Tired Of Reading Crap Dating Advice?

by Steven on January 17, 2010 · No Comments

datung guru PUA “I’ve gone through e-books and DVD sets by Mystery, Tyler, David D, Zan, Badboy , the Naturals, PUATraining…

I joined a seduction lair.

I even took a bootcamp.

I went out and approached women. I even worked on my inner game.

And yet, I still don’t have choice with women.

WHAT AM I MISSING?”

That is the question which usually brings guys to this blog. They want to have tight game, and for some reason they still don’t.

If that’s you, the good news #1 is that you’re not alone.

And good news #2 is – many guys find the answer to that question here. Which means you might, too.

You’re not a beginner.

So, first things first. If you’re here, you probably already know “the answers”.

By that I mean, you’re familiar with do’s and dont’s of seduction theory.

You’ve been told that supplicating is bad, and being an alpha male is good.

You know that being needy will not get you far around women, and approaching women with an abundance mentality is good.

But let me guess .. for some reasons “knowing” these answers for you doesn’t translate into being able to act in line with that knowledge around women.

Here’s why:

“When you squeeze an orange, you get orange juice”,

I can’t remember who said it. But the meaning behind this expression can be profound…

That is, your true colours come to the surface when you’re under pressure.

So, you can sit behind your computer and debate pickup artist theory all day, or flirt casually with a woman you’re not really into.

But does it all fall apart when you approach a truly beautiful woman that you’re into? Do you become an uncalibrated, nervous wreck?

It’s OK if you do.

But I want to ask you a bold question – if that is the case, then how much growth has REALLY occurred in your life as a result of learning all that seduction theory?

Did all the promises of women falling at your feet come true?

Or perhaps you were slightly misled on the way to becoming a so-called pick up artist?

Maybe, but we’re not here to focus dwell on what COULD have been.

And we’re not here to indulge in “dating guru bashings”.

(Although we do take the piss of them sometimes, when their advice is likely to make you worse with women…

Or they “reveal” err… ‘shockingly powerful dating tips’ which are well and truly rubbish).

What we’re really here for is to, as you guessed it, discover the real reasons why the dating advice you have learned until now hasn’t worked for you, and then set you on the path of authentic growth as a man.

I’ll give you a hint: the reason the results you were promised didn’t come true is because 99% of advice you’ve learned merely treated the symptoms of deeper inner game issues.

Which leaves us with a choice to make: to continue treating the symptoms, or to take care of the underlying causes, once and for good.

It is your choice, and forever will be.

And you’re the one who will live the life which will be played out as a result of choices you choose to make.

One more thing. Why should you listen to us, you might be asking?

Well, we don’t insist that you do.

We’re not qualified gurus of any kind, we don’t claim to know all the answers.

But we did stumble across some cool inner game stuff like this and this which nobody else online was teaching. And it worked for us!

Then we showed it to a few of our friends, and it’s helped them, too to do what they want around women.

Oh, and helped this fellow man. And these guys (scroll down a bit).

And then the word kinda spread, and we started getting swamped with emails.

To cope with the demand, we started this blog and the inner game forums.

Here you’ll find inner game tips on approaching women, being free around women and having organic interactions with women and a lot more.

You can also take part in a 7-day inner game course, which we designed to help you pinpoint your inner game roadblocks.

At the moment, it is still free.

All this is very cool and humbling, because we never thought it would get so big.

This blog that you’re reading now is not a database of “pickup advice”.

Rather, it is a journal of our own self-discovery, lessons, frustration, embarrassments, weird stories, failures and successes.

It is the medium through which we can communicate with you as we journey to the very bottom of what it means to be a man…

…and seek for answers to questions that each man needs to answer to himself in order to die complete.

And when I say “complete”, I mean surrounded by love and abundance. And by that I mean, abundance which stems from within, from realising your own deepest truths.

Not by collecting stuff / gadgets / women to temporarily quell your feelings of insignificance.

If you’re the kind of man whose resonates with what I just wrote, we’re glad to have you here.

And if you’re not, it’s OK too, but you’ll probably find this place a bit dry and boring. There are no quick fixes, super-secret tricks or magic “openers” here.

The stuff you’ll find here is difficult to pigeonhole, but if you insist, I’d say it’s a weird blend of spirituality and inner game.

At the end of the day, we are here because want to be more successful with women. But to “to pick up a woman” can mean many different things to a man.

It can mean to distract yourself from how much your life sucks. Or it can mean to go on a mutual journey of growth. Or it can mean to give her what she needs in that moment.

There are no right or wrong meanings, and no-one here will judge you for where you’re at in life.

But the important thing to realise is, whatever meaning you ascribe to picking up a woman, will determine the outcome of your interaction with her, long before you approach her.

And no amounts of tricks or methods will make any difference.

Not in any kind of meaningful or sustainable way, anyway. You may learn how to trick a couple of women, which means you’ll forever be playing the “numbers game”.

Screw that. You’re more than that. Well, we think so, anyway.

Your journey starts when you choose for it to start. When will that be?

Steven