The AI Difference

Some Pick Up Gurus will try to convince you that the reason you don’t attract the women you want is because you lack the necessary skills, talents, techniques, and methods.

This is incorrect.

It might seem like this on the outside, but as soon as you start to scratch the surface, you’ll see just how wrong this is.

Your lack of knowledge is not your problem.

You don’t lack information. You don’t lack tactics. You don’t lack methods. You don’t lack techniques.

The reason you don’t attract the women you want is because of something much simpler.

I learned this the hard way…

When I first decided that I wanted to be better with women, I found the Seduction Community.

I found the structures, I found the techniques, and I found the tactics.

But I also found something else: I found frustration.

The tactics, techniques, methods, structures, and routines that were supposed to help me be freer and more open around women…

…only got me more stuck in my head.

Instead of being more relaxed, more open, and more of myself, I was more analytical, more deceptive, and not even close to being the kind of Man I wanted to be.

I didn’t want to be the kind of Man who lies to women.

I didn’t want to be the kind of Man who pretends to be someone else.

I didn’t want to be the kind of Man who manipulates women into liking him.

And most importantly, I didn’t want to have women attracted to me for the kind of guy I pretended to be.

Constantly stuck in my head, pretending to be someone I wasn’t, and continually worrying about whether or not I could keep up this thin façade wasn’t the future I dreamed of.

I wanted to be more of my real self, I wanted to be more free, I wanted to be more open…

…and I wanted women to be attracted to me for who I really was.

After 3 months of painful, stilted, and forced conversations
with women, I dropped the lines, techniques, tactics, PUA
routines, and started looking deeper.

I started asking some important questions:

-       If I could have fun and interesting conversations when I felt relaxed and comfortable, is it better to learn more things to talk about, or learn to be more relaxed and comfortable?

-       If women are attracted to me when I’m being free, open, and really myself, is it better to learn tactics to attract women or to learn to be more free and open?

-       If I lead naturally as soon as I stopped worrying about what other people are thinking of me, is it going to be easier to learn to lead or to learn to stop worrying about what other people are thinking of me?

-       If I can start conversations easily and effortlessly when I’m just doing what I want, is it better to learn complex opening routines, or to get better at doing what I want?

-       If I naturally qualify every time I know what I really want, is it better to learn the steps, timing, and structures for qualification, or is it going to be easier to work out what I’m really looking for in a woman?

-       If the most alpha males I’ve ever met are the ones who do what they want, when they want, is it going to be easier to be an alpha male by learning rules from an alpha male rule book, or to work out what I want and go after it?

After a lot of time spent trying to understand what I was really asking, I realised they could all be condensed into one core question:

If I can attract women when I live my life on my terms, making myself happy, rewarded and fulfilled, doing what I want, when I want to, is it going to be easier to attract women by learning how to:

1. Add more rules, more techniques, more structures, and burying the real me under more layers of crap?
2. Or is it going to be easier, simpler, and more fulfilling to get rid of the extra layers and let the naturally attractive ‘me’ come out from under the layers?

I took option 2.

But in doing that, I had to admit some tough stuff:

-       I was not being real with women

-       I was hiding what I really thought

-       I was holding back on what I really wanted to do

-       I was the one that was preventing women from seeing the attractive parts of myself and therefore, responsible for my lack of success

This went further than just my interactions with women:

-       I was not being real with my family, friends, or work mates

-       I held back what I really thought with everyone in my life

-       I rarely spent my time doing exactly what I wanted

-       I was responsible for my lack of satisfaction and fulfilment in my entire life

This was pretty tough. It’s hard to look at your life and say “It’s all my fault.”

But it’s also incredibly liberating.

If you blame the world around you for your problems then you can only ever manage these problems when the world throws themat you

If you take full responsibility for your problems then you can eliminate the core of these barriers so you never have to face them again.

You don’t have to work out ways to get everyone to like you, you simply stop caring whether or not people like you.

You don’t have to work out ways to pretend to be an alpha male, you actually stop caring whether or not you’re an alpha male.

You don’t have to work out ways to get people to do what you want, you simply stop caring whether or not people do what you want.

It was the most eye opening journey I’d ever been on.

I went from:

-       Having stilted, awkward conversations to having fluid, open, and real connections

-       Being frozen with anxiety to doing what I wanted to, regardless of the anxiety

-       Holding myself back because I was worried about what everyone thought, to doing what I wanted, regardless of what everyone thought

-       Trying to meet the standards of the women around me to seeing whether or not they meet my standards

-       A frustrated, shut down, closed off, creepy and manipulative little boy that women ran from, to an open, free, powerful Man that women ran towards.

I went from being a 21 year old virgin who hadn’t kissed a girl in 7 years to having 3somes, 4somes, multiple long term relationships, and eventually moving in with the girl of my dreams.

…and all because I decided to remove the barriers preventing me from letting out the naturally attractive Man within.

This is the AI difference…

You won’t find structures, you won’t find techniques, you won’t find tactics, and you won’t find lines.

Instead, you will find ways of stripping back the structures, techniques, rules, and all the other barriers that have been preventing you from living your life on your terms…

…so you can let out the naturally attractive man you have inside.

You already have the ability to attract women.

You already have all the knowledge you need to get the women you want.

Your problem isn’t that you’re not attractive, it’s that you’re not letting the women you want see the attractive parts of you.

They’re there, right now. You already have all the qualities that a woman could ever hope to find in a Man.

The only problem is that you’re holding them back around women you’re attracted to (and probably the rest of your life.)

So, if this is what you’re looking for…

If you’re looking for a way to be MORE real, MORE open, MORE honest, and have MORE women attracted to you for it…

…then the Attraction Institute is the place for you.

To start what I promise will be a rewarding and fulfilling journey…

…download your free copy of Seduction Community Sucks directly below.

In it, you’ll find why the seduction community techniques, methods, and tactics will struggle to give you the results you want, and the only thing you need to change to effortlessly attract women.

Download your copy now and start the journey towards becoming the kind of Man that women are naturally attracted to.

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Just wanted to offer a sincere word of thanks.

I’m a 45 year old man, suffering from a loss of direction, and purpose.. Life has pretty much sucked for me lately.  Anyway, I jumped on my computer one day and noticed a link my son had put on it to your website, so naturally out of curiosity I checked it out (what can I say? every little bit of advice when it comes to women helps)

But soon realized that your website is about anything but picking up women, the truth of the matter is it’s really about self improvement and becoming a better person in general (something I had forgotten how to do, hence my life becoming a dismal piece of shit).

That’s why I wanted to thank you for creating this web site. I’ve read tons of your articles and man they have helped me more than I could ever express through an email. I will buy Endgame as soon as I can afford it and am looking forward to reading it, as your advice is priceless.

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