What Is Your Ultimate Sexual Fantasy?

by Jonathon on August 24, 2009 · No Comments

What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?

For me, it is bedding all nine of the Victoria’s Secret Angels, at once, together.

For the purpose of this exercise, use your own fantasy, or feel welcome to use my own.

Right now, I want to imagine that this fantasy is occurring right now.

You are in the moment of your wildest dreams, and it’s everything you’d dreamed it would be, and then some.

And now, just as quickly as it came to fruition, it is over; completed.

What would that feel like to you? To have the experience you’ve waited so long for. To see it become a reality, for those few minutes, or hours, maybe days, but to then have it pass.

Do you believe you will be lastingly fulfilled, or do you think you’ll simply raise the bar now that you’ve achieved what it is you were seeking?

Would bedding all 9 Victoria’s Secret Angels complete you, leaving you satisfied so that you could sit in a room with nothing else around you, knowing enlightenment, completion, satisfaction?

Or would you now seek out a greater challenge, thinking that if you could only achieve THAT then you would be happy?

The nature of your fantasy is that it takes you away from knowing your true happiness, your true perfection, in this moment, by luring you into a future where everything is better.

The future will always be better, the present: never enough, in the world of fantasy.

What if you took this fantasy though, felt energised by it, and then went out and fully engaged the world in the present moment?

Whilst being lost in the world of fantasy takes you away from the present: experiencing it, and allow it to fill you with energy and then using that in the present moment, can be an utter gift.

So fantasize, it’s beautiful, but don’t get lost in it.

Instead, fuel it, and fuel your body with the energy that will allow you to be incredible here, rather than pursuing a better future and being a zombie here.

When you do this, at least from my own experience, the world becomes a little bit more alive, intriguing, and satisfying.

Try it on and see just how more incredible your own interactions become, especially with the women in your world.

Jonathon