The Ugly Truth About SARGING.

by Leigh (LoGun) on November 17, 2009 · No Comments

sarging and seduction community I’m sure it seemed like the answer to your dreams:

A community full of guys who could teach you how to attract the women you wanted.

And not only that, but also how to get the happiness you wanted.

Those HB9′s and HB10′s who so elusively strut around the club. Finally, you’d have the answers which would mean they’re no longer out of your league.

But there’s a few things those seduction community gurus didn’t tell you…

I’m not surprised, though.

If they did, there’s no reason you’d stick around on their mailing lists, lapping up their latest must-have DVD series and killer audio books…

(I just went through one ‘guru’s’ product list and there was nearly 15 items on it. That’s a whole bunch of products he has to convince you that you need to support his rockstar lifestyle.)

So what are these things which they don’t want you to know?

Well, how about this one for starters:

Not only is sarging trapping you in the merry-go-round of needing product after product, but it’s also the number reason why you’re not getting those results you so desperately want.

Sound strange? Well, think about it like this:

What is “sarging”? It’s learning how to go out and pick up women, right?

Therefore, whether or not you like to mention it, your success criteria for a night out sarging is:

“How many women do I pick up?”

Great. Now I’m sure that you guys all know the massive negative effects that neediness has on any interaction.

So consider this: how are you supposed to stay non-needy when needing a woman to feel attracted to you to meet your success criteria?

How are you supposed to avoid the clingy-ness and desperation that comes from needing her to feel attracted to you – when the only thing you’ve gone out for is to make a woman feel attracted to you?

Defining the end result of seduction as your success criteria is the very thing that’s preventing you from actually seducing her.

Sarging is making you worse with women.

And do you wonder why you need to learn all those techniques and tactics?

How are you supposed to appear non-needy with that purpose without learning these ‘latest seduction secrets and tactics’? Easy!

Simply fill your head with all the actions, words and tactics you’d use if you were not needy and relying on her to finally succeed at life .

They have been “reverse-engineered” for you by “dating gurus” and sold as part of a DVD program. Nice.

Do you wonder why you need to constantly refer back to community forums so that latest seduction guru can tell you the elusive ‘next step’?

Do you wonder why you MUST HAVE that just released DVD series so you know how to apply kino whilst running shop assistant game on Thursdays, whilst executing the “moonwalk up my arse opener”…

…whilst wearing your DHV jeans?

Do you wonder why you’re trapped in that endless cycle of trying, failing, and then trying to get that one final piece of information that’s going to get you over the hump?

Because the one thing that the seduction community promised it was the answer to, is actually what it maintains.

The underlying issues that was preventing you from getting success with women before you found the seduction community is the one thing that the seduction community keeps on reinforcing.

It’s reinforcing that meeting women is a complicated and tricky process that requires massive amounts of knowledge and huge amounts of experience in order to get the results you want.

And It does!

…When you’re trying to hide your desperate sense of neediness under layers of alpha behaviour, mindsets and routines.

But what if there was a better way.

What if, instead of clinging to women like they were your last chance at happiness and desperately trying to drag a woman into your seductive web, your took a different approach?

What if, you started finding your happiness away from her?

What if you derived your personal sense of satisfaction and fulfillment from something other than how hot your mates thought your girlfriend was?

What if you stood on your feet, got in touch with what you believe in, why you believe in it, and pursued it passionately?

Do you think people, especially powerful, confident women, would want to spend time with you?

Do you think you’d have to spend so much time trying to convince them to be part of your life?

And, most importantly, do you think you’d need to desperately try and convince them to be part of your world whilst all the time, disguising your debilitating sense of loneliness, neediness, and inadequacy?

If you didn’t have this underlying neediness, how many routines and structures would you have to learn to try and hide it?

If you were the kind of guy people wanted to be around, how much time would you have to devote to developing structures to try and convey that to people?

And how long do you think it would take to develop them?

If you lived the kind of life that people wanted to be part of, how much time would you have to devote to getting people to be part of it?

Am I saying that you’ll be able to get every girl?

Of course not.

But the ones you will get will love you for who you are. And you wont be condemning yourself to having to maintain your thin facade every time you hang out together.

Now, I’m not saying that the community can’t help you get women. It can, and has for a lot of guys! But what kind of women do they attract?

Well, if the typical guy who’s getting success through the community is the kind of guy who’s learned to hide his neediness and loneliness for long enough to trick her into sleeping with him, what kind of women would he get?

What kind of woman do you think would overlook his lies for long enough to give herself to him?

Do you think she’d be a powerful, strong woman who had high self esteem and lived an exciting life? Or do you think she’d be lonely, unsure, and self-conscious, not believing that she was worth any better?

Hmm…

What kind of women do you want to attract into your life?

And how easy and quick do you want to make that process?

LoGun