easy!

Instant Beta Male Is Born!

Never mind that this ASTONISHING program never shows you how to focus on what YOU really want.

And it never shows you how to follow through with your core desires so that you can experience long term happiness and fulfillment which magnetically draw women in.

Instead, here at Beta Male Training, we have developed a highly effective step-by-step system which will allow you to live your life by a complex set of rules…

…so you can eliminate all possibility of ever being yourself ever again!

DISCLAIMER: Will only work after a few more hundred approaches.

Now, let’s go back in time for a moment.

In the Beta Male 1 series dating coaches who came before us gave you a very powerful set of rules. These included the classics:

- Be nice to her
- Buy her flowers
- Listen politely whilst she tells you all her problems
- Take her to expensive restaurants

Fast forward to present day, and with the new “Instant Beta Male 2.0 – The PUA” program, we completely flipped the script.

All those years spent listening to your mum and your mates in the playground are totally out the window. It’s time to take it to a whole other reality!

We’ve taken the techniques “the born naturals” have been using to get massive success with women, copied exactly what they do, and now we’ll get you to copy them – even if it doesn’t feel right and doesn’t make you happy.

(DISCLAIMER: In order to develop this system, we’ve simply had to ignore the fact that the way you act is a product of deeply ingrained perceptions you have about the world…

We’ve ignored the fact that there are women out there who like different things…

We’ve ignored the fact that you have your own intrinsic desires that you’re only able to fulfill and experience the long term happiness that come with that when you actually pursue them).

But we’ve decided to just get you to pretend like you’re the kind of guy who women like to be around and hope that magically, somehow, by pretending enough, you’ll change.

Magic!

This limited edition program comes with many different styles, but they all contain one key ingredient: change who you are so that she likes you more.

This brand new system is based on very simple logic:

If women haven’t been attracted to the guy you’ve been pretending to be in Beta Male 1.0 series –

(that guy who follows societies rules, doesn’t step outside the mould, and who is hiding behind the rules his mum told him-

– just pretend to be a different person, follow a different set of rules (mine), step into a different mould and hide your true self behind a set of techniques and tricks!

Ignore the fact that you’ve never really been yourself long enough for women to get to know you, let alone feel attracted to you.

Ignore the fact that women desire Men who are strong enough to stand on their own two feet and do what they know to be right, and not succumb to someone else’s ideals…

…And just follow a different set of rules about how you should act around her.

How do you do this?

Easy.

- Talk to her about the things that we at Beta Male Training TELL YOU to talk to women about.

- Only go after women who would rate as attractive on someone else’s scale of looks rather than the women who draw you in with their magnetic personalities. (If she’s not hot according to Maxim, then she’s not worth it).

- Only go after women that have jobs that you can use to impress your mates with – like strippers or actresses. Because as long as your mates are impressed, you’re going to be happy with her.

- Go for quantity of interactions rather than quality. Your friends will find it far more impressive when you get lots of phone numbers (despite that most of them turn out to be flakes) rather than hearing about that one special girl you met and spent the whole night getting to know on a real level.

- Have more fun than anyone else. We provide you with a strict set of guidelines that allow you to do so.

- Make fun of anyone who doesn’t know the things that you do by calling them ‘chodes’, ‘chumps’ or ‘afc’s’. This will allow you to achieve that feeling superior and power that you’ve been desperately seeking and hide from the nagging feelings of inadequacy that you experience.

- Lie about or exaggerate the things you do so that she can like you for the shallow, superficial aspects of your life rather than who you are.

And there’s more!

If you follow these complex structures that we provide you with, you’ll be able to continue the trend of hiding who you are, long into your retirement years.

You’ll guarantee that the women you bring into your life don’t actually like you for who you are and sleep with you because of the things you’ve copied from our system…

…so that if you do accidentally stop pretending and slip into the kind of guy who fulfills his own desire, rather than the desires we’ve prescribed in our manual, they’ll leave you and find someone else.

With our easy step-by-step seduction system, you’re guaranteeing that you’re going to fill your life with shallow, insecure, needy women who only like you for the surface level actions you take, instead of the powerful Masculine Man you have locked inside you.

And it’s only going to cost you a few long years of your life!

(DISCLAIMER: As we haven’t really bothered to logically analyse what we’re doing and assess all the inconsistencies, we’re still trying to iron out a few kinks in the system. These include:

- You need to change who you are so that she likes you more and yet still remain detached from the outcome.

We’re not sure how it’s possible to spend so much of your time changing who you are, just so that she’ll want to spend more time with you and yet not care whether she spends more time with you.

- The way to get maximum success with women is to be totally present with them and totally in the moment, yet you need to follow this complex set of structures in order to get her.

We’re not sure how you can follow structures that are inside your head yet remain outside your head.

- That two of the most attractive traits in a Man are happiness and fulfillment and to get them, you need to follow your desires, and yet we’re telling you to not follow your desires.

- For every rule we can give you, there are guys out there who break it and guys out there who completely contradict it and get the results with women you’re looking for.

But you must follow our rules otherwise you wont get the success you want).

But, we’re sure that we can surround this product with enough hype, and marketing sounding jargon that you wont notice these inconsistencies anyway.

So it’s time to get started -

…put your life on hold, cut off all your chode friends, throw out your entire wardrobe, and get started on the least fulfilling journey you’ll ever undertake!

And whatever you do, don’t visit the guys at The Attraction Institute.

They’re going fill your head with junk that allows you to live a happy and fulfilling life, a life that magnetically draws women in, rather than having to desperately convince them to be part of your reality.

And we all know how shit that would be!

LoGun

PS. On a serious note, I’m not trying to discourage you from the PUA journey.

I’ve said a lot of things in here that point out all the inconsistencies and issues I’ve found through my journey in the community but, they’re just what I’ve found.

I can tell you these things, but until you’ve actually experienced them, they’re not going to mean anything to you.

If you feel as though you need to become a PUA and that’s gong to make you happy and fulfilled in your life, the definitely go ahead with it. In fact, commit to it fully. Don’t hold back. Make it your purpose in life.

But, if at any point in time you find that you’re not getting the happiness, fulfilment, and deep level of connection that you desire, then read through this again.

See how it feels once you’ve tried this path, and then consider having a look at this journey from another angle.

So, let’s begin ;)

Seduction Community Prediction #1: People Will Stop Using The Term “Seduction Community”.

At the moment, the climate on a lot of seduction community forums is that of:

“We’re here for self-development, now just learning how to pick up women”.

Thing is, for many guys this mindset is still just a veiled attempt at being “unattached to the outcome” when approaching women.

But as time goes on, I feel that genuine interest in self development will awaken in many more guy…

…and picking up women will increasingly be seen as a by-product of fulfilled life – rather than its end goal.

Prediction #2: PUAs & Mystery Method Will Continue To Exist.

Every day a few hundred men get frustrated at their lack of success with women – to the point where they decide to do something about it.

Inevitably, they sit down in front of their computer, swallow their pride, and type into Google something like, “how to pick up women” or “how to approach women” or “dating tips”…

0.031 seconds later they have the “answers” at their fingertips…

And they begin reading. Soaking up dating theory, tips, routines, openers and techniques like a sponge.

Whilst for most guys having this knowledge feels like progress (“so this is why women see me just as a friend!!”)…

…It takes some time to realise that intellectually knowing the answers – having the answers – leads merely to being a very good imitator of the real deal.

To actually BECOME the real deal requires dealing with one’s true organic experience. And that is a process of removing layers of knowledge, rather than piling more on.

So, Mystery Method will continue to act as a necessary step in the lives of many men…

… To give them first hand experience of what DOESN’T offer them all the success they’re looking for – thereby motivating them to go out and look deeper for stuff that does.

Prediction #3: Many More Dating Gurus Will Emerge…

The Internet has made it possible for anyone with $200 to make a decent-looking website, slap together some content, and declare themselves a “guru”.

Whilst not many of those gurus will ever actually help anyone, and even fewer will make their website into a profitable business, many will continue to spring up …

Prediction #4: And Many Existing Dating Gurus Will Vanish.

This increased competition will separate the wheat from the chaff.

And many dating gurus who are currently in the business of just repackaging the same old stuff in an attempt to make a quick buck will vanish from the sphere of visibility…

… while the power of social media will help spread the word about those who truly are producing foundation-changing stuff, bring them to the spotlight.

And they will do amazing things.

Prediction #5: I will not get accepted into the Sydney Lair.

Doesn’t mean I won’t stop trying :)

Prediction #6: We Will Fail…

Every one of us will – at least once – end up standing next to a beautiful woman and racking our head for something to say.

It may happen in a line waiting for coffee, or on a bus, or waiting for the little man to go green…

But it will happen. And as soon as she is gone we will be kicking ourselves for not saying anything at all.

Prediction #7: And We Will Succeed.

Every one of us will strike up a conversation with a woman without worrying about what “the right thing” to say to her is, or what she is thinking…

And it will be a conversation of purity, freedom of expression and joy.

Prediction #8: LoGun will become louder.

Doesn’t mean we won’t try to silence him ;)

Steven

…Which are preventing you from experiencing success with women. For example:

- approaching women
- flirting with women
- dealing with shit tests
- running out of things to say, and the rest…

Good news is – your situation isn’t as bad as you think.

In fact, it’s not anywhere near as bad as you think.

Success with women can be around the corner – if you want.

Because there isn’t a whole raft of issues preventing you from having amazing success with women.

There isn’t a series of intricate steps that you have to unlock before you can start attracting women into your life.

There’s only one.

Yes, one.

Now, I know this might seem a little strange.

Because I’m sure that you see a whole bunch of issues you want to change. And whilst they all exist, they’re all just a product of one little thing.

The reason you get really nervous when you approach a woman is … the same reason you don’t know what to say to her.

The reason you don’t have things to talk about is … the same reason you fail her tests.

The reason you struggle with leading is … the same reason you don’t know how to close.

They’re all the same.

Want to know what that is?

Well, lets see if you can guess it.

Imagine yourself walking down a busy street and all of a sudden you see ‘her’.

And not just any ‘her’. I’m talking about ‘HER’.

There’s just something magical about this girl. Its something about the way she walks … the lines of her legs, just everything. You know you MUST talk to her.

What are you going to say?

Do you have something in mind? Well, how about exactly what you’re feeling?

Yeah, I know, you can’t just say that … apparently.

Apparently it’s wrong to go with exactly how you feel. Yeah, she might reject you.

She might walk away and leave you standing there alone, with everyone looking at you. And you know what they’re going to think, don’t you…

You know they’re thinking how much of a loser you are because she rejected you.

You can read minds, after all…

And even if she doesn’t reject you after your opener, what is going to happen when you say something that she doesn’t like?

She’s surely going to walk away after that.

And then the exact same thing’s going to happen – people are going to look, they’re going to laugh, they’re going to think you’re a loser.

But what if she likes then things you say?

What if she likes the things you’re talking about and is impressed with what you do, but then you stuff up the close?

What if you stumble through your closing technique (because you haven’t practiced it enough)?

What if she sees that you’re really not as much of an alpha male as you first projected? Surely she’s going to walk away then.

Surely her “No thanks…” is going to be follow by those stares and scorn of everyone who saw you fail.

Where will you be then?

What will you be worth then?

How are you going to be happy then?

You just failed at this. You just missed your chance to be really successful in life.

You just failed at a chance to be really happy. You needed her because without the ability to get her, you’re not going to be truly happy.

There’s no way you’re going to be the envy of your mates now, and there’s no way people are going to look up to you. Because you failed.

There goes an opportunity to finally be really happy.

But chin up. Have an abundance mentality.

There’s plenty more women out there who you could use to finally be really happy.

I know it might seem irrelevant – because regardless of how many women are out there, if they’re all rejecting you it really doesn’t matter…

But one day, you’ll find one that will allow you to finally experience happiness, right?

Right?

But what if we flipped the script a bit here.

What if, instead of wondering if she’s going to like the opener you’re using … you were focused on finding out if she’s the kind of woman you want to bring into your life?

What if, instead of desperately hoping that she likes the kinds of things you were talking about … you were wondering if you like the kinds of things that she’s talking about?

What if, instead of wondering if she’s going to like the closing techniques you use…

…You were focusing on whether or not she’s the kind of person that you want to bring into your world?

And no, I’m not talking about some kind of ‘be the prize’ mentality.

Because at the end of the day, that’s just a cover to hide something much deeper.

I’m talking about creating a life that YOU love. I’m talking about filling your life with joy.

I’m talking about carving the kind of life that makes you want to get out of bed in the morning, and then working out if you want her in it or not.

Imagine this:

You wake up in the morning and the firs thing you do is jump out of bed with enthusiasm because you know there’s something just around the corner that fills you with passion.

And even though you’ve only had 5 hours sleep, you’re like a 5 year old at Christmas.

As you finish that little project off, you pack up your stuff really quickly because you’ve got somewhere else that you’re dying to get to.

As you jog down to your car, you see the woman of your dreams – so you decide to go say hi.

As you look at her, she can feel the excitement in your voice, as you talk, she can feel the passion in your life.

You don’t know what you say because you just talk about the things you’ve been doing and where you’re going. The thought of telling her something you think she wants to hear doesn’t even cross your mind.

She can sense how much of adventure you live and she wants to be part of it.

You’re not yet sure about whether or not she’s the kind of person you’re willing to devote your precious hours to.

But as you go to leave, she asks you for your number…

…Because she wants in.

You give it to her on the chance she might show you something that you missed.

Do you think that would be easier?

Do you think that would be more fun?

Do you think you’d be more successful, not only with women but in life in general?

Do you think you’d have to convince people to hang out with you or do you think they’d be magnetically drawn in?

Do you think you’d spend your nights at home, wondering if someone was going to call you so you had something to do?

Or do you think you’d be more likely to have to sift through the offers that people were making to you?

You only have one issue in meeting women.

There’s not 10,000 different things you have to change to finally get the success with women you’ve been so desperately chasing.

There’s only one.

You have to stop trying to make her responsible for your happiness. You have to take control of your life.

You have to take responsibility for where you are, right now, and where you’re going in the future.

If you do that, then meeting and attracting beautiful women isn’t going to be just another layer you use to try and cover over your burning sense of inadequacy.

It’s simply going to be a way of life.

It’s going to be something that happens when you’re buying your groceries.

It’s going to be something that happens when you’re at work.

It’s going to be something that happens when you washing your car.

It’s not going to be a skill set. Rather, it’s going to be you simply living your life in the way you want to. And getting everything you’ve ever desired.

LoGun

First, I met an Australian actress in a bookshop. She was the definition of cuteness, with curly black hair and piercing green eyes.

Then came along a curvy and feminine lawyer who at first refused to sleep with me.

She insisted that she will only sleep with 10 guys in her life.

(I ended up being her 9th, and as far as I know, she is still with her 10th. Go, girl ;)

Then there was a sprinkling or random party girls here and there. Finally, came “the one” – the girl I fell for.

She was a girl-next-door type, who most guys would look past in the street and not look twice.

But the more you looked at her and the more you god to know her, the more her natural beauty would reveal itself to you.

She was classic delicate femininity and strong chick persona all rolled up into one. Which was one of the things I loved about her.

So, about 2 years after being a hopeless “nice guy”, I went through a phase of gaming and fucking and settled on that one girl. I wanted to keep her. I thought about marrying her.

Then, in January 2008, on new years day, I lost her.

I’m going to skip the boring details, as the relationship was complicated…

But the sum total of it was – she left because I had no idea how to *BE* with her.

I had alternate personalities. Half the time I was the same old “nice guy” of my past. The guy who women saw as a brother. A friend.

And the other half the time, I was the new, game playing, cocky, distant guy. Which was my newly adopted pickup persona for creating “attraction”.

So, in the relationship with this girl, I was a mixture of both. Kinda mixing and matching and hoping for the best.

Looking back at it now, I can see how our relationship must have been a total headfuck for her.

Around her, I felt like I was walking on a combination of thin ice and eggshells whilst probing around in complete darkness. I can’t imagine what a girl must feel when her man is like that.

And so – POOF! – a beautiful, smart girl I came to call my best friend and my lover was gone.

Nothing left.

In December 2007 I was full of hopes and dreams about a future with this girl. In January 2008 I was by myself again.

What do you think I did after she left on that fateful New Years Day in 2008?

I laughed.

That’s right. It may be hard for you to believe, but I remember it like yesterday. Seriously, we parted and when she was no longer in sight .. I laughed.

Here’s the reason I laughed: I knew WHERE I FUCKED UP. And by leaving, she also taught me the greatest possible lesson a woman could:

She taught me that anything less than 100% me isn’t good enough.

I’m not going to kid you – there was some real EMOTIONAL trauma in losing her. There were a few tough months of loneliness.

I missed the warmth of her company which I had become accustomed to.

But I never once worried about what I would do, how I should go forward, or whether a great woman would be again in my life.

I viewed her loss simply as a temporary silence before the next adventure…

I mean, I had the skills and the attitude to pick up another woman within days, and be fucking and dating in no time.

Sure, I was rusty “in field” after nearly a year in a relationship, but I could shrug off those cobwebs quickly.

But I had a feeling that learning to pick up women better was not my path.

What’s the point of picking up more women, if that’s not ME picking them up … and the REAL me can’t even keep them? What’s the point of picking up women if I’m only using their company as a barometer of my worth?

I didn’t even care about that girl back then, really. Mostly, I cared about how her presence in my life reflected on me. How she improved my “social value”.

So I knew that the future before me was not one of learning to pick up women better.

Instead, I wanted to become a better as a Man, so that picking up women was an automatic by-product of how I lived my life.

Not so much so that I could go to clubs and “Game” women, but so that I could see that ONE girl I liked, go meet her, and have something special with her.

And not worry about what I should say or how I should act…

So I got stuck more into inner game. And it didn’t take long..

You probably know all about LoGun’s inner game coaching. By that stage AI was well and truly up and running and he was experimenting with some high-octane head twisting inner game stuff…

And I (sometimes voluntarily, sometimes not) became his guinea pig for it.

You probably have an inkling that the guys he coaches do pretty well… I mean, I tend to have a tendency to listen to him with one hear, but even so the changes in my life have been dramatic.

I could go on and on about how my life is changing, but that is a whole another story.

For now, have a look to the right of this post to see how the lives of many other guys have changed.

And keep an eye out for more video case studies, which I’ll show you later this week.

Steven

So, I thought I’d share the answer with you guys here.

The success with women you achieve is, as far as you can control it, determined by the actions you under take.

The actions you under take are determined by the way you perceive the world.

The way you perceive the world is your inner game.

Simple.

If you want to have the most effect on the results you achieve, change the element that will provide you with the greatest effect: inner game.

LoGun