You're Not An AFC

You’re Not An AFC

by Leigh (LoGun) on January 22, 2011 · No Comments

you're not an afc In my travels around the dating community, I’m constantly hearing guys referring to themselves as AFC.

If you’re one of those guys then this post is for you.

You’re more than welcome to keep calling yourself an AFC, but I want you to become VERY aware of how you’re holding yourself back by doing this.

By labelling yourself an AFC, you’re putting up a whole bunch of subconscious limitations in your mind.

I want you to think about this: when someone says to you they’re an AFC, what do you automatically assume they’re capable of and they’re not capable of with women?

Do you assume that they’re comfortable socially?

Do you assume their going to regularly make out with women?

Do you think women are going to freely give them their phone numbers?

How do you think he’s going to go up against a HB10?

If you’re assuming them about someone else, what do you think you’re sub-consciously telling yourself?

Do you think women are going to want to give you their phone numbers?

How are you going to act if they do? Do you think women are going to want to make out with you? How do you think you’ll act when they do?

If you saw a HB10, what do you think the title ‘AFC’ is doing for your mindset? Is it helping you get what you want or preventing you from getting what you want?

Whilst we’re on this topic of labels and their effect on you, think about what happens when you label a woman a HB10 (or 9, 8, or even 7 for that matter).

Every time you give her a label, you’re automatically putting up barriers in your world and making things much more difficult for yourself.

If you’re an AFC, do you think you’re the kind Man of a 10 wants to be with? What about a 9? Or even an 8? What barriers are you putting up in your world?

You’re not an AFC, a PUA, an mPUA, a hopeless romantic, a lover, a cool dude, a hat stand or chicken wire. You’re just a guy.

She’s not an HB10, a glamour, a babe, or a hot chick. She’s just a Woman.

You’re only an AFC if you choose to hold yourself back. She’s only a 10 if you choose to hold yourself back.

Do you like her? Do you think she’s pretty? Would you like to meet her? What do you have to gain by making up labels or worrying about anything else?

Think about it.

Leigh