Will Faking It Ever Help You “Make It”?
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There’s no doubt that you can change the way you behave around people through faking it.
And there’s no doubt that you can even get improve your results with women through doing this..
..but the question I’m going to ask today is can you ever actually make it through faking it?
The first stop on this little journey has to be: what is your definition of making it?
It’s only once you lay that down that things really become clear. So, what is your definition of making it? What’s you goal?
If your definition of ‘making it’ is just being able to have empty, hollow and meaningless sex with women you don’t really know, then yes, you can make it.
Faking it can get you all the way there.
You can have insincere, and fake relationships with many beautiful women if you get REALLY good.
If that’s you thing, then that’s sweet. You can definitely make it by faking it. And I’m not going to judge you here.
It’s your path and you need to walk it in the way that you want. If this is you, then please don’t read on. You’re not going to get anything out of this.
It’s just going to be a waste of time.
But, if you’re looking for something more, something real, genuine, open, and honest, then no, you can never ‘make it’ through faking it. I’ll show you why…
The whole idea of faking it is to take a set of action and mindsets that you aren’t currently using and use them to replace your current actions.
When you achieve this, you’re said to have ‘internalised’ these actions.
How does that stop you from ever making it?
You can ‘internalise’ all these actions, you can pretend all you want, but at no point in time are those actions going to be your actions. They’re never going to be the real you.
They’re always just going to be a set of tricks that you use to make women like you.
Sure you might sleep with more women but if you’re looking to be able to form real and meaningful relationships with incredible women, then you’re not going to get anywhere.
How are you going to make real, genuine connections with women when you’re not being real and genuine with them?
How can they ever truly love the real you when you’re hiding the real you behind tricks?
Also, think about the kind of women you’re going to attract if you just changed your actions.
If a woman’s not attracted to you and all you do is change your surface level to make her attracted to you, what does it say about her? It says that she’s the kind of person who’s only interested in superficial things.
She’s only interested in the surface level parts of you.
She’s clearly not interested in the deeper, real, genuine side of who you are, she just likes you for the tricks you do.
If you only change the surface level to attract women then you’re only going to attract women who’re only interested in the surface level.
If you haven’t worked with the deeper core layers and learned how to express them, then you’re not going to attract women who like you for who you really are.
Do you want to be with women who only like you for the car you own?
Do you want to be with women who only like you for the money you have?
Do you want to be with women who only hang out with you because of the parties you can get them into?
Then why do you want to be with women who like you for the people you copy?
Why do you want to be with women who like you for the person you pretend to be?
Now, I know a lot of guys take this path because they don’t think they’re attractive. They don’t think they can’t be real with a woman and have her be into them.
And I know, from personal experience, that there’s definitely a part of most guys that isn’t’ very attractive to most women.
But I also know that there’s a very big part of guys that women are attracted to. It’s inside guys, right now, they just don’t know how to get in touch with it.
And this is where inner game work comes in.
This is where understanding yourself and taking control of your life comes into play. It’s about finding the part that women are attracted to because YOU’RE attracted to it.
It’s about building the kind of life that people are naturally drawn to because you’re drawn to it.
It’s about creating a life that’s so fulfilling, rewarding and captivating that you can’t help be excited and passionate about you’re world and sharing it with others.
It’s not about using tricks to pretend to be the kind of guy that women are attracted to, it’s about finding the parts of you that women are attracted to and expressing them openly.
Whoever said that you can’t be a natural simply didn’t understand what was going on underneath. You can. It’s inside you now.
And through inner game work, you can let it out.
There are some people who say that you just use routines and techniques as training wheels, and then once you’re comfortable, then you let them go.
If that’s your perspective, then that’s fine, but consider this:
What skill are you actually training with these ‘training wheels’? You’re training the skill of lying to people. You’re training the skill of trying to manipulate people.
You’re training the skill hiding who you really are and reinforcing the idea that you’re not an interesting enough person to be worthy of talking to these people.
Lets say you spend the next 6 months using these training wheels, what have you actually learned through this time?
That people are going to talk to you only if you have though up some interesting things to talk about before hand?
That attractive women are scary and dangerous creatures who you can’t be real around? Is that this kind of skill set you want?
Is that the kind of skills you really want to internalise?
Before you start on your journey, stop and work out what kind of future you want. Then you’ll know which path is right for you.
LoGun
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