Why Direct Game Isn’t Working For You.

by Leigh (LoGun) on April 30, 2009 · No Comments

Direct game has become the new buzz word in the seduction community.

Everyone is saying ‘forget lines, forget routines. Just be direct!’ And you know what? I couldn’t agree more. What they’re not telling you, though, is how to actually do ‘direct game’.

Do direct?? Don’t you just say that you like her?

Well, you can, if you just want to be like every other guy who tells her she’s pretty. But, if you really want to separate yourself from the rest of the crowd, there’s one thing you really need to know.

The thing that all the guru’s are keeping from you is that direct game has very little to do with what you actually say. (I bet you’re really confused now! Let me explain).

I want you to do a little experiment: Picture the one person on earth that you hate the most. Picture them taking a dump in your letter box, and then in your agriest, shittiest, most pissed off voice, I want you to look in the mirror and say ‘Hi’.

Trust me on this.

Then, I want you picture the person in your life that love the most – someone you are most fond of. Picture them turning up to your door with presents for you and then in your most loving, caring, sweetest voice, I want you look in the mirror and say ‘Hi’.

Now lather, rinse repeat but this time say ‘I think you’re beautiful’.

What you did is obviously an exaggerated example but it’s what she experiences. It’s the difference between making her weak at the knees and a polite ‘Thank you, you’re so sweet. It’s the difference between having her crumble into your arms and having her rejoin her friends.

It’s the difference that the gurus aren’t telling you about.

So now, the inevitable question: how?

How is much easier than you think. It doesn’t contain any secret techniques that you can only learn from an expensive DVD series, there are no methods available to the first 500 callers. In fact, it’s something you can do right now.

All you need to do is this: when you see her and all those dirty little thoughts start running through your head, let them run through your head. In fact, don’t just let them be there, focus on them.

Make them the sole thoughts inside your brain.

You’re going to get little distractions and trains of thought try and derail you but push them out of the way and keep focussing. And when you really start to feel it, not just as thoughts but as a deep burning desire, then go and share that with her.

Sound too easy? If you think it is, I dare you to try it. It’s far more difficult than you think. There are hundreds of hours of social programming and limiting beliefs that will tell you ‘You can’t do that! You’re not allowed to!’

These are also the thoughts that are at the core of approach anxiety, issues with escalation, leading difficulties, kino problems. These thoughts are the root of just about every issue you face.

If you want to be the kind of Man who can not only be unashamedly and openly direct, but totally free of any thoughts holding him back from doing exactly what he wants, then you need to cut to the core.

You need to dig inside the layers and find out what’s underneath them.

LoGun