And now for the next installment…
‘Follow your fear.’
How would your life be different today if you decided to move towards the things that scare you, rather than running and hiding from them?
What would ‘ve been different when you saw that cute girl that you decided not to approach?
What would’ve been different when you disagreed with what you heard, but were too afraid to say anything?
What would’ve been different when you knew you should have made that phone call, but didn’t?
What would’ve been different when that amazing opportunity presented itself, but you hid from it?
How would your life have been different today if you chose to move towards fear rather running and hiding from it?
And how would that affect your future?
People often ask me what the key goals of Get Real are. One of the most important one is getting you to decide to move towards fear rather than away from it.
When you can do that, three quarters of the issues you face in forming amazing relationships with incredible women disappear.
– Approach anxiety becomes a signal to move forward rather than to stand still
- You don’t run out of things to say because you’re not afraid to say what you really think.
- ‘Leading’ is the way you live your life.
- Sexual escalation becomes the most natural thing in the entire world.
- ‘Closing’ becomes second nature.
When you step towards fear, you’ll discover that you already know everything you’ve been trying to learn.
My guarantee.
So, next time you experience fear, what are you going to do?
L.
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So true. I think this has one of the biggest of my small revelations. I even look forward to my fear now, because each time things do not go as I expect, it is an opportunity to stand strong, be flexible, and demonstrate to myself that I have what it takes to be open and vulnerable.
That’s great to hear mate. Life takes on a whole new flavor when you look forward to it rather than running from it.
Great post Leigh.
Glad you liked it.
I really like the post Leigh, it really drives the point across. Thanks.
It really IS just that simple.